#i’m ANGERED

[azyx-blinks]

my knees HURT i stand up they HURT i sit down they HURT i am too young for arthritis and too old for growing pains and too busy for this fucking shit

#i’m mad #i’m angered #stupid knees

[proudfreakmetarusonniku]

Anyway, while people are discoursing about men and not sharing Shubble points, here’s the actual advice I got from watching the stream bc I think that probably needs to be spread more. Shubble elaborates it much better but if you can’t watch it’s better than nothing.

Physical abuse is not just hitting or kicking, anyone causing physical pain intentionally to you without consent is physically abusive, regardless of how that manifests or if it seems silly.

Pressuring someone into using a safeword on something that’s not, like, a mutually agreed thing and is just something one partner wants is controlling and creepy.

Partners who push at the edge of your boundaries and avoid safewords are abusive.

A partner insisting you’re remembering things wrong and making you seem crazy is abusive (specifically, it’s gaslighting)

Grand romantic gestures from the beginning can very easily be a sign of abuse, as abusers use it to endear themselves to their victims.

Controlling behaviour and refusing to break up while also refusing to make changes is possessive and unhealthy at best.

Abusers will manipulate things to make it seem normal to those outside of their victims- by being kind and helpful even as they neglect their victim, by pressuring their victim to treat their abusive behaviour as a joke, ect. It’s often very hard for an outside observer to know if something is abusive, and making assumptions off of what you know in front of closed doors isn’t helpful.

It’s very hard to tell that you’re being abused, and you'll often still retain affection for your abuser for a long time- this is normal, and this isn’t your fault if you wanted to stay friends.

Even if an abuser is struggling with their own problems, taking it out on you is not acceptable. People can be bottling up their emotions and struggle with depression and past trauma and that gives them no excuse to hurt you.

If your partner relies entirely on you to take care of them, and support them financially, that’s financial abuse one way or another.

Abusers tend to hurt more than one person, and their actions escalate without outside influence (be it intervention if possible or something that keeps them away from victims if not.)

Listen to your gut, if you think a relationship is bad. Even if you’ve been through this before, sometimes you can’t realise in it, but you’ll feel it subconciously.

Also, Shubble is being supported by friends who helped her cope and went through different but similar things. She's specifically mentioned right now keeping the stories anonymised, but she might change her mind, if I interpreted the last bit correctly. She's doing alright, she's healing, and it sounds like she's being believed by her friends, at least most of them. I wish nothing but growth and healing for them, and wish them the best moving forward.

#Shelby shubble #I will not say I’m not guilty of this but I’m genuinely suprised I haven’t seen anything summarising this #I get it the immediate response is anger after denial innit #But I think this is far more important

[saltair-and-webweaves]

i get mean when i’m nervous like a bad dog

Unknown/@papayajuan2019/a hero of our time - mikhail lermontov/poor things (2023)/ @sarakleijn/venetta octavia/ @papayajuan2019/@ https.c0rps3 on instagram/cop car - mitski

#Lilly’s weaves #web weaving #web weave #parallels #poetry #poetry parallels #book quotes #quotes #poor things #Mitski #cop car #feminine rage #girlblogging #this is what makes us girls #anger issues #cruelty #bad dog aesthetic #that should be a thing tbh #i’m a bad person

[mabbbish]

wonderful day to remember ninjago has a canon highschool au

#mad as hell i posted this like two days ago and tumblr ate it then logged me out of my acc???? #lloyd has dyed blue hair inspired by mr snail dood inspired by that one ninjago scriptwriter that said he would btw. if you even care #anyway there are many scenarios buzzing in my noggin about gaps in the movie i’m filling them all with hcs #like i am so sure nya could go into service or social work or law or security because shes a genius when it comes to laws and rights #but she has anger issues and she hates authority so she can’t get a job anywhere #that’s why she loves being a ninja!! #plus her steel cap boots are for stomping on people!!! #hate zane’s characterisation in the movie it’s creepy asf in this he’s just everyone’s favourite lab partner #anyway more hcs in art cominbb soon #ninjago #the lego ninjago movie #tlnm #lego ninjago #lloyd garmadon #ninjago lloyd #ninjago jay #ninjago nya #kai smith #nya smith #ninjago kai #ninjago cole #ninjago zane

[taichea]

the coffee bfs in college au i guess or maybe it’s just post canon who even knows i don’t even know. anyways. headcanons

#persona 5 #persona 5 royal #p5 #p5r #akeshu #shuake #goro akechi #ren amamiya #persona 5 art #persona 5 headcanons #☕️ #alright akechi-kun let’s work on your anger management issues and communicating your feelings #goro: i want to kill him. badly #very good. let’s discuss #ren: i’m so proud of you babe

[zebulontheplanet]

Giftedness is not required with autism or adhd. No one owes you talent or giftedness. Stop acting like it’s a requirement!!

#zebrambles #autism #actually autism #actually autistic #autistic #actually adhd #adhd #literally had someone say this today? like WTF. #I’m just so angry #anger #gifted kid #giftedness

[tobytost]

someone help me understand what’s going on inside my mind

#my art #star wars #star wars rebels #ezra bridger #I’m thinking about ezra Inbetween s2 and s3 a lot #he’s bearing too much guilt and anger and love #lyr are from the mind electric

[its-simply-just-krys]

#not mine #not really daughter but child ig bcuz im non-binary lol but u get the point #childhood trauma #anger issues #quiet bpd #bpd meme #bpd thoughts #daddy issues #borderline personality disorder #i hate my dad #relatable memes #dark humor #psychosis #derealization #tw animated gore #cw: gore #badly edited memes #i don’t want to be like him #I’m scared #mentally unstable #attachment issues #trust issues

[andhumanslovedstories]

When you’re doing a crossword and one of the clues has either a question mark or the phrase “in a way,” you know you’re gonna be FURIOUS at the answer after you spend fifteen minutes laterally thinking your way into the stupidest pun

#I’m just switching between hollow knight and crosswords #when one angers me too much I switch back

[mortispoxi]

Seeing Twitter users recommending the People Make Games documentary as a good way to get insight on the issue is so….

