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carewyncromwell · 3 years

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[HPHM] Orion Amari Playlist

suggested by @drinkyoursoupbitch // featuring Tyler Gaca as Orion

“Sante Fe” ~ Newsies (1992)

“Up is Down” ~ Pirates of the Caribbean: At World’s End

“The Rainbow Connection (cover)” ~ Joseph Vincent

“Aquarius” ~ Hair

“Anticipation” ~ Carly Simon

“Que Sera Sera (cover)” ~ Michael Hanisch

“Walking in the Air (cover)” ~ Chloe Agnew

“In Dreams (cover)” ~ Peter Hollens

“Love Heals” ~ The cast of RENT

Orion Amari was the youngest Slytherin Quidditch Captain named in a hundred years. Only turning 15 a few months after earning the position, the laid-back and eccentric young man could easily be underestimated. All of that quickly proved foolish when his talent on a broom and the respect and loyalty he inspired in his teammates became apparent. One of those such teammates, at least for one match, was Carewyn Cromwell, who served as Slytherin Chaser alongside Orion and his yearmate Skye Parkin when one of their teammates got injured. In the time when Carewyn fought to prove herself to Orion and earn the Chaser position, the two connected in a way Orion had rarely encountered before, and he never completely got over Carewyn’s departure from his team. Despite how fond Carewyn was of Orion and he was of her, Carewyn just couldn’t put her focus on her brother, the Cursed Vaults, and R on hold and give the Slytherin team the dedication it deserved. It was only for Orion’s final match at school when, once again, an injury left the team short a Chaser that Carewyn returned, so as to make sure Orion achieved his dream of winning the Quidditch Cup for Slytherin. That match and its aftermath made it clear to Orion how much his view of Carewyn had truly changed over the years -- and yet the paths they’d forged for themselves, which led toward completely separate and incompatible futures, made it so that Orion would have to sacrifice his dream of playing Quidditch professionally in order to stay and pursue Carewyn romantically. This choice was one Orion just couldn’t make, and so the two parted with Orion never having told Carewyn about his budding feelings. Fortunately fate was on Orion’s side...and eight years later, in the midst of the Second Wizarding War, Orion and Carewyn got a second chance at writing a love story together.

#hphm #hogwarts mystery #orion amari #playlist #I kept orion's coloring neutral even though my orion is slytherin because of course orion is in mc's house in the game #but yeah um of course as all of you should know by now I love my surfing sunshine man so much!#he's also one of my favorite characters in the game #and his level of chemistry with my girl carewyn when I first wrote them together was such a wonderful surprise that just keeps on giving #orion has less of a visible arc than a lot of my characters as he was already pretty wise and secure in himself when carey met him #but one way he does grow is by learning how to make and express attachments #orion's life in the orphanage was kind of about self-preservation and just looking after oneself #and orion kind of learned to deal with conflict by avoiding it #only once he got to school did he kind of make a 'family' for himself through quidditch #but that doesn't mean he knew how to express physical affection or even the best way to show how much he cares #i.e. tough love when someone's out of line or fighting for the sake of someone you care about #through meeting people like skye mcnully carewyn and others and through becoming a father to eos orion learned how to stand his ground #how to plant his feet on the ground when it's absolutely necessary rather than always staying in the air or flying away #it's something his other half carewyn encourages in him as she's ALL about protecting and fighting for her loved ones #and yet he helps bring some peace and levity to her overly serious perfectionistic world too <3

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dragon-ball-meta · 3 years

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It's amazing how the very things some 'fans' dunk on Krillin and Chi-Chi for and wonder why their significant others chose them are the very things that 18 and Goku love about them. I.E his gentleness and good heart and her tough as nails strong willed nature etc.

