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lightheartedsuggestion · 2 years

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I know it’s been years since I updated this account but I wanted to thank everyone who might see this because this blog brought me a lot of happiness and support in some dark moments. I also wanted to update everyone that, in January, I married my partner who I met on tumblr almost 7 years ago!! We love love!!!! Funny enough I recorded all the posts about him under #xx and I love to go back and look at our love story. Love y’all!!!

#xx #daniel #long distant couple #wedding #me #personal #love #relationship #ldr

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fulloff-hope · 4 months

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#photography #beauty #sun #sunrizing #madeiraisland #travel #love #long distant couple #long distance relationship

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thebrokensunset · 2 years

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I walked your fave restaurant yesterday. Your pretty face showed up in my head as i was passing. Tonight i went there, ate alone. I was still thinking about you and us. What the best memories we had x

#ex #ldr #adam lambert #love quotes #love #long distant relationship #quotes #long distance #life quotes #quoteoftheday #long distant love #long distance relationship quotes #music #long distant couple #broken heart

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samigrace1 · 2 years

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One Day

One day we won’t have to part different ways, one day we won’t have to hang up the phone and live separate lives. One day all our hard work will pay off. One day we will live a beautiful life together. One day…forever

#long distant couple #long distant love #long distant relationship #love #romance #falling in love #inlove #life

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kruthika-nyasa · 2 years

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There’s something about how I’ve written you hope more than anything in this world . and how I’ve let myself drown into this despair everytime you break .

And when you break , you break effortlessly . You tremble into this aura of agony like it's an art to create , and I can't help but stare . destruction never seemed this beautiful . I stare .

I stare and I wonder how you’ve made this very grief of yours , mine .

#long distant couple #feelings #love quotes #long distance #poetry #writer #writing #words #relatable quotes #book quotes #love #design #diary

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newrelationshipgoals · 2 months

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getting mad at your girl for expressing what upsets her is one of the worst things you could do in a relationship

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unforgetable-words · 9 months

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"I want someone to move mountains for me"

#love #relationship #i love you #love quotes #couple #quote #quoteoftheday #couple quote #depressing quotes #long distant relationship

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zemnarihah · 1 month

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my best friend has been very distant w me lately and i asked today if she wanted to hang out and she said she probably couldn't bc it's her brothers birthday but she would let me know if she could and i have her location and i just looked and she's at her boyfriends house rn....

#we have it bc we're roomates so we started sharing locations when we first moved in like in case someone doesn't come home at night or smth #she recently told me that she wants to move out bc she has always wanted to live alone and she can finally afford it. and i asked her #directly like is there an issue because she is so non confrontational so she has never ever mentioned me doing anything that bothers her #and i said please tell me if there's something wrong because it would really suck if there was and i never got a chance to fix it because #you never told me. and she said no it has nothing to do with that i really just feel like it's time for me to live on my own. and a couple #days ago she was like okay i'm next in line for my apartment i'll probably move out in april. and i try to get her to hang out still and #she always has something else going on and i swear every night this week she's been at her boyfriends.#and if i see her around our apartment and try to make conversation at all she's so like short about it and barely responds like will only #give one word answers. i feel like it kind of started when i started dating e but i realized that i was spending less time with her and i #didn't want to be the girl that loses all my friends bc of a boyfriend so i started specifically reaching out to hang out with her and she #says no most of the time and never asks me. like i don't know what else i can do.#i'm like maybe it's bc of her boyfriend? bc they've been on again off again for a long time and previously when they were together it was #really distant with her like i barely saw her EVER. and they were mostly broken up for the past couple years and have been together i think #for a while again... but she knows i don't approve of that relationship and so she would like not say when they were talking again. so maybe #since lately they've been hanging out or dating or WHATEVER she doesn't fucking tell me what's going on with him. maybe that's why.#i literally like try to think of ways it could be my fault and maybe i'm being crazy but i cannot even think to blame myself for more than a #fleeting second bc i'm like. i have ASKED HER directly if there is an issue or something i do that bothers her and she says no. so even if #i'm somehow pissing her off would i ever know to change anything?? i just feel so frustrated bc it's like she's an entirely different person #to me. like this is not the person i know. and i don't know what else i could possibly do like i feel like we need to sit down and have a #conversation about it but what good does that do if she just acts like nothing is wrong. but i don't want to lose my friend i have such a #hard time making friends. i've known her since i was 14 like i can't imagine my life without her. we were the only two in our whole friend #group in high school to get out of the church i still love those other girls but we have so little in common now.

