#it makes my brain go ILL KISS YOU BETTER❤

[holdmyhopeinyourhands]

Hey, I hope you don’t mind me messaging you. I just need some reassurance and comfort.

I’ve just left my job and I wrote all the colleagues I liked a goodbye card. Very generic bye thanks for your help keep in touch.

A man I work with called me and said his wife didn’t like that I’d done that and is no longer going to speak to me.

I know it’s not my fault, but I just feel like it’s been grating on me and my brain is trying to make me believe it is my fault. How do I turn my brain off?

I’m also quite ill and it’s just been horrible stress and anxiety on top of this.

I’m sorry for the ramble.

Oh sweetheart. First let me just send you a giant fluffy hug. Second, you're so sweet for writing all your colleagues letters like damn if one of my coworkers did that I wouls 100% be all emotional. Lastly, thinking of things this way, you wrote so many of your formee colleagues letters and only 1 of them told you their wife didn't like it. So how is that your fault? Other people's reactions are not your concern, only your own are and your actions were lovely and sweet and beautiful and if that coworker no longer talks to you well, that's his loss now isn't it. Everyone else appreciated your letters very much and you should focus on that because you deserve to know that you are respected and liked by those who matters.

And I want to wish you good health hon. Feel better soon. Take care of yourselves. Don't let the small people bother you and know that a stranger like me is wishing you all the happiness in the world because you deserve it. Kisses darling. Lots of love❤❤❤

#ask #anon #chin up babe