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dangan-happy · 3 years

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Password: Miss Sonia, can we, um, h*ld h*nds please?

To Monosuke, Tenko, and Usami if they're available.

Oof I hope this is advice/comfort worthy.

This has been on my mind a lot. I had a friend who was close to me from a young age. We were practically family. Unfortunately, we're drifting away. We don't have the same interests anymore. If we talk, it's usually about school or work. We don't hang out anymore either. It came to the point where I was the only one inviting them to do things but they were never available. Though they didn't give me a reason why they were so busy, it was because they were hanging out with someone else every other weekend. We've only seen each other a few times in months. At that point, things were one-sided so I stopped. It can be a bummer losing someone who you thought would be there 'til the end. Even though I feel down in the dumps, I'm still grateful for what we had. I guess it's time to move on now.

Hey there, my dear anonymous student! Uwah, the sound of a drifting friendship always brings tears to my beady black eyes. And I can understand why it's been on your mind a lot lately. This situation is definitely advice and comfort worthy, so don't worry about that part, my anonymous student!

I can definitely help with the comfort aspect of things, so take a comfortable seat and listen up for a session of Magical Miracle Girl ★ Monomi’s Comforting Words and Reassurance! Yay! Believe me, my anonymous student, as someone who's experienced the sadness of drifting friendships and as someone who personally knows someone else who's experienced this as well, just like you said, it's still a bummer. After all, you were doing your part; you were the one who was asking them to hang out during that time, only to get turned down without any proper explanation. Still, I'm at least glad to hear that you're grateful for what you two once had, and that you're willing to move on, or at least see that it's probably about time that you should try to move on. It takes a lot of courage, self-awareness, and strength for that to happen, so pat yourself on the back for that!

Still, while it may be tough and rough in the beginning, I know you'll be able to properly move on and continue moving forward, my anonymous student! I have hope that you'll be able to get out of the dumps and into the glittery stumps of happiness, if that makes any sense, tee-hee. I can tell that you're someone who genuinely tries, and in this case, you tried your absolute best. And while it sadly didn't work in the end, what matters is that you tried. And for that, I am super duper proud of you! I really am!

And with that, that officially concludes today's session of Magical Miracle Girl ★ Monomi’s Comforting Words and Reassurance. Now, before Monosuke and Tenko take care of this and do their parts, how about I give you a super duper soft, squishy hug first? You sound like you could use one, so I hope this hug makes you feel better, even if only by a tiny bit. Don't hesitate to come back if you ever need anything else, okay? Love love, my anonymous student!

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Arrrggghhh… That rabbit’s aura is so facken’ fulla glitter and rainbows it’s making my eyes bleed just by lookin’ at ‘em.

ALSO CAN ANYONE TELL ME HOW THE FUCK SHE DOES THAT STAR THING WITH HER MOUTH?! IT’S FREAKIN’ ME THE HELL OUT!

Ahem. Anyywwaayyy yeah, gotta agree with the bunny cosplayer on this one, losin’ someone close to ya’ sounds like it sucks. Especially after many years but hey, that can happen to anyone y’know. Haven’t experienced it myself first-hand since, yeah. Y’know. But I can… “sympathize”.. with you, if that’s even the correct word.

I can try to give advice or er uh, comfort for this surely. As Ms. MagicalBib said, this wasn’t ya’ fault, you did your best to save the friendship and it just wasn’t meant to work out in the end. It happens. You clearly cared for them and if they’re just gonna turn a blind eye without explanation it wasn’t meant to be in the end, so rippin’ off the bandaid is for the betta’.

If you’re expecting a “squishy” “super duper soft” hug from me too… I’m good. I’m only obligated to accept the hugs when the anon asks for one and ya’ didn’t so I get to skip it. Buutttt, you seem like you need something so I can give you an uhm… pat. On the back. Yeah, you get a pat on the back. “”””Love, Love””” or whatever.

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How does Usami do that with her mouth? Grrrr, now I want to know too!