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animutate · 6 months

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man i dontthink i can be in a real relationship ever again im just starting to process how everyone has treated me HORRIBLY

#and by everyone i mean. like 2 people. both of them were bad to me #godd i stayed with this one guy for like 4 years and he never even kissed me. but he was my first boyfriend so i just thought it was normal #he was so distant and i didnt even realize it. and then the second person came along right after he broke up with me and they #were super touchy super affectionate which i loved after being neglected for so long. but then they left me after a month.#and i never talk about it ever because i HATE talking about relationships it makes me feel like a loser.#''ohhh im so touch starved ive never felt truly loved'' what are you some kind of incel #and i need to sotp getting so attached to people who show me any kind of affection i cannot handle a relationship no matter how much i #think i want it. a friend kissed me a couple weeks and now its to the point shes been appearing in my dreams.#theyre really vivid too. i dont even know if i see her that way im not trying to process what my subconscious wants right now.#but its happened like 3 times now and i think it was because i ended up kissing her neck too. thats the main thing that happens in them.#it was so quick it didnt mean ANYTHING but my head wont let me forget about it. what the fuck ever man.#anyway. at least i can laugh about the fact the first guy broke up with me over amino

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thecryoftheseagulls · 1 year

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heard back from the surgeon's office and I officially have a date for July 2024 for top surgery!!

#the gull rambles #the turnaround on these things is so long my goodness #i scheduled my initial consult like a full year ago and finally met with the doctor in February #then had to wait a couple months while the insurance approval went through #but I'm just glad to have a date and a plan #at some point this will feel real to me instead of an exciting distant possibility lol #top surgery tag

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hjemne · 6 months

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I've been... Absolutely normal? After this breakup with the person that I really genuinely wanted to spend my life with.

It happened Friday night, I cried most of the night and a little on Saturday but then something just shifted and I've been like 99% fine and normally and happy since then? The only time the sadness has really hit me since has been thinking about how upset my (dying) grandma will be that she won't be able to know my partner. But otherwise? I got horrendously drunk on Saturday night, had tons of fun and was fine with a guy low-key flirting with me. Since I got thru the handover and sleepiness on Sunday I've been utterly normal, getting on with work, reading romance and enjoying it rather than being sad or jealous etc. The main stressor has been the number of deadlines I've had this week and trying to manage my parents' reaction and reassure them I'm fine.

It's not that I'm complaining I've not been truly and utterly crushed by the heartbreak, but I'm just weirded out by this reaction. I'm worried I'm bottling it all up and it'll explode later or that this is me sliding back into depression, but I'm still enjoying things and it doesn't feel like depression? Like have I actually reached that level of emotional maturity that I've dealt with everything (or most things) already?

