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[heroesriseandfall]

Fanon mischaracterization of the Drakes is how I end up making a post defending Tim’s parents from baseless fanon bashing only to immediately after make a post complaining about their canon parenting.

#they’re pretty terrible parents most of the time but not like THAT #jack drake did not literally call on the U.S. government to save tim from a war zone only for 1000 fanfics to claim he didn’t care abt tim #neglectful and abusive parents can in fact also love their children! they are not devoid of emotion! they just don’t know how to parent #ALSO. they CLEARLY cared about Tim more than about status! they were just way too caught up in their work to pay enough attention to him! #/end complaint #not really done complaining I’m just gonna stop myself before I keep going #tim drake #jack drake #janet drake #drake parenting #heroesriseandfall #canon vs fanon

[just-null-cult]

I WANT TO WISH U A HAPPY NY🎉🎄!! (now in my country they celebrate🥲)I'M GLAD TO MEET UR BLOG. THIS IS THE CUTEST N MOST WONDERFUL BLOG. I very rarely see creativity with our sweet Nori!! But when I saw your blog, I was so happy!! I hope that in the future the blog will develop and thnq, dear froggy, for pleasing our eyes!!😭😭😭💗💗YOU'RE THE SUN & THE CHARM!!(◡‿◡✿)

*sorry for my strange english, I have problems w/ it 😞*

HAPPY END OF YEAR TO ALL OF YOU

Your english is lovely, dw. tysm for finding my cult in this corner and liking what you found! Also for reminding me today is the last day of the year (my time)

aint no fucking way am i gonna allow this cult having more depictions of me than Noritoshi fucking Kamo. So i present to you, my beloved cult members, a bunch of doodles i have of Noritoshi.

there is no particular order

#noritoshi #kamo noritoshi #noritoshi kamo #noritoshi x reader #kamo noritoshi x reader #noritoshi kamo x reader #jjk #jujutsu kaisen #chunga-chuck #this guy has been rottin my brain for a while #i love him your honor but this also makes me realize i havent drawn much of the other characters.. like at all.. damn #im a shy bitch to show my nsfw/suggestive work so i might make a separate post for that if enough ppl are interested #OR NOT WHO KNOWS. WTV #i like drawing noritoshi blushing or angry #hes cute #but im neglecting his other cute emotions.. will get there #AH BUT HNY i dont celebrate much but the hype from everyone is rubbin off on me #tumblr better not fuck up this formatting istg #if it does ITS NOT MY FAULT

[healingchildhoodtrauma]

If you were emotionally neglected as a child you might think having a person obsessed with you will help fill that void for attention you never got. But what kind of attention is it? Is it nourishing attention? Usually it's about control, and they end up criticizing your every move. Remember, control reduces you to an object.

Respect > attention

#inner child healing #reparenting #healing from abuse #self love #healing from narcissistic abuse #psychological abuse #emotional abuse #childhood emotional abandonment #childhood emotional neglect

[daughterofanarcissistwoman]

#inner child healing #reparenting #healing from narcissistic parents #childhood trauma #childhood emotional neglect #childhood abuse

[furiousgoldfish]

Parents who compete with their own children are sick.

Even to look at a child with competitive eyes, for an adult, is shameful. You are supposed to take care of that human being, not be jealous of the attention, not take them as a threat to your insecurities, not make sure they don't 'have a better life' than you did, not someone to outsmart and put down for being stupid, so you could feel superior to them.

Normal humans do not want or desire to feel superior to children. There's no need. It's very clear that this is a child, inexperienced, clueless and completely non-threatening human in development. Anyone can outsmart a kid or steal attention from them, because they're children! It shouldn't soothe anyone's insecurity to do that, it should make you feel absolutely terrible because why are you competing and taking resources away from a literal child! Are you that hungry for attention and praise? Are you that clueless that even a child's intelligence comes off as a threat? Are you willing to inflict damage, insecurity and neglect on a kid to feel better about your own damn self? A child being damaged and neglected is what makes you feel good and happy inside?

Pathetic. Shameful. Sick and disgusting. Thousand years of shame on you if you ever do that to a kid.

