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dudeswings · 4 months
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I'm not feeling great right now but I wanted all of you guys to know that Everything is okay.
You are so important to the world, Never change who you are.. It doesn't matter if you're any different. You're still important. Nothing else if something upsets you just believe that Everything is gonna be okay and safe and you're always gonna remind yourself at least once you're okay. Write some Positive things on notes and put them on the wall and remind yourself that you are so worth it.
Write things like this,
" You are perfect. "
" You are special and important. "
" Everything is okay. "
Just know that you are a beautiful creature.
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Life bends itself to the grasp of the best blue sky's.
You are gonna be worth the time to go with your sigh.
You are Important.
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waterlikequotes · 2 years
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“Choosing yourself won’t result in losing the right people. If choosing yourself (setting a boundary/engaging in self-care) results in losing them, question their motivation for being in your life. Why does protecting yourself hurt them? What do they gain from your self-neglect?”
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booksbeansandcandles · 8 months
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Daily OM: Shadow Work
Being Aware of Your Thoughts.
We seldom accept negative comments from others; however, we so often accept our own inner negative chatter.
Few people enjoy the company of individuals whose attitudes are persistently negative. Yet many of us tolerate the critical chatter that originates in our own minds. Since we are so used to the stream of self-limiting, critical consciousness that winds its way through our thoughts, we are often unaware of the impact these musings have on our lives. It is only when we become aware of the power of such thoughts that we can divest ourselves of them and fill the emptiness they leave with loving, peaceful affirmations.
Many people, upon paying careful attention to their thought patterns, are surprised at the negativity they find there. But when we take notice of involuntary thoughts in a nonjudgmental way, we initiate a healing process that will eventually allow us to replace intimidating and upsetting self-talk with positive, empowering thoughts.
While the occasional downbeat or judgmental thought may have little impact on your contentment, the ongoing negativity that passes unnoticed can have a dampening effect on your mood and your outlook. When you are aware of the tone of your thoughts, however, you can challenge them.
Try to be conscious of your feelings, opinions, and judgments for a single day. From sunup to sundown, scrutinize the messages you are feeding into your subconscious mind. Consider your thoughts from the perspective of a detached observer and try not to judge yourself based on the notions that come unbidden into your mind. Simply watch the flow of your consciousness and make a note of the number of times you find yourself focusing on gloomy notions or indulging in self-directed criticism.
As you become increasingly aware of your patterns of thought, whether positive and negative, you will gradually learn to control the character of your stream of consciousness. Always endeavor to remember that the images and ideas that pass through your mind are transient and not a true representation of who you are.
In training yourself to be cognizant of your thoughts, you gain the ability to actively modulate your mood. The awareness you cultivate within yourself will eventually enable you to create a foundation of positivity from which you can build a more authentic existence.
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march 6th - a little cuteness goes a long way
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thenightsong · 7 months
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Really random and personal but I got out of the suicide risk tracker for my unit finally! I am at a stronger mental state than ever before after being so adversed towards therapy.
I don't like to seek help but I'm happy that I gritted my teeth and sought out help for myself and have effectively extended my time in this world with my wife.
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beaarla0005 · 7 months
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I have a meeting next week with a academic advisor to get my life in order..once I'm use to my schedule I'll get a job but my mom sometimes pressure me and it irks my nerves i wanna take my time and go on at my own pace and not be compared to other people..jus wanna do me n feel okay about it
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midnights-dragon · 3 months
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things that make me smiley. and happy. i need this list. personal or something ignore me
skipping steps or walking funny just for sillies
getting tackled by a dog that’s like. five pounds tall and has no hand eye coordination
drawing stars everywhere specifically in the method that goes up down left right down
cosmic brownies
seeing (or experiencing !!!!!) childlike wonder & whimsey (esp since i didn’t get it enough as an actual child)
the frog and toad book
that moment right before falling asleep. peace.
