#introvertlife

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

This cannot continue *continues* -_-

#irony #humor #relatable #perseverance #resilience #introvertlife

[introvertdear]

Being in a salon means being the center of attention and enforced small talk — two things introverts hate.

#introvert #introvertproblems #introvertlife #introversion #introvert problems

[theflyingcottage]

When your idea of polite conversation is the other person saying, “well, I’m off now, enjoy your reading.”

#booklover #bookworm #introvert #introvertlife #readerlife

[collegechicc-blog]

I basically went back to college at 26 even though I’m already a mom of a toddler and how things will be a little bit more challenging for me but it’s not as hard as I perceived it to be. It’s actually pretty chill specially now that classes are more asynchronous than face-to-face. Anyway, I realized how there are a lot of things (specially material ones) that I got but I always take for granted. If I am still the 18 year old me having these things, I would’ve been the happiest and the most content girl ever. But still, I’m happy knowing that I have these things I can afford now and I can change wardrobe and style anytime I want to. I’ve seen a study Inso blog in here and I love her captions way more than the photos she posted with it. I wish I have that sense of beauty. I’m doing the best that I can to construct entertaining stories of my day-to-day life and be able to find the beauty in all the things I go through each day. 

#studyinspo #studyblog #aesthetic #soft academia #girly academia #pink academia #intj #introvertlife

[introvertedfitnessinstructor]

A quiet girl's problem with forced interaction

It’s one dark gloomy night in the middle of November. Summer has finally given up putting up the good fight as her last bit of warmth no longer lingers. With the sun setting in the late afternoon, the sky is already pitch black which somehow strangely compliments the crisp cold air biting at my cheeks.

Me, my siblings, and parents all depart the minivan, our hands occupied with covered dishes, pies, and cakes. As we enter into the unfamiliar home each of us kids are greeted by unfamiliar faces. Adults we’ve never seen until that moment. We each give a polite wave and smile, but suddenly we are barked at and forced to give a hug and a kiss on the cheek to these... strangers. These nice people insist that a smile and a wave just fine until they are told to forgive our lack of manners.

With every family outing that involved visiting other relatives, the scenarios have all been the same— forced greetings and forced goodbyes with physical contact. As these scenarios left 13-year-old me feeling awkward and ticked off rather than happy to see family the rest of the outing, I made it a precedence to always greet family members the way I’m told with or without being in the presence of parents, like that of a dog being trained by its owner.

With my shy nature and introverted personality, everyone now wonders why I'm the family member who never shows up.

As I was thinking that this was just the way of Haitian culture, I was dumbfounded to see similarities in the American classroom. With the class setting being a bit more low-key in their own version of forced interaction.

Working in groups

Introducing ourselves around the room

Partnering up with someone by teachers orders

Etc....etc.…

Again what the does this teach people? What does it teach children? It certainly doesn’t teach respect!

And what exactly did this remedy in my case?

Because now being a grown adult with college being 13 years in the past, I now hate unnecessary human interaction more than ever.

Small talk? No thanks.

Convo stoppers? Yes please!

How about we denormalize forced interaction especially on children?

#the quiet one #introverts #introvertlife #introvert problems #introversion #introvert things #introvert #thoughts #online diary #introvert thoughts

[talktoangel2]

Why Is Social Anxiety So Prevalent?

Social anxiety is a type of anxiety disorder characterized by intense and persistent fear or anxiety about social situations. People with social anxiety may feel self-conscious, embarrassed, or humiliated in social situations, leading them to avoid social interactions or endure them with intense distress.

Some common symptoms of social anxiety include:

Fear of people looking at or judging you

Excessive self-consciousness and worry about embarrassing oneself

bodily manifestations including flushing, trembling, or sweating

Avoidance of social situations or difficulty with public speaking

Difficulty making eye contact or speaking up in groups

 “Online therapy in India” can provide a safe and confidential space to explore your feelings and develop personalized strategies to manage social anxiety.

By working with a trained mental health professional, you can gain insight into your emotions and develop practical strategies to improve your quality of life.

to read more:- https://www.talktoangel.com/area-of-expertise/social-anxiety

#socialanxiety #anxiety #mentalhealth #introvert #introvertproblems #introvertlife #depression #introverts #memes #introvertstruggles #mentalhealthawareness #introvertsunite #socialanxietyproblems #introvertmemes #infj #shy #overthinker #funnymemes #infp #mentalillness #overthinking #introverted #meme #growingupshy #mentalhealthmatters #intj #hsp #relatable #antisocial #anxietyawareness

[itsglor]

So accurate.

#introvert #introverts #introvert struggles #introvertproblems #introversion #introverting #introvert problems #introvert life #introvertlife

[booksandbooklovers]

The hidden power of introverts!

