#little tags edition: for those who have trauma surrounding christmas

[violexides]

hi hi my loves!!! 

for some of you, today is going to be a pretty shitty day-- for some of you, today is going to be really exciting!-- for some of you, you literally do not give less of a shit it is simply another day. 

no matter what your situation is, remember that you are loved!!! take care of yourself-- drink water, eat some food (though i know that’s hard in holiday settings, sometimes), and get some sleep! 

for people who are struggling with a difficult family situation, remember that you are deserving of being cared for and wanted, no matter what. even if, due to how some things unfold, that care isn’t coming from your family. someone will love you-- and not just one person, many. you’re so important.

and for those spending the holiday closeted, or having to hide their identity around their family-- i’m sorry, and i feel for you. your worth isn’t defined by what you identity as. you’re lovely no matter what.

and for those who don’t celebrate christmas-- or any upcoming holiday, as a matter of fact: i know the holidays always feels suffocating. but, just like every day in this year, today is just another. make sure to do something you enjoy today.

for those who are struggling with the Fucking Quarantine that is stealing your festivity time: yeah. shitty how things have unfolded. stay safe, and spend time with those who love in any way that you can. 

and for those that aren’t actually actively struggling atm: hell yeah!!! merry fucking christmas gamers, and happy holidays!!!

i know those don’t cover Every possible situation here, but. i wanted to say something. i love you all a lot, and if you’re having difficulties getting through today, i’ll be here. i literally have nothing planned for today so, my dms and asks are open. i love you! stay safe. ♡

#important #wintertime is always difficult i think #hits seasonal depression hard #hits the wintertime trauma hard #and. should have said this within the post but #little tags edition: for those who have trauma surrounding christmas #i'm really sorry. and i hope that tomorrow can be a reprieve #and i hope you can get through today as best you can #reach out to someone you trust and make yourself something warm to drink #snuggle up and read something or watch something #taking it minute by minute will make it feel like hell #but at the same time. sometimes you have to take this slowly y'know #just to get through it all. i care for you all so much #and i feel for you #you're going to be okay. i promise. #stay safe