AQUARIUMS!!!!! sharks fish rays turtles whales anemones crabs seahorses belugas manatees crocodiles sharks sharks SHARKS
my hair when it gets all fluffy and curly not friZZY but cURLY
old history.. learning about old cultures… the romans and the greeks and the spartans? the vikings? the ottomans? native americans? yeah all roads lead to rome more like all dicks out in rome. they were all gay
on a related note queer people in history (looking at you shakespeare and alexander the great and hamilton and that one viking and )
skipping rocks on frozen lakes or ponds and trying REALLY HARD to get them to crack the ice but they don’t and it makes me laugh
seeing old, ancient art in modern settings (MICHAELANGELOOO I LOVE YOU BELOVED i have a pop socket of his hands)
the fact that cats used to get worshiped why don’t we do that anymore . we should do that again i think
accidentally writing something REALLY good and unplanned and just sitting there for a sec processing your mIND
being asked about things im smart about (plz ask me about the bible PLSPLSPLS i need the religious trauma to amount to something)
remembering dreams they don’t even have to be good i just like to remember them
when i say hi to my cat and she meows back (i hope she knows i love hher r)
finding treasure in the woods (probably trash but i will be taking it home)
i have shoeboxes of old stuff like ticket stubs and cards and random shit like that i have like 10 of those shoeboxes and i go through and look at them. the socks my old dog used to wear to walk are in there n sometimes i cry but thats ok
cleaning kennels at my job at a vet clinic. making it nice n clean for the next lil dude who comes through so they can have some comfort
specifically aarons thinking putty but esp the ones that are themed
people watching in coffee shops and libraries. once i saw a baby take his first steps in a starbucks
learning about my biology. my therapist has a degree in bio and told me the like anatomy of having a panic attack and it HELPS.
freckles and vitiligo and acne and UNIQUENESS ON PEOPLE !!!
seeing my reflection in a puddle and being like oh hey that s me and the trees behind me :3
watching utterly mindless shows that go on for like theee million episodes (greys anatomy i am kissing you on th mouth)
watching ANIMAL disney movies. fox and the hound. aristocats. bambi
80s artists especialy like queen and david bowie and frank sinatra and the smiths and abba
PICTURES FROM SPACE. JAMES WEBB TELESCOPE.
that one website of the cat playing the bongos
being able to seperate the person who introduced you to a media from a media after a long time of negative connotation
looking up hozier lyrics
so much more but i forget about the good sometimes .. i will add onto this later i think
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Mental Health Picks: Nonfiction Recommendations
The Lonely Stories by Natalie Eve Garrett
A collection of essays about the joys and struggles of being alone by 22 literary writers including: Lev Grossman, Jhumpa Lahiri, Lena Dunham, Jesmyn Ward, Yiyun Li, and Anthony Doerr. If you’re feeling lonely or if you’ve ever felt unseen, if you’re emboldened by solitude or secretly longing for it: Welcome to The Lonely Stories. This cathartic collection of personal essays illuminates what the experience of being alone is like for all of us. Some of these stories are heartbreaking, such as Jesmyn Ward’s reckoning with the loss of her husband, Imani Perry’s confrontation with chronic illness, and Dina Nayeri’s reflection on immigrating to a foreign country. Others are witty, such as Lev Grossman’s rueful tale of heading to the woods alone or Anthony Doerr’s struggles with internet addiction. Still others celebrate solitude and the kind of clarity it can bring about, such as Claire Dederer’s journey toward sobriety and Lidia Yuknavitch’s sensual look at women and desire. Thoughtful and ultimately affirming, The Lonely Stories explores emotions that so often go undiscussed, and lets us all know that we’re not alone.
