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support · 10 years
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Everything okay?
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dannnnnnnnnnnnex · 2 years
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i really dislike it when people don’t understand perfectionism.
like, it isn’t always “person who has tons of motivation and spends a ton of time making this thing *just* right”
wayyyyyy more often than not it’s:
”I know that if I try to make this thing, it won’t be perfect, so I simply won’t try.”
which definitely sounds bad, right? but when you realize that it doesn’t just apply to voluntarily making art, then you realize how perfectionism is not at all a good thing in any context. 
“i know that if I try to work on this assignment right now, it won’t be good enough, so i’ll wait until the last possible moment so that I have something forcing me to do it.”
”i know that I should start going to the gym, but I won’t see any improvement right away, so I just won’t.”
”i know that i should brush my teeth tonight, but that won’t be good enough to undo the fact that i haven’t brushed them 4 days in a row, so I just won’t.”
perfectionism isn’t the uncontrollable impulse to make things “just right”. (although it can occasionally manifest as this.)
perfectionism is the absolute, psychological inability to accept the concepts of “good enough” and “better than nothing”.
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babymudguts · 2 years
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Hot girl movies
Movies i’d usually gate-keep about addiction, growing up, being a teenage girl, music, the 2000s and late 90s, femininity, mental illness, etc. (you might actually not have heard about some of these.) (some of these r pretty popular I know!!)
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Blue Car (2002)
White Oleandor (2002)
Speak (2004)
Firefox (1996)
Kids (1995)
Palo Alto (2013)
Heathers (1989)
Augusta Gone (2006)
Hard Candy (2005)
American Beauty (1999)
Lords of Dogtown (2005)
Ghost world (2001)
Trainspotting (1996)
Juno (2007)
Thirteen (2003)
The Virgin suicides (1999)
Buffalo ‘66 (1998)
Gone Girl (2014)
Girl interrupted (1999)
Black Swan (2010)
Mid90s (2018)
Whip It (2009)
Lady bird (2017)
The Perks Of Being A Wallflower (2012)
Normal Adolescent Behaviour (2007)
Blue Valentine (2010)
Crazy Beautiful (2001)
Its a funny kind of story (2010)
Slums Of Beverly Hills (1998)
Anywhere But Here (1999)
Adventure Land (2009)
Save The Last Dance (2001)
Garden State (2004)
Rules Of Attraction (2002)
Promising Young Woman (2020)
Requiem Of A Dream (2000)
Gia (1998)
Candy (2006)
Beautiful Boy (2018)
Almost Famous (2000)
The Basketball Diaries (1995)
The Craft (1996)
The Diary Of A Teenage Girl (2015)
But I’m A Cheerleader (1999)
Boyhood (2014)
Spun (2002)
Red Road (2006)
The Piano Teacher (2001)
Bulbbul (2020)
Sucker Punch (2011)
Ginger Snaps (2000)
Helter-Skelter (2012)
Cruel Intentions (1999)
I, TONYA (2018)
Amelie (2001)
Daisies (1966)
Perfect Blue (1997)
Prozac Nation (2001)
Whatever Happened To Baby Jane? (1962)
Leon (1994)
Valley Of The Dolls (1967)
The Crush (1993)
Carrie (1976)
10 Things I Hate About You (1999)
If anyone actually sees this and likes it I’d be more than happy to make a part 2. This took me awhile lol. I know some of these are a little basic but I tried to have a strong mix of well-known and lesser plus romance, comedy, psychological thrillers, cheesy etc. Its very broad so there’s something for everyone and hopefully something new for someone.
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neuroticboyfriend · 1 year
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being "outside your comfort zone" is doing something unfamiliar and daunting while having the skills, support, and resources to get through it - safely and healthily. it helps you.