I know, I’m always extremely disappointed whenever I come across someone who thinks it’s the end all be all explanations regarding the Studio ZA/UM situation.

Recommending that video always comes with a heavy caveat from me that the person needs to stop around the 40 minute mark since the interviewer shows a very clear bias that’s unbecoming of a journalist.

Regardless, now that more people are finding out about these layoffs, which might take out members of the studio that have been there since the beginning, it could finally help smack some sense into those Twitter users that actually thought, FOR SOME REASON, Rostov, Kurvitz, and Hindpere were lying for shits and giggles rather than seeing what's ACTUALLY going on which is that the investors have a very obvious agenda against the real wronged party. Hopefully this'll also open their eyes to how the People Make Games video fed into this twisted narrative that Kurvitz was somehow at fault/responsible for the theft of his own IP, but that might be asking too much from their concrete brains. Here's hoping though!

#disco elysium #studio za/um #za/um #people make games #and I’m not even getting into Bratt’s response to the criticism he got #this man deleted so many YouTube comments that pointed out the inconsistencies and bias #it’s such a reddit conspiracy theory but at the time I briefly thought Kompus paid him off to push the narrative in his favor #now I’ve talked about this before in a post from almost a year ago #but i truly believe Bratt’s heart was initially in the right place but let his anger cloud his judgement #after kurvitz rightfully denied him a way to wrap up his video in a neat little bow cause he knew the studio would use his words against hi #something in Bratt must've snapped cause all the blame got pushed on Kurvitz for no reason other than he felt slighted by his response #it's kinda tainted PMG's work for me b/c moving forward I'll have doubt if the story truly is being accurately reported #my response #mp

[yumeyumeappleo]

wow look another fucking phone doodle of—guess who…..you got. the trans turtle. anyways look at her

#tmnt 2012 #tmnt leo #tmnt 2012 leo #transfem leo #2012 leo #yyal art #sorry i’m just very irritated for no reason right now and every little thing makes me want to grab my pink bat and bash my head in with it #instead of using the wall #sorry sorry #anyways i don’t like this drawing that much anymore #probably just the anger speaking #anyways bye #i’m gonna go rage on my side blog

[the-meme-monarch]

WHAT THE HELL DO YOU MEAN IT’S PRONOUNCED RALSAY

SUSIE HAS NEVER SEEN RALSEI’S NAME SPELLED OUT. SHE IS SPELLING IT PHONETICALLY

#deltarune #IVE BEEN SAYING RALSEE THIS WHOLE TIME #fuck off i already say chara and alphys’ names wrong I’m gonna start saying everyone’s names wrong on purpose #FUCK YOU. MAYBE K_K IS PRONOUNCED CAKE. #<-anger is being played up for comedy

[catradoraism]

erha is a comedy

#‘cwn don’t be angry’ ‘WHO SAID IM ANGRY >:(’ is my favourite early running gag #also mo ran sighing is so funny to me #characters who use anger as a front u r loved #my other favourite running gag is mo ran saying ‘heaven will strike me down w lightning if i’m a liar’ #and chu wanning (strikes him lmao) and is consistently described w lightning imagery #2ha #erha #chu wanning

[whumpacabra]

Characters that get aggressive and snappy when sick or injured. No fevered pleas or soft spoken confessions - just misplaced frustration and cruel comments born out of pain and confusion.

#whump #angst #whump prompt #anger #defensiveness #illness #injury #fever #confusion #disorientation #idk abt you but being in pain or heavily medicated does not make me a pliant and cuddly wet cat. #it makes me a hissing and outright mean wet cat. #it feels esp bad bc I don’t mean what I say when I’m like that - I’m just. in pain and have no filter. it sucks so bad even apologizing aftr

[edenfenixblogs]

If you’re annoyed or upset by how much I post about antisemitism…

Imagine how I feel!!!

#I cannot explain how deeply I hate posting about it this much #I hate it #I hate this #I’m so sad all the time #but I’m not allowed to be sad #or angry #or aggrieved #I have to be patient #and educate people #and push my own anger down #so that it’s not weaponized against me and my people #to prove we’re all monsters #you have no idea #how much pain I’m in all the time

[kazscrows]

Wylan: Is Kaz… singing..?

Jesper: He mumbles Taylor Swift lyrics when he thinks no one is listening.

Nina: It’s been Come Back Be Here ever since the Wraith left the harbor.

Wylan: …but that was five months ago..

Jesper and Nina sighing: Yep.

#they’re all whispering rn #can’t risk angering the bastard who always has a knife up his sleeve and is missing Inej #but anyways I think I’m funny #and I’m back in my Taylor Swift obsession era #Kaz Brekker is 100% a swiftie #six of crows #kaz brekker #inej ghafa #kanej #jesper fahey #wylan van eck #nina zenik #incorrect quotes #shadow and bone #grishaverse #crooked kingdom #kazscrows #soc #taylor swift