The Grieving Brain: The Surprising Science of How We Learn from Love and Loss by Mary-Frances O'Connor
For as long as humans have existed, we have struggled when a loved one dies. Poets and playwrights have written about the dark cloak of grief, the deep yearning, how devastating heartache feels. But until now, we have had little scientific perspective on this universal experience. In The Grieving Brain, neuroscientist and psychologist Mary-Frances O'Connor, PhD, gives us a fascinating new window into one of the hallmark experiences of being human. O'Connor has devoted decades to researching the effects of grief on the brain, and in this book, she makes cutting-edge neuroscience accessible through her contagious enthusiasm, and guides us through how we encode love and grief. With love, our neurons help us form attachments to others; but, with loss, our brain must come to terms with where our loved ones went, or how to imagine a future that encompasses their absence.
Based on O'Connor's own trailblazing neuroimaging work, research in the field, and her real-life stories, The Grieving Brain does what the best popular science books do, combining storytelling, accessible science, and practical knowledge that will help us better understand what happens when we grieve and how to navigate loss with more ease and grace.
Dear Friend, from My Life I Write to You in Your Life by Yiyun Li
What a long way it is from one life to another, yet why write if not for that distance? Startlingly original and shining with quiet wisdom, this is a luminous account of a life lived with books. Written over two years while the author battled suicidal depression, Dear Friend, from My Life I Write to You in Your Life is a painful and yet richly affirming examination of what makes life worth living. Yiyun Li grew up in China and has spent her adult life as an immigrant in a country not her own. She has been a scientist, an author, a mother, a daughter and through it all she has been sustained by a profound connection with the writers and books she loves. From William Trevor and Katherine Mansfield to Soren Kierkegaard and Philip Larkin, Dear Friend is a journey through the deepest themes that bind these writers together. Interweaving personal experiences with a wide-ranging homage to her most cherished literary influences, Yiyun Li confronts the two most essential questions of her identity: Why write? And why live?
A Molecule Away from Madness: Tales of the Hijacked Brain by Sara Manning Peskin
Our brains are the most complex machines known to humankind, but they have an Achilles heel: the very molecules that allow us to exist can also sabotage our minds. Here are gripping accounts of unruly molecules and the diseases that form in their wake. A college student cannot remember if she has eaten breakfast. By dinner, she is strapped to a hospital bed, convinced she is battling zombies. A man planning to propose marriage instead becomes violently enraged, gripped by body spasms so severe that he nearly bites off his own tongue. One after another, poor farmers in South Carolina drop dead from a mysterious epidemic of dementia. With an intoxicating blend of history and intrigue, Sara Manning Peskin invites readers to play medical detective, tracing each diagnosis from the patient to an ailing nervous system. Along the way, Peskin entertains with tales of the sometimes outlandish, often criticized, and forever devoted scientists who discovered it all. Peskin never loses sight of the human impact of these conditions. Alzheimer’s Disease is more than the gradual loss of a loved one; it can be a family’s multigenerational curse. The proteins that abound in every cell of our bodies are not simply strings of oxygen, hydrogen, nitrogen, and carbon; they are the building blocks of our personalities and relationships. A Molecule Away from Madness is an unputdownable journey into the deepest mysteries of our brains.
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octoberloved · 7 months
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selfhealingmoments · 9 months
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catchymemes · 2 months
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recoverr · 5 months
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i don't know who needs to hear this, but guilt, self-hatred and shame are not sustainable sources of growth and healing. you can't hate yourself into feeling better, or being better. you can't repeatedly punish yourself for your flawed humanity and expect wholesome results.
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neuroticboyfriend · 1 year
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all your stuffed animals love you. they're not sad if they're in a box, or on the floor, or not held/played with as much. they understand. they know that you might need another stuffie more, or that you don't have enough space. they're just happy to be with you, and if you ever give them away, they'll be happy there too. stuffies are for comfort. they understand. they love you too. it's okay.
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confusionmeisss · 16 days
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let me just say, i really needa put more pep into my mentality bc im real tired out here
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march 7th - middle grade fiction shouldn't be this relatable
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artbylittlebug · 6 months
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