#just the ONE

[hairychestloversblog]

You can play with just one ☝️ 😊

#just the one #hairy male #furry #bearded hunk #gay hairy #hairy #chest #gay #cute #those eyes #mmm tasty #very hairy

[honeydewcorporation]

Brother walked into my room and handed me a Dorito (1). I am so lucky.

#chip #just the one #the one singular chip #Honeydew Corporation

[aadoppelganger]

Snufkin tax

#sphinx cat #dnd junk #orange cat #single brain cell #just the one #it’s a box

[i-count-words-in-posts]

f

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#counting words in posts #the count speaks #just the one

[moving-to-dreamwinged]

ok i need to eat maybe thats why i feel so sick😭😭😭 uwaaauhhh f/o save meeeeee

#.mei chats #just the one #🍁 is not included in this . i dont know him im not htinking about him right noew

[devotion-disorder]

The lewdest of all updates happened: you can hold their hands during consensual intercourse now

GASP.... there it is...the highest degree of lewdity

#ask #this is some serious endgame stuff guys #THE degree of lewdity perhaps #just the one

[heraldofcrow]

Ok, I’m just gonna say some things real quick.

Finding out that it truly was one anon harassing my friend Fantomette for literal weeks (and me, though you’d never know because I don’t acknowledge it, nor give a damn), AND finding some pretty solid evidence about who this person really is…

Just…my God.

It was obvious enough already, I guess, but now we essentially “confirmed” it, and I find it really draining to know this person just sits comfortably in the tumblr Bloodborne fandom and is really this callous and manipulative. We are dealing with the Logarius of this fandom, haha.

I’m genuinely angry, and that’s rare. I don’t care about petty dramas and squabbles in fandom. I don’t get involved. I really don’t care. That’s why I don’t respond to harassment. I moved passed my “internet drama addict” phase a long time ago. It’s just easier to breathe when you don’t bother with things you have no real control over. You deal with enough online bullies and go through enough abusive “cyber” relationships, and it eventually wakes you up to see the obvious. It’s just an endless cycle of immature behavior.

But just this once, and mainly because I feel the need to clear it up, I will explain something.

I am aware that there has been drama in this side of the Bloodborne fandom. I wasn’t there when it happened, but I caught up on it and observed. I know who was involved, and I know who basically “won” the favor of the broader public—if you can even call this diminished fandom that.

Here are my simple thoughts on it all.

I don’t consider it my problem or business. I don’t care.

To initially avoid conflict, I have reached out to people and had private conversations that some harassing anon would never know about. I have clarified and worked out some of the really important issues that people are concerned with. There are details and elements of this story that no one even knows except me, and you wouldn’t because even some of the people that were involved are no longer around.

From this gathering of insight, I have chosen who I trust and who I believe. I listened to both sides of the story. That was all I ever needed to do, and really all anyone would ever need to do in a situation like this.

Direct communication is so important. You never get anywhere complaining about someone to yourself or your friends. It takes some minerals, but going straight to a person and confronting them is actually the most powerful and effective thing you could do. God forbid you even sort out the problem without getting others involved.

For me, I did what I felt I needed to do and was able to feel confident in my choices about to approach a conflict-torn fan group.

And guess what? It doesn’t matter. It shouldn’t matter to anyone. Why? Because aside from this post, you will never see me address or engage in this debacle. My blog is a safe space for everyone, and I mean everyone. No matter your identity or your PROBLEMS. You can have serious issues and talk to me and be my friend. I don’t mind at all. You can also feel safe to be my friend if you have a specific background or identify a certain way. I will show only love and support. I don’t hold judgements against people in general. It isn’t my nature.

If you are a bully? Manipulative? Cruel? If you repeatedly promote something violent or extremely harmful on your blog? I may withdraw in quietude and not associate so much, but that’s for MY mental health. It’s also to protect the mental health of my friends. I won’t spread that type of rhetoric or hate. I won’t even speak about it.