OK... I have a take on this that may be a tiny bit controversial, but I feel it needs to be said. The reason Krillin and Chi-Chi are dunked on for their personalities, especially in a series where characters with similar ones are loved, is not because of their personalities. ...it’s because they’re not seen as sexy. Both in terms of appearance and personality. No, you didn’t read that wrong and I’m going to explain to you why. Chi-Chi is seen as bitchy, bossy, always trying to have things her way, “forcing Goku to do things he doesn’t want to do” like... get a job or spend some time doing normal family stuff. How awful. The thing is, there’s another character in this series who had similar personality traits dialed up to freakin’ 11. And that character is Bulma. Bulma was always very bossy. She was borderline abusive at times (if you look at that outside the context of comedic overreactions, at least), she would throw a fit over other girls talking to Yamcha and accuse him of cheating, she would demand attention, she would turn on a dime and flirt openly with anyone she found attractive, and even when on a mission to revive her boyfriend whom she had wept over, she... found herself thinking of other men and even trying to throw tail at Zarbon (in her anime depiction at least, but in the manga she was still dazed by his good looks). She was selfish, would slap, kick, punch, scream, etc. But she’s never really considered to be a shrew, or a “bitch”, or what have you because... well... she’s sexy. She shows skin, shows cleavage, flaunts her curves, is fashionable. She’s seen as a sort of “sex symbol” for it rather than in any sort of negative light. And yes, Bulma does change and grow up as the series progresses, but there are still elements of this present in her, and even when she hadn’t? She was still loved by the fandom. And to further illustrate this, not only does Vegeta acknowledge that’s part of what he finds attractive about Bulma, a la Goku with Chi-Chi, but even in the fandom itself, when there are fan works or figures sexualizing or “sexing up” Chi-Chi in the same way as Bulma? They are RIGHT there lining up to drool. The same dudes who say they can’t STAND her will sit there and WISH she would wear that in the show, act like that in the show, etc. They openly bemoan that she stopped wearing the barbarian bikini armor and started dressing more conservatively. And on the flipside, some also bemoan that she, unlike Bulma, is a more traditional housewife, happily. Bulma’s out there running a whole company, y’see, so any of these other women being more traditional wives or mothers? That’s a negative. And since Chi-Chi is the epitome of that, SHE is bad while Bulma is good. (To be clear, there’s a whole other discussion to be had there as to whether some of that is a valid series criticism to some degree, but I’ve seen people take that wayyy too far with Chi-Chi.) They say she was hindering Goku by trying to hold him responsible, they say that she “ruined” Gohan by FORCING him to study instead of fight, and ignore that Gohan himself preferred it. (He’s a SAIYAN, y’see, he HAS to like fighting, it’s in his blood. Chi-Chi just choked it out of him, that’s all!) Ridiculousness of that sort. And on the Krillin front... well.. just look at Gohan. Gohan and Krillin have shockingly similar personalities. They’re both dorks, they both have a corny sense of humor (in a loveable way), they’re both a bit socially awkward with the opposite sex, they both love and dote on their families and adore their daughters, both even get back into martial arts for the sake of their families but put their jobs and roles as family men and breadwinners first and foremost. But for some reason, you see Gohan with these ridiculous, over-the-top harems and Krillin the victim of NTR by pretty much every character in the entire franchise at this point. Some people actually even ship 18 with Gohan over Krillin because they think the “take-charge dominant woman x nerd” dynamic is better when that’s the same dynamic that exists with her and Krillin. Why? Well... because Gohan is sexy. Gohan is powerful, traditionally handsome, tall and muscular. Krillin is... short. Missing a nose. Comparatively not powerful and not as muscular. His gentleness is seen as weakness, not kindness. He doesn't have his badass moments of beating the snot out of the main villain while glaring and making women swoon and men jealous. Ergo, he is bad. He is a beta male. He is a “cuck”. He doesn’t “deserve” his wife, he doesn’t “deserve” to be anything but a joke. 18 “settled” for him, and thus their relationship is “toxic”. I even once saw someone say that she settled in a series where “the men are ranked by actual, literal numbers (power levels)” and that 18 thus “not only settled, but sank to near the center of the earth” with Krillin. I’ve seen people say that since Toriyama said in interviews outside the series that he partly let Krillin have his dream of getting married because he felt bad for always writing him having bad things happen to him, that their relationship is bad because that also means 18 got with him out of pity or obligation and teaches that “women are rewards” when the manga itself shoots that whole idea down. These are all real takes. Make no mistake, Gohan will sometimes be bashed by those who have toxic ideas of masculinity as well, but he still gets an overall pass because of his cool factor and... well, sex appeal. Even straight dudes find him cool enough to project onto, and others just lust after him. Plus, if push comes to shove, just imagine that Gohan became “badass again” in fanfic land. Much harder sell with someone like Krillin. The fandom has a very, very nasty case of double-standards throughout, however. This is just the tip of a very unfortunate iceberg.

