#misogyny sucks

[sabaceanbabe]

An interesting comment on a fic

So, earlier tonight I got this lovely fic on Notorious, one of my Hunger Games WIPs. The very brave individual posted it as a Guest on Ao3, but what I wanna know is... Who is Philoise?

I'm putting the lovely and eloquent comment under a read-more because it's just that awesome.

HEYYY! YOU FILTHY BITCH!! YOU MISS ME?! I KNOW YOU DO! I HOPE YOU GET GANG RAPED TORTURED MUTILATED VICIOUSLY MURDERED AND YOUR DEAD BODY TO BE RAPED AS WELL!! I AM SICK AND TIRED OF PEOPLE LIKE YOU BEING FILTHY HYPOCRITES OF SHIPPING ELOISE WITH THAT PLANT RAPIST WHEN YOU FALSELY CLAIM TO STAND WITH WOMEN PROMOTING YOUR FILTHY SOCIAL VIEWS!! I GENUINELY HOPE YOU GET PIMPED OUT BY SOMEONE THAT YOU TRUST!! YOU DO NOT DESERVE ANYTHING GOOD IN LIFE SO I HOPE THAT YOU NEVER GET PROPER EMPLOYEMENT AND GET GANG RAPED AS A RESULT!! YOU BITCH FILTHY CUNT STUPID HARLOT OF A SLUTTY WENCH! I ALSO HOPE THAT YOU GO AN SLIT YOUR WRISTS THAT WOULD BE PRETTY FUNNY TO SEE! YOU AND ALL THE OTHER PHILOISE CUNTS NEEDS TO GO AND SLIT THEIR WRISTS! THE OTHER OPTION IS TO GET GANG RAPED FOR THESE ARE THE ONLY OPTIONS FOR HYPOCRITICAL CUNTS LIKE YOU FILTHY CUNT WOMEN!! ANOTHER THING THAT WOULD BE FUNNY IF YOU FILTHY BITCHES GOT SODOMIZED BY A RABID BEAR THAT WOULD BE WELL DESERVED FOR BITCHES LIKE YOU! OR EVEN DEVOURED BY A PACK OF CAPUCHIN MONKEYS!!! THE ONLY SOLUTION FOR YOU FILTHY PHILOISE HARLOTS TO SAVE YOUR FILTHY SELVES WOULD BE TO STOP PROMOTING SOCIAL JUSTICE AS YOU CLEARLY DO NOT BELIEVE IT!! EVERY TIME JUST STOP IT! PLUS IF YOU WERE IN THE HUNGER GAMES YOU WOULD BE ON GOOD TERMS WITH PRESIDENT SNOW! AS I SEE A LOT OF TRAITS IN HIM AMONGST THE PHILOISE WENCHES INCLUDING YOU! CUNTS LIKE YOU WOULD GET ALONG WELL WITH THE CAPITOL BECAUSE YOU WOULD BRING THEM IMMENSE PLEASURE WHICH IS THE ONLY SKILL THE PHILOISE CUNTS HAVE! THAT AND COMPLAINING ABOUT EVERY FUCKING THING! IF YOU CUNTS DON'T STOP THEM YOU WILL NEVER BE FREE OF ME CALLING OUT YOUR HYPOCRISY!!!!

#THG #the hunger games #who the heck is philoise? #misogyny sucks #I seriously wish the asshat had posted under their own name #that way I could edit it and send it back to them with a few pointers #and oh my frelling god how sad an existence some people lead

[hershey-the-person]

" close ur legs , sit like a girl "

me:

#misogyny sucks #patriarchy sucks #so called white feminism also SUCKS

[rhea-of-kaylie]

Reading the reviews on Kate Goldbeck's "You, Again" is disgusting because it makes it crystal clear that people aren't ready for female sexuality.