Uh, anyway, I'm really, really sorry to hear that you're drifting away from your friend, a non. I can only imagine how much that hurts. Especially one that you've been friends with for so many years.But you should know that it's not your fault. As Usami said, you did the best you could to keep your friendship, and it's not your fault that you're drifting apart. If it didn't work out in the end, then it probably wasn't meant to be.

I can tell that you really cared for that person, and they did you wrong by ignoring you like that. I guess the best thing for you to do would be to move on. I know how painful that could seem right now, but if you're feeling really bad about this, then trying to move on is the best thing to get you back to being you.

Now I would totally love to join in to that soft, squishy hug! Can I hug you too, anon?

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dangan-happy · 3 years

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(Miss Sonia, can we, um, h*ld h*nds, please?)

(tw///long vent. it’s really long and rambley. i’m sorry.)

to anyone from v3, i’ve been having a lot of trouble with a certain... ex-friend of mine.

i was going through my discord servers just clearing all of the notifications out of all the random servers i’m in and... he’s been messaging a private server with just me and him in it. for months. he made a playlist for me (multiple, actually), he’s made drawings of us, and he’s just been telling me about his f*cking life while i’m dealing with the triggers and the trauma that was caused by him.

we’ve had a complicated friendship. at some point he got way too dependent on me for his basic needs, and whenever i confronted him about his dependency, he said “oh nooo i’m sorry i’m so clingy 😔😔😔 i’m an emo middle school boy wilbur soot kinnie and i’m depressed so you are obligated to be my parent who i will rely on to remind me to eat food, drink water, wake me up in the morning, etc! no i will not help you in return like a balanced relationship, i’m depressed, remember? uwu i’m so anxiety i have childhood trauma, i was bullied! so im gonna guilt you into staying by talking about how i have no other friends 24/7!” and i needed to step away for a bit. we broke off for about a month before we started talking again, but it never got better. the second time it was him who broke it off, telling me ✨he needed to change himself and become a better person✨ (which he’s said multiple times. you can probably guess how much he “changed”.) and i told him that, fair warning, i don’t have to forgive you, and i may never forgive you! so stop talking to me.

and so when i realized he’d been messaging me, i told him this time directly, with no sugar coating, to leave me alone and that i had him blocked for a reason. and you know that’d be all fun and dandy, but the reason i didn’t do that from day one is because he goes to my school now! meaning i have to see him this september! in person! and he might ask me where i’ve been, or try to win me back or something i don’t know, i just know if he’d been dedicated enough to message me through the past two months we haven’t talked, oh god who knows what he’ll do when the next school year starts! i have the option to switch schools, but frankly... i don’t want to! i’ve always seen myself graduating from this school, i’ve been here since i was like four years old! i don’t want to leave! but i’m so scared of having to confront him. i’m already hated enough at school, i don’t need another person spreading rumors or talking bad about me behind my back!! but i just... don’t know what to do. i feel like there’s no solution. i cant do much, and no matter what i choose, it doesn’t end well for me. i feel so hopeless and i just...need advice. and a hug maybe..? ugh sorry for the long rant. i don’t really talk to anyone about this so... atleast it’s nice to finally tell someone.

God DAMN.

This guy sounds super facken’ crummy! Ya’ did the right choice gettin’ rid of him in the first place! A private server, MULTIPLE playlists AND EVEN DRAWINGS?! Yeah, that.. that sounds hella’ fuckin’ weird dude. Friends makin’ shit for each other is normal from what I’ve been shoved into ma’ skull from the bastards here, but when ya’ didn’t know about any of it and SPECIFICALLY told him to fuck off before, that’s bad. Big bad.

