a man sues a woman for saying she was abused. she doesn't name him in the op-ed he sues her for. he claims that she abused him. he files the case in a state where it will be televised, even though neither of them live there. youtubers get rich off of explaining how the woman's breakdowns in court means she's crazy. experts explain how the justice system is stacked against DV victims and how that's reflected in the case. laywer youtubers explain how the woman is an abuser, based on what they've learnt from the justice system they are part and parcel of.
domestic violence advocates and experts say that the man shows the hallmarks of an abuser and the woman an abuse victim. people cry out about how society believes women can never be abusers. some people say they were abuse victims and support the man. they say that experiencing abuse qualifies them to identify the abuser, despite having no further experience beyond victimhood. some people say they were abuse victims and support the woman, but they don't count.
domestic violence advocates and experts speak up in an open letter. but the man is famous. he's rich. he's calm. the woman does not act with extreme rationality, which is what we should expect of people reliving extreme trauma. the photos are fake. of course, we shouldn't blame abuse victims for staying in their relationships. but it's weird she tried to go back to him after they broke up. how could she accuse him of abuse after doing that? society is biased against men. the courts are stacked against men.
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version of the story where liu survived and wrote a book about his brother is so fucking funny to me.
Imagine liu, sitting on a desk, pen and paper and thinking to himself "damn. this shit is gonna pop off with the true crime weirdos and weird fangirls"
if you suffered, might as well make bank off of that suffering, y'know
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Lotms triggers
PLEASE DO NOT TREAT THIS AS AN INFALLIBLE THING IF YOU HAVE MEDICAL CONDITIONS TRIGGERED BY FLASHING LIGHT! I tried my best but I may’ve missed a few.
Flashing: 0:33-0:44
Vomiting: 1:04
Depression and addiction discussion: 1:05-1:16
Post vomit fatigue: 1:12-1:16
Mention of suicide: 1:16
Flashing: 1:35-1:36
Helena MV: 1:44-1:46
Helena MV: 1:59-2:02
Flashing: 5:32-5:35
Mention of shootings and drugs: 6:24-6:26
Flashing: 12:03-12:08
Image of 9/11: 18:18-18:21
Images of 9/11: 19:00-19:09
Image of 9/11: 19:33-19:37
Flashing: 21:09-21:11
Flashing: 21:28-21:32
Flashing: 22:20-22:23
Mention of addiction: 25:59-26:06
Flashing: 34:47-34:50
Fake blood: 36:22
Fake blood: 47:33-47:36
Discussion of death: 54:36-55:04
Flashing: 1:00:04-1:00:08
Discussion of addiction: 1:00:22-1:03:10
Vomit: 1:02:48-1:02:57
Flashing: 1:07:07-1:07:11
Fake blood: 1:07:17-1:08:20
Addiction: 1:08:29-1:12:31
Vomit: 1:08:55-1:09:01
Suicide: 1:09:22-1:11:49
Flashing: 1:15:17-1:15:49
Flashing: 1:29:27-1:29:30
Flashing: 1:30:22-1:30:25
Flashing: 1:31:19-1:31:24
Helena MV: 1:31:24-1:33:19
Flashing: 1:33:31-1:33:43
Helena MV: 1:34:10-1:34:13
Fake wounds: 1:34:28-1:34:39
Flashing: 1:42:17-1:42:23
Helena funeral procession: 1:52:41-1:53:23
Coffin on stage/Helena live performance: 1:53:28-1:54:38
Ghost of you MV: 1:54:55-1:57:09
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oh btw btw.. since every poll tournament on this website needs a racism arc.. if you think its some kind of funny joke or own to claim homestuck is more important lgbt media than PARIS IS BURNING i think you are racist. like yes even as a joke. comparing a stupid racist webcomic made by some white freak who says the n word to paris is burning is frankly something that should not even have come up like paris is burning should not even have been entered in some joke competition as something comparable to fucking homestuck TO BEGIN WITH i think that was already callous and inappropriate. but if on top of that youre going "haha yeah homestuck is better 😂" you have garbage in your mind. racist garbage specifically.
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I feel like the murderer being Dickie or Loretta is too obvious and if we take past mysteries into account it wouldn't be them... still sus about Tobert idk i just can't shake the feeling that he's got some big secret that's gonna surface
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