#just say no cishets or smth

[cruelsister-moved2]

like we are on our nine billionth positivity post for cis men with beards and masculine trans men and feminine lesbians and bi people in m/f relationships and nb people who are comfortable passing as their agab etc.... do we need more? is straight people not being able to tell you're gay/trans really the biggest issue facing lgbt people right now?

there seems to be this undiminishable reservoir of care and sympathy for the very idea of having ur queerness slighted in any context. meanwhile people who never get the choice whether or not to hide it are routinely dehumanised, othered, and ignored. if the issues facing these groups do get discussed it's almost never with much concern for their feelings. invalidation and erasure may be one of the issues facing lgbt people and it deserves attention too but I really don't think you can claim at this point that it isn't getting its fair share already.

for what it's worth, even your hypothetical most flaming butch lesbian/fem gay man/androgynous nb person etc still meets people who assume they're cishet, who even actively refuse to acknowledge that they're not. the false equivalence between erasure and overt prejudice alleged exclusively by those who largely experience only the former is in fact erasing the reality of people who experience both

#I'm always thinking abt that one buzfeed article called like queer women share their struggles or smth #one was a butch lesbian talking abt how carefully she has to plan journeys #bc late night toilet stops or seedy motels are life and death for her #then there was a bi woman w a husband n kids #talking abt how one time she had to take her pride flag off her lawn (picket fence implied lol) #like... ofc that's sad I feel sad for her #but the lack of proportion is kind of on the nose lol #I don't have the right words but like something very fetishistic abt the gaze of other lgbt ppl towards 'visibly' lgbt people #and I use those terms loosely bc ppl r visible and invisible in different contexts #but if you've reached the stage of fantasising abt hypothetical microaggressions or straight up hate crimes that could happen to u #then u have gone too far #I just think a lot of the time it's more abt the fact that YOU don't feel 'valid' enough in yourself #ao you convince yourself other lgbt people existing or talking abt our issues is the problem #like if ur a bi girl n having a cishet bf makes u feel so lonely and insecure and 'not gay enough' at what point is that ur responsibility #to either accept urself or to be in relationships that make u feel better about urself #and not my responsibility to say ur having gay sex with jakey or wjayever

[thrilling-oneway]

tsukasa is a transguy in the same way apollo justice is a transguy but he's also the token cis for literally no reason other than it would be funny

#this is a 1am thought from a week ago i forgot to post so fuck it it's now an 8:42am post #tsukasa being implied canonically cishet is something that i find incredibly funny #because not to stereotype but say prsk was an american cartoon he would be the one that parents pick out as gay #but also him being cishet just is a believable thing that the prsk writers would do considering the amount of random stuff #that's canon about tsukasa. comedic relief character moment or smth #mine #project sekai #tenma tsukasa

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[transmasc-wizard]

im very tired of disabled people being forgotten to, you know, exist

#just saw smth like 'cishet white men dni from this video it's only for oppressed people' and like. obviously a cishet white disabled man #has a lot more privilege than say a cishet black disabled woman #or a trans disabled person #but like. they're still oppressed. on the basis of being DISABLED #nicola.txt

[doodlboy]

I hate having 2 put on my normalsona at work, just let me talk abt affectionate cannibalism :[[[

#this is /j but also /srs so #i cant explain why my sona is a zombie without sounding fuckign insane skrhdekfh #“the gender is stored in the zombie” said to a cishet person in their 60s will sound like im saying some fucking spell #sjdhekdhe #im tired #and i dont have [good] food 2 get today #a customer came in and caused me 2 be 10 mins late 2 lunch and i couldn't wait at the deli [across the store] for something warm 2 eat #so i dunno what 2 eat now. ill probably just get chips or smth #elliot rambles

[puppysdog]

i dont belong anywhere except dead

#.txt #i just wish i felt like i belonged somewhere #like anywhere at all #my own home doesnt feel like mine #this entire state wants me dead #any connections i make trickle down and fizz out and dont mean shit #i dont even feel like i belong in my own skin #this body is digusting and fake and i want to ruin it #anytime ive thought ive looked good was actually a lie #the real me is absolutely abhorrent and doesnt belong anywhere #i dont feel like i belong in yhe queer community #yeah im queer whatever but i dont belong #too other #too other for the cishets too other for other queers #wish i couldve just stayed a boy. or just a girl. wouldve been easier #i just cant keep doing this shit. i feel so alone and far from everything and everyone #im not saying mark was right but maybe he was onto smth when he said i was only good when being used #wow sad thought. gonna go sob my eyes out now. lol anyways

[chaoseraphim]

ngl i cant stand rgg fans on any platform other than tumblr. i have seen too much homophobia/transphobia/misogyny/racism/literally everything on twitter/tiktok/discord servers in this fanbase....