I am a journalist. I deal with controversy and human depravity on a regular basis. It’s my bloody day job. It weighs me down. I get easily depressed by it. That’s personal.

That won’t effect you or anyone else on my blog, because I use this blog to engage strictly in fandom. You won’t see me post about anything else related to life beyond the realm of casual entertainment. No intercultural crises, no politics, no social commentary, no current events. This blog simply isn’t for that. It’s my break *from* those exact issues.

I need this, and I won’t have it ruined. Fandom drama be damned.

I don’t care even if I make some theory post and get condescending vague-posts clearly in response to it literally a day later. Go for it, kids! I’m gonna keep sharing my ideas, and I will not start debates over it. I’m too tired for that.

This is my nest, and it’s where I’m going to hang out. If who I choose to befriend and speak to upsets you, even if you don’t have the full story or you are judging my entire character/belief system based on that interaction, that’s fine. Block my blog. Forget about me. If it makes you feel safer, then do it.

I’m going to live my own life, and that does not include catering to the particular needs of strangers in online fandoms. Harsh maybe, but I’m sure you can handle that.

My mutuals and friends deserve this same level of freedom, respect, and security. So anon…or rather person that we know is watching us and acting as a peaceful neighbor in the same fandom…you have your first and only acknowledgement from me. Go away from us, and leave my friends alone. I promise you’ll breathe a bit easier if you forget us.

#byeeeee #this is the only post i’ll make like this #just to ensure my very basic stance on this recent madness #this blog is safe #i’ll make sure of that #you have nothing to be afraid of except for what you bring to the table #and recently it’s been all poison from these oddlings that clearly lurk around our blogs like obsessive cockroaches #or should i say #just the one #well now you know who you have been judging and bullying #it’s just me #a literal crow that is hopping around a weird fandom and making friends #what a grave sin #i will indeed never see the pearly gates #fandom #fandom nonsense #mutuals #CrowNotes

[ma-39]

anyone want to come touch my sweaty hand

#☆ new message ! #just the one

[repressed-n-depressed]

vibrating while waiting for Lies of P i wanna slash weird robbits as a lil twink android

#lies of p #hhhhhhhhhhh #brain worm #just the one

[skaizeu]

Robot dump #8:

(Left to right) Sideswipe, Sunstreaker, Helex, Dino Megazord, Shard, Magenous

#transformers #and #power rangers #just the one #photography #mine

[hairychestloversblog]

When he says you can have just “One” for now 😋

#just the one #for now #hairy male #gay hairy #furry #bearded hunk #chest #hairy #very hairy #gaybear #gay #tasty

[dastardlydaemon]

no chance. i'm coming for his head. I'm gonna put it on a spike.

#musings. #daemon answers aemond's if he dares comment #and the we have bigger dragons thing lol #just the one #that's all you have one bigger dragon not bigger dragon(s)

[turnipstewdios]

Six months on HRT update

After half a year of T, my one, single mustache hair is now long enough to touch my lower lip and get in my mouth.

#just the one #trans #transgender #hrt #nonbinary #genderqueer #literally just one hair

[that-thoughtful-waffle]

What. Is this an old thing, or is this the forbidden proof that so long as it stays under control, the algorithm might actually be somewhat ok.

For context, this post appeared on my following page because I am following @engineer-snom. It's a like. It's not a reblog. Yet it breached containment with 6 notes and appeared on my dash. It's not a "like engineer-snom" it's a "liked by engineer-snom." what.

#lowkey freaking out #also concerned #very very concerned #mildly overwhelmed #it means that you dont have to be reblogged to reach other people. #reblogs are almost certainly better bc I didnt see every liked post #just the one #but its still expanding interaction with just likes

[averagemrfox]

How tf did I lose a whole ass shoe

#just the one #not both shoes in the pair

[boredth]

I feel like I'm spamming u with asks but what program do u use😭

#photoshop #just the one #ask