#indecisiveness

[monsteracademy]

sona

#indecisiveness #sona #art #my art #monsteracademy #dilly

[seelestia]

should i. should i pull for lyney??

#INDECISIVENESS #i like his character sm and i heard his dmg multipliers are good??? #but i'm not a fan of mono teams... and logically that'd decrease his dmg output #PRETTY MAGICIAN ..... BUT THE LOST META POTENTIAL UAGHUAHHH #is this the struggle of being a i-play-whoever-interests-me / meta hybrid player #it's a brain vs heart moment i'm having rn 😞 #chit chat! 🍵

[patrickelvinart]

Orange skies - Arthur Lee and Love

4B pencil on paper

Calbalog City 2024

Sometimes, there is a moment when the drawing comes alive..

Like magic. Like life itself. Fragile magic.

Sometimes just one more line and the drawing dies.

#drawing #illustration #Handdrawing #pencildrawing #Life #Fragility #Magic #Indecisiveness

[fracturedporcelaindoll]

Dear diary,

I'll overthinking a variety of stuff, sometimes it's more philosophical like purpose in life, humanity on a whole, concepts of world peace, death etc.

Other times it's more trivial and materialistic, like what outfit to wear. Regardless, it's like a washing machine on spin cycle cause just keep thinking over it without it getting a conclusive answer and stopping.

So yes random person, I could stop wasting my time and energy cause there are more important things in life, like threat of nuclear war/world wars, sun going supernova, solving global economic crisis, finding cures for incurable diseases etc.,~

But if it were that simple, I'd have done it already don't you get it? The overthinking aspect means I can't just shut my brain off like a switch, I wish at times I could be simple minded enough not to think of life or ponder over trival choices with all the potential possibilities arising from a choice but that isn't me ~

So you may think I am foolish, and what causes me stress from indecisiveness but it is what it is ~

#my thoughts #diary entry #dear diary #diary #overthinking #indecisiveness #abstract ideals #relatable thoughts #everyday life thoughts #materialistic thoughts #washing machine cycles #just random thoughts

[mbti-notes]

Anon wrote: I am an ENFP, 27y old. I have difficulty making decisions, especially related to relationships. Whenever I have to make decisions regarding a relationship/ friendship I tend to seek external validation. I am afraid of making the wrong decision and I always tend to seek someone to affirm my decision, by asking a friend or posting in an online forum etc.

For eg, when I feel the need to cut off a long term friend whose values don't align with mine and tends to cause me distress, or a stranger who wants to have daily contact with me, while I am uncomfortable regarding it. Or when I am not sure whether I want to continue to pursue the man I like.

How do I learn to stop seeking validation this way? Is this type related in some way?

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It's not a crime to second-guess yourself. In fact, self-doubt is healthy when used appropriately as an antidote to arrogance. It's important to make well-informed judgments, especially when it comes to moral decisions that have the potential to cause hurt/harm. You have to look at the issue from every side and understand it objectively. You have to choose the best possible path that minimizes pain and suffering. Is it not good to proceed thoughtfully and wisely?

While deliberation is good, at some point, you have to make a choice and commit to it. Many people are indecisive because they have poor critical reasoning skills. Maybe it's something you need to learn. If you don't have a good system/process for analyzing information and drawing sound conclusions, it's easy to get lost thinking in circles.

If this issue is related to type, it's most likely due to Fi being too weak to help and support Ne. Experiencing troubles with respect to: accepting yourself, believing in yourself, advocating for your own needs and wants, standing up for what is right, standing strong in the face of opposition, etc, indicate a lack of confidence in your own judgment and ought to be remedied through Fi development. Consult the Type Dev Guide.

#enfp #auxiliary fi #critical thinking #indecision #indecisiveness #ask

[fresh-bed-old-sheets]

Hnnnnnnng what do you mean i have to CHOOSE between two AMAZING things? Why can't i just do everything all at once?

[julialundgren]

Sketch vs final. A mixed media artwork where some parts ended up digital while some are made in traditional ink.

#fox #fox art #rabbit #hare #bunny #rabbit art #mixed media #indecisiveness #a reflection of myself I suppose #Julia Lundgren

[iamterribleatusernames]

Do any other writers out there not know where to start when they have created full lives for their characters? I make a starting place, write a little, figure out my characters, and then second-guess where I’m supposed to start. Like do I want to give flashbacks for the needed information or do I start nearer to childhood. Do I start right before the one scene I’ve been dreaming about writing, or do I lead up to it? Do I start where they meet as kids, and then skip to where they’re older? Do I make a prologue. As an indecisive person writing is hard because of all the choices I have to make. (Who to traumatize, who to baby, ect.,).

it’s like I’m making a complicated movie for my characters. and I have to choose a good opening shot but the problem is that there are too many options.

