#itsoknottobeok | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

verademialove · 6 months

Text

“People are all hypocrites. We all live with a lot of hatred but act like that's not the case.”

It's Okay to Not Be Okay (2020)

73 notes · View notes

mxxnlightsblog · 2 years

Text

You've become so damaged that when someone wants to give you what you deserve, you have no idea how to respond.

#life quotes #relatable quotes #quotes #motivational quotes #loveyourself #positive thoughts #inspirational quotes #english literature #love #poems and quotes #deep thoughts #wordsofwisdom #wordstoliveby #book quotes #booklover #dead poets society #positive mental attitude #itsoknottobeok

1K notes · View notes

beautiful-writings · 8 months

Text

I miss you so much friend

Losing a friend to suicide is an indescribable tragedy that leaves a lasting impact on all those left behind. The profound pain and sorrow that accompanies such a loss is unmatched, as it not only shatters the bond shared with the departed friend but also raises countless questions about life, mental health, and the struggles one may face without our knowledge.

When a friend decides to take their own life, it is often difficult to comprehend the reasoning behind such a desperate act. We are left grappling with our own guilt, questioning whether there was something we could have done to prevent it. We wonder about the signs we may have missed, the conversations left unsaid, and the support we could have offered. It is a heavy burden to carry, blaming ourselves for something that was beyond our control.

The grief that follows the loss of a friend to suicide is complex and multifaceted. We are overwhelmed with a range of emotions, from shock and disbelief to anger and confusion. In addition to the usual process of mourning, we also experience a unique sense of guilt, wondering if we could have done more to help, blaming ourselves for not sensing the depth of their pain. We question if our friendship was enough, if we failed to offer the support and understanding they needed during their darkest moments.

In our attempt to make sense of their actions, we may also find ourselves reflecting on the fragility of human life and the struggles each individual faces, sometimes hidden beneath a façade of normalcy. We become aware of the importance of mental health and the necessity of open conversations surrounding it. Losing a friend to suicide serves as a stark reminder of the invisible battles many people fight, and it compels us to reach out, offer our support, and break the stigma surrounding seeking help for mental health issues.

As time passes, the pain of losing a friend to suicide does not fade entirely, but it transforms. We remember the joyful moments shared, the laughter, and the experiences that brought us together. We continue to cherish their memory and honor their life by advocating for mental health awareness, and by being there for others who may be struggling.

In conclusion, losing a friend to suicide is an unimaginable loss that leaves an everlasting impact on us. The immense pain and guilt that often accompany such a tragic event can be overwhelming. However, through reflection and understanding, we can work towards commemorating our lost friend's life, raising awareness about mental health, and connecting with others who may need our support. Together, we can strive to prevent further loss and build a more compassionate and understanding society.

-SM

#mentalheathawareness #suicide #coping with grief #grief and healing #writing #writers and poets #griefandloss #i miss you #it gets easier #hope #tw depressing stuff #anxienty #itsoknottobeok

70 notes · View notes

positivelypresent · 14 days

Text

#it’s ok to not be okay #itsoknottobeok #it’s okay #self love #quotes #positivelypresent #inspirational quotes #love yourself

12 notes · View notes

letstalkbeautyuk · 1 year

Text

🧠 💛 Neurodiversity is BEAUTIFUL Badges 🌈 We love making positive mental health & well being badges. We have a great selection in the shop

27 notes · View notes

fly-care · 1 year

Text

You are worthy!

#self love #self care #healingjourney #self healing #loveyourself #self compassion #love #i am worthy #worth it #confidence #worthy #you are worthy #itsoknottobeok #its ok <3 #it will be okay #worthy thoughts #positive thoughts #self comfort

19 notes · View notes

truecampbell · 1 year

Text

No explanation needed. Do you relate?

#mentalillness #mental health #ptsd recovery #selfcare #adultchildren #alanon #emdr #ptsdsurvivor #recoverywarrior #thereishope #itsoknottobeok #ptsdsupport #complexptsd #childabuse

20 notes · View notes

smoothlikedynamitearmy · 1 year

Text

Quick reminder Army or to anyone who so happens to stumble upon this post: it’s ok to be sad, lonely, anxious and depressed. But it’s not ok to go through it alone, if you’re uncomfortable reaching out to a friend, maybe a stranger would be better. Either way I’m here for anyone if they need a chat, look after yourselves 💜 I want you all to know that you are all loved and appreciated Please don’t suffer in silence❤️

6 notes · View notes

theurge2writesomething · 6 months

Text

I guess I should stop thinking that.

#realisation #writers on tumblr #itsoknottobeok

3 notes · View notes

itsgiving00sbritney · 9 months

Text

I love you, because you allow me to fail, you allow me to learn from it. You almost obligate me to fall, to stumble as long as I dont break my self into pieces, you cherish those moments.

