#intuitive wanderess

[intuitive-wanderess]

Everything Is Happening For Your Good

Instead of using your energy to change your 3D reality (how people are showing up and the circumstances you're experiencing), use your energy to gain clarity on WHY it's causing you so much resistance.

What I've learned about myself is that in the moments that I am experiencing resistance (feeling triggered, feeling down, feeling uncomfortable enough to avoid a situation or feel defensive), I have a huge opportunity to figure out WHY rather than try to change my 3D reality.

Doing the INNER work to release resistance and attract change in others and/or my circumstance has been much more effective than doing the OUTER work to change others or my circumstance.

This is what I mean when I say people pleasers are great at manifesting for others and not themselves. People pleasers, like a lot of unsatisfied, resentful/bitter feeling people, are too focused on changing what's outside of their control instead of changing from within.

Let me know if this resonates with you by liking and resharing. I'd love to get a pulse check on who needs support in understanding, practicing this.

#intuitive wanderess #intuitive coaching #embodiment #inner work #surrender to the true you #trust yourself #people pleasing #manifestation #expansion

[romanpayne]

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[megpie]

"She is free in her wildness, she is a wanderess, a drop of free water. She knows nothing of borders and cares nothing for rules or customs. 'Time' for her isn’t something to fight against. Her life flows clean, with passion, like fresh water." -- Roman Payne #romanpayne #quotestagram . I am a girl with depth and layers and tangled strings. 🖤🌙 . #shesawitch #witchywoman #waterwitch #watermagic #storyteller #lifeisastory #lifeiswhatyoumakeit #synchronicity #findingmyself #trustingtheuniverse #intuition #innervoice #strongwomen #anxietylife #EmpathProblems #deepthinkers #healingquotes #chronicallyill #butyoudontlooksick #wherethetiredgirlsare #chronicillnesses #invisibleillness #mentallyexhausted #makelifebeautiful https://www.instagram.com/p/CNajiFusavP/?igshid=i040velqzd5j

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[jeuneoiseau]

I skipped school on the 6th of the 5th (May) to write a poem in my chair of jade. I wasn’t yet ready to let myself stop from bleeding (from feeling) so I stayed in bed, at home, in my chest- I stayed. Instead of boarding the train, instead of taking orders from teachers with disorders, I took a trip inside of me and listened to my own cries. I listened- still, I stayed. It was not easy. It comes with shame, backpacked on the guilt of “keep going.” Some might say that sitting is the easy way out, while the wisdom I have fought to keep told me it’s the other way ‘round. So instead of about-facing, and putting on a mask, I stood on the edge of sadness and let melancholy win. I thought it’d punch my stomach in and cause a gruesome bruise, loosing me of my own breath and spitting on my wounds- but instead it spoke to me and told me of my truth. It was not easy, no it was not. I skipped my class, but learned a lot about the woman I’ve become and all her longings to be loved. She is child and woman, one in the same, neither, either, fixating her gaze on the power that remains. Though her hiding dons her with looks of loss and pity, she knows her intuition queens her Wolf of her own city- She, the Wild Wanderess.

5/6/19

(Paired with the poem “Genesis”)

#newyork #owlpoetry #juliesjournals

[intuitive-wanderess]

Surrender to Uncertainty; Create Powerfully

When something breaks a part LET IT, keep creating. You get fired, but now you’re trying to reconcile but when you ask yourself “did I really like my job” you discover it’s a no. Okay then let go and keep creating. Being in the unknown is unfamiliar so we rush back to what we know because it’s FAMILIAR. Embrace the space and chaotic energy that becomes yours when you let go and move on from energetic bonds that do not serve you. Meditation and lowering the volume on emotions that don’t serve you (guilt, lack, uncomfortable, uncertain, doubtful, suffering) all the emotions that make you want to go back to your old pattern so you don’t have to feel them. Meditation helps you to slow down and detach from all of the people, things, feelings, thoughts and circumstances that reaffirm the identity you’ve created so far. You are NOT your identity. You are NOT your current reality.

Staying the wish fulfilled

Embodiment

Alignment

Self concept aligns with what you want to create more of not less of.

#feeling of the wish fulfilled #the intuitive wanderess #unwavering faith #surrender to the god in you #trust #unknown #breaking cycles #meditation #embodiment #self concept

[intuitive-wanderess]

Fear Doesn’t Exist In The Presence of God

#Youtube #Fear Doesn’t Exist In The Presence of God #the intuitive wanderess #embodiment #trust #mental projector #respecting boundaries #self confidence

[intuitive-wanderess]

I Am So Deserving Of A Soft Space

I am so deserving of a soft space. I give myself permission to raise my standards when it comes to the people I allow into my life, that I allow to interact with me. I am deserving of feeling seen, of having people that are soft, gentle and kind with me. I am deserving of having people that are curious about me.

I am deserving of having people in my life that are curious, lovingly curious about me...who want to show up for me in ways that are gentle and soft and kind and understanding. People who are not going to gaslight me, bully me or make me feel like my experience is without value. I deserve to be in a space where I don't have to run through a scenario 5,000 times before expressing it, for fear of being shut down.