He decided about a week ago that he didn't want to go through his early twenties having to factor someone else into his life plans. I understand it, I respect his decision, acknowledge that there's no use in trying to talk him out of it, appreciate the fact he told me as soon as he could in person so we ended the relationship still loving each other rather than growing apart and resentment building. I really can't stress how I've never loved or been loved by anyone like with him before and that he has been the most important person in my life for four years. Accepting that the life we were planning together has gone has seemed to happen so easily and it feels like something must therefore be wrong. It's helped that we haven't seen each other in person and haven't currently got plans to I guess because I think it's going to really hit when I can't be physically affectionate like before. But even with the distance I still just can't understand why I'm feeling so nothing about this. He brought up that he might want to break up in March and I cried far more than this. Have I been emotionally checked out of the relationship since then without realising? Am I just bottling stuff up without realising? I just wish I knew

#im very used to being alone #even during the relationship we were long distance for most of it and i was living by myself or with emotionally distant family #and last month i moved in with 3 friends and with uni starting I'm able to socialise more even though i still prefer to be alone a lot #so maybe its the fact that i dont feel so isolated that's helping?#even when we lived together i only really had my now ex around to turn to for friendship #also with university im so so overworked but it gives me structure #so im with friends and have a purpose #which is maybe whats holding me together #i think i did process a lot of this after we nearly broke up in march #i said to him months ago that I ultimately want him to be happy and if he decides that its not with me then ill hate it but accept it #i am also on a lot of adderall lmao #switched prescriptions today #anyway even if im slightly scared everything is going to explode out of me one day #i am still proud with how im handling this #i could have been so vindictive during the break up but i knew thatd only hurt him and that i dont want him to be upset #so i wasnt #there were a couple of times i said stuff that i could have left unsaid like how i had our anniversary card already written and in our desk #and i think part of me did want him to hurt at that but mostly because i wanted him to see how much i was? still petty I know #but also i think I'm allowed a bit of pettiness when im being dumped pretty much out of nowhere #idk man #its not bad necessarily its just weird #we said we'd talk on the weekend so the first convo post break up wouldnt become a Thing of who would blink first or whatever #and i want him to know im alright but i don't want it to seem like im bragging or that it means the relationship meant nothing to me #like hey I've lost the most precious thing we had together and actually it seems im fine without it #i really really hope hes feeling a similar way #our friend and my housemate went to visit him yesterday so hopefully hes let him know im coping fine so he doesnt have to feel guilty #i dont want him to be alone in a new house full of strangers and heartbroken #ive been telling our mutual friends to look after him and saying they really really really shouldnt take sides or anything in this #and i dont like thinking of him being sad and knowing there's absolutely nothing i can do rn to help other than giving him space #rambles

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fulloff-hope · 2 years

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#Ocean #madeiraisland #beauty #portugal #love #colors #sun #beach waves #blue sky #blueocean #long distant couple #couple #landscape #lifestyle

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solesbianithurts · 10 months

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So my butch leaves for her masters in September, thinking maybe we should go shopping for hoodies, wear them for the last 2 months and swap before she leaves, so it'll feel like we're still holding each other from across the sea

#long distance wlw #long distant love #wlw #wlw love #wlw concepts #long distance dating #long distance relationship #long distance couple #sapphic #butch #femme #butch femme

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hal-o-ween · 2 years

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Regularly scheduled reminder that I love humans, we are so wonderful and full of kindness and good

#thinking abt the old man i smiled at on campus one day who told me i have a wonderful smile and he hopes i keep on smiling #thinking abt the lady i helped at work one time who told me thank you so much! keep being wonderful!#thinking abt all the little kids and babies who wave at me and smile and giggle when i make faces for them #thinking about the lady who came into work one night and introduced herself to me and the guy in line behind her #and said ''isnt it so great being kind to eachother?''#and the old couple who saw my name and got so happy talking abt their grandkid with the same name #and all the people who respond to ''cute dog'' with you can pet them they're friendly! and excitedly talk about their dog #all the people with favorite dinosaurs (an animal that lived and died so long before humans were around!)#and all the people with favorite flowers and favorite birds and favorite pens and favorite spots on the couch #we are so good at finding love for the smallest and most distant things #and we love the stars and the planets and we love people who lived long before us and people who will live long after us #i just think it is so wonderful. we are so wonderful

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deaddaisybaby · 1 year

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Life is so short

Love is so pure

And despite the distance,