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effen-c · 6 months
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I’ve been awake for a little too long so I’m sorry if this all sounds jumbled. I’m in desperate need of help getting cash together to get into an apartment ASAP. I’m going through a sudden divorce and I am not welcome here anymore. I need to get into a place with at least one bedroom so my daughter has a place to sleep when she’s with me. I can’t just rent a room somewhere and have her over. Anything helps. A share, a donation. I appreciate anything.
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wordbinge · 9 days
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Hey everyone,
Quick update from my end,I'm in a bit of a spot and could really use some support.
Long story short, last year after coming out as trans to my parents, I ended up on my own. Been crashing at my cousin's, but that's coming to an end. Their partner's not cool with me being there ( is uncomfortable with me being trans) which is a whole other situation, basically im being told to leave .again.
Luckily ive got a friend from high school who's willing to take me in, which is awesome and i dont know what id do with out their offer.
I hate to ask but i dont what else to do considering every other option has just crumpled.
I Just need some help paying for a train ticket to get there. Ive sold some stuff and a mutual has helped with some of it, but I'm short by 57 dollars.
If anyone can chip in (honestly anything at this point) or share this around, it'd mean the world. Thanks for listening.
Paypal
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luvrxbunny · 3 months
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GUYS HOW DO TOU DATE PPL IRL?? LIKE HOW DO I MEET PEOPLE??? IM SO TIRED OF BEING SINGLE
FUCK
I DONT WANNA DATE ANY OF MY FRIENDS AND I DONT WANNA GO ON A DATING APP HELPPP
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deceitedspades · 9 months
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Hi Tumblr! I never really wanted to make this kind of post, but I'm in a tough spot.. I'm stuck in abusive household and often find myself having to turn to unorthodox or not so legal ways to get by. I'm currently working towards finishing out my senior year, and cannot work traditionally as I am disabled.
If any of you could spare any funds to help with food, and other costs (clothing, school appliances, transportation, etc) then it would be greatly appreciated.
My cash app is $targetedspades
And my PayPal is @/deceitedspades
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heavenssexiestangel · 3 months
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Aid Request
I am not used to making such posts, and I debated making it, in the first place... But I need help.
I have been laid off work on Dec 31st, 2023, and I wouldn't have been paid enough to pay what I need to, anyway.
I am in what I hope to be my last year of university. I need to take 2 exams and write my thesis. Unfortunately, I'm also over the usual years, which means I didn't get the state aid to pay less on the University Fees. The delay has been caused both my decaying mental health because of my family, that I live with, and other health issues I suffered in the past 2 years.
I wanted to graduate in March (which means not paying the fees), but my thesis professor said it will probably not be possible. This is due to her not answering my many e-mails about the thesis, so much that I had to ask the Uni tutor for help communicating with her... It's a whole damn saga.
Since dropping out isn't an option (I would want to, but I am not allowed to by said family, who think it would be shameful to drop out now and that people would talk, and that it's my fault for being lazy and stupid - I live with them until October, when I'm moving in with @michaelmilligan, and no, they don't have money to help me out), I need to ask for help covering the Fees.
One fee is already overdue, it should have been paid Dec 19, 2023, but I still hoped to graduate in March. It amounts to €1275 and I will also have to pay a fee over it as well, so it's more than that but I'm not sure how much.
The second fee is also €1275, and must be paid by March 15, 2024.
I can show both on my uni website if requested.
My next goal is to graduate by July.
All this said, I need help covering all of this at least...
If you can spare anything at all, please consider donating through my Ko-Fi or through Paypal (my e-mail is [email protected]). If you'd like to get something out of it, I do have a Redbubble Shop. I don't have many things on it yet, but I hope to add more soon.
So here's what I need so far:
Goal: 0/2550
Thank you,
Dean
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windup-dragoon · 11 months
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I'm sorry it came to this but in light of recent news, I've set up a Gofundme in hopes that I may remain in my current location and safe!
Details of my current situation is mentioned on the page.
Likes and reblogs are immensely appreciated, especially since links are tricky on tumblr! 💕
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feydir · 21 days
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Anyone wanna help out a queer disabled lady? I've been searching for a job for months, and I haven't found anything. The main reason is because I can't drive and my city decided my area doesn't deserve bus service. So I can't find a job because I don't have reliable transportation, and finding a at home job is extremely tough.
To get the class that will help me a lot with my driving anxiety costs around 1k, so I'm trying to save up for that. But it's extremely hard, since the only money I get is like 70$ everything 3 months. My husband offered to help, but I already feel like a burden, cause I can't help pay for anything.
So i'm trying to raise funds to afford this class, and be able to help with some of the household expenses. Thank you for reading!
