#it's so unfair man

[inkskinned]

he says i hate everyone except you and that is addictive and that is kind of romantic and beautiful because you're young and you're kind of a sarcastic asshole too and you don't like bad boys, per say, but you don't really like good ones either. and you like that you were the exception, it felt like winning.

except life is not a romance book, and he was kind of being honest. he doesn't learn to be nice to your friends. he only tolerates your family. you have to beg him to come with you to birthday parties, he complains the whole time. you want to go on a date but - people are often there, wherever you're going. he's just so angry. about everything, is the thing. in the romance book, doesn't he eventually soften? can't you teach him, through your own sense of whimsy and comfort?

at first - you know introverts often need smaller friend groups, and honestly, you're fine staying at home too. you like the small, tidy life you occupy. you're not going to punish him for his personality type.

except: he really does hate everyone but you. which means he doesn't get along with his therapist. which means he has no one to talk to except for you. which means you take care of him constantly, since he otherwise has no one. which means you sometimes have to apologize for him. which means he keeps you home from seeing your friends because he hates them. you're the single exception.

about a decade from this experience, you'll type into google: how to know if a relationship is codependent.

he wraps an arm around you. i hate everyone except you. these days, you're learning what he's actually confessing is i have very little practice being kind.

#i used to think it was romantic too and then i was like. now i see it as a HUGE red flag #writeblr #it is also almost EXCLUSIVELY said by immature ppl who think this is normal #fyi even if u think it's funny and ur like 'im an introvert it's just TRUE' like. you need therapy (ily tho) #healed introversion is just ''i would prefer to be by myself'' not ''i hate every person'' ... hate is not normal. that is not healthy #im sorry. i know it feels accurate. but if you're walking around with that kind of rage.... #1. you're making a LOT of assumptions about every single person u have ever met. which is often unfair and unkind #and also usually involves judging people based on their worst moments or little mistakes #2. you are being unfair to the person who is ur ''exception'' #3. there is a VAST difference between ''ur my favorite person'' and ''the ONLY person i like.'' #idk i think this is just a personal bias thing tbh #im sure there are people who have this experience normally #but i have YET to find a man who thinks like this and ISNT absolute DOGSHIT. although tbh.... like. im sure he exists #when u hit like 30 some of the things that were once kind of hot now just sound fucking exhausting. like ''im in a band'' #edit in the tags: i used to kind of be like this too. but the thing is that like. my life became so much more peaceful #once i started believing that people are generally good. like yes i am mad at the world at large #but it's just.... a very hard way to live. you're not a bad person or wrong for the ways other people hurt you and taught you to be angry. #but that anger will continue to hurt YOU. it will punish YOU. it will prevent YOU from making new deep connections. it will protect you yes #but it will also cause MASSIVE blowback. bc if you lose the One Person... your life will fall apart. i know this personally. #i really recommend just trying to be... cautiously optimistic instead. like. yes #people can be horrible and cruel and there are some communities (incels for example) that aren't worth that optimism #but i think like... most people will hold a door for you . most people want to help you find your wallet . #i hope one day you are able to find peace. i hope that rage eventually smooths over. i know how hard it is PERSONALLY #and i know what must have happened to you. and im deeply deeply sorry we share the same wound. #but i promise - sometimes we all need someone else to help us carry the weight. eventually the rage has to die so that we can let help in #i had to spend years biting at outstretched hands. i still often do. im still very wary . and my heart breaks that you flinch too. #here's the thing: i don't blame you. but we were both acting out of fear and pain. .... not out of healthy behavior. and ... change #was needed. i needed change too. rage was useful for a while. then it just left me isolated and bitter. i had to (with effort) #choose to let that rage go. and let people in . VERY SLOWLY THO LOL

[shittysawtraps]

local teen copycat killer starts trapping people so john tracks her down but instead of trapping her he has a long conversation with her about the stresses in her life and how to better cope with them

#saw franchise #shitty saw traps #mod amanda #her: idk it’s just that school is so stressful and nobody treats me well there #john who’s trying so hard to be a good influence to balance out all his murders: have you considered that the world is unfair #and any power that you want you have to take #her: what the fuck man

[redysetdare]

A character looks straight into the camera and says "I'm not interested in romance" and people will still say "No, it's not confirmed they're aromantic!!!" "They could change their mind!!!" "it's a challenge for them to overcome!!!" "They'll have character development that makes them fall in love"

It's like they are given the most blatant answer to a character romantic orientation and they actively ignore it. all the while all it takes is subtext for people to speak as if it is fact for a character to be any other sexuality.