I deserve grace. I deserve grace. I deserve grace.

I deserve the grace that I extend to others.

I deserve the grace that I extend to others.

I deserve the grace that I extend to others.

I deserve to feel safe. I deserve to feel heard. I deserve to feel seen. I deserve to not feel stupid or confused or wrong all the time, just because I'm struggling to express myself. Just because I have struggled to be vulnerable doesn't mean I deserve punishment. Just because I don't show up perfectly today doesn't mean I deserve punishment. I deserve energy that is gentle with me, that communicates with me, not the one that goes away for hours leaving me in the dark, nor the one that combats at me. I deserve to be in a space where I can earn money in a way that allows me to create with joy and intention, to be used in a way that people recognize my talents and want to embrace them & expound upon them. I deserve to be in a relationship where I can easily be myself, where I can easily express my feelings and be myself and know that it's not going to be thrown back at me.

I surrender. Universe, make me a reciprocal to my desires.

and so it is.

#the intuitive wanderess #conscious relationships #expansion #surrender #trust #faith #mental projector #human design projector #people pleasers #highly sensitive people

[intuitive-wanderess]

People pleasers are successful at manifesting what they think others will need so that they can keep harmony and avoid confrontation.

The consequence is that everyone lives comfortably except for the people pleaser lol. Resentment builds and their manifestations for themselves never fully play out.

If you are the people pleaser and you’re struggling to manifest for yourself, you’ve got to first abandon others and let them manifest for themselves.

Your focus on what they need is keeping what you need hidden from your awareness.

Everyone has their own power to create the life they want to live, so stop using your power to manifest for them.

Instead, put that energy and focus on what YOU want. Abandon everyone else.

#teach people how to treat you #people pleasing #the intuitive wanderess #law of attraction #manifestation coach #human design projector

[intuitive-wanderess]

Everything is a Projection

Everything/everyone is a projection of who you are. The reality you perceive is just a reflection of your inner world.

Lately this idea that everything/everyone is a projection has been troubling, as it's caused me to blame myself and almost put myself in a state of feeling powerless, unable to create the experience I desire with others, or so that's what I thought. I've had to step back and look at it from another angle.

While taking responsibility is important and can feel empowering, I also feel the need to caution this mindset especially when I’ve been known to unconsciously think, move and act primarily in the favor of others (codependency/people pleasing/overly independent/good girl/fear of being vulnerable).

So let's tweak this a bit...

Everything/everyone is a projection of who you are. Who you are being is the subconscious program running within you. The reality you perceive is just a reflection of your subconscious mind.

I have this subconscious programming that is being projected out and it says, Asha you're being too much, too needy, too demanding, too audacious, too complicated, people will not understand you and abandon you/reject you for this...

...so don't ask for much, solely meet your own needs, don’t ask for what you want, be less demanding/assertive, be overly humble, simplify your ways, and be sure to over explain yourself in order to keep people around (validation).

The subconscious mind runs your habits, behaviors, feelings and it's logic says, abandon yourself so that you are not abandoned by others.

Consciously, I know that's a limiting belief, so when opportunities show up for me to reject this programming and shift into a more empowering, conscious mindset, I notice myself experiencing tension and resistance.

I stand up for myself more than ever before. I set my boundaries. I take up space. I ask for what I want. I assume people will understand me and most of the time it's reflected positively in my reality.

….but then that subconscious programming creeps up and I find myself fixated on the few people and circumstances where I feel invalidated. It feels safer to crawl back into the known, back to my familiar ways.

What's familiar is not always good for you... It’s more familiar for me to blame myself, hold back from my true expressions, be less vulnerable and play it safe/small for the sake of others.

Even when people have hurt me and blatantly disrespected me, I'd be quick to overlook it and find meaning in it. Before even acknowledging myself and what had happened to me, I'd try to justify the disrespect and gross behavior I received. I'd question myself and over analyze what I could have done to attract this experience.

I abandoned myself so that I would not be abandoned by them. 

By them I just don't mean the people and circumstances in my life, but also my old subconscious programming.

Stop abandoning yourself, your new self-concept for the sake of keeping your old self-concept/subconscious program alive. You've made a conscious decision to create a life you love, so stay the course and persist. It's getting easier and easier.

Affirmation: My current reality is a reflection of who I choose to be and not of who I used to be.

#subconscious mind #law of attraction #psychology #manifestation #codepency #abandonment #fear of rejection #disempowering #empowerment #trust #surrender #abundance #people pleaser #good girl gone bad #self worth #the intuitive wanderess

[intuitive-wanderess]

Others aren’t telling you the truth. They are just mirroring your beliefs. Be grateful for the awareness and shift your belief.

Don’t buy into the illusion. It’s not real. It’s only as real as you make it.

You are in control.

#everyone is you pushed out #life is a mirror #the intuitive wanderess #believing is seeing

[intuitive-wanderess]

You attract what you are.

Embodying a new self concept can require a bit of structure, routine and discipline.

Manifesting is like cleaning your room.