He seems to be wantin’ to make ya’ his personal therapist or some bullshit like that, yeah yeah I get it, people have problems and whatnot and try to reach out to friends n’ shit BUT he was more FORCING than askin’ you to help him. Belittling' himself so ya’ would feel bad for him. We all got our problems, but we are not obligated to help anyone if we simply can’t. Forcin’ people to help you by manipulating and guilt-trippin’ is not a way to ask for help, at all! It's toxic as facken’ hell! Pleugh, some people get on my gears harder than the asshats I deal with everyday and night, that’s sayin’ somethin, alright?!

You’re right, you do NOT have to forgive the bastard. If he’s not gonna change and keep being a little facken’ bitch all the time, better to break it off for good. And.. school…. Yeah that makes things a lil’ uhh… complicated. As cliche as this advice fuckin’ is, try to ignore him at the best of your abilities. If he starts forcing interactions with ya’, ya’ should tell a teacher or another friend you do trust. If he asks some bull shit like “Why don’t wanna talk to me anymore ]:3”, tell him as clearly as ya’ did before, that he needs to fuck off and that you don’t wanna talk to him anymore. Plain and simple as that, no sugarcoats, no filters. You don’t gotta run away from him, it’s YOUR school, he’s the one trying to set you off for some fuckin’ reason, it’s more than reasonable to be scared by him. He’s facken’ C-R-E-E-P-Y!! Even if he tries to fuck over your reputation, you know that anythin’ he says is not true. If people start hating the person he’s spreading rumors about, ya’ need to remember that is not YOU. Rumors are just facken’ lies people just looovvveeee to spread around for a false sense of superiority. Let me run the numbers.. Yup, bullshit.

My best advice as said before, is trynna ignore his advances as much as you can. He just wants to set ya’ off and you can’t let ‘em. Tellin’ someone you trust like a family member, friend or whatever should help too, they could probably have bettah advice than me, a facken’ evil bear. That said, I GUESS you can get a hug, you’ve been through some shit. You need it. So bring it on you bastard.

Hey good news anon! I'm from v3, so you struck gold! Because I'm gonna be answering your ask. Just making sure we're clear on that! Ok, let's see what we got here. Ex friend, huh? Well that stuff's never fun. Clearing out discord is always a good thing, I honestly need to do that...Huh, ok. That's interesting. I'm guessing you didn't have notifications on for this server since you just noticed now. Yikes, there go the red flags. Like, the constant messaging you is a little weird and red flag-y, but damn, then I got to the part about the fact that you've been working through trauma that he caused. Alright, this just went from weird to lowkey concerning. Honestly, it's kinda creepy re-reading that paragraph with the context. Like he's making drawings of you?? And playlists? And just generally acting like literally nothing happened? Ew, I'm getting some strong creepy vibes. Yyyyeah, dependent and clingy are some great words for this guy. Like you haven't even been friends, and this is what he's been doing?

Ok pause, being a kinnie isn't an excuse for actions. I hate that people use it like that (especially if they're kinning me! Like my existence didn't cause someone's actions, probably.) I can already tell that you were treated super unfairly. And like I'm not even done reading this ask and I already have a pretty strong feeling that cutting him off was the right idea. Oh god, he's a leech. Ok that sounded like a petty insult, but lemme back up a second and explain. I call people who cling to you and generally suck the life out of you with nothing in return leeches. It works out pretty well, so if I call him a leech again, that's what I mean. Wow, even reading this is exhausting. I can't imagine being caught in a position where you had to deal with this.

Good for you for advocating for space! You one hundred percent did the right thing. Honestly, I don't think going back was a great idea, but these things are hard so I totally don't blame you for that. I totally respect your use of sarcastic sparkles, you used them like a pro! Yeah, I'm sure he's "changed" a whole lot judging by what he's been doing in that server. Yeah! Throw down the law! You had every right to say what you did about the forgiveness, so like, internet double high five or something! Yeah, that insta-block was a good reaction too. You don't owe him anything, and honestly your life is way better without him.

