Love yourz will always be in my top 5 cole songs, like you genuinely have to love the things you have in your life, it doesn’t matter what you don’t have , but what you do have. You’re special and you’re important that message in itself set the standard.
"I contemplate if I should wait to hand over the crown and stick around for a bit longer, I got a strange type of hunger, the more I eat, the more it gets stronger"
This song explains 12H synastry to a T from the perspective of the house person. Now, there are many different feelings & thoughts that the house person can have. This pov is when the house person starts to let go of their fears & allow themselves to be loved, seen & heard.
She's Mine pt 1~ J.Cole
"You read me like a book, like I'm the Bible, you the reverend"
~Everyone is a book. Some maybe a pamphlet (for the shallow folks). In this case The house person is a closed & ancient book that you'd need to say an incantation for it to open. The planet person simply embodies the incantation. It's very easy for the planet person to read them like they've known them for years. The house person is shocked (& also scared) by this. The planet seems to be fluent in the house persons secret language.
"Yeah, I wanna tell the truth to you
I wanna talk about my days as a youth to you"
"Exposing you to all my demons and the reasons I'm this way
I would like to paint a picture, but it'll take more than a day"
~The house person naturally wants to open up to them. They want to tell them everything there is to know. The good, the bad, the ugly & the in-between. If you'll listen, they'll tell you their entire life story from the time they were conceived up until today. They want you to know everything there is to know about them. From the way they walk, talk, act & what it means if they wiggle their nose. Usually, the childhood would be an unforbidden subject but not for the planet person. As long as you're willing to listen, their willing to share. Even when you're not willing to listen they want to share.
"It would take more than some years to get all over all my fears
Preventing me from letting you see all of me perfectly clear
The same wall that's stopping me from letting go and shedding tears
From the lack of having father, and the passing of my peers"
~The first line would be representative of how it may take them a while to even open to the planet person. They may try & self-sabotage in the beginning & try to "hide" from them. They have a wall up from their fears & past betrayals. More importantly the relationship they have with their parents (esp the one that is represented by their 12H sign) plays a hugeeee part in the way they treat & act with planet. They go thru their own mental & emotional push & pull before giving it all to planet.
"While I'm too scared to expose myself
It turns out, you know me better than I know myself"
~They are always scared to show the real them to anyone due to the fears of what may happen. "Will i scare them off?". "What if it doesn't work & i have to start over again?"... holds them back at times (most times). But the planet person has already caught many glimpses of these parts & it's usually what they love the most about them, yet the house is unaware. The planet person helps house to realize things about themselves they never knew & to bring back out the side in them that got suppressed.
There will be a whole chapter dedicated to breaking down songs from allll the pov's so stay tuned!