#i hope nobody sees this post i was just irritated and wanted to say smth #im so tired of cishet rgg fans man.

[squiremaximus]

it’s always a possibility the writers ARE going to try for some weird “romance” between john/makee (i won’t like it lol but that’s beside the point) but i just think it’s weird how people are trying to infer romance between john and literally Any woman he’s talked to. like i’ve seen people saying john/kai, john/makee, john and fucking cortana and i just want to know why it’s 2022 and people are still being heteronormative and acting like any man/woman talking automatically equals a romance happening. it’s annoying

#halo spoilers #i did not see the end of 1.06 as romantic but maybe i'm just not cishet enough #im just annoyed ksjnfk jfsdkfdjnfk i don't see people trying to say there's like. smth romantic between john/vannak which is Inchresting - #considering vannak clearly thinks highly of him #but a woman looks at john and it's ??? romantic??? #anyway. can we not do this <3 thank you #if this is bitchy i'm only Slightly sorry like i said i'm just not cishet enough to deal w this LMAO

[ajarofpickledtears]

NO PLEASE CISHET MALE FRIEND PLEASE DONT BE FLIRTING WITH ME GAWDDAMMIT

#cylas speaks #mate i am not flustered i am cringing and panicking and trying to play it off by joking aaaaaaaaa #why are cis men like this #why can i say casual i love you's to and call my non cishet male friends (+ all the not males lol) cute/pretty/handsome etc #but when i even just am supportive and try to make a cishet guy feel better about his appearance or smth things immediately go all flirty

[matoitech]

ive said it b4 there r a lot of gay ppl who r very conservative who think they cannot possibly be conservative bcuz they r gay like that automatically wipes away all the shit u grew up hearing n internalizing that u actually have to unlearn on ur own, and it shows rly hard w lots of things but rn talking abt how like common it is for ppl to think like harassing polyam ppl or whatever is justified and funny like honestly theres no excuse for u to be acting like this still as an adult u have opportunities to grow and do better as a person. at some point u need to take responsibility so ur not walking around acting like saying polyamorous ppl dont love their partners and ‘joking’ abt them dying from hiv or completely vile shit like that is a totally normal thing to think and say cuz it most defnitely is not you are just an evil fucking person

#i know im throwing in a Lot of dif things here w my examples like polyamory.. casual sex.. sw... theyre all dif things im not saying theyre #the same thing i AM saying tho conservative lgbt ppl tend to lump them together n target them all #some 2 dif extents than others cuz swphobia is a very real thing #but its insane 2 me 2 see like for ex lgbt ppl harassing ppl for liking threesomes or casual sex like im rly curious what u think is Bad #abt this and i think u actually need to sit down and think abt where thats coming from and who benefits from u believing that #and taking it out on other ppl who r minding their own fucking business #like yeah being lgbt and having unconventional relationships or being kinky or sometihng r not the same thing #but ur not fucking.. helping anyone by pretending like polyam ppl r all cishet homophobes so its ok 2 make fun of them or smth #ignoring that theres been connections between communities for a reason is just dumb

[mars-ipan]

i lovelovelove ambiguous but very clearly queer friendships

#i have a friend who is entirely cishet #but she called me her gf once and my heart went ‘:)!!!!!’ #we do not like each other romantically. but we flirt and are girlfriendfriends sometimes hope u understand #sidenote my dad is CONVINCED there’s something between august and i #like he is unshakably convinced there’s smth romantic going on btwn us even just like subconsciously #and i don’t know how to explain to him #that A.) we’re divorced for a bit of course he gets those vibes #and B.) we are queer youth and this is just how friendships go for us #ALL of my friendships are ‘i don’t plan on dating you but if you asked i’d say yes.’ that’s just how it GOES #and i love it. i’m addicted to the ambiguity #get ur straight friends to pretend to make out with you. pretend to make out with ur gay friends #be unsure of whether you’re dating someone or not. it’s wonderful #fuck it: we ball

[buck-yyyy]

why am i getting posts recommended to me that are against the usage of the word queer

please no.

#i of course don’t mind if someone is personally uncomfortable with the word #i’m never going to make someone call themselves queer OR call them queer as a descriptor if they’ve expressed their discomfort #or even if they’ve explicitly told me their identity and haven’t referred to themselves as queer #because queer is on a person to person basis. if you haven’t told me that’s what you want to be called then i won’t call you can smth at #won’t call you that* #but you can’t tell people not to use the word for themselves #just like you can’t tell someone not to use the word fag for themselves #because it’s //none of your fucking business// #if i feel that those words represent me and taking power back from people who use them to hurt me or people like me? #then let me use them- ON MYSELF. #and obviously- i’m not saying that cishet allo people should be using reclaimed slurs #i feel like that’s obvious but i don’t want my words to be misconstrued #just. stay out of other peoples business. there’s a damn reason they’re calling themselves that #just like there’s a reason you don’t want to be called that #establish boundaries with your own identifiers and leave other peoples ALONE #okay #rant over #anyways #slur discourse #f slur tw

[nico-the-overlord]

So funny when a classmate around me says shit like “furries are kinda weird ngl…I hope there aren’t any furries around that might get offended! 👀👀👀”

Meanwhile I’m standing here pretending not to know what a furry is when. well.

