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introvert-moments · 4 months

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Introvert Moment #121

Hanging out with autistic friends is the best. You can ask them about their special interests and they’ll give you the coolest, fun fact filled monologue ever

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chameleonpersonality · 1 year

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INFJ

Living with a personality that is so rare is a struggle because it is hard to find someone who has the experience. My personality, INFJ, makes up 2% of the population.

INFJ stands for:

- Introverted

- Intuition

- Feeling

- Judging

People with INFJ are very complex people with an array of emotions, interests, and talents. Though they have a reputation for being reserved and quiet, they can be some of the most highly respected and admired people in the world.

Like all personalities they have their strengths and weaknesses. The strengths in this personality trait are:

- Zealous and enthusiastic

- Perceptive and deep

- Compassionate and peace loving

- Decisive and pragmatic

- Virtuous and Noble

The Weaknesses are:

- Perfectionist and too specific

- Over sensitive and opposed to conflicts

- Repressed and too private

- People pleaser and meek

- Overworked and burn out

With INFJ there are 7 signs you can pick up on if they're unhappy with their life. They are:

- They become impulsive

- They're tired all the time

- They're detached

- They ghost you

- They see no future

- They're always around people

They can't concentrate

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mbtimyths · 9 months

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What do you think about the ISTP x INFJ pairing?? How do you think their dynamic could be?? Thank you! 💕

Hi Anon!!

Well lucky for you, I am an INFJ who had a 2 year relationship with an ISTP. I've reflected on our time as partners in these posts:

How ISTPs can do better when paired with INFJs

How INFJs can do better when paired with ISTPs

My (INFJ) relationship story with an ISTP

and for fun, a meme.

I hope these provide some insight! However, I suspect you were looking for less of a personal reflection and moreso a socionics analysis, so here's that:

Each the reverse inverse of the other's ego, ISTPs and INFJs are partners and playmates. In the expanded theory of Myers-Briggs, this pairing is known as "Supplement", and in Socionics its denominated "Activation".

This pairing can resemble complements; however, these relations are somewhat less fulfilling (hence "supplementary" rather than "complementary"). Activation relationships are often romantic if both partners find each other attractive. These relationships are often very easy to start, as both partners share either extraversion or introversion. Introvert activation relationships appear reserved.(a)

When presented with the same scenario, Supplement pairs will begin reasoning from different angles but ultimately follow the same logic. It's like racing the same track but starting from opposite sides of the loop; they arrive at the same conclusion by retracing each other's path, ending up in agreement but for different reasons.

For ISTPs and INFJs, this is likely to lead to both mutual appreciation and fascination. They find each other's perspectives useful for connecting the dots. Their constructive rapport and unique affinity makes them good partners in both work and play; while they don't quite balance each other like yin and yang, they do fit together and finish each other, like yin and upsidedown yin.

While INFJs seek external harmony, ISTPs value internal consistency. The INFJ will be intrigued by the ISTP's mental frameworks, and the ISTP will be compelled by the INFJ's holistic analyses.

As a couple, the ISTP and INFJ will remain somewhat mysterious to each other, yet one will always meet the other where they are at. As two developed individuals, they will naturally have each other's backs. Where the INFJ struggles to structure their world the ISTP will step in to help, and where the ISTP lacks insight into their choices the INFJ will offer wisdom.

However, as two undeveloped individuals, the ISTP and INFJ will easily slide into codependency and contempt. The INFJ will resent the ISTP for their unwillingness to engage in emotional labor, and the ISTP will feel burdened by the INFJ's avoidance of technical labor.

To avoid these pitfalls, the INFJ will have to get their shit together, and the ISTP will have to face their wounds. The INFJ may benefit from a coach, and the ISTP needs a therapist, rather than each asking the other to fulfill that role for them. Once they address these personal liabilities, they can flourish into a fruitful interdependence where they find safety, stability, and deep trust in each other.

Thanks for the request, feel free to send more asks in the future!

(a) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Socionics

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trustonlystars · 2 years

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I want to go places by myself, visit cafes, sip on different cold coffees and learn the vibe of a new fresh place. Soak in the warm lights and hear the soft white noise. I want to notice the silence in places and remember them as homes of pretty flowers and plants. I want to go places and shed off your memories one at a time, so I can make space for more of mine. And I know life has made me a lot stronger than I can ever accept, but some days I cherish the magic that sneaks me out of the darkness. I used to be afraid of being left alone but I am slowly growing fond of the journey that leads to solitude. This journey is more of mine than anyone else's, this book is about me.