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sorenserotonin · 2 months
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hey guys so im in need of some serious help. i havent been able to have my testosterone for months at this point due to florida’s current laws making it so that nurse practitioners (the people who handle hrt 90% of the time for trans patients) cant write prescriptions for HRT for trans people. i went to my gynecologist since shes a doctor and she wrote the exact same script but my insurance wont cover the gel pumps, only the gel packets and she for some reason cant write the script for the packets or anything like that and said i have to find a provider who works with trans patients regularly and writes HRT scripts for all forms of hrt.
so if you live in central florida and are currently on HRT with a doctor who is able to write prescriptions and accepts cigna insurance PLEASE reach out to me with the information for that provider because i am in desperate need. i have been suicidal and had a major relapse with my eating disorder due to all the stress of this situation.
if you dont live in central florida please reblog so more people can see it.
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bunderrated · 5 months
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in need of a gaming chair. recommendations would be cool 🥹💀
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ladyyatexel · 2 years
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Have you been thinking that there's a real lack of hopeless strangers on your dash asking for help lately? ☆Congratulations, I have arrived!☆
I feel obligated to a certain level of jesterdom while doing this, like perhaps I can earn my keep by entertaining people. It's bleak and humiliating, but we're gonna Have Fun With It! :D This is perhaps more a note to make to self and to a therapist rather than note here, but it segues well into the important point of:
~.•°¤.°•○~☆ I Can't Afford Shit ☆•*.°○.•°*×
let alone a therapist
I'm currently stuck in a weird position, both physically and situationally, because I have some sciatica scoliosis spinal bone spur nonsense that decided that now was its time to shine. I'm in pain all the time at every angle and position, so I'm not doing Great?
I'm in the middle of the process of filing for disability and if you've ever applied for a job and been frustrated that you gave them all of your information and then the application asked you to give them the same information all over again, applying for disability is like doing that, but times 40, and with information you don't have memorized the way you have your phone number and home address. They also insist on doing it through the mail. My next step is to be evaluated by some kind of impartial physician. My appointments are in mid to late July. I am unsure what they want me to do with myself until that time.
The work I'm trying to do is not enough. I'm making buttons like crazy but in the end they are just buttons and they sell for 2 to $4 and so you really need to be someone who is absolutely psyched about buttons and buys 40 of them or I need to tap into a market that is Larger in order for this to be reliably sustaining. I do not know what that market is. I was the weird kid in school - what is popular, I don't know, I was never meant to know, it is a mystery.
Do not get me wrong, I am currently holding my face above water because of some really enthusiastic fans of buttons.
But I can't sell a month's rent worth of buttons. I don't even think I have the supplies to make that many.
My rent is USD$670, which is hiked up an extra $70 from where it was last year because my landlord wanted to bleed me dry while the world is on fire. Despite how poorly insulated and badly maintained this house is as a structure, I do enjoy having even a badly insulated roof and a place to put all my shit.
If you've got a need for $700 worth of buttons for some reason, hit me up.
If you don't, then hey, I'm another artist in crippling pain on your dash hoping people in better situations than I can help out. I would love to cover my rent to remove that anxiety for myself for another month, but Every Bill keeps happening, so more beyond that it going to my electric which hasn't been paid since February, and my internet which will keep me afloat in nearly every way possible. I'm also almost at the bottom of the bag of Science Diet food that keeps my beloved cat, Onyx, healthy. I do not know how best to keep a ticker tape of a goal, because there isn't one? I need to survive until at least July. It's June 17th as I write this. Two months rent and some cat food? Don't know, I'm five minutes from a phone call which will determine if they will still allow me food stamps.
SO.
Ways in which I can dance for your amusement so that you may throw coins in my direction:
Art Commissions! I can paint like a motherfucker! I have an extremely ill-advised expensive piece of paper saying I can do it!
Check it out, man. There are COLORS and everything.
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Radical.
I have a Patreon where you can see Secrets!
And a Ko-fi! I sell buttons on Ko-fi, in case you were wondering when that plot point would come back. It's not very satisfying narratively, I am sorry. Thinking about offering prints there, as well!
I have other options in my sidebar - RedBubble, Society6, etc!
There is also paypal.me/ladyyatexel if you just want to give money to my literally actually broken ass without getting a cool item in return.
And yes, if you're thinking this all looks and feels kinda familiar, I had to dance and beg on the internet in Dec 2021, and I made that go as far as I possibly could. It's six months later and everything I'm trying to do to better my situations is just taking Forever. I'm trying to come up with a way to stay afloat while rescuing myself takes its time.
Thanks for reading if you made it this far, friend. Even just knowing someone listened to you yelling for a minute is helpful.
No need to feel obligated, especially if you don't feel I deserve a second round of help, I understand. But if you wanna spread this around and let me 'Will Art For Food' on someone else's dash, that would be sick.
Take care of yourselves, friends, it is brutal out there.
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remellu · 2 months
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NEED OF SHELTER WITH HOMELESS (GOFUNDME AND ADDITIONAL INFO BELLOW)
DISCLAIMER: You can skip to the gofundme before scrolling to read everything, as I do update on there, but since I don't use tumblr much and this is very urgent, I have additional stuff to say in this post after providing the link. Link: https://gofund.me/952d122a
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As you can tell, I'm currently homeless and cannot access resources for shelter, as the homeless epidemic has caused it to get much harder to find shelter and transitional housing. I'm also someone who needs special accommodations as a disabled person, such as my medication and my cat being an emotional support animal, so that alone will make me less likely to be accepted.
