#lookoutforeachother

[escapismqueen]

Look out for the kind people. The ones that are selfless and help to no end. Because although they radiate sunshine and make you feel good, those people are often the ones who feel like they’re dying. The ones who are fighting for their lives everyday. You may think that they’re okay because they’re so dedicated to making others feel good, but what you may not realise is that the kindest, most selfless people are usually that way because they’re suffering and they can’t imagine being the reason that anyone else possibly feels the same. We overcompensate, we put our entire beings into making others feel good, making ourselves so available for others that they need us and can’t live without us; because we’re unsure of our worth outside of helping others. But the thing is, when you’re so available for others, there’s a lot less time to be kind to yourself. And god knows, the kind ones need kindness in return. There’s a reason they’re so kind to others, and it usually means they’re not so kind to themselves.

#bekind #mental health #lookoutforeachother #thoughtsihave #thoughts #look after yourself

[broomclosetbrew]

Fucking crazy night at Honolulu Airport. Grabbing a bite to eat before my flight home and I can hear the couple at the table in front of me. The guy is aggressively bitching about a few different things including flight costs, rental car costs, and telling the woman he's with she couldn't go to the bathroom. At one point she stood up and he vetbally got her to sit back down. He said she'd be arrested if she left him and he needs to keep eyes on her. I showed my waitress a text on my phone saying she needs to call security. While waiting for security I saw her stand up and grab her purse to leave. He stood up, bore down, grabbed her arm and pushed her back into her chair saying she wasn't going to disappear on him. The manager came by while we were waiting on security and asked me what I saw. Told him I'll make a statement after the cops got there. Airport rent a cops came first then the sheriff's. Sheriff's kept asking if I saw him physically touch her and I said yes, wrote out a statement, have them my contact information. Manager and waitress thanked me and bought my dinner and drinks. Now I just gotta calm down. I don't know what happened beyond that. Moral of the story is if something doesn't seem right it probably isn't. Say something, look out for others. ..... "There is a great difference between worry and concern. A worried person sees a problem, and a concerned person solves a problem." ~ Harold Stephens .... #crazystory #travel #seesomethingsaysomething #lookoutforeachother (at Daniel K. Inouye International Airport) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cj9_ja5OePd/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#crazystory #travel #seesomethingsaysomething #lookoutforeachother

[kamiartist9]

#Daffney your hard work & heart will always be remembered. You were ahead of the game & you deserved your flowers. We’ll never forget you Scream Queen😆👑💚💐 Don’t take each other for granted & give folks their flowers while they’re still here💐 you never know what gray cloud 🌧 you just dispersed🌈 #ripdaffney #ripdaffneyunger #daffneyunger #iscreamday #daffanatics #womenswrestling #thankyoudaffney #givefolkstheirflowersnow #lookoutforeachother #mua #makeup #makeuptribute #impactwrestling #womenmatter https://www.instagram.com/p/CgITZMnrICr/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#daffney #ripdaffney #ripdaffneyunger #daffneyunger #iscreamday #daffanatics #womenswrestling #thankyoudaffney #givefolkstheirflowersnow #lookoutforeachother #mua #makeup #makeuptribute #impactwrestling #womenmatter

[seanthe1andonly]

Great way to start the celebration off for the Queen's platinum jubilee. 🎆 Whatever you're doing to celebrate or if you're just taking advantage of the 4 day weekend. Make the most out of it and look out for each other. #queenelizabeth #royal #bankhoildayweekend #celebration #britsh #enjoyeverysecond #lookoutforeachother #fireworks #platinumjubilee #friends #weymouth #family #dorset (at Weymouth, Dorset) https://www.instagram.com/p/CeUfoPwK1E4/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#queenelizabeth #royal #bankhoildayweekend #celebration #britsh #enjoyeverysecond #lookoutforeachother #fireworks #platinumjubilee #friends #weymouth #family #dorset

[colitisandme]

For anyone struggling with their own mental health, or knows someone who is struggling with their mental health, please be kind. To yourself and to others. You never know what someone is going through. Mental health does not discriminate, it can devour and dominate lives. I had my own breakdown a few years ago where I mentally and physically burnt out and it was the loneliest time of my life. Remember you can’t always tell who is having mental health battles, as it’s often invisible and often the people who need the most help don’t want you to know they are struggling… and from my own experience I didn’t know how bad I was feeling until it was too late to prevent it… I have also have loved ones who have battled depression, anxiety, mania and it’s a really hard battle… There’s a poem by Stevie Smith called ‘Not waving but drowning’ and it highlights that you never know what someone is going through… this poem breaks my heart because someone really close to me told me that’s how she felt… through the whole of her life. 😢 so let’s just all look after each other a little bit more and also ourselves ❤️❤️❤️❤️ #mentalhealthday2022 #selfcareisthebestcare #mentalhealthmatters #loveeachother #lookoutforeachother #mentalhealthawareness

[garfieldandmeblog]

September 6, 1989

AM: We never see Garfield this vulnerable, it’s refreshing.