#narcissistic parents #abusive parents #competing with kids #child neglect #child abuse #psychological abuse #emotional abuse #taking attention away from children #for themselves #taking childs confidence #to build up their own #making themselves a competition instead of caretakers #sick #gross #disgusting #pathetic behaviour

[whydoidothistomyselfandothers]

I KNEW IT

#moonlight chicken #We all knew #But it's one thing to suspect and another to have it verified for sure #Unbelievable the carelessness of these parents #Heartliming #Moonlight chicken ep 5 #Not Li Ming having to interpret for YOUR OEN SON #Ma'am are you not embarrassed #Are you not ashamed of yourself #Look at yourself look at your choices #Never even TRIED #The level of emotional neglect is literally child abuse take Heart away from them istg

[idiot-mushroom]

normal trip to mcdonalds

#this came to me in a memory from when i had to drive with my mom and dad #and after their fight one of my parents had to get out of the car and i got mcdonalds after #implied sa tw #sa tw #emotional neglect #emotional abuse #emotional abuse tw #<— just in case #it’s my au and i get to project onto my characters how i like #ttnm au #ttnm #teenage turtle ninja mutants #tmnt au #my tmnt au #tmnt #my tmnt iteration #tmnt iteration #comic #my comic #my art shit #tmnt raph #tmnt raphael #tmnt splinter #baron draxum

[sunlit-mess]

TLDR : I'm over this, I swear. I'm just tired.

just needed to get this out of my mind or else I never will.

#messyr #doodle #vent art #vent post #tw sui ideation #tw self destructive behavior #tw relaspe #stigma #just in a bad place. ill be swinging back soon anyway. #before you comment anything bad about them- please dont. my family is not perfect. #its just one of those fam that gave you the adult responsibility at a very early age and expects so much from you that all they do is take #and take and take. never enough- never anything #emotional neglect #artists on tumblr

[inthegloomglow]

“The Sullys didn’t owe Spider anything, they didn’t adopt him.” It is basic decency to not leave a child with the murderers that kidnapped him. Much less a child you knew since infancy, much less a child who at least two of your children love like he’s their own brother.

#spider socorro #spider soccoro sully #miles socorro #avatar #i'm probably done harping on this now i'll get off my soapbox #look i don't hate the sullys #i think it's weak writing that causes this issue honestly #they didn't have time to flesh out every main #and they needed him kidnapped to further the plot #and neytiri is (i believe) blatantly set up to have an arc wherein she accepts him as his own person #though who knows #maybe they'll make him go bad and botch it or something #he doesn't deserve that #BUT in terms of what happened it is deeply fucked up how the adults around him regarded him #i don't think they WROTE it to be that way #but i cannot ignore the child neglecting elephant in the room #why does fandom always inevitably demonize children over adults??? #like kids have any trauma or bad emotion and fandom wants to crucify them #and the adults around them can do ANYTHING and it's okay #i saw it with harrison morgan from dexter #the vitriol toward that pooor child #who went through multiple traumas #is baffling to me #or travis and shauna from yellowjackets #constantly demonized and blamed for not handling a horrific situation perfectly well

[twoheadedfather]

i hate my dad i hate my dad i hate my dad i hate my dad i hate my dad i hate my dad i hate my dad i hate my dad i hate my da

#sorry i talked about my dad in therapy recently #brought up a lot of hidden and buried emotion #GOD HE IS JUST GGGGRAUFHAHFUAHFAJS #did my therapist ask if i needed to be removed from my home when i talked about my mom? no #DID SHE DO THAT WITH MY DAD? YES #toxic dad #toxic father #daddy issues #childhood neglect #childhood trauma #trauma

[oifaaa]

speaking my truth….

people who write jason with pit madness actually just want stephanie brown

I mean for the most part fanon Jason really is just Stephanie Brown with the main differences being the crime lord thing and Jason being Bruce's adopted son but I think it would be easier to just make an au where stephs a crime boss rather then completely destroy Jason's whole ass character by giving him pit madness

#ask #anon #one of the reason i really hate the jason had shit parents retcon #is bc steph literally already had those parents #she literally had the villain evil dad and drug addict neglectful mum #like when i talked about jasons parents retcon before #People where quick to say well its an interesting premise to explore #which chill do it with steph then #shes got everything you want #she even almost killed her dad but batman if it weren't for batman being there #and i know its slightly different bc shes not bruces adoptive child #but she was still a kid batman used and got killed #id say even more then any other robin #and she took so much crap from bruce #just bc she reminded him of jason #theres so much emotions there

[dirtytransmasc]

CW - mind-blowing lack of critical thinking skills, spider slander, etc.

what in the HOT HELL is this (blurring out the user cause I'm not here to start drama)

Bored??? the poor thing looks emotionally damaged.

he finally got rescued by the people who abandoned him for months, who he was willing to be tortured and die for, and he had to watch his brother die because of it. not only did he die, but he died in front of him, for him. spider and Lo'ak were the ones holding him up as he bled out (we can't see from the angle, but he also probably held pressure on the exit wound).

he saved his dad (which I won't be discussing why I don't blame him for that, cause I don't care enough) who cared for him more in a couple of months then the Sully's did for him in 16 years. he has no idea what he's supposed to do, what's expected of him. he feels out of place in what should be his family. he's never been included in family life with them and now he's at the funeral of his brother. the women who almost killed him literally 5 feet away.

he looks like he's dissociating, numb, cause I don't know, he's a kid who just want through a shit ton of traumatizing events back to back. he looks hesitant because he knows one wrong move, one ounce of perceived disrespect could get him killed.

he looks like a traumatized 16 years old reacting to his brothers death. cut him some slack. there is so much going through his head, he's just floating through the motions.

if you think he's being disrespectful, check yourself, cause that's genuinely terrifying.