"pushing yourself past your limits" is doing something that distresses your body/mind without the skills, support, and resources you need. it puts you at risk of further illness, trauma, injury, etc. it hurts you.
and you are the only person on this planet who can decide which category something falls in. you do not need a doctor or therapist's approval in order to have limits. no amount of schooling or practice can make someone know your needs, mind, body, or life better than you.
please trust yourself. go outside your comfort zone and grow when you can, but otherwise? don't sweat it. you're a person. not a machine.
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braindamaged007 · 1 year
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hotgirlmessss · 1 year
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What the fuck is wrong with my brain
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yk what, fuck it.
Happy disability pride month to people with Pyromania or Kleptomania.
Happy disability pride month to anyone with impulse control disorders.
Happy disability pride month to people with impulse control disorders who have spent time in prison, jail and juvenile detention centres.
Happy disability pride month to pyromaniacs who have been kicked out of every school.
Happy disability pride month to kleptomaniacs who aren’t allowed to go to stores.
Happy disability pride month to people with Intermittent Explosive Disorder who know a court room and police car better then their own house.
Happy disability pride month to people with Conduct Disorder who are afraid that one day they will hurt their family and who get treated like they are insane, crazy and dangerous.
Happy disability pride month to anyone with an impulse control disorder who has been dropped by therapists over and over again, who are revolving door psychiatric patients, who are adults left to deal with this alone, who are young people with parents who don’t understand.
Happy disability pride month to people with impulse control disorders who have developed addictions to deal with the guilt.
Happy disability pride month to people with impulse control disorders who are actively trying to fix things.
Happy disability pride month to people with impulse control disorders who have given up and have decided to spend the rest of their life in psych wards, their bed or a jail cell.
Happy disability pride month to people who are undiagnosed but know that they have a disorder, happy disability pride month to people who are undiagnosed who have no idea what is happening to them or why they do the things they do.
Happy disability pride month to people with impulse control disorders who have violent outbursts.
Happy disability pride month to kleptomaniacs and pyromaniacs who are sick of having their disorder romanticised and misused by people who claim that they are “cool” or “rebel against the system”
Happy disability pride month to people with impulse control disorders who lock themselves in their houses and don’t participate in society out of fear of hurting someone or committing a crime.
Happy disability pride month to people with impulse control disorders who consider themselves disabled
Happy July to people with impulse control disorders who don’t.
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amievenreal · 2 years
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I don't want to kill myself like I romanticized when I was younger. I now wish that I could simply just stop existing.
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miajnsn · 2 years
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i can’t see myself old, i just see myself disappearing across the years.
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When does it get better?
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One thing (among many) that people need to keep in mind when they say things like "oh if you think you have a mental disorder, consult a professional" is that a lot of professionals will not consider evaluating and/or diagnosing you with something you bring up yourself. Especially the more uncommon/complex the disorder is. For things like MDD or GAD you likely won't have that problem, for things like OCD or ADHD they'll likely be suspicious but still comply somewhat, but for things like personality disorders or DID most professionals will completely brush you off and refuse to evaluate you. Because they think you're attention seeking and diagnosis shopping, and that you couldn't possibly have it, even if you haven't done anything to earn that suspicion.
For disorders like that, unless the professional themselves suspects you have it and comes up with that idea themselves, good luck getting evaluated at all. Especially when it comes to disorders most professionals don't even think they'll encounter, like SzPD or DID.
It'd be nice if we lived in a world where you could go see a psych, say "hey I think I have this", and they'd do a proper and fair evaluation for you the way a physical doctor would (moreso should but that's another can of worms).
It just isn't as simple as "ask a professional".
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betweenmee · 1 year
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I can’t even recognise myself anymore
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hamoodmood · 2 months
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Sorry I forgor
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neuroticboyfriend · 6 months
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addiction is a chronic illness! addicts are disabled! anti-addict stigma is a form of ableism and sanism! the separation of addicts from disability is a lie sold to you to justify anti-addict ableism and separate us from our community and society! please remember addicts - and people with substance use disorders in general - when talking about disability, neurodivergence, and mental health!
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