#i would be concerned about their safety

[hallowclave]

What a whimsical looking young man I wonder if he has received any job offers recently

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#my art #project sekai #rui kamishiro #if u saw this get posted before: no u didn’t #forgot to schedule the post for the morning incident 60 dead 600 injured. #i feel obligated 2 say I actually post abt pjsk on my main (apotelesmaa) frequently (I have brain worms) #& I only post on this blog once in a blue moon and it’s usually not serious art atp #so do not expect anything. #curtain call. what an event. love rui he’s such a good character. I hope he explodes. #he is so full of love and so bad at recognizing his emotions and problems. #‘I don’t have any emotional hang ups about anything’ says the guy who has so many emotional hang ups #rationalizing pulling back as safety measures instead of fearing abandonment/concern of hurting tsukasa (or others) again -> #rationalizing accepting asahi’s job offer because it’s the best for his future even if it’s not the best for himself #also tbh I think to some degree u could argue accepting the job offer was his way of getting ahead of being abandoned #not that it would happen and not that he’d recognize that to begin with #negative self awareness king! he is not processing his emotions at all! #would love for him to mention the job offer in a future event. even just offhandedly. shaking him by the shoulders. talk to ur friends moron #me when I’m in a not recognizing what I’m feeling and how it effects me competition and my opponent is rui kamishiro from hit game pjsk #etc etc. anyways. #once again falling into the ‘sure whatever this can go on the art blog’ category #in that I used simultaneously too much effort and very little in creating it #once again: [hope you’re hungry. for NOTHING] dot jpeg. as is typical here at hallowclave dot tumblr dot com.

[nateriverswife]

majority of the fandom thinks (Rue) Ryuzaki was used before the Kira case, because of Beyond Birthday in LABB, but I truly do think Ryuzaki was created solely for the Kira case. Ohba didn't know what the LABB case was about (he literally has no idea what type of cases L solved), until he accepted Nisioisin's version of it. While I think it is a badass move to use an alias of someone who committed crimes in front of Light and I feel like L would do that to mess with him, I don't believe it to be canon lol

#L cares about mocking others but he cares MORE about his own safety and using that is not it #I don't remember exactly how the case was dealt after being solved #I know they use the original name #but if BB was arrested that means Misora had to do a recount of what happened to the police and she knows she cannot leave out details #Rue Ryuzaki might pop up in the report/media and if the higher ups in the NPA were to hear it from the task force #and do a quick search ''L Ryuzaki'' the case might show up and the NPA would be so concerned and confused #Beyond might even get contacted by the NPA and he could use it as an opportunity to get out of prison in exchange of information about L #who knows #death note #l lawliet #dn.general #beyond birthday #welcome to another episode of ''while I love B and A - it's hard for me to consider the content of the novel canon''

[wildflowercryptid]

a random thought that i've been pondering : do grimoire & sally keep any form of self defense on their person or are they just rawdogging these investigations with nothing to protect themselves with if worse comes to worst?

#i feel like it'd make sense if grim didn't carry anything on him since he's like he'd lean more towards being a pacifist #but it'd still be kinda dumb of him to do that considering the line of work he's in #sally tho.... i feel like she'd just carry mace on her person by default but i could the incident at tangle tower >>> #motivating her to carry something a bit more substantial. like one of those folding tactical knifes #meanwhile i feel like there's no way hawkshaw wouldn't carry something on her #hawkshaw would def admonish grim & sally when she finds out they don't have actual protection while working on cases #which could come across as her critiquing their forethought as detectives but it's really out of genuine concern for their safety lbr #was this lil thought tangent really just spurred on by me thinking about harrow w/ a pistol? ......yea #guns freak me out irl but i can still appreciate the aesthetic of hot lady w/ gun in my fiction at least #detective grimoire #tangle tower #mj.txt #tw weapons mention

[catkin-morgs-kookaburralover]

ok but WHY should someone contacting me and showing they care make me feel WORSE

#the combination of making an artwork im very not happy with plus this very kind very well meant email plus the psych ringing back like #'i talked to my supervisor and she decided you need another appointment this week because we're concerned about your safety' #why does all this make me feel so awful #personal #puddleglum hours #if i was at home alone rn i would say with almost 100% certainty i would not be safe #and i want to be alone so so badly #and for no good purpose

[stardust-falling]

There is never an excuse to not use someone’s preferred name and pronouns. Unless they’re closeted around some people and ask you not to, there is literally no good reason to not just refer to them how they want to be. No one is being protected when you intentionally misgender a trans person, or when you insist on using a deadname— even if you “don’t agree” with the existence of trans people, or think that gender identity shouldn’t be treated the way it is in whatever way. You’re not standing up for yourself and you’re not standing up for others— you’re just being an asshole.