JK: DOUBLE BLANKET. Garfield rocks when he’s acting like a cat. Honestly, I enjoy Jon taking care of Garfield like that. It’s very sweet.

#garfield #cat #comics #blanket #existentialism #vulnerable #connectwitheachother #lookoutforeachother #openuptootherpeople #evangelion

[citiboid]

This is a #LatePost but this upcoming will make two weeks of me having my #SecondDose of the #Covid19Vaccination and I’m completely fine. #iStronglyEncourage everyone and my #FriendsAndFamily to get their #CovidVaccine. #WearAMask #SocialDistance #BeSafe #GetVaccinated #LookOutForEachOther #WashYourHands (at Dallas, Texas) https://www.instagram.com/p/CMDZiPPgBKW/?igshid=s84xluizlxym

#latepost #seconddose #covid19vaccination #istronglyencourage #friendsandfamily #covidvaccine #wearamask #socialdistance #besafe #getvaccinated #lookoutforeachother #washyourhands

[ginachoi87]

#mamabear #benice #lookoutforeachother https://www.instagram.com/p/CCyyy0dnh2v/?igshid=legv5m6paasy

#mamabear #benice #lookoutforeachother

[gigartdropshispants]

Tough Chicks wear a mask! Do it to help and protect others. Unfortunately I do not have this masked graphic available but I do still have our #ToughChick line of merchandise available in our store. Link in Bio. Check the Tough Chick link in the store menu. 🤘🏻#gigart #wearamask #wearamask😷 #wearamaskplease #wearamaskinpublic #socialdistancing #safetyfirst #helpingothers #helpeachother #lookingoutforyou #lookoutforeachother #toughchicks #toughchickvibe #chick #illustration #drawing #cuteart #sillyart #instaart #kidsclothing #toddlerfashion #babyshowergifts #cutechick #weareinthistogether #savealife #helpout #doyourpart #cartoonbird #chicksofinstagram https://www.instagram.com/p/CDo-9Slhxj7/?igshid=1h2y98uj0mkxf

#toughchick #gigart #wearamask #wearamask😷 #wearamaskplease #wearamaskinpublic #socialdistancing #safetyfirst #helpingothers #helpeachother #lookingoutforyou #lookoutforeachother #toughchicks #toughchickvibe #chick #illustration #drawing #cuteart #sillyart #instaart #kidsclothing #toddlerfashion #babyshowergifts #cutechick #weareinthistogether #savealife #helpout #doyourpart #cartoonbird #chicksofinstagram

[adorecherieamour]

People only choose to show their good sides/angles because that’s what we only want ourselves and the people around us to see. Acknowledging our low points is just as important and it’s okay to have those moments, those days, those weeks, etc. We have all been there and will have them every now and then. Life isn’t easy or perfect. If you’re making an effort and trying thats all that matters and I’m super proud of you. Society can have a way of just focusing on people’s highs and thus causing us to be harder on ourselves than we need to be. It’s okay to feel and express your emotions and talk about them with someone you can trust. We are human. This is crucial for our mental health, which is always important, but probably more now than ever due to the state of the world. I really hope this message reaches those who truly need it. I needed this. All Love 🤍 #selflove #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #alllove #loveyourself #positivevibes #positivevibesonly #expressyourself #emotions #feels #lookoutforyourself #lookoutforeachother #explorepage #explore #photography #life #living #learning #loving #spreadtheword #try #highsandlows #staysafe #wearamask #tryingisbelieving #selfcare #selfcaresunday (at Reality Check) https://www.instagram.com/p/CDH0HtFhonV/?igshid=18vqhhn6gy2fv

#selflove #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #alllove #loveyourself #positivevibes #positivevibesonly #expressyourself #emotions #feels #lookoutforyourself #lookoutforeachother #explorepage #explore #photography #life #living #learning #loving #spreadtheword #try #highsandlows #staysafe #wearamask #tryingisbelieving #selfcare #selfcaresunday

[getinvolvedyoulivehere]

Can we all agree to do this to help each other out? #PoliceThePolice #FlashYourLights

#policethepolice #lookoutforeachother

[idiotthewise]

Quick peek. Went home. #staysafe #lookoutforeachother (at Boscombe) https://www.instagram.com/p/B-i0bwcJ1AJ/?igshid=1psrx5fez2liq

#staysafe #lookoutforeachother

[chey-tips22]

Safety protocols only need to work once.