#text #yes I'm calling out the hypocrisy within queer readings of a text and how often people dont see aromanticism as queer #and thus they will hear a blatant omission that a character is aromantic and still say it is not enough #mean while a character saying 'im not interested in the opposite gender' is rightfully taken as the character being queer #the queer community hates aspec characters because they don't match their perfect idea of sex sex relationships as being peak queerness #aphobia #aro #aromantic #aspec #aroace #im sorry but n oit isn't a difference of opinion if you blatantly ignore a character outright saying 'im not into this' #like y'all complain abt ppl turning gay ppl straight but will defend ppl erasing aro identities all the time #fandoms will throw a fit if you ship gay characters in straight relationships but ppl shit aro characters and we r told to shut up #im so fucking tired of this bs #I will keep complaining and keep calling this shit out #until it is drilled into ur skulls that you are being APHOBIC becaue WHAT? You want to REALLLLLY SHIP a character? #Because you'll die if you dont??? #fuck man just say you hate aspec ppl and move on #it's easier than dealing with your 'im not aphobic ur being unfair i supposed aspec people really' bs

[notemaker]

The ringmaster and the amphitheater. The chessboard and the player. Round and round they go.

#THE SILLIES. but also they have DEPTH. Which is INTERESTING #The circus man and the circus tent #theyre the circus duo #two ass CLOWNS is what they are #I find their dynamic very compelling. Its like #Lucifer is the devil from the BIBLE. yet Alastor gets offended by the unfairness of their power dynamic #MY MAN YOU WERE A RADIO HOST WHEN YOU WERE ALIVE #WHEN DID YOUR BAR GET TO THE FUCKING CEILING #Anyways. theyre fun. they have some fun things in common but theyd never admit to it. theyd be the friend to go bitch about someone #also im all for a qpr with these two #theyre so funny. imagine them as roomates #my art #art post #hazbin hotel #alastor #hazbin hotel lucifer #lucifer morningstar #I wonder if somewhere down in hell the actual lucifer is looking up at us judgementally #i wonder what would happen if I showed a priest from thousands years ago this content and go: yeah this is how the bible looks now #doodles #radioapple #appleradio #duckiedeer #hazbin alastor #hazbin lucifer #hazbin art #hazbin hotel fanart #hazbin hotel fandom #hazbinhotel #hazbin hotel alastor

[miinsang]

YEOSANG | LIMITLESS JACKET SHOOT

#ateez #yeosang #kang yeosang #ateezedit #lunanuggets #ateezgif #ateezgifs #buzzgifs #tw flashing #MINE MINE MINE #i was glaring while making these bc #how could one man be this gorgeous why is life so unfair

[thefrogdalorian]

Din Djarin + Chapter 2: The Child

#din djarin #pedro pascal #the mandalorian #star wars #swedit #tin can man you are stunning from EVERY ANGLE how is that possible #also the guy jumping reflected in the helmet i'm creasing #my edits #din edits #my gifs #gifs #din #he's so pretty:((( unfair

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

Broken Roofs and Fixed Perspectives

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#poorly drawn mdzs #mdzs #xue yang #xiao xingchen #Lots of cut content notes on this one. Lets all have a moment of silence for all the cut A-Qing's in each perspective. #particularly ripped and buff 'Daozhang Defender 'A-Qing (her perspective) #funny but poor layout #XY also had a red arrow pointed at him in his own POV that said 'just troubled' but it made the panel too cluttered. #He does see himself as troubled and uses that to justify his actions #but I also think there is room for him to not really know exactly how to feel about himself in this situation #Yi-city is such a fantastic tragedy for so many reasons and you will bear witness to me rambling about it in the tags as this arc continues #Helping a blind man fix a roof? A manipulative act of building trust or genuine display of wanting to collaberate? #XY and A-qing have experience of the cruelty of the world where as xxc has blind (haha) faith that kindness prevails #These three simultaneous know each other more than the other's think and *yet* completely miss the mark. #the stories they tell in the blizzard (and the reactions they have) so perfectly display who these characters are #Both xxc and xy tell stories about unfair cruelty. To xxc it is others who's suffering is highlighted. XY highlight's his own. #A-qing understands xue yang more that she wants to admit. She predicts the twists in xy's story and empathizes with the hurt and anger #A-qing is also taking advantage of xxc! She is also lying to survive! #Though shes mostly benign in her intentions. She really did vibe check the rank stank on XY's soul on the spot #Alas...no one listens to teen girls....

[thelastharbinger]

*I’m sighing*

*takes a long, deep breath* So yeah this is Tenoch excitedly squealing “It’s today!” with flailing arms and I’m doing totally fine, thanks for asking.