#writing #writerscommunity #writer stuff #authors #author problems #reading #readers #i’m making my characters too real #if there was a movie about your life how would it start #how am I supposed to choose #indecisiveness #Im frantically trying to write down what my characters want to do #my characters have all the power #i have none of the say in what I write #only the characters #oc’s #original character #too many options #please tell me I’m not the only one #I just wanna write the fluffy parts but I’m trying to create a full story here so I can’t just skip #wanting to write that ONE scene but then 20k words come before it #i have way too many ideas #way too many tags too lol #writers

[amerasdreams]

extremely sensitive empathic introverts are useless really. Maybe they want to help a lot but that doesn't matter bc their sensitivity and lack of flexibility (falling apart easily at small things) makes it so they have almost 0 capacity to make a positive difference and may even make things worse by incompetence which no one needs.

#Me #Infp #This particular combination #Of genetics #Mom AND dad's sensitivity #Dad's introversion and depression and anxiety #Moms big picture view and intuition #Plus being borderline J/P #More P than j #I vacillate between the 2 #Indecisiveness #With some rigid rule following #And birth order-- oldest wanting to please mom #And past-- dad yelling at me for nothing bc he's depressed #As a kid #My sheltered upbringing #My empathy.. #My temper which I get from moms side #!!!! #Perfect storm #How is this. Going to be anything #What sort of advantages lol #No wonder I don't want to live #Only my cats keep me here #Deserve self harm #For being so usless

[casandraspoems]

Uncertain (Poem)

I speak in uncertainties

Never wanting to offend, mislead, or be wrong

If my truth is not The Truth, is it a lie?

So a well placed “I think” “maybe” “I could be wrong”

Is vital to everyday speech

Questions are best answered with an inflection

Up a pitch and slightly drawn out

I may know an answered but I can’t be sure it’s The Answer

I live uncertainly

Even actions can be incorrect

So hesitancy is used amply

Repetition does not eradicate mistakes

It’s best to check tasks 3 times and once more just in case

#original poetry #Poor self-esteem #indecisiveness #spilled ink #ocd #anxiety poem

[tenchisgirls]

#Tenchi #tenchi muyo #harem anime #anime #Tenchi Muyo! Ryo-Ohki #tenchi masaki #ryoko #ryoko hakubi #sasami #Sasami Masaki Jurai #indecision #indecisiveness

[mgparker]

write marc/steven/jake or peter parker?? for the love of god, someone pls give me an answer bc i’m the most indecisive person and will not write anything otherwise

#already have multiple drafts of either character #i need guidance #pls #mgparker chats: #indecisiveness #peter parker x reader #tasm!peter parker x reader #marc spector x reader #steven grant x reader #jake lockley x reader

[indecisiveness8]

Galaxy Girl. Made with Monster Girl Maker. Commision custom art at my website linked here: https://indecisiveness8.wixsite.com/indecisiveness-art

#original character #monster girl maker #galaxy #galaxy theme #galaxycharacter #galaxyoc #monstergirlmakerghoulkiss #indecisiveness

[yisum]

從「慢性自我懷疑」和「冒名頂替綜合症」到「優柔寡斷和自卑」——

from chronic self-doubt and imposter syndrome to indecisiveness and low self-esteem.

您不信任自己的 7 個心理原因(1)

7 Psychological Reasons You Don’t Trust Yourself

使您難以相信自己的不是過去的事件，而是您現在的習慣。

It’s not events from your past that make it hard to trust yourself — it’s your habits in the present.

1. 懷念過去——热衷反省过去

Dwelling on the past——bad habit of ruminating on the past

它沒有生產力。不健康的反芻不斷進行，實際上並沒有帶來任何好處。

It’s not productive.Unhealthy rumination keeps going and going without actually resulting in any benefit.

這是強迫性的。不同于健康的反思（深思熟慮和有意而为的）

It’s compulsive.different than healthy reflection(deliberate and intentional)

長期反思過去的錯誤和失敗也會讓你的大腦相信你不值得信任。

(待續）

#好奇心 #curiosity #wanting #courage #emotional

#perfectionism #完美主义 #完美主義 #selfdoubt #rumination

#impostersyndrome #indecisiveness #lowselfesteem

#selfesteem #ego #psychology #compassion

#perfection #perfectionismrecovery #rumination #selfesteembuilding

#樹洞 #Consulta #自我覺察 #positivethinking #stress #quotestoliveby #quotesoftheday #happyness #心理學 #loveyourself #世界和我爱着你 #心理学

#好奇心 #curiosity #wanting #courage #emotional #perfectionism #完美主义 #完美主義 #selfdoubt #rumination #impostersyndrome #indecisiveness #lowselfesteem #selfesteem #ego #psychology #compassion #perfection #perfectionismrecovery #selfesteembuilding #樹洞 #Consulta #自我覺察 #positivethinking #stress #quotestoliveby #quotesoftheday #happyness #心理學 #loveyourself

[mesillusionssousecstasy]

Insincerity and indecisiveness could cost him a great deal.

Andrzej Sapkowski (Blood of elves)

#quote #quotation #citation #quotes #livre #book #book lover #bibliophile #book therapy #book addict #book community #book worm #goodreads #andrzej sapkowski #blood of elves #the witcher #insincerity #indecisiveness #deal

[mentalmindsetmatters]

Indecisiveness and Its Impact in Our Professional and Personal Lives

Indecisiveness is not merely a frustrating personality quirk; it's a compounding factor that can significantly impact our personal growth, professional performance, and even our health outcomes. In a world that demands quick and effective choices, the inability to make decisions can be crippling. This long-form article dives deep into the intricacies of indecisiveness and its multifaceted effects on decision-makers, professionals, students, and even patients. Furthermore, it provides insights into strategies one can employ to overcome indecision and reclaim control over their lives.

