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#it is okay
comfortfrogblog · 9 months
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setbacks do not mean you have lost all of your progress. it is part of the healing process to go through ups and downs. as hard as it is, it will never be straight sailing—but the wonderful thing is that’s why we have other people to walk through it all with. it is okay (preferred, even) to lean on someone you trust when you are hurting or when you feel like you’ve failed yourself.
healing does not mean you will never experience that hurt again. healing means learning to cope and strengthen yourself for the hurt you know will come. healing means finding the courage to endure it. healing means asking for help when you need it and learning to even know when you need that help. healing does not mean just surviving—it means learning to live, too.
you haven’t failed. you are growing. it is okay to start again with the knowledge that you’ve acquired in your setbacks, so that each time you do start again, you make it further and further until eventually, those setbacks are so few and far in between that they are no longer your default state.
your hurting won’t always be your default state.
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redspleen · 9 months
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wanted to do some klaasje art 🕺 so here she is!!!
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aro-culture-is · 1 year
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Aro culture is seeing the baby aros whose misery stems from their aromanticism and wanting to reach out and wrap all them in a big, verbal hug of reassurance that not feeling something isn't the end of the world and we all find our own happiness in time whether we partner up or not
yes!
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rt3nenbaum · 1 year
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lance stole nando's ass guys😔
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fern-the-snail · 1 month
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I think if we saw more of Vaggie dancing due to Carmillas adoption, that would be great
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daydreaming-dreamers · 3 months
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I can not keep compromising my mental health for everyone else. I can not help everyone and that is okay. I have to take care of me so I can actually be useful and happy.
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Wheres that post about Lo’ak and Spider rapping in Na’vi to Jake cause I just figured out what the song is, it’s Rocketeer by Far East Movement.
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nellysview · 11 months
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TW:sh
It's funny to see how distant I am rn. I wonder why..
I mean outside I look the same and I do the same things: I laugh, I do funny moves and I pretend to be fine but you know what I am not.
A friend found out about my scars and she ask me why I did it. She was crying. I could hear it in her voice. I was so scared. And now it feels like every time I joke about stuff like that she gives me this terrified lock. And tbh I can’t deal with that. I am so scared that she want to yk see them to check I didn’t do it again. Idk maybe it stupid but I didn’t ask her to care about me even though I love her.
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patchyourbrokenwings · 2 months
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I truly believe that if my parents had told me growing up that it was okay to make mistakes and that it was okay to mess up, I wouldn't have been so anxious all the time now. So parents, please start telling your kids that it is okay to make mistakes (trust me, they need to hear you say this!!!!)
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People been upset that Andor season 2 might not air 2024.
That's fine to me. I can wait, but only if it is good. I don't mind waiting shows longer if they are only making them better. Quality, not quantity.
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willbyersapologist · 2 years
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I wish I could just hug Will and tell him that boys do cry. boys cry and that’s okay. tell Mike you love him, Will. do not hide the tears in your eyes and do not cover it all up with lies because it’s okay to feel sad. it’s okay to love Mike and it is okay to want to just cry and sob and scream. after everything you’ve been through you deserve nothing more than the right to your own emotions. life sucks, but it must’ve suck just a little bit harder for a traumatised closeted gay kid in the 80s.
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bymcr · 5 months
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let’s get this bread - i’m choking back vomit
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pinnacle-pixel · 11 months
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Don't know if anyone wants to hear this but
It is okay to be confused in life that will push you to make a move and learn something new.
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maiiiiiiee · 6 months
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I don't know who needs to hear this but
It's fine, It is alright to fail, IT IS OKAY.
Don't overthink it, You failed and that's okay.
Buckle up for next time
<3
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bookwyrminspiration · 2 years
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i love tam song so so so so much. he’s so character. the most ever. hope that helps that’s all <3
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