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terramythos · 3 years

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I beat the 2021 Nier Replicant remake, here were my thoughts overall (I did play the 2010 release a few years ago). SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS

*so this game was MOSTLY a straight remake/remaster, with improvements to some baseline things, but a few totally new storylines/content here and there.

*obviously everything got a graphical overhaul, which brings the style more in line with Automata. I think they did a great job w/ this, the old character models were... pretty rough. But the new ones still keep the general feel of the characters. and environments etc obviously look better. it’s not the most graphically amazing game ever, but that’s fine

*the updated music is EXCELLENT. the original release already had legendary tracks, and Keiichi Okabe + crew either scaled up the tracks well or reimagined them in new and improved ways. I’m super impressed and know I’m going to play the new tracks a lot. (there are some tracks i just think “this is what 10 years of music comp experience does to a motherfucker” (admiration))

*i’m also glad most of the original VAs returned, even ones that are bigger names now than they were when they first appeared in the 2010 release. Laura Bailey knocks it out of the park as Kaine, but they’re all good. i also liked Roy Chase’s (new) performance as older Brother Nier.

*combat is way better and fun compared to the original release. look, i didn’t hate the original’s combat (i’m in the minority on this), but it’s WAY better with a more Automata style.

*totally new content: i really liked the new storyline/boss/level with the girl and the ship. i didn’t know going in, but apparently it’s based on a Japan-only short story? i thought it was nice they added anything at all. it was pretty obviously new content based on the animation quality (i.e. it’s an animation that’s new from the ground up, not a remastered one) and the sort of random placement in the story... but i liked it; creepy and sad. i’m a little confused that the conclusion with the letter is different depending on the ending path you’re on.

*the BIG new content: ending E. on a meta level, i think it’s hilarious that the game doesn’t tell you it exists, unlike the other ones. you have to know about it or look it up. So theoretically there’s someone out there who will beat the game, get ending D, put the game down for 3 years, decide to replay it, and accidentally activate this totally bonkers ending

*i loved ending E! I know this one is vaguely (?) based on a Japan-only story as well. but playing as Kaine was awesome since she’s my favorite character. i thought the visuals were an interesting callback (callforward?) to Automata at parts. the big boss fight where you fight as Kaine in the weird simulation realm is just fun/trippy/horrifying. and it is heartening to see Weiss, Emil, and eventually Nier again after the huge downer that’s ending D. Even if it’s all pretty fucking weird/surreal in context.

*so i’m going to talk about the... old? content? stuff that’s in the original release and present in the remake

*the strong part of nier is definitely the story and characters. all the leads are likeable, and they have a great found family vibe. i also LOVE that there’s the big “hey Shades are humans actually” twist at the end which changes your perspective on everything. and i LOVE that the game forces you to replay the second half not only with that knowledge, but with additional scenes and dialogue that make everything horrifying and depressing.

*the fact that it’s all a meta commentary on violence in video games (why do you like killing hordes of enemies? what if the enemies have a reasonable point of view that you don’t understand?). the closest comparison i can think of is... Undertale, of all things? but OG Nier came out 5 years before that game.

*it’s kind of wild/complex, but i do like the Drakenier lore and how it fits into the story of the game, even though it (unfortunately) requires research outside of the game to appreciate. imagine if kingdom hearts lore was like, actually good and compelling.

*some of the side quests are good and interesting, and also introduce new perspective on the overarching story. i like that some quests from the first half lead into quests in the second half, often with their own surprising twists and turns.

*my big beef with Nier, which is unfortunately still present in the remake, is it wastes your time. the main quest has you run back and forth a lot. the side quests (and sometimes main quest!) are often just... grindy MMO fetch quests. do not get me started on the gardening mechanic, one of the few things that is actually WORSE in the remake (it’s time consuming both in game and in real life. and you can no longer cheese it with your system clock. yes, it is optional, except for one of the side quests that requires you to do it. yes, i still bred Lunar Tears. don’t look at me). there’s a fast travel... partway through the second half of the game. the game is self-aware about some of these things, but i’m not sure that makes it better.

*the part where it comes to a head for me is the C/D path. i LOVE that the B path has you play through the second half again. But C/D add almost nothing new. so you’re just required to speed through the second half again without anything new or interesting. if you’re a moron like me, you also accidentally overwrite over your pre-final dungeon save, so you have to do it a fourth time.