Understanding Indecisiveness

Indecisiveness is the lack of ability to make a decision swiftly when presented with multiple alternatives. At the core of indecisiveness are several psychological factors, such as fear of making the wrong choice, perfectionism, and a lack of confidence in one's judgment. This section aims to unpack the elements that give indecision its power over us.

The Root of the Issue

Indecisiveness can be traced back to a variety of root causes, some of which include anxiety, insufficient information, and cognitive overload. Understanding why we struggle with indecisiveness is crucial in finding effective solutions to address it.

The Cognitive Load

In a fast-paced world with so many choices, our cognitive resources can become overwhelmed. The burden of constant decision-making can lead to decision fatigue, where the quality of our choices declines. The cognitive load often associated with modern life highlights the need for improved decision-making frameworks.

Impact on Decision Makers

Leaders, managers, and anyone in a position of decision-making authority are not immune to the impacts of indecisiveness. In a professional context, a single indecision can have far-reaching consequences, affecting everything from team morale to company profits.

Ripple Effects

An indecisive leader can set off a domino effect, where important milestones are missed, projects stall, and trust in leadership dwindles. The ripple effects can sabotage entire initiatives and erode the confidence stakeholders have in the organization.

Battling the Clock

Time-crunch decisions are a reality in many high-pressure situations. For indecisive individuals, the ticking clock only serves to exacerbate feelings of stress and inadequacy. Learning to make swift and informed decisions is imperative for those in decision-making roles.

Impact on Professionals

For professionals across different industries, indecisiveness can manifest as missed opportunities, decreased efficiency, and stunted career growth. Whether due to procrastination or a genuine lack of ability to choose, the impacts of indecision are not to be underestimated.

The Cost of Delay

In a business context, delays caused by indecision can have a direct financial impact. Missed deadlines, unexecuted strategies, and delayed projects can result in lost revenue and damage to an individual's professional reputation.

Growth Stagnation

Professionals who consistently wrestle with indecision may find that their career progression comes to a standstill. The hesitation to make bold moves or take on new challenges can prevent individuals from reaching their full potential.

Impact on Students

Indecisiveness can be particularly detrimental to students, affecting academic performance and the pivotal decisions that shape their educational and career paths.

The Academic Arena

In the academic environment, indecisiveness can lead to poor time management, missed study opportunities, and suboptimal academic performance. The pressure to choose a career path only exacerbates the impact of indecision on students.

The Crossroads of Career Decisions

Indecisiveness during the formative years of education can lead to confusion about career prospects. Choosing a major, pursuing further education, and starting a career all require a series of decisions that an indecisive individual may find overwhelming.

Impact on Patients Seeking Treatment

In the sensitive domain of healthcare, indecisiveness can lead to delayed treatment, poor adherence to medical advice, and ultimately, compromised health outcomes.

The Weight of Treatment Decisions

Patients often need to make critical decisions about their treatment plans. Whether it's choosing a course of therapy or deciding on a surgical intervention, indecision can delay necessary healthcare and hamper recovery.

Adherence to Medical Advice

Even after a treatment plan has been decided upon, adherence to medical advice is crucial. Indecisiveness can lead patients to second-guess their physicians or delay essential follow-ups, thus impacting the effectiveness of the treatment.

Strategies to Overcome Indecisiveness

Thankfully, indecisiveness is not a life sentence. There are various strategies and tools that one can employ to bolster their decision-making abilities and minimize the impact of indecision.

Developing a Decision-Making Framework

Creating a systematic approach to decision-making can provide clarity and reduce the anxiety associated with making choices. Frameworks such as the pros and cons list or the decision tree method are valuable aids in the process.

Building Confidence

Confidence in one's abilities is key in overcoming indecisiveness. Seeking opportunities to make decisions, reflecting on past choices, and learning from the outcomes can help build a robust decision-making muscle.

Seeking Professional Help

In cases where indecisiveness is ingrained and pervasive, seeking help from a therapist or counselor can be beneficial. Cognitive-behavioral therapy, in particular, has been proven effective in treating decision-related anxiety.

Conclusion

Indecisiveness is a complex issue with domino-like effects that can reach into every corner of our lives. By understanding the root causes and taking proactive steps to improve our decision-making skills, we can push back against the paralyzing grip of indecisiveness. The next time you find yourself hesitating, remember that decisive action is not only a skill to be honed but a liberating act that can reshape your future.

For those struggling with indecision, whether in their professional or personal lives, the road to better mental health is a step away. Take the leap with Renewed Mental Health Group, where our experts are ready to guide you through the process of overcoming indecisiveness and reclaiming your power. Your tomorrow is a decision away. Contact us now for a consultation that could

#indecisiveness #depression #healthcare #mental wellness