is it bad that every time I watch any romance movie/series I replace everyone w TD characters 😭 I mostly think abt duncney like idc if they don’t even go w the plot I’ll make it work 😻
If I see one more comment on a AO3 x Y/N fic referring to y/n as if they where a girland used she/her pronouns WHEN NO WHERE I IN THE FIC IS SHE HER USED TO REFER TO Y/N AND EVEN IN THE TAGS IT SAYS "NON-BINARY READER" OR "GENDERLESS READER" OR "READER USES THEY/ THEM" IT AM AMDNDNDNDBD
Sorry no it's fine you call them by whatever you want it's just that there's already PLEANTY of she/her girl reader inserts that it just peves me when people do this
Like it just urks me
Like I know it's fine and it really doesn't matter but I just don't like it :/
so when straight people ask me why I say I’m “queer” or “gay” instead of sharing my actual identity as a panromantic demisexual non-binary sapphic queer I just tell them “ok look, when you’re talking to someone who isn’t local and they ask you where you’re from and you either say the name of the largest city nearby or ‘town name, suburb of large nearby city’ so they can get some geographical context of where you’re located right, bc they’re probably not going to know the name of the little town you actually live in.”
but if you’re talking to a local you can say the name of your actual town bc they have a greater chance of knowing where/what that is.
ok well when I’m talking to a straight person I start with queer bc chances are they aren’t as familiar with the context of all the little towns in that big queer city and need gps (gay positioning system) to find me.
if I’m talking to another queer person and I say I live in a suburb of gay city in a town called panromantic on the demisexual side of the tracks which is in the county of queer and I live off the intersection of non-binary and sapphic, they’d probably be able to find me with little to no problems, make sense?
Yeah I looked on your website it’s made by the lyocell process, which means-
-wait for it-
It’s fucking rayon!!
Listen. There is a list of actual plant fibers that are directly made into fabric: cotton, linen, ramie, some hemp. I’m sure I’m missing a couple.
But if you’re wondering “huh how did they turn that plant material into fabric,” 99% of the time? It’s RAYON.
All rayon is made by putting plant material in chemical soup, dissolving out everything but the cellulose, and turning the cellulose into filaments/fibers.
The source of the cellulose has zero effect on the eventual fabric.
Rayon made from bamboo or eucalyptus or seaweed is not any better than rayon from any other sources.
i keep seeing this idea that Real wheelchair users all have custom active chairs, and that transport/standard chairs are just an embarrassing stereotype. “no one really uses those!” “stop drawing disabled characters in standard chairs!!”
well, plenty of us are a stereotype. sorry. custom chairs require MONEY and good medical support. meanwhile active chairs are unusable for some people. i used an uncomfy transport chair (the kind with tiny wheels and no way to self propel) for a year, and a standard chair for 7yrs. until i got my powerchair i was only ever pushed by a carer. a lot of disabled people will never use an active or custom chair. don’t pretend we don’t exist just because we don’t fit some cool independent ideal.
shoutout to people who use transport chairs and adaptive strollers and other chairs that need to be pushed by a carer
shoutout to people who use standard chairs that don’t fit their body
shoutout to people who use secondhand or makeshift wheelchairs
in my teens i literally felt invalid as a disabled person because i didnt have the ‘real actual’ type of wheelchair everyone talks about online. just my garbage transport chair that my mom had to push. but people with shitty wheelchairs exist and are extremely common actually
Tumblr could easily make a lot more money if it just stopped trying to be like Tik Tok or Twitter. Bitch, those platforms already exist, you're gaining nothing from trying to compete, you need to offer things they DON'T. Just listen to the userbase.
Bring NSFW back. It could even be a paid feature to make sure it's accessed by adults only and would also reduce the risk of pedo/zoo rings forming. You know how many fucking people would pay for that?? Lots. I would. And I'd never fucking touch Twitter again since NSFW is the only thing keeping me there. This website could also easily do yearly donations. If people actually felt like their requests were being heard they'd definitely donate to this stupid website. We love the way it's so different from others platforms, we're here because of it. Just look at AO3. It may have some blatant issues but it also has an incredibly loyal following because it serves its purpose right. Literally just stop being stupid, nobody wants new useless features and layouts, we just want the GOOD STUFF running smoothly.