*and there’s no reason for it! it’s the one thing i thought was a no-brainer to change in the remake! automata literally has a timeline jump for this exact reason. you can navigate anywhere in the story after a certain point to do side quests and other stuff. not so in 2010 Nier, OR the 2021 remake. it’s boggling.

*if they didn’t want to do a timeline jump, i feel like it would be simple to let you access the final dungeon once the weapon requirement is met. or remove the weapon requirement entirely (shock). as it is, it’s a pointless waste of time with a couple new scenes (which could easily be put in the B path).

*it sounds like i’m harping on this, but i had a hard time defending it in the 2010 release. In 2021 we have an oversaturated market of excellent games, and wasting someone’s time the way Nier does is difficult to justify when you can pick up a game that doesn’t do that at any time. i love Nier’s story and characters, but it’s a tough game for me to wholeheartedly recommend without disclosing the grindy repetition of the game. something which Automata lacks (there IS some repetition in that game, but it’s kept in the spirit of the B path in this game; new context and scenes that change your perspective).

*however, as remakes go, i think this was a good one overall. i’m a fan of the game, so i had no problem clocking 56 hours, even as certain parts grated on me. i wish they changed more than they did, but i can understand the desire to stick to the original pretty closely. there’s also the whole COVID thing which happened mid-development, and i imagine had an impact on the final product. as always, i’d rather have a humanely treated development team than a crunched one for the sake of what i want in a game.

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hirakdesherrani · 5 years

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EBSS 24-28 June:

Okay, first off, I just have to hand it to the writers for covering so much ground in a span of 5 episodes. Was it rushed? Yes, for sure. But it was so, so good. Not on a single count of writing, did I feel dissatisfied. Star Plus has been ruthless, ordering a revamp so soon (ram jaane what trp they expected on this slot, esp. during the WC), but writers did an incredible job under so much pressure.👏 Its been a while I’ve been so impressed with the writing of a show, and I’m not going to stop gushing about it so soon.

Anyways, here are some scattered thoughts:

What a longgggg, and exhausting day it has been for Kabir, from parting with his wife and son, to finding out that his Dad is a shitty human being, to saving his Dad from burning to ashes, to finding himself and his family homeless, boy has been having a tough time, all within 24 hours. 😓

Initially, I was mighty annoyed that instead of giving us Kabir v/s Jahnvi, they started with the good bahu v/s bad bahu crap. Though happy about the revamp, I was curious about how will the writers manage to bring Kabir into the picture? And they did it quite smoothly. So, obviously good bahu Kavya has to poke her nose everywhere, but of course, Jahnvi can’t have that. So, she gets her out of the way, without doing anything really, because Kavya, like an idiot, has to stalk Jahnvi. Toh ab bhugto. I ain’t feeling bad for that girl. 😈

A lot of people felt it was wrong on Jahnvi’s part to frame Kavya, esp. considering she has been shown so concerned for Aarush. But the thing is, Jahnvi prizes her revenge above everything else, so it was obvious from the start, that Aarush would get hurt somewhere down the line. Will Jahnvi regret it in future? That remains to be seen.

Coming back, by framing Kavya, the writers managed to involve Kabir as well as, provide a dignified exit for Kavya. I loved the parting scene of Kabir-Kavya, surprisingly really, that by the time I like them, its too late. What I liked most, was Kabir insisting on leaving the house with Kavya, with their heads held high. Kavya already has the reassurance that Kabir trusts her, but Kabir didn’t want Kavya’s departure from the house under a cloud of accusation. He was so concerned for her respect. And that has made Kabir my most favorite male lead in the last five years, right after Asad. I just love male leads who can take a stand for females. Especially, in this case, because Kabir isn’t in love with Kavya, but he knows his duties as a husband, and friend. 😍

Kavya’s departure also seemed sensible. Even without Jahnvi framing her, PK didn’t lose an opportunity to humiliate her. The kind of asshole he is, I don’t ever see PK accepting Kavya. I’m glad she actually moved away from the shitty Mittal household, more so for Aarush, at least bachcha bach gaya. But I’ll miss baby Aarush. 😔

Now that his wife and friend was framed, obviously Kabir has to investigate, and it was the most natural transition from Kavya to Kabir as the protagonist (like it should have been from the start). I just loved how Kabir proceeded with it. The investigation, esp. the scene where he fools Amma with the microchip, was so sleek. The writers remembered that he’s a special agent, and I do assure you, its a rarity by ITV standards.