#spider haters are something else #like this is embarrassing #'bored'? #please get a life #he looks like hes 5 seconds away from having a breakdown #he looks like hes trying to hold it all back cause he feels like it isnt his place to mourn #hes showing every display if emotional trauma. neglect. and mental shutdown in the book and you think he looks 'bored' #if you truly think that #please never interact with a single greiving/traumatized person ever again #cause I havent been through hald the shit he has and thats still what I look like when I grieve #disbelief. numb. somewhere else. #thats just how some people cope #dear god #I have little hope for people some times #avatar spider socorro #miles spider socorro #miles socorro #spider socorro #avatar spider #spider avatar #avatar 2 spoilers #avatar 2 #avatar the way of water #he'd be acting like this regardless of neteyams death #he literally went through SO much trauma #so of course he looks like absolute shit at HIS BROTHERS FUNERAL #its the nail in the coffin for his mental health

[healingchildhoodtrauma]

The more time goes by away from them, the better I learn to treat myself.

#reparenting #inner child healing #childhood trauma #healing from abuse #self love #narcissistic abuse #mental health #emotional health #emotional abuse #dysfunctional family #childhood emotional neglect

[zorawitch]

the more bad takes i see about leah jeffries's acting in percy jackson the more convinced i become that she and i are the only two people on the planet earth who understand annabeth chase

#yeah her performance lacks emotion in most moments but that's because ANNABETH lacks that emotion #shes a twelve year old neglected child who has a ton of walls up because she measures her self worth through her ability to be a commander #she doesn't show emotion because it actively contradicts and compromises her idea of self-worth. #the difference is that the books are solely from percy's pov and he believes every breath she takes is a blessing to the earth #percy jackson and the olympians #percy jackson #percy series #annabeth chase #annabeth pjo #leah jeffries #that's MY annabeth because I have taste and a good understanding of character and themes #i just think her performance is very layered. #*shrek voice* annabeth is like an onion... #a.t. shrieking #annabeth

[small-but-mightyy]

#my writing #I was about 8 #I got more attention as a sick orphan than I ever did from the person who adopted me #literally #my life is a joke #I would even provoke my abuser to make them angry #I preferred being smacked and beaten over being completely ignored #childhood neglect #medical neglect #childhood abuse #physical and emotional neglect #physical abuse #actually traumatized #trauma #my art #traumacore #ventcore #black and white #sad #scared #traumatic childhood

[p2ii]

I feel like there's something to be said about the way fandom will treat characters who's trauma they can personally relate to Vs characters who they cant

#like obviously fandom has a thing against unpalatable victims regardless of where their trauma is from #but like #people tend to be way more understanding and compassionate to trauma that they can personally relate to or comprehend #in narutos case: #naruto struggled academically and was bullied as a child. he was alone and neglected on an emotional/domestic level #people can relate to aspects of his character despite the fantasy stuff of being a human sacrifice and part of the military and tend to car #alot more about his struggles #on the other hand the uchiha are discriminated against. sasuke is the sole survivor of ethnic cleansing/genocide. that is not something mos #people could even fathom the pain and trauma of. i mean its fucking /genocide/. and ontop of that he was essentially mind raped by his #brother. the person who he loved the most who betrayed him #and is still expected to function in a society that provides no support and continues to objectify him for his clans desirable traits #i feel like atla is also a good example #people can relate to and sympathize with the parental abuse and inadequacy/anger issues zuko deals with. and are forgiving when it comes to #his redeption arc #but when you take a character like jet. who has trauma in loosing his entire village/community and taking on a caretaker role to other #war orphans. thats not exactly a regual occurrence the average person can personally understand. his trauma is directly related to the war #and so despite him doing WAYY less shitty things than zuko. his is still demonized by the narrative. killed off and then mocked #and the fandom largely saw nothing wrong with this outcome #hama is in a similar bag but she also has the whole 'exploding apartments of pregnant women' distraction tactics added onto her #cause just showing colonialism and forced assimilation and fucking SLAVERY is bad on its own isnt enough ig #psii.txt #slavery mention #genocide mention #rape mention