#misogyny sucks #booklr #books #reading #reader

[she-of-seidhr]

Or it could simply be that in 10 years, people are going to look at this and think that Johnny Depp got the justice he deserved and this helped male DV victims to come forward. We are forgetting that abuse has no gender. We are forgetting that THE EXACT SAME THING HAPPENED to Johnny when Amber made her allegations public long before the trials began. We are forgetting that Johnny DID NOT LOSE A DV case in the UK. We are forgetting that professionals from law, psychology, and other behavioral sciences are analyzing this real time, comparing it with their experiences working with countless victims (I am not going to comment on what they’re agreeing on). What you are saying that might happen to Amber is EXACTLY what’s happening to Johnny right now. He also has to relive ugly things about his life. If he is telling the truth, he also has to relive the abuse he claims he suffered. This case is so convoluted, a lot of the evidence goes both ways. If Amber was given a chance to be heard (and was immediately believed without hearing the other side), why can’t we give the same chance to Johnny?

I am trying to be as neutral as I possibly can until this trial is over, and I don’t agree with the mud-slinging of fans from both sides. I agree with you that misogyny should NOT have a place in this world. This post though refuses to be open to the idea that a man can go through the same thing. What does that say about you?

#johnny depp #amber heard #this trial is a shitshow #i hope they both find peace #and get the help that they need #misogyny sucks #but so does misandry #i hope the real abuser does get served whoever it might be

[anachronistic-falsehood]

leans into the mic. "saying all men are trash in response to the various ccs getting outed as abusers is the wrong move and will harm male victims of abuse and sa" and "the reason these male ccs were able to abuse people and cover it up for so long is because of rampant misogyny in the content creating space and it's important to listen to the women coming out with their stories right now" are statements that coexist. btw

#whiskey yelling into the void #i’ve just seen a lot of people saying shit like ‘men suck’ and ‘it’s always men’ #as well as other people saying ‘this has nothing to do with misogyny!! it’s just a content creator issue not a gender issue!!’ #but guess what. it is a misogyny issue. but also it’s not at the fault of all men #these statements are both true. #we can acknowledge the horrible misogyny in this community AND avoid villainizing men in general #you don’t have to put men down to lift women up #and you ALSO don’t need to lift your fav male creators up over the victims just bc ur afraid ur favourite white boy will get criticized

[waterghostype]

shit postings

#ninjago #kai smith #cole brookstone #zane julien #jay walker #jaya #ninjago jaya #kai ninjago #aphid’s ninjashits #im sure this has been done but ive had this idea for so long #also i just realized i messed up kais scar position in the first drawng #oops! #he was forced to acknowledge the rebooted love triangle #imo the love triangle sucks total ass but it’s also like peak comedy in a meta way #like yeah misogyny and badly wirtten romance but i’s so absurdly stupid you cant help but laugh #also looking at the comment section for the jay kai fight gave me brain damage omg #like ok i have problems with the way kai was treated in regards to nyas seaboundification #but ppl keep acting like jay shouldnt have cared as much as he did which is ??? dude #AITA for being sad my fiance turned into the ocean #but dragons rising fixed that for me mostly #another reason why dr ON TOP!!!!! #and jay’s characterization in recent seasons is definitely really just mmmm #but his reaction to nya’s leaving made sense and i wish it was explored more but whatever #crystalized is crystalized

[burningtheroots]

#women deserve better #radfem #radblr #radical feminism #feminism #radfems do touch #radfems do interact #radfems please touch #womens rights #sex based rights #transgender ideology is misogyny #males suck #regardless of how they iDeNtIfY

[lesbianchemicalplant]

I get that “you can just not wear makeup, it's okay to not wear makeup” can sometimes be the exact thing that someone needs to hear, or to be reassured about. but some people are really condescending about when and how they pull that out and who they say it to

like, there is a social reality of misogyny that women are punished for not appearing a certain way, with all the more severity as a function of class, racism, transmisogyny, etc.