Another thing I’d like to highlight is that Kabir doesn’t lose his head through allllllll the shit that’s been happening. Why? Obviously, because he is an army man, and they are trained to deal with pressurized situations. The writers underlined this fact very subtly, I don’t even know if viewers caught on. After all that has transpired, Kabir was still being patient and composed when he was talking to Pooja.

Which brings me to Jahnvi/Pooja.....I love her so much. I think the best thing about Jahnvi is that she is so unforgiving. YAS! We need more female characters, esp. female leads who are unforgiving. Tellywood has innumerable times reinforced this idea of a kind and forgiving, farmabaddar, female lead. After Maya (of Beyhadh), thankfully this trend is changing. I am so, so glad that Jahnvi tried to immolate PK, and even gladder of the fact, that not just the perpetrators, but she punished junior Mittals too, in a way. It might seem unfair, but c’mon, they are grown up, educated adults who had a good childhood, and they can fend for themselves, unlike Pooja and Rani who lost their father, their childhood, and would have suffered a worse fate if Amma had not adopted them. Bless Amma, one of the best parental figures in ITV rn. 🤧

Was Jahnvi’s plan rushed? Hella yes. But there are two things here, first with Manohar, and then Kavya/Kabir, Pooja has had two close shaves. Even if she framed Kavya, Kabir was sure to find the truth. So, obviously she had to expedite her plan. Secondly, Jahnvi has been working on her plan for at least two years, I’m presuming, entering PK’s company as an employee, gaining his favor and trust on her skills over even his own son, then marrying into the family and gaining their trust. For the audience, the show is only two months old, but from the point where the show started, Jahnvi has already spent quite a few years reaching up till this stage, so she can’t delay anymore, especially with the chances of her cover being blown increasing.

The plan seemed too simple, but the thing is, PK was going to read the papers. For Jahnvi to avoid that, she needed two things, his unflinching trust, which she had gained over the years, and second, a pressure situation, where he can be distracted easily. I’d say finding out about a supposed arch enemy, threatening your rebellious son, and your Dad being paralyzed post a heart attack, can be pretty stressful.

Obviously Jahnvi could have lured him to a shady place and burnt him long ago, but she needed to ruin him and his family completely. So, getting the papers signed was a priority.

I think this is where the best part comes. OUFFFF Shrenu was so good in the scene burning down that house. The transition from pain and hurt, to resolve and anger, and deathly calm after she did the act. Terrific! 🔥 In the same episode, Zain and Ayub were great too.

Kabir’s motivations are so clear. He is the good cop, upholding what is right and just. Obviously he saved his Dad, because he is a son after all, but right next moment he threatened his father, in a non-negotiable tone, that he better surrender himself to the law.

And here we have the clash of values. While Pooja follows her own law, i.e. Hammurabi’s code of eye for an eye, Kabir staunchly believes in law and justice. I really liked that he restrained Dhruv, when Pooja ridiculed him, because he understood Pooja’s motivations and maybe even sympathized with her on some level.

It was a little thick of PK to shout at Dhruv and blame him for marrying Jahnvi, when he was the one who trusted Jahnvi the most in the family, and even ridiculed his son, and thanked the stars that his son was lucky enough to marry someone like Jahnvi. Hmpf.

About Dhruv’s actions, I’ve already mentioned in another post, so moving on to Pooja. I am so glad that she broke off the relationship. Why was it surprising to anyone that she had never married him for real? I thought it was obvious. I mean, she wasn’t going to really marry a guy, in the legal sense, for the sake of revenge. That too, the son of her enemy. I was so glad when she said, “Mere kareeb aane ki koshish mat karna”. Throughout the two months of the show, they’ve shown us Jahnvi’s discomfort when Dhruv comes near, even though she did feel guilty sometimes about using him. Imagine her relief to be finally rid of him. Agreed, she should not have ridiculed him like that, but there is no polite way of telling a person that “you are a dumbfuck and I used you for my revenge.” What annoyed me were the reactions on Twitter condemning Pooja for humiliating Dhruv, and insisting that JanRuv should be endgame, because ‘Dhruv loves her so much’. I mean, what sort of shitty male entitlement is this? More so, because it is propagated by female stans.