Ohhh, shit this is an irl friend? That adds a whole new layer to this. Yeah, don't make yourself change schools if you don't want to just because of him. You've moved your life around enough for him. If you're happy where you are, then I'd stay there regardless of him. I get it, confrontation is scary, but I think it's something that's gotta happen. You don't owe this guy anything. Honestly, if he tries to talk to you, just tell him that you don't want him near you, and other things along those lines. Be super clear and concise. Just throw the hammer down. Aw man, you already aren't having a great time at school huh? That just flat out sucks. I mean, I'd totally be your friend. I think you have a solid leg up on him though. I'd take screenshots of the server, so if he tries to spread rumors you can shut him down with proof of how batshit crazy he's been. Hey, it's not hopeless. You actually have a lot of options. The screenshots are a good place to start, but I'd also try to rationalize things. Does it really matter if this person starts spreading rumors about you? What's worse, him causing shit from afar, or him directly inserting himself back into your life? Yeah, there might not be a one hundred percent perfect outcome, but you have a lot more room to work than you think. Hey, don't apologize. We all gotta get this stuff out there some time. I'm glad talking to us made things a little bit better at least! You don't have to waste any more time on this guy. Just keep going as best you can. You still have a whole life to live, and this guy doesn't have to be a part of it. Yeah! I'll give you a hug!! Anything to make you feel better! And I mean, you could call him a leech, but I'm not responsible for what happens after that, kay?

Hey there anon, you mind if I try to help you out a little? Dealing with ex friends always sucks, trust me I've been there, but goddamn, you have a unique case, don't you? Wow, I cringed reading it. That's...that's just a lot. Playlists and messages are one thing, but drawings too? That's a whole lot of time and effort put into that, and I dunno, that really just rubs me the wrong way. Honestly, I gotta agree with the others. That's just flat out creepy, especially considering the impact he had on you. I'm just shaking my head as I read this, I think this person needs some serious help, and you sure as hell aren't the person to get it from. He needs professional help, and I'm sorry all his issues were pushed onto you. He has no right to just waltz on into your life after all the shit he did.

I think complicated friendship was an understatement. Honestly, I think friendship is a pretty strong word for what your relationship with him was. Friends don't do the things he did. One person being absolutely dependent on another is not a friendship at all. I think Kokichi really phrased it well with the word leech. I've been in that position more times than once, and one of the biggest problems I have is that I can never push people away too well, but you did that perfectly. It's real great to hear that you were able to get space, even if it was temporary the first time. And before I keep going, let me just say that his excuses for being clingy and dependent are disgusting. Yeah, his attempts to change so far haven't seemed to have been much at all, and you said things perfectly with the forgiveness statement. Honestly, it's a little hypocritical that he'd be the one to shove you away, and then do all of this.

Yeah, having him as an irl friend does add some new challenges, but I think you'll be able to handle it. I'm real sorry to hear that your school situation is like that. You don't deserve to have to go through all that either. However, I gotta agree with Kokichi. You have to weigh your options, and I think that keeping him away, even if he spreads rumors, is the best choice so he doesn't get a chance to clamp onto you again. If you like the school you're at now, then I'd stay. You don't have to give up your ideal future for one person, especially one like him, ok? There's a solution, and I think the screenshot thing isn't a bad way to go. However, you could also just keep on going and ignore him altogether. It's your life, and you have a right to live it how you want. I know that this can be considered a cheap tactic, but if he really doesn't leave you alone, I'd reach out to teachers or other adults who might have a little more influence.

Again, it's totally up to you. I can't tell you exactly what you should do, only give you ideas. And one more thing to remember is that this person needs some serious help. Nothing he does is your fault, and you're not obligated to help him. That's not a healthy path for either of you, and you don't ever have to go back to him. You seem like a real tough person, and I'm proud of you for that. Not everyone can advocate for their space like you can, and that's an amazing ability to have. Yeah, you don't gotta apologize at all. I'm glad you felt safe enough here to get all of that out in the open. Sure thing you can have a hug! You have some time before September, so you don't have to figure all this out any time soon. It's all gonna be ok, I know you can handle this.

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