#introverts #introvert #introvertlife #introvertproblems #introvertstruggles #introvertmemes #introverted #infj #introvertsunite #introvertquotes #introverting #memes #socialanxiety #infp #introvertsbelike #anxiety #introvertthoughts #intj #introvertsareawesome #shy #overthinker #intp #meme #funnymemes #growingupshy #hsp #mbti #isfj #introversion #extrovert

[thegirlwhorideslikeasamurai]

I just made it through the three most exhausting workweeks in quite a while, but I have the next ten days off and all I'm gonna do is write YOI fanfic and cuddle my cats.

I had the idea for the story I plan to write earlier this year. It's not overly long, which is perfect for a holiday project, and for now, it will be for me only. I hope this will somewhat ease my ongoing frustration about writing and posting.

#yuri on ice #yoi #writing #introvertlife #fanfiction #writerslife #so tired of feeling never enough

[sakurailady]

#introvert #introverts #introvertproblems #introvertmemes #introvertstruggles #introvertlife #introvertthoughts #funny #funnybuttrue😂 #randomthoughts #cuteart https://www.instagram.com/p/CeZZ-0RjGeH/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#introvert #introverts #introvertproblems #introvertmemes #introvertstruggles #introvertlife #introvertthoughts #funny #funnybuttrue😂 #randomthoughts #cuteart

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

People exhaust me. Why is it so hard to find someone real?

#introvertlife #isolating #stayinghome #hidingfromhumans #misunderstood #lonerlife #donewithpeople

[introvertdear]

Some people can’t stop themselves from making ignorant, annoying, and downright rude comments to introverts.

#introvert #introvertproblems #introvertlife #introversion #introvert problems

[inward-actualization]

A bacon cheeseburger and a tv show about geniuses that solve crime equals a lazy Tuesday

#scorpion #tuesday #introvert #introvertlife #infj #crime tv #tv shows #genius #lazy afternoon #bingeworthy #cheeseburger #diner food

[collegechicc-blog]

I have the luxury of time to finish this book I’ve been trying to finish ages ago. It was a Paulo Coelho book entitled “The Winners Stand Alone”. It’s about a Russian ex-army who took his moral code and values too far to the point of killing people just to get the love of his life back. Apart from that, it has parts wherein the dark side of fame and entertainment industry was highlighted. I’ve been into entertainment industry during my early late teens so I can really relate with this book. 

Anyway, I had this book for a very long time and still find time to finish it because I’ve been busy with acquiring digital marketing skills apart from my degree in law. I’m also into taking care of my toddler hands-on and researching more stuff on how to handle him better specially when he exhibits tantrums. You see, my life is full of randomness but at the end of the day, I make sure I get most important things done while finding time to meditate and relax. 

Here are some of the quotes I love from the book itself maybe because I can relate to them or they remind me of something I experienced or thought of in the past.. but lol I’m trying to practice entertaining a thought or idea without necessarily believing or accepting it. Sharing it like maybe anyone will find them interesting, entertaining, or introspective. 

“..like all women who feel themselves queen of the world, she never looked at anyone else. Such women are there in order to shine and always avoid looking at what other people are wearing because, even if their own clothes and accessories have cost them a fortune, the number of diamonds or particularly exclusive outfit worn by someone else might make them feel depressed or bad-tempered or inferior.”

“They want to escape from the trap that awaits all women: becoming a housewife, who makes supper for her husband every evening, takes the children to school everyday, and tries to dig up some dirt on her neighbor’s monotonous lives so as to have something to gossip about with her friends.” 

 “She’ll be great. She showed real feeling in a situation where most people are simply trying to look competent.”

#paulo coelho #paulo coehlo quote #thewinnersstandalone #winnersstandalone #bookrecos #book recommendations #pinkacademia #booklover #bookworm #collegemom #collegelife #unilife #introvertlife

[yisum]

如果你想積極地生活，盡量使用積極的話，遠離消極的人。你的生活取決於你使用的詞語和與你互動的人。

If you want to live positively, try to use positive words and stay away from negative people. Your life depends on the words you use and the people you interact with.

#chinesementalservice #coaching #cognitive #introvertlife #Consulta #positivequotes #positivethinking #positivity #positividade #積極心理學 #positive #积极心理学 #positivevibes #moodedits #emotions #relationships #mood #心理學 #anxiety #语言的力量

[roysexton]

H/T @meganmmckeon for sending to me … she knows me well 😅🥰✨ #introvert #introvertlife #introvertmemes #alonetime (at Saline, Michigan) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cn-A1EuPhVM/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#introvert #introvertlife #introvertmemes #alonetime