Anyways, coming back to the climax of this drama, SHRENU WAS PHENOMENAL. The transition from rage to mockery to a business-like voice telling the shitty Mitals to gtfo was so well done.👏 Esp. the moment, when she drills into their heads that ‘folks, that car ain’t yours, leave it’, I cackled so bad! 😂

I absolutely loved this week’s episodes. Only thing is, Imma gonna miss my shady Jahnvi Mittal. Shrenu was at her best with her micro-expressions and transitions, and I’ve never seen a more perfect casting on Star Plus in the past few years. No one else, and I mean it, no other actress on ITV rn can play Jahnvi Mittal, cuz no one has the calibre of micro-expressions that Shrenu does. 💜

But I’m ready for the open fight. Zain was so good this week, this show finally giving him what he’s capable of. Bring it on!

#ek bhram sarvagun sampanna #ebss #shrenu parikh #zain imam #my stuff

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nayleaharvez97 · 4 years

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What's your opinion on the Naruto Ending?

Hello nonnie!

Weeellll, I am pretty anti-ending and anti-Boruto (though I try not to put that much negativity on my blog for those of you who do like it). I do not fault anyone for liking it or enjoying the new series. Yall do yall, boos!

This is going to be long, but I’ve been thinking about it lately and just want to put out my take on it. But this is my feelings on it...

Before I even get into Naruto, specifically, let’s just talk about this type of epilogue. I just have this thing where I don’t really like epilogues in a sort of way? Like because it’s always this cookie-cutter ending and it’s so heternormative and traditional. I find it rather boring and in all honesty disappointing. And it’s not even just Naruto that is at fault for this, I see it everywhere. I think it’s just because like everyone is supposed to have this happy ending where you get married, have 2.5 kids, nice house, and a respectable job that you probably don’t enjoy (from what I can tell). But no one ever takes into account that that isn’t everyone’s happy ending. There is absolutely no fault for people who do want that. To each their own. But when you see it everywhere, it’s almost like that’s the way it has to be. You know? Like you’re supposed to want that and you’re supposed to get that and if you don’t, then your life is unsatisfactory. No one says this (or maybe they do, like your judgmental aunt at Christmas asking when you’re going to get married and have kids) but it’s implied. It’s in so many stories/movies/shows that we’ve all seen growing up and when there’s rarely a different type of happy ending, it feels like there is no other way to feel full-filled. Which is not true.

The trouble with these kind of endings is that it’s not even just the main character, it’s all the characters. Naruto is very guilty of this. A majority of the Rookie Nine from what we’ve seen got married to childhood crushes (I’ll touch on that in a min) and had children all at the same time. Which is honestly pretty inaccurate? Like did all the women make a pregnancy pact or something? What are the chances everyone had children at the same exact fucking time to where they’re all the same age. Like I’m in my twenties and Ig it becomes more apparent when you get older, but you’re most likely not gonna have children at the same time as your best friends. Yes, the kids can still be friends, but they will probably be a couple to a few years apart. Also, if you look at the time line, this means everyone got married just a bit after turning 18 and instantly popped out babies. Which adds to this pressure that we see in a lot of places, at least for women, that you need to marry young and have children right away. Then, it seems like all the wives just stopped being ninja to be stay at home moms (WHICH IS TOTALLY COOL BTW). So, the women had to give up their careers in order to be mothers, which is ridiculous. While maybe this fits certain characters’ personalities, such as Hinata (imo), it doesn’t fit the others, particularly Sakura who had always strove to be the best she could be as a shinobi without much care to other things. It was a very big part of her character development, her independence and strength she accomplished through hard work. She found something she was proud of and didn’t stop, continuing to push herself to even levels beyond the Godaime. That she just gives it all up to be a mother is a stab to her character development. Because she certainly did not have to give it up. She could have done both. And seeing that none of the mothers tried to do both shows that they couldn’t, which is bullshit. Also, that none of the fathers retired to be stay at home at dads is so gender stereotyping and it pisses me off.