Even if it sucks that we need them.

So tonight I had to use one of my many safety protocols I have in place as a woman, especially one who is out a lot at night. These protocols come into their own so rarely I almost felt they were redundant and yet today they were a godsend.

My main ones?

- tell someone you're leaving

- tell someone you arrived

- have friends have each others' contact details

- check in with someone before and after a date with a new person at a set time

And today...

(a shaken tale of not-very-much actual threat, but a whole lot of potential)

At 12.40am, I messaged my sister to say I had left my boyfriend's house. The journey home is 20 mins by bus, so 30 mins factoring in a wait or 7 minutes by car. At 1.15am my sister rang me because I wasn't home. She rang me to find me jog-walking back to my bfs house because I had been accosted at the bus stop and had an encounter with agitated man who thought I was someone else, who he didn't like and whose boss he also didn't like who spent over 30 minutes semi-blocking me in at a bus stop agitatedly talking at me about the warning, the danger, the weapons he had under his coat. None he wanted to use on me apparently, but all that he could if he had them and wanted to. I wasn't sure. I'm still not sure. But that what if, and knowledge that a lack of weapons does not make someone safe, meant I was a bit stuck.

I couldn't stop them to call someone - one of the things we do at work (I work in mental health) is talk about not agitating people further if we can, and phones/texting/interrupting/seeming to ignore are all textbook red flags, it wasn't a 999 situation, and I couldn't just walk away for fear of aggravating it.

In the end, 30+minutes in, I convince him I'm going to go 'speak to my boss' now, given the bus hasn't arrived, and he 'offers' to walk me there and then follows me up the road at a distance. And I keep thinking... What if he follows me all the way? What if he realises I'm not this person? What if he doesn't let me leave? What if my bf doesn't answer? What if...

I get to the house, away from the man. My sister calls to wake my bf because a knock on the door is insufficient, and he is good enough to text for me when my hands shake and let me hysterical-laugh it off for 10 minutes whilst I wait for a cab. My sister is on the line confirming I'm safe. I call a taxi and get home safe, passing the guy who was still on the corner.

This may have been nothing. This may have been a freak incident. I mean, 90% time I call a cab anyway. And the man didn't do anything physically, though I sure as hell felt the fear as if he had.

But today I had people looking out for me and for one terrifying hour that mattered so much in terms of the mental support I had to leave that situation as soon as possible to go someplace safe.

I had people who were checking in on me as per my supposedly semi-redundant safety protocols that I am often tempted to ignore. Hell, I'd been joking about my paranoidness with my bf less than an hour before. What a slice of humble pie I ate.

The message?

Firstly, thank you. Thank you if you are someone's safety call or text or checker - even if they get annoyed at you for doing it. Thank you for being willing to be woken up, or interrupt your plans. It means the world. And it may save our bacon.

And secondly, I am upset and angry that we even need these protocols in place. And so angry I couldn't think of a safer way to leave. But I am grateful to have these plans in place, and it's a stark reminder of why we have them right now. So everyone - gender irrelevant- set those things up, if only for someone's peace of mind even if it's not yours.

They only have to work once.

#women #safety

#lookoutforyourfriends

#Women #safety #lookoutforeachother

[seanthe1andonly]

Can't believe it's been just over a week since I had covid. Hopefully it stays away but, it is something we will all have to watch out for in the future. Look out for each other, stay safe and be careful out there! #covid #becarefuloutthere #staysafe #april #newnorm #lookoutforeachother #life #covidtests #friends #family #weymouth #dorset (at Weymouth, Dorset) https://www.instagram.com/p/CdG9SEKsigy/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#covid #becarefuloutthere #staysafe #april #newnorm #lookoutforeachother #life #covidtests #friends #family #weymouth #dorset

[jaby2018]

This is my famous ‘Fuck It Bucket’ 🪣 💜 😉 🤗 This is for and to all my friends and students and people I know and talk to regularly about all sorts of stuff 😉 - I’m all about visualisation so here it is in picture form 😉 - Have a great day ♥️ With all my 💜Jonny X #thenownow #gratitude #bepresentinthemoment #bepresent #presence #bekind #supportivefriends #lookoutforeachother 💜 (at London, United Kingdom) https://www.instagram.com/p/CU9j_HjIDOC/?utm_medium=tumblr

#thenownow #gratitude #bepresentinthemoment #bepresent #presence #bekind #supportivefriends #lookoutforeachother