#like yeah I would say we are pretty weird #personally only get upset when they start saying stuff like ‘all furries want cat litter in school it’s so weird’ or smth #idk why this has also happened a couple times as well #as if we’re all in on being ‘normal’ and observing ‘others’ from the outside #but I’m not saying ANYTHING I really don’t need people on my ass about liking and liking to draw anthro animals #at least I feel like I can somewhat say this on here #oh and this has also happened to me but around family w/ queer identity #everyone pretending were all on the cishet boat and shit talking about queer identities #and again I just sit there like 🧍 #I know my identity and hobby your shit talking can be weird to you #and that’s fine but stop pretending like these people are rare and only exist online #and couldn’t be your friend. daughter. cousin. ect ect ect #nico rambles

[piplupod]

was using my dbt skills SOOOO well at the very end of dbt class today when one of the classmates and one of the group leaders/teachers (that I like and respect -_-) started talking about how good of a game the hogwarts game is 😭😭 just biting my tongue so hard as i got my coat on so fast to leave before I said anything and telling myself it isnt worth it

#MY GOD!!!! MY GOD!!! I LIKE THIS LEADER TOO AND I'M SOOOO FUCKING DISAPPOINTED W HER #literally how do ppl not SEE HOW FUCKING RACIST AND BIGOTED IT IS #i was so fucking tempted to say smth snarky abt like ''oh u like nazis and slavers then? cool cool cool'' #BUT I DIDNT. I HELD MYSELF BACK BY THE FUCKING SCRUFF OF MY NECK. #now i have to see this leader twice a week every week though and be normal to her. god. i hate this #like. okay sure its just a video game. but how do u not SEE the bigotry in it. its plain as day to me??? how do others not see it?? #ig shes a cishet gentile white lady so she doesnt know a lot of struggle but CMONNNN how do u not even HEAR abt the backlash?? #AND THE REVIEWS AND EVERYTHING FLOODING ABT HOW SHITTY AND BIGOTED THE GAME IS #like u have to be willfully ignorant i think. which rly fucking sucks and doesnt bode well for me being able to play nice w this person now #idk. pick and choose ur battles ig. but god. i feel sick fhfkdl that sucked so bad. not to mention the game itself was just bad apparently #like the gameplay isnt any good apparently. so. wtf. sigh. #im so fucking peeved fhfkld rly wish i just hadnt been there for the convo.however it does make a couple other convos make more sense though #like just the way she didnt rly seem to understand someones view on smth abt racism. like. oh. okay. makes sense now. ur just oblivious 👍 #anyways. dbt skills time to stop being upset abt this i fucking guess!!!! ARGH #pippen needs 2nd breakfast

[guideaus]

i just think if ur too obsessed with someone else's gender, sexuality, or whatever, or ur even just outright assuming things, u should just mind your own business

#personal #HES DODGING THE QUESTION!?!?! #ig i could be a contrarian and mention identity politics but uh. i also dont think u need to publicly disclose every thing to literal #strangers... #i just remember being on here (where theres more lgbt ppl than i interacted w irl) as a teen and seeing mutuals complain abt women they kne #putting their online relationship status w women even though they allegedly werent gay #and how ppl complain abt women kissing women even though theyre apparently not gay #lesbians needing to defend their sexuality if they casually say a man is attractive or even a fictional one #most of those examples were abt bisexual women lol but yeah. like well gee i wonder why theyre kissing women huh #but theyre soo fake. lying bitches. cant possibly be like you #idk i think its crazy. u want them to make a press statement or smth. mind ur own business #being online is so weird bc some people will still act like u arent enough somehow. while irl cishet ppl want u dead #whats w the mentality of suspecting. is the person acting like this truly for clout huh

[oryxcrafts]

People r so rude 2 mcyt and their fans and 4 what

Moral high ground? Babygirl,,,,,, no

#every time i see mcyt hate in fun silly polls its like #ur cringe 2 bby ur on tumblr play nice #people r especially mean 2 dsmp fans like #ur not superior 4 liking smth else thats just called difference in taste #its just how people r no need 2 be so mean over the internet #oh god when its not even a cishet white boy they say the mcyt is like #5 seconds on google its all u need #sorry i needed 2 says words