I’m going to ignore shipping and all that, cuz honestly I don’t want to bother. But let’s just talk about this thing where it’s a happily ever after because you marry someone you had a crush on when you were five. While this is seen as romantic and the best thing that could happen, it doesn’t really happen in real life? Like of course there’s going to be exceptions and that is beautiful you know, like that’s pretty cool. It does not happen that often. This is also something that you seen a lot in media, that you marry the person you’d always been pining for. I get that this is shounen and not really all about romance (but Kishimoto decided to put romance in anyway even though he obviously had no fucking clue how to write it) but that way of thinking is a bit naive. It also puts this pressure on young people that you should have already found your “soulmate” at an early age (maybe not five, but come on, twenty is also pretty young t expect that). Let’s look at this at a romance pov just for the sake of the argument and if you know me or my writing, I love romance and am pretty well versed in it js. Everyone married their first love pretty much or the first person they dated (in Naruto and Ino’s case) and it was a happily ever after. Like no, you don’t always marry your first love, your first relationship does not always end up in a marriage. Again, I’m not saying this doesn’t happen, but the fact that he made it happen with every character is silly. This also shows that there is no such thing as moving on from someone. Sakura didn’t move on from Sasuke and Hinata didn’t move on from Naruto. There was no way, apparently, that these women could move on from their childhood crushes and find love in a different place and a little more realistically. Also, there was this half-ass attempt at showing how these relationships came about (i.e. The Last) so all we see is that that person you thought was cute when you were five is still the same person at eighteen. Which is not true. A lot of people change growing up, we learn and see different things, and figure out who we are as people. When someone has figured out who they are and what they’re about, that is when you should get to know them and fall for them. The basis for these relationships have pretty flimsy foundations and Kishimoto doesn’t give us much else to more solidify these relationships besides children. This isn’t even about whether you ship them or not, but that if he was going to show us these relationships then he should have developed them or not done it at all.

Now let’s talk about the biggest reason I am anti-ending and anti-Boruto. Naruto himself being soooo OOC.

Naruto is obviously very unhappy in the ending and in Boruto and it seriously makes me very depressed. He was the main character and such a positive never give up kind of guy. But we don’t see this in the ending. Certainly one of the biggest parts of his character was that he wanted to be Hokage. He finally accomplishes his dream and he’s not even excited about it and even misses the inauguration (to my understanding). And that’s seriously like wtf???? Like nah, fuck that, he would be so fucking happy because this is what he had always working hard for, he has finally proven himself and the whole village loves him. He made it. But Kishimoto doesn’t give us that and it breaks my heart.

Another thing is how he is with his family which is also sooo OOC. He’s depicted as an absent father and husband. The boy who grew up without a family and always wanted a home. Someone who’s entire character revolves around love. Yet, he doesn’t spend time with his children. He doesn’t want to go home. His son hates him because he’s never around. He doesn’t seem to be affectionate with his children at all, just like he’s acting a part and that’s it. Well, that is like so not how he would be. Like are you kidding me?? Naruto would loooove his family, he finally has one. He’d love them more than his job, more than anything. Naruto would be ecstatic to have family. He never had one. He grew up alone feeling ignored and neglected by his village. You think he would just let his children feel the same way? By their own father? Fuck no. He’d make sure they never felt the way he did. He’d be there. Naruto would be a fucking loving father (fucking fight me if you think otherwise) and that Kishimoto made him a deadbeat dad is the worst thing he ever did with the ending imo.

Naruto meant a lot to me growing up. He stood for so many things that got me through some tough times. He fought to be the best he could be. Even when he was a “loser”, he still tried and didn’t let anyone tell him he’d never be anything. He never gave up when things were hard and it seemed like nothing was going to go right. He just kept working hard and doing what he could. He aimed for the highest he could and he fucking got it. Like that is some inspirational shit, my dude. He was kind to people who had been awful to him. He was forgiving and helped complete strangers without the blink of an eye. He made his own family when he didn’t have one. He went from being ignored and completely alone to making friends and having everyone see him. That meant so much to me. Kishimoto butchered his character in the ending. He ruined him and gave him a shitty life. So, I’ll never be pro-ending or pro-Boruto for that matter.

Naruto’s not even the only one who’s been made OOC and I don’t want to bother reading/watching something where the creators don’t even seem to know their own characters.

This was so long, deary, I apologize for my rambling. But thank you for giving me the opportunity to put my thoughts into words.

Thank you for the ask, nonnie! I hope you have a good day!

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