#like yes i am thin so i dont necessarily deserve a voice in conversations like these but ugh

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Bea im really glad you agree w/ me bc when i talk to my irls abt this whole "fat kun" (ive even heard them say it to haechan) shtick, they say im reaching. But the thing is these boys are public figures and i honestly dont think they believe fat people are lesser, im sure they dont! But jokes like these are def harmful, and its rare to find someone who isnt fat acknowledge the harmful effects of fatphobia on the mental health of youth and people on general. Woke queen bea! Im glad u understand

Yes I totally get what you’re saying! Jokes about weight are so harmful. Like everyone has at least one comment someone said to them years ago on any aspect of their appearance that still haunts them and affects the way that they look at themselves. And I’m sure for people who have heard time and again jokes or purposefully harmful jabs about their weight experience a high level of discomfort in their physical appearance like dysmorphia which negatively impacts how they see themselves vs. how they actually look, and it’s awful.

My best friend growing up frequently had her dad tell her that she was fat. He ridiculed her for it and ended up bribing her to lose weight, which in the end probably was best for her, but I think he went about it in an entirely incorrect way. And also she was a kid and would have lost that weight when she started to grow out of her baby fat. I hated the way that he talked to her about her weight. I hate the way my grandma shits on her sister and brother-in-law for their weight and the way she talks to my cousin about hers. My other cousin has dealt with ED sort of, not that my grandma probably knows about that either. I’ve just paid attention over the years to the way that weight is such a factor in how people are viewed and how negatively it can impact a person’s view of themselves and their mental health as they tear themselves apart in an effort to please the rest of the world.

But anyone who needs this listen!! Be fat and happy! Who cares what other people think of you! I promise you that you’re beautiful no matter your weight!

#asks #im so tired of people being fatshamed #especially when theyre not fat!!!! #girls at work are like ugh im so fat look and blah and im like???? youre not fat?? sure theyre not like twiggy thin but i personally think #they look healthy or a little chubby but there’s nothing wrong with that!! its amazing #girls and women are too often made to feel like shit because of their bodies #like its not just girls either there are plenty of boys and men who are hit by this too of course like we’re saying with kun #but we are worth so much more than what men would make of our bodies #we are more than our bodies and the petty things that others poke at your appearance #like yes i am thin so i dont necessarily deserve a voice in conversations like these but ugh #i once wrote a paper for a class that was all about the issues of our society putting the pressure of weight and beauty on young girls #and at least one resource said rhat girls as young as 3 years old are developing EDs which is fucking insane and it only gets worse from #there and i could probably go off for a while but i’m going to cut myself off here