that punishment can be the difference between employed and unemployed. having food and not having food. being treated as less competent and less worthy as a person not only by men, but also by other women and people of any gender in general

and tbh, it's especially fucked how some transmisogyny-exempt people say this to trans women, particularly toward those of us with facial hair / stubble that stands out very visibly from our skin. like a trans woman wearing makeup is obviously just too dumb, shallow, misogynistic, and femininity-obsessed to know better, so they take it upon themselves to remind her that “you can be a woman without wearing makeup! :)” in the same voice they use to tell a toddler that the mushy peas are good

do you think trans women wearing makeup while going to job interviews or working customer service positions (or even, yes, trying to exist in public life in general) are all just stuck-up assimilationists with Bad Ideas about gender? do you think it's only trans women with pointedly transmisogynistic values about “passing” who would ever wear makeup or dress a certain way to try to be treated less horribly by the world around us?

especially if you're vividly aware of how you yourself are punished for not wearing makeup—how do you not extend that awareness to other women? including other women who would pretty fucking obviously be treated even worse for it than you are? (how seriously have you considered that some women might be treated worse for it than you are? treated worse by someone like you, even?)

“you can just not wear makeup” “you don't need makeup, there's nothing about your face that needs fixing” okay well hiring managers will absolutely discriminate against me for not wearing makeup to job interviews, but thanks for enlightening me I guess

#if anyone comments ''wow op thinks women need to be told it's okay to wear makeup'' I am going to fucking beat you with a chair #same if anyone starts on ''well I never'' about people being condescending to trans women #like sorry I do also absolutely hate it when people say the #''women can just wear a little makeup! you don't have to put on a Full Face!'' bit regarding Not Wearing Makeup #but this also fucking sucks. why are you glossing over the misogynistic punishment like it's trivial? is that feminist??? #my posts #body image #transmisogyny #body image / #misogyny #makeup #ask to tag /

[firelxdykatara]

I actually really don't want to hear anything about how 'overcoming misogyny' is a major theme in Avatar: the Last Airbender when "The Fortuneteller" exists and the ultimate thesis of that episode, in the context of the show as a whole, is that if a girl is in unrequited love, it's cringe and kinda pathetic and she should move on cause the boy will never want her; but if a boy is in unrequited love, he just needs to be patient and wait for the girl he wants to come around cause he's a hero and how could she not?

Its secondary thesis is that you need to make your own destiny and not rely on someone else's words to tell you what your life has in store...if you're a BOY; if you're a girl then what the fake psychic told you will actually determine your ENTIRE life even if you are only fourteen years old.

Meng's existence really would have been the final nail in the coffin for Kataang even if the arc of the ship in Book 3 weren't so abhorrent to me personally (sorry but I have higher standards for romantic relationships than 'the girl is completely oblivious to the boy's advances for the entire show, is actively distressed when those advances become more pronounced, and then her feelings are resolved completely off screen between episodes so that the boy can get his prize in the end')--because her relationship with Aang is deliberately paralleled to Aang's relationship with Katara, and yet Meng, the one-off character, learns a lesson which Aang is quite literally told he must learn in the Book 2 finale... but he never ever does.

Aang has an entire season to internalize that lesson and come to terms with it--that maybe she doesn't have feelings for me and that's ok because I still love and care about her and that's enough--but he never even comes close. His possessive attachment to her gets worse, culminates in the EIP kiss, and Katara just capitulates because we're meant to believe that she went through the entire development of her romantic feelings for the love of her life off-screen between the penultimate episode and the four-part finale.

This was misogynistic even in 2008, and the idea that the show truly had anything meaningful to say about sexism/misogyny when uncritical and unchecked misogyny was baked into its very DNA (assuming we're meant to agree with Brychael that Kataang is 'in the DNA of the show) is just laughable to me. When it comes to 'overcoming misogyny' the show doesn't actually say anything more profound than 'girls can fight too!!!!!'

And that wasn't good enough for me then, it certainly isn't good enough for me today.

