You only need to value one person's opinion of you
You only need to value one person’s opinion of you
Freedom is within your grasp, all you have to do is be happy with everything you say and do. Treat yourself with the same dignity and respect you show other people. If that’s not good enough for them, you need to question if you’re hanging around with the wrong people.
Nobody can make you feel insecure without your consent.
Freedom is changing your attitude towards yourself.
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Confession + Self Reflection
I think I’ve gotten too caught up in trying to draw the things I *think* y’all want to see, instead of the stuff I actually want to draw. I dunno if that’s why I lost my motivation before, but I can definitely see that being a factor in my burn-out.
And ya know, I feel like I go through this cycle every time I get into a new fandom: I do one thing that suddenly gets a lot of traction and inflates my ego, I start trying to capitalize on it, then I think of one huge story that I want to tell because now I start thinking about that thing all the time and start theory crafting about it, but then I get so overwhelmed with the one big idea that I start chasing after small ones to fill the void that are less emotionally satisfying to follow through on, so I stop loving the thing and burn out until I find something new to latch onto and start the process again.
It happened with Animal Crossing, it happened with the Problem Solverz, it happened with Smash, and now it’s happening with NSR.
Like, great, I’ve identified the problem, but I don’t know what to do about it. Because I started focusing on trying to be a crowd pleaser, and although I *want* to work on the big passion projects, they’re just so daunting that I can’t the motivation to continue anything I’ve started. I’ve lost sight of what made me happy about the thing to begin with.
I think the solution is to just force myself to work on the passion projects in spite of my fear of actually working on them. Those passion projects do make me happy without the need for outside validation because I find catharsis in them, but my lack of skill and confidence are holding me back. Somehow, I’ve got to get rid of those feelings and just go for it. Even if I dread working on it in the present, I think the finished product should justify the effort. I’m gonna try to keep telling myself that, and hopefully I’ll finally get somewhere.
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gender and gender variability in IF is so weird and there is no way to fix it god bless
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not to be that person or whatever, but like,,,if you want to know how comments are actually crucial to fic writers, i just re-opened and started a new chapter on a fic just because one (1) person commented on every single chapter.
i’m not saying that this is a guaranteed way to get your local fic writer to start writing--even commenting on every single person’s fic/chapters might not get a sad fic writer to the keyboard again, but i think fic writers do get more motivated (or at least touched) when they find someone who expresses continued interest in a work instead of just twiddling their thumbs. the comments don’t have to be deep or thought-provoking--even a few simple keysmashes will do! but any comment at all is a gentle nudge to the writer that their story hasn’t been completely forgotten, and that can be super encouraging for fic writers!
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The weaker sex is a myth
The weaker sex is a myth in its normal context, it was probably coined by weak men who thought that by speaking the words, it would make them real. You guessed it, the weaker sex normally refers to women.
But, if you’re going to judge people based on one attribute, then yes, men, as a rule are physically stronger than women, however; If you judge people based on empathy, you’ll find the result…
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EVERYBODY WANTS TO BE A CHAMPION - KOBE BRYANT | Powerful Inspirational Speech 2021
Conquer your DREAMS. Follow your PASSION
एक प्रतिष्ठा बनाने में 20 साल लगते हैं और उसे बर्बाद करने में पांच मिनट लगते हैं। यदि आप इसके बारे में सोचते हैं, तो आप चीजों को अलग तरह से करेंगे।
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জীবন সম্পর্কে গল্প ||The story about life
Today I learned you have a degree in writing; cool!!
yeah!! i graduated this last December and am currently going to grad school for english education!
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Motivation Short Story - The Love of God
If our past, all our written history
If it’s all just stories
Stories we tell each other, stories we write down, stories we share
Stories we make up and stories we exaggerate or change
If all of our past is just stories,
Then tell me why we can’t change the future with new stories.
Because tomorrow it’ll become history, herstory, ourstory.
If the past (or our perception of it) is shaped by stories,
The future is too.
No story is too small, too insignificant
(Fiction ones are important too, because they help us take a look at our reality at a step back)
Because if you look back at all the collective stories,
Some of the stories that felt small or insignificant at the time had a huge impact on the future.
Just because your story hasn’t had a huge impact yet...
Doesn’t mean you never will or never can.
So go share your story,
Share their story,
Share our story,
Because if the past is just stories, we can shape the future with stories too.
~Nico & Jason
ایک مچھیرے اور صنعت کار آدمی کی کہانی
Incredible Motivational Story
In some feed Twitter or Linkedin, I don’t remember I saw an image of this woman with her head shaven. I belong to the minority of people who are waiting for the day when women start shaving their heads for vanity. I mean, imagine a world where bald women are fashion icons and supermodels. Imagine how convenient and easy it would be to be more fashionable.
Anyways intrigued by the look, I googled…
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Motivational Success Story Of Stephen Hawking - From Lazy Student To an Amazing Scientist
STEPHEN HAWKING GREW UP IN A FAMILY OF WELL-EDUCATED PEOPLE BOTH OF HIS PARENTS HAD CO…
Alright I'm going to write a beard kink drabble later to cleanse my dash of the stache 🤢
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लोग आलसी नहीं हैं। उनके पास बस नपुंसक लक्ष्य होते हैं - यानी ऐसे लक्ष्य जो उन्हें प्रेरित नहीं करते हैं।
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Nature will provide a cure for everything created naturally
Penicillin was found in nature and it changed the world.
Bats are supposed to be the source of the many diseases for which they are immune.
Predators whose diet includes dead and decaying animals must have an incredible immune system.
Animals who can kill poisonous spiders and snakes without suffering from the poison exist in nature.
Crocodiles who live in swamps can have one of their limbs…
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