If your friend’s legal name was Katherine, and she told you “please don’t call me Katherine, I have negative associations with that name, call me Kathy instead,” then would you still insist on calling her Katherine because you don’t think it makes sense to use another name, even though you know it causes her significant emotional distress?

Intentionally deadnaming and misgendering someone because “it doesn’t make sense” or “you don’t agree” makes you just as much of an asshole as that. Changing the language you use to refer to someone hurts no one and helps them immensely. Intentionally misgendering someone just makes you look like an asshole and, quite frankly, stupid as well.

If you want to have an actual debate about the ethics of trans healthcare or whatever, the least you can do is actually respect your opponents. Fundamentally, respect for one another is key to proper debating. But no, you don’t want a debate, you just want to beat people down.

#caught a glimpse of some terf bs #like #ffs you can argue all you want about things you feel are genuinely a threat to your safety #like I get that!! a lot of those thoughts and fears are coming from trauma!! #and it’s not easy to unlearn! #I would be a lot more sympathetic though if there wasn’t the constant use of dehumanizing language and blatant lack of care #but well that’s just how it is #anyway even if there WAS a legitimate concern #refusing to refer to someone the way they’re comfortable with doesn’t have anything to do with it #even if there IS concern to be had over puberty blockers/HRT for minors/etc #misgendering a trans kid isn’t protecting them #even if said kid DOES decide they’re cis later on doesn’t make it okay to refuse to acknowledge their current identity #and if you want to claim you speak for/care about those you see in your mind as ‘women’ (afab people overall) #then DON’T FURTHER ENDANGER TRANS MEN BY CALLING THEM WOMEN/BEHAVING THE SAME WAY AS THE ABUSIVE #TRANSPHOBIC FAMILY MEMBERS OR PEERS WHO DRIVE TRANS MEN TO SUICIDE!!! #respect people’s right to self determination #learn to treat trans people with respect (by referring to them the way they ask you to at the minimum) #THEN try having a debate #but it IS NOT A DEBATE if you’re just punching down #transgender #transphobia

[magnus-rhymes-with-swagness]

i need to get laid so bad <- guy making no effort to get laid

#how to have casual sex when you’re too shy to put yourself out there and you won’t touch dating apps with a 10-foot pole #there are So Many hot people around here and i don’t even know how to begin with them 😭 #i’ve been to a couple of parties but neither of them were the type i could hook up with anyone at #and even if they were there would still be a safety concern #feelings about this are perhaps too big and too complicated to talk about very much but. yeah. #my words #personal #minors dni

[thesaintofnevergettingitright]

I am once again getting emotional about Eliot Spencer and the ways he both gives and receives love.

#leverage #mine #eliot spencer my beloved #watching the first season of redemption is just an exercise in finding OT3 Easter eggs I s2g #and honestly just general soft family moments for everyone #but lbr I have PRIORITIES #anyway today it was just like a couple throwaway lines and details that are making me emotional #for example: when breanna is trying to get Parker to let her get out of the van?? #her big argument is that hardison left the van #and rather than saying the team made him practice and train too (or something along those lines) #instead​ what Parker actually says is #‘yeah and it was a long time before ELIOT would let him open those van doors’ #and I’m very emo about the universal understanding that Eliot is the only one with that authority #cuz I get that keeping everyone alive is Eliot’s whole job #but Breannas readiness is clearly up for discussion by the whole team #Sophie and Parker and Eliot and Hardison all give input on how ready she is #but Parker specifying that it was Eliot ALONE that made the decision about Alec’s safety/readiness #really implies an extra level of protectiveness that goes significantly beyond practicality/professional concern #and not only that-it also says that every other member of the team completely acknowledges and respects Eliot’s over-protectiveness #and just accepts accepts it as a matter of course #because it is a truth universally acknowledged that Parker and hardison are the exception to EVERY Eliot Spencer rule #because they’re in LOVE #The other tiny detail that I guess I noticed but hadn’t done the math on was the boxing bag in the new headquarters #Alex hardison is a very caring and loving person and one of his favorite live languages is NESTING #that man creates homes for his loved ones wherever he goes #and you can literally measure his level of intimacy with his partners by how specialized he makes a space for them #and like. This was very obvious by season 5 with the brewpub #but I love the ways they snuck it into redemption too #for Parker it was the whole conversation about the vents he made for Parker at home #and for Eliot it was putting a punching bag in the middle of the very beautiful work/bar space he created

[merrilark]

hm.