#atla #k*taang salt #salt for ts #bryke salt #atla salt #really just sick of the notion that atla was actually great about misogyny and it's so terrible if the live action does away with some of i #atla actually kind of sucked about misogyny for anyone who is older than a young child and more capable of reading between the lines #long post

[aprito]

sakura with The female authority figures in her life...the world is healing

i had to immortalize this post of course

#my art #sakura haruno #tsunade senju #shizune #mebuki haruno #together they will beat the pick me behavior and internalised misogyny out of her #this new tumblr desktop sucks so bad #did anyone miss me

[pillarsalt]

Top contender for Least Self-Aware Post 2024. This is, in fact... your own fault!

#yep ​sure sucks to not allow yourself to speak concisely about who misogyny affects #if only there was a way to just simply not do that

[apostate-in-an-alcove]

The Christian audacity to assume that every non-Christian, especially non-believers, are secretly miserable and unfulfilled because they're not Christian is definitely in one of the top ten insulting and degrading things Christians believe about other human beings.

#ex catholic #ex christian #deconversion #apostate #besides the homophobia misogyny and general bigotry baked into the religion of course #christianity fucking sucks ass

[bonefall]

ok but about clear sky. do you think transition could have saved her

It wouldn't save her. But it would be VERY funny.

#She makes a post titled ''apology to women'' and it's like #''Im sorry that my previous behavior could have been interpreted as misogyny. The truth was that you all sucked.'' #''The real problem I had with women was that they were not me.'' #Fennelposting

[icarusxxrising]

The fact that transmen/mascs get to experience having our oppression ignored and downplayed growing up as girls and then turn around and have our oppression ignored and downplayed during our transition is laughably disgusting. We really never grow out of being told "Shut up, you're supposed to be quiet and look nice".

#I stand firm that transmen and transmascs getting treated like this is just misogyny rolled over #anyone who acts like “because we're men now” we dont deal with oppression can suck the shit out of my ass #transandrophobia #transmisandry #transmisogny #transmen #transmasc #transgender #gay #lgbt #queer

[ot3]

this flavor of trans guy misogyny where they do rhetorical backflips to explain why them not caring about women is good, actually, and since cis men are also misogynists a lot of the time we should all just stop complaining about it.

#'no one bats an eye when-' #actually yes plenty of women but particularly black women and lesbians have a lot to say about the specific brand of misogyny #that you get from cis gay men. only no one listens to women who talk about misogyny. is the thing. s o. #IM LITERALLY NOT EVEN SAYING PEOPLE NEED TO PUT FEMALE CHARACTERS IN SHIT #IM JUST SAYING IF THEYRE GONNA BE THERE IT SUCKS WHEN THEY'RE ONLY THERE TO BE PLOT MOTIVATORS FOR MEN!!!! NO ONE GIVES A SHIT WHAT YOU DO! #like if you're a trans guy and you have a complicated relationship to womanhood and don't want to spend a bunch of time #in the headspace of female characters. i get that. i can understand that. i can sympathize. #but if ur response to seeing someone complain about misogyny is 'why should i have to care about female characters' then ur just an asshole #theres a time and a place to talk about the Unique and Woke Way That You Personally Dislike Women and it's not on my fucking posts!!!!

[fromtheseventhhell]

When people describe Arya being forced into situations where she literally has to fight for her life as her "choosing violence"

#arya stark #asoiaf #valyrianscrolls #then when they praise a character who has never been in a comparable situation for /keeping their morals/ #like oh? not being in a tough situation without any protection is a virtue now? 😭 #this idea where people treat politicking as the ultimate skill that can get you out of any situation if you're smart enough needs to end #and it truly comes from nowhere cause Varys + LF (arguably the most political characters) both rely on violence to achieve their goals #this fandom's /nuanced/ takes are literally just them dumbing down the story and sucking out any complexity and it's so boring #but that's what happens when you create theories to center a specific character instead of them coming organically from the story 🤷🏾‍♀️ #their dislike of Arya is so obvious because they obsessively erase the traits they covet from her character😭 #meanwhile a majority of the male leaders in asoiaf are also warriors but somehow Arya being considered a warrior (which she isn't) #means she can't be political or a leader...smells like misogyny