If you just eliminate the distractions (watching tv, checking your phone, deciding to keep what you said you’d throw out) and focus on the tasks at hand, you'll clean your room quicker and with more ease.

Same goes for manifesting your desire. If you just eliminate the distractions (checking for validation/proof, going back to your old ways, complaining, changing your mind) and focus on the desired state at hand, you'll manifest your desires quicker and with more ease.

Now this is an oversimplified example and life is meant to be lived on YOUR terms. Enjoy the process, give yourself grace, take the time you need, but always remember that it's really that simple.

Every time you stop to look at something you forgot you had (that shirt you haven’t worn in 5 years, that annoying limiting belief, old manifestations), you run into the possibility of getting STUCK, DISCOURAGED, ANNOYED, TIRED, IMPATIENT.

But that was never the intention. You get to accept it, process it and let it go, so that you can continue moving along the process.

Hi, I’m Asha and my work as an Embodiment and Self Awareness Coach is to support you in identifying your desires, identifying your distractions and give you the tools to not just ignore the distractions but to recognize, process and release those distractions so that you can align to your desired state of being.

Thank you for the love and support. It’s all appreciated 😘 💕

#embodiment coach #the intuitive wanderess #manifesting a sp #manifest the life you wish to live #manifesting a job #self confidence #clarity #i keep getting distracted

[intuitive-wanderess]

My belief system is a one-size fits all. It takes too much energy to believe others can get what they want and I can’t….or to believe that only I can create my reality and others can’t or struggle to.

Most of my resistance, my doubts, my fears and my indecision have come from me trying to customize and tailor my belief system so that it satisfies specific people and specific circumstances in my life (i.e. I can’t want XYZ because my family won’t approve).

In other words, when my belief system isn’t stabilized and all inclusive, I find myself experiencing resistance, unable to attract what I want.

If I want something, I have the freedom to want it without shame and guilt. That also means others in my reality have the freedom to want what they want without shame and guilt, even if it is contradictory to what I want.

Why would I need to be offended? Why would I need to convince them that what I want is best? Who cares?!

I don’t need their approval, just as they don’t need mines.

I already know I’m going to get what I want because I know my power, just like I trust they know theirs.

If everything is always working in my favor, then that means everything is always working out in other peoples favor. That also means I don’t have to pity others and play into their victim/fear-based stories. That’s not the level of “supportive” I want to be.

If others are able to create a life of ease and abundance, then that means so can I. That also means I don’t have to feel jealousy or feel “unlucky”.

If I can meet my own needs and ask for what I want, then that means others can do the same. That also means I don’t need to worry about anticipating their needs or holding myself back for fear of being “inconsiderate”.

There is no separation. That’s an illusion.

The simplest way I can convey this is with the following -

Belief: Sharing is caring

…If that’s what you WANT to do lol.

“But what if I don’t share, isn’t that bad?”

No, you don’t have to share. Quite frankly, you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do.

#power of belief #everyone is you pushed out #the intuitive wanderess #manifestation #limiting beliefs #one size fits all #people pleasers #the universe responds to who you are #fear #doubts #resistance #anxious attachment #hypervigilance #confronting yourself

[intuitive-wanderess]

Give from an overflowing cup, that way it always feels inspiring and never draining.

If it feels like effort to give or it feels draining, then you’re not giving from an overflowing cup.

In that case, I’d suggest giving to yourself.

#be selfish #the intuitive wanderess #fill your cup #giving #resentment

[intuitive-wanderess]

You know what your problem is?

You know exactly what you want, exactly how to get there, but you chicken out.

You don't commit 100% even though you know that you are 1000% supported and guided by ALL THAT IS.

You contain passive aggressive energy to act like you're content with life until your highly sensitive ass finally snaps to being triggered.

You have so much experience that proves that you are disciplined, resilient, capable, dare I say BRILLIANT. You are even creative and solution-oriented under pressure...but instead you decide to play small and live vicariously through others. It's getting old, don't you think?

#calling out the BS #the intuitive wanderess #tough love

[intuitive-wanderess]

For so long I thought I wasn’t setting boundaries. It’s just dawned on me that I’ve always set boundaries but people have ignored my boundaries and instead of giving them consequences (such as removing my energy or confronting them unapologetically) I’ve made myself feel guilty for even having a boundary and compromised myself for the sake of peace and harmony. 🤯

May this be a reminder that we always have creative power within our reality. We have the right to say NO irregardless of someone else’s feelings or opinions. Our job is not to water ourselves down to protect another person’s ego.

Ask yourself - Am I willing to honor and stand by my truth/boundary even if others don’t? Do I have the strength within me to not abandon my truth even if it upsets others?

#self awareness is 🔑 #the intuitive wanderess #boundaries #inner strength #be true to yourself

[intuitive-wanderess]

I know I’ve grown when I make intentional efforts to schedule in periods of rest and relaxation to decompress before burning myself out and feeling upset and cranky and depleted as a result.

It’s the little wins for me!!

#mental projector #human design projector #can you relate #the intuitive wanderess