I've been seeking a way to get housing way before I became homeless, as I knew the lease wasn't going to be renewed, but I couldn't do it on time. Currently I paid for my 1st and 2nd stay at the hotel I'm currently at. That's been 10 days, and currently I need to renew again by the 13th of February. This is the information for my first booking, which was cheaper than the second check in. 403 was the total including tax, but the second check in is 403 WITHOUT the tax.
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Here's the proof of the second stay in for 5 days being higher than the last.
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This hotel is literally the cheapest I could find with basic accomidations such as having a microwave and being able to refrigerate food, so I have to deal with the prices fluctuating a bit. It's not going to be the same each time I renew my stay at the hotel. But I don't expect it to reach the 500 USD range, it's going to be bellow that. The better approximate I guess is to get 480 USD for every 5 days of staying if feasible.
This is the current amount I got for the 3rd stay 66.11 is what I have left and the other two are donations that are still processing This isnt enough for the third hotel stay. (Due on the 13th) I would need around 500 USD (in case I need other needs like food/ set up the p.o. box) I'll appreciate any help!
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Gofundme does not finish sending transactions on weekends, in fact it postpones it, so that may cause complications for the 3rd and 4th stay if the money comes in too late. I do have a kofi and paypal in case anyone wants to ensure the money comes in faster, I'll put that link for Kofi here: https://ko-fi.com/remellu If you don't have gofundme, I'll provide my Paypal directly as well: paypal.me/yummeiko
Here's a diagram for the 3rd and 4th visit and how transactions work on Gofundme can affect me being able to renew the stay. Especially for the 4th one.
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I do not know how long I'm going to stay here, my homeless status is indefinite, I'll I can do is continue to work on finding resources for housing that will fit my financial situation while I try to stay in the hotel as much as possible. 10K USD is the amount asked because I know it may take a while to get things sorted, I may not need that amount, but if I don't and I reach it, I could always use it for deposits and so on as well as furnishing my apartment whenever I can get there. I apologize how lengthy this is. I do not use Tumblr often so if you want to get more frequent updates about what is being donated and my current status is, there's a few places you can follow me at. Twitter (Main): https://twitter.com/Remellu Instagram (main): https://www.instagram.com/remeiu/ Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/remellu.bsky.social I also posted a video in regards to the gofundme on both tiktok and youtube (i may also put these on both my instagrams if the length is allowed. Twitter also has it) Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@remeiu/video/7333364564697894186 Youtube: https://youtu.be/YWokYi2gl0g Again, I'll appreciate any help I will get, and I will also try to come back on this site to update this stuff as well, I'm just not good at remembering I have a tumblr. The best you can do if you can't donate is reblog or share on your other social media we are both on. Thank you in advance!
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transonlyspace · 3 months
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TW : small vent (my grammar is horrible and english isnt my 1st language so it might not make sense srry + this story is just gonna be all over the place) So i came out as trans (mtf) to my mom about 3 weeks ago but she didn't believe me right away until about 8 days ago when was finally coming to terms that i was really trans, like a week ago she came up to my and sat down on my bed and started talking to me basically telling me that i was being influenced by media etc then she (to put it shortly) told me that she was gonna leave the house until i called telling her i had realised i am a man (Keep in mind i have 4 younger siblings and im only 16.) she hasnt come home in almost 6 days... i know this is gonna sound mean but i not really worried about where she is or hows shes doing rn, im more so worried about my siblings, i dont know how to cook or how to properly take care of kids (especially since one of my siblings has down syndrome). Okay so wrapping the whole story up i just wanted to ask if you/any one who sees this knows any basic/cheap recipes. Also if you know how to take care of young kids i would love some tips
(i honestly think its better that shes out of the house due to how abusive she was towards me and my siblings, but i definitly cant afford to pay bills working minimum so i will have to eventually call her)
sadly, i dont know any recipes. i hope you and your siblings are doing well. i have a younger sister, but i admit im not that good at the parenting part other than helping with homework parts (where incase you need advise, you should be helpful but not outwardly give the answer and let them figure it out with hints and also make sure to ask if they understood the concept and explain if they didnt. but i understand that this isnt the most important advice, im sorry anon)
for your sibling with down syndrome, i advise you ask an actual page dedicated to down syndrome that has a mod with down syndrome. ive never actually met anyone with down syndrome before so i cant be of much help.
but since this is a public site, any advise towards anon would be appriciated!
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calicos-place · 3 months
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I really really hate making posts like these but at this point I don't really have a choice. I'm behind on bills and rent is coming up soon and I don't have a job because I'm getting rejected from them left and right, so I started a GoFundMe:
https://gofund.me/cc4131c9
Even if you can't donate, just sharing this around would really mean the world. Literally anything helps at all, thanks for looking.
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queer-coded-tourney · 8 months
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do i do the losers bracket first or the second bracket (bracket with characters that didn't make it in the first one but got submitted) first help!!!
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abbym36 · 3 months
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dustydeplorable215 · 3 months
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