Thank you for allowing me to fail as many times I want, and thank you for being proud of my victories because all my life, and in some aspects still, I am not allowed to fail and im treated like garbage for it.

Failing shouldn’t be something taken so personal, in fact is something natural that every single human happens to do and live more than a thousand times. That is something hard to understand, at least for me, all my childhood the closest ones to me would do nothing but underestimate anything I did as an innocent 7 year old; ever since those moments, even falling down the stairs, or even committing a small mistake on a test, I felt like i wanted to die, i thought i was the dumbest girl on earth and it would be such a shaming situation to go through.

If I could, i would thank you so much for showing and teaching me how to fall down and get up like its nothing, i would thank you for letting me know that falling is a win, that doing things the wrong way is for the best.

#honey #britney young #i love you #falling for him #mistakes #itsoknottobeok #poetry #reading #poems on tumblr #escritos #teacher attachment #daddy issues #mommy issues #jessica alba

2 notes · View notes

headspaceinanutshell · 10 months

Text

New life by the sea

Since my last post, I have now picked up my life and moved it to the North Wales Coast. Back in with my parents, left my old rented houses behind and all my belongings are now in storage. I moved back in November, at first it was a wild rush in finding a job after my surgery. I did countless interviews and got a few rejection letters but I finally got offered a administration position with a local authority. It was a totally different career move but the flexibility of working from home and building up time off was worth it.

Then we reach December. What a month. Everyone was excited for the run up to Christmas. I was looking forward to a Christmas surrounded by my family after last years Christmas alone. However, everything reminded me of him. From decorations, to music, to seeing gifts that I knew he would have liked. It was so hard. It got to a point where I couldn’t hold back the tears from my eyes. I eventually went to see the doctor, they put me back on my meds and I started that dreaded process yet again. I held on and pushed through though. I am proud of myself for sticking to my guns even if there was some weaker moments.

As we moved into the new year from the sadness that was Christmas, things started to feel a lot better. I focused on work, making new friends around here and totally not thinking about having any relationships. By doing so, I ended up being away from home every weekend meeting up with various friends for drinks, gatherings etc. It kept my mind busy and I always had something to look forward to. I spent most of my life on trains.

By the end of April, I sat and reflected on everything. Where my life has ended up now. Why was I holding onto him still?

I took the leap and made that jump to file for divorce…

A whole year and 4 months of reflection and thinking, maybe a part of me was hoping that I could forgive what he did to me. I really had to look at myself in the mirror to find out that I will always love him dearly but I am no longer in love with him anymore. Even saying that out loud still hurts, he was my best friend, my everything. I devoted my whole life to him during our relationship and marriage. It was time to let go, I was only hurting both of us by dragging this out.

I picked up the phone and had that difficult conversation with him. We came to an agreement that it had to be done for both of our sakes. I will never stop loving him as a person and I only want the absolute best for that man but would I have ever seen past what he did to me.

Jump to today and now I’m starting to see a lot clearer. I’m working on building up my confidence and pushing myself out there. I’m still spending time with friends and making the most of any free time I have. I went on my first date only 2 weeks ago. Safe to say, that was an experience. It didn’t work out but that’s ok, it was totally impractical with us being in different points in our lives.

It was a big step and now I’m trying to let my guard down by talking to someone new. I will always worry that I will face further disappointment in life as I find that I just care a little bit to hard. But a relationship is not the be all and end all. I would just love to meet someone who shares interests, holds good conversations, and has a good heart. It’s not much to ask for… right?

#divorce #freshstart #seaside #dating #itsoknottobeok #bestrong

2 notes · View notes

verademialove · 11 months

Text

~It's Okay To Not Be Okay 🩷

4 notes · View notes

txpink7777 · 2 years

Text

My unhealthy defense mechanism is to shut down and stop talking if I feel like I'm being misunderstood or disrespected. I will either snap or disconnect altogether. I don't like repeating myself and I don't like feeling like l'm not being heard.

#truth quotes #feelings #deep thoughts #self worth #depression #itsoknottobeok #love me or hate me

8 notes · View notes

itzmeltv · 1 year

Text

Hello beautiful people, happy Sunday! 🫶🏽✨ . Take this time to relax and focus on YOU.

#mental health #sunday #self care #itsoknottobeok

3 notes · View notes

timundoil · 2 years

Text

:/

realizing I'm literally never going to get what I want with my life im not as sad as I thought I would be.

#life suuuuucks #relization #itsoknottobeok #its ok its ok

9 notes · View notes

wonderlandentertainmentllc · 1 year

Text

#daily affirmations #sunshyne #itsoknottobeok #loveyourself #loveoneanother

2 notes · View notes