#JOSÉ TENOCH HUERTA MEJÍA YOU ARE A FULL PACKAGE OF A MAN I WANT TO SCREAM #HOW CAN YOU DO THIS TO ME? HOW CAN YOU BE SO BABYGIRL AND HAVE THOSE INTENSE EYES ALL AT THE SAME TIME? #HOW DO YOU MAKE IT THIS UNFAIR FOR OTHER MEN??? WHAT THE FUCK? #tenoch i am throwing pebbles at your bedroom window with a guitarra ready and rose in mouth #i want to scoop him up and carry him away with me #IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK? #tenoch huerta #mcu namor #namor #namor the sub mariner #mcu #marvel #tenoch huerta mejia #black panther #wakanda forever #bpwf #why so cute #why so smol

[ithinkitwasvodka]

why does everyone keep forgetting these two when they literally invented the biggest inside joke of the riordanverse

#thats just so dam unfair man #grover underwood #thalia grace #pjo hoo #percy jackson #riordanverse #ok bye

[kiki-1109]

i wanted to draw what we should've had (genshin when will you make a real catboy)

#fanart #genshin impact #lyney #this was just an excuse to practice rendering different textures tbh #but fr tho i need a catboy on genshin why is there only catgirls this is so unfair #love my catgirls tho don't get me wrong #diona's father doesn't count as a catboy btw that's a whole cat man

[hooned]

big jay gifs because... Yes

#enhypen #enhypenet #*jelly's #jay #park jongseong #dude is so handsome it's unfair at this point #i mean LOOK AT THAT FACE #that is a Face #face economy as the children say #when he looked down after smiling ?? can he stop ?? #blushing hard over a man's smile UGH jelly get up #also me: but the trenches look so good 🥹 [clutches jongseong's picture]

[sjonni33]

✨🍀 april shop update!! 🍀✨ new stickers, prints, and postcards!! (⁠人⁠*⁠´⁠∀⁠｀⁠)⁠｡⁠*ﾟ⁠+ visit my shop here💐

#sjonnies shop #viks shop #sticker shop #small art shop #fanart #artists on tumblr #old man yaoi #hannigram #destiel #im really sad i didn't have the keychains in time 😭😭😭😭😭 #soso so unfair that my manu lost them!!!!!!! #hopefully they arrive by may!!!!! which!!!! 👀👀👀 i think you should keep your eyes open for hehehehehe #really hoping i wont have another flop month😭

[whaliiwatching]

different anon than the other one but I think when Hobie first took HIS mask off in front of Noir, Noir was also blue screening but trying to act like he wasn't because Hobie is like the prettiest guy and he does it every day and Noir didn't want to make an ass of himself in front of such a looker🙏🙏🙏all hail the people who designed Hobie

all anybody knows about when noir first saw hobie with his mask off is that nobody could get him to move or speak for fifteen minutes

#spider man: across the spider verse #spider punk #spider noir #hobie brown #noirpunk #their love language is staring intently at each other. unsmiling. for hours. #its very unnerving <3 #doesnt hurt that theyre both easy on the eyes ;) #hobie so damn pretty its unfair #anon ur right and u should say it #noir stood there staring at hobie and hobie’s like. m8 u ok??? #noir just cannot look away #if he hadn’t been wearing his mask it’d be written all over his face

[veronicathegoddess]

it is an absolute crime that someone does not have me bouncing on their cock rn

#like im so pretty and desperate #and im not sitting on some mean mans lap #while he holds my hips and guides the way i ride him #UNFAIR #it is unfair #and the universe will pay #mine #gender neutral

[cupcakeinat0r]

The feminine urge to come home tired from class into the arms of Dad Bod! Miguel n lay my head on his soft tummy while we watch movies.

#WAAAHHH #Life is so unfair #I deserve this #miguel o'hara #miguel o’hara x reader #miguel o’hara fanfiction #across the spiderverse #ATSV #atsv miguel #miguel o’hara drabble #miguel o’hara one shot #miguel o’hara headcanon #miguel ohara #miguel o’hara x y/n #miguel o’hara smut #dad bod!miguel #dbf!miguel #spider man 2099 #spider man 2099 x reader

[skitskatdacat63]

2023 Brazilian Grand Prix - Sprint - Fernando Alonso

#yknow i thought maybe id get immune to his insane level of attractiveness from this weekend after posting so much #but these had me going: 'WHAT THE FUCCCCKKKKKK' super hoarse LMAO #im so confused at him. he was very cute and angelic in the earlier interview and now he looks like this???? unfair. #theres something about a man trapped by the sleeves of his racesuit.... #okay anyways this should be my last work of the day actually #i have to go do a school thing so i shant be online...probably #BUT AH NO SERIOUSLY ITS BEEN SSO FUN YESTERDAY AND TODAY!!! #like it really is a reward after suffering thru all his races since zandvoort basically #but mostly cota and mexico killed me but this wknd has reminded me how fun racing and f1 can be #thank you everyone for being so fun hehehe #fernando alonso #f1 #formula 1 #2023 brazilian gp #we do a little bit of f1