- trustonlystars | Jannie F.

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trashandwriting · 2 years

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It's so funny how there are groups and chats and forums for all mbti times

And then there are the infjs

Who aren't even understood by each other because we won't open up

And we prefer sitting in our hobbit holes and send telepathic messages to each other

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mariamthe1st · 5 months

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MY heart is a gift.

When I open it up I give it to very few.

Once in your hands I allow you to see the most delicate parts of me.

With loyality, in trust,

I give you my loving truth.

But if you leave the most vulnerable pieces of me exposed,

and choose to hurt me,

I must take back what you took.

I've learnt the hard way that I can't keep giving pieces of myself and placing them in ungrateful hands.

My heart is a gift, so I have to be most loyal to myself.

Words by Jen

#infj #infj woman #Infj words #Infj love #aesthetic #love #infj problems #introvert #empathy #mbti #life #dark academia #relatioships #relatable #infj relationships #Wordsbyjen

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aestheticworld99 · 2 years

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Moodboard: INFP/ Libra/ Ravenclaw/ Piano + Books

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ursulawhosoever · 1 year

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Hummm 🤔🤔 Im a INFJ 4w5 and I LOVE physical touch when it comes from people (very) close to me 🥰 HUG HUG🥰 🤗

Whats your personality type and like you physical touch?🧐

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sstvrlightt · 10 months

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✧ ; ⠀⠀ 𝐈𝐍𝐅𝐉

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its-all-down-hill · 2 months

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#infj feelings #infj personality #infj love #infj woman

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barry-bee-bensons-hive · 1 year

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s-sinch · 2 years

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I don't talk much but, I really want to talk to you, my heart wants to ask you how was your day? Are you happy? You need something? Beyond that I want to share me with you. It's a difficult thing for me to even speak off. I think about you almost everytime, even in dreams. But I don't do, I just don't bother you, because you don't think of me, you don't feel the same.

- Sinch

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infj-love · 2 years

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Online dating as an INFJ often seems an impossible task. The desire for deep and meanignful connections is so rarely fulfiled even at the best of times in the real world, let alone through a cold, digital interface where the illusion of choice holds sway over all the hapless denizens.

Still, given some of the potential high stakes, I've found it useful to mostly focus on the process, rather than on allow my Ni to run rampant, generating positive and negative scenarios for each match before we've exchanged a dozen lines..

Rules for myself:

1. Enjoy it. Share memes, articles, favourite books and what gives you joy, but mostly chat in the fashion that excites you. Don't waste time with the small talk that you hate. If they steer back to silly factual conversation, then this is telling.

2. Two months on, two months off. Allowing myself only two months to match and meet any likely candidates so I get to rest and remain connected tp myself before I get too sucked into the hamster wheel.

3. Be generous, be interested, be open, be honest. If you can't be these things, then take a break or don't meet that person... Generous because it's all a bit too much pressure and we may not be at our best at the outset. Interested because connection as strangers is difficult and often requires intention for it to potentially be anything other than shallow. Open and honest because this is what INFJs must have.

4. Offline. Don't let it all live and die in your head. Hone your instincts with empirical data.

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trashandwriting · 2 years

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#infj #infj empath #infj feelings #infj love #infj thoughts #infj things #infj struggles #infj confessions #infjlife #mbti relationships #mbti stuff #mbti #mbti types #infj mbti #mbti humor #mbti memes

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mariamthe1st · 2 years

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INFJs Are Brave Because...

They demand the truth even if it hurts them.

They tell the truth even if it leads to them not having many friends.

They follow their own code of ethics instead of the law in times when the law fails to serve the greater good.

They are survivors of trauma and/or neglect, and in growing up have often had to be their own parent and/or best source of advice.

They speak out & protect the bullied, oppressed, and defenseless.

They go to any lengths to do what is right.

They will prove you wrong if you dare to underestimate them.

They don't settle for less.

They have a mind of their own and do not seek validation or praise.

They are often the first to be accountable & step up to apologize if they consciously or unconsciously caused harm.

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galaxylumiavita · 1 year

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Life as an INFJ

The most relatable trait all INFJ seem to possess is being secretive. This is especially weird as everyone seems to open up to us. But who do we open to? The FUCKING journal. From a personal perspective, this is done because 9 don't want to dump my shit on others' seemingly sombre life.

#mbti stuff #infj love #infj life #infj problems

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