// world news for ts

#man ppl are really. irritating. about the sub situation. #i haven't really been following it but it makes me raise my brows that people are so quick to meme a tragedy #and cheer for the suffering and likely deaths of strangers. #idc if they knew the risks; there's a kid on there and he undoubtedly believed he would be safe. and tbh? even if there wasn't? #its... disturbing to me that people would be so gleeful about people potentially dying because they hate them. #how quickly we stoop toward the levels of people we hate bc we feel that we're somehow justified. it makes me sad. #people can be angry. they can feel however they want. but idk. the casual sadism isn't great. #whether you like them or not those are living human beings and human beings deserve to be treated like humans. #will probably delete this i just feel sad about how people are acting about people dying. i'm allowed to feel that. #actually no im not going to delete this. some of the stuff i've seen is downright ghoulish. #feeling disturbed over such behavior isn't virtue signalling; it's genuine concern and a belief we all deserve a modicum of respect #when tragedies happen. when people die. they should have been guaranteed the bare minimum of safety by oceangate and they weren't. #it's a stupid and senseless death of people who believed they would be safe and weren't. not a freaking celebration. #anyway.

[thedevotionaltour]

when do i get to meet another asian dyke when is it my turn

#i have to be with someone not white like just once in my life like i have but like. in a serious way. #bc i need someone who can recognize how my race plays a role in things important to both my personal comfort but also like. #the literal safety and respect of my existence as a person i dont want to be with someone who will like. tolerate it. #and understand why it is an extremely legitimate concern and cause for discomfort and even upset. and not just. stay quiet about it. #even if they r against it it still often feels like. accidental complicity. and acceptance of it. instead of actively being against it #and working against it #have had too many white ppl friends my life be too comfortable with the possibility of racist stuff happening to me #or actually just being racist around me. ive had to reflect on this a lot in the questions ive been asked for therapy stuff the last day #and i kind of realized how even if i have only had a few direct experiences of it. being exposed to it SO much and being around it #and being like. in the threat of it. to the point of recognizing how small things could lead to that point #like where it hasnt gotten there yet but with certain ideas how it can eventually get there #has been. really stressful. and has actuallg affected my life. a lot. like a lot. #and i guess i just wish both white friends and partners i've had. would actually give more of a fuck about it. and think about it. truly. #static.soundz

[realasslesbian]

Having had the same socials accounts since I was a kid can be a trip sometimes. I scroll back a decade and I got tonnes of unsolicited homophobic comments on my posts from people who are now religiously pro-"qu*er" and messages from previous employers about how they found out I was gay via facebook so now I’m fired. Like, the amount of people and businesses that are one repost away from being exposed by my socials is palpable my friends💅

#i don't mean some lil family cornerstore btw #it was Subway that fired me for being gay #back when that was legal #also not to mention the copious messages I have from men aggressively stalking me for being a lesbian #I got messages like 'I'm watching you walk down a dark alley rn *detailed description of what I'm wearing* I could totally rape you lol' #or that time my ex-girlfriend's boyfriend messaged me to come over and fuck him see: attached dick pick #and when I tried to warn my ex-girlfriend about this (bc being the nice girl I was back then I was concerned for her safety) #and she was just like 'lol I'm not breaking up with him over that he can harass you all he likes' #also that time a dude spent several YEARS infiltrating my friend group by pretending to be gay #and then lost his shit when none of the lesbians (especially me the conventionally attractive Nice Girl) would fuck him #there were plenty of gay and bisexual men and bisexual women in our group #but that wasn't what he was interested in apparently #he even got my 'Qu*er Collective' (of which he was a board member) involved #there are still posts in this archived group publicly naming and shaming me for being x y z phobic or whatever #and it just goes on and on #and all these homophobes are still just happily skipping through life #unaware they left their receipts lying around #smh #lesbian #lgbt #lesbophobia #homophobia

[godzexperiment]

*posts that brain rot only to post more xD* -nix encountering gabriel is quite literally an inner dialogue like "ah yes I can work with fellow victim of Cosmic Horrors, if I am tolerated and just maybe ignore my own issues." (could be bloody, having just done some fatal stabbings *highly moody* and nix is just like unphased by it) -ironically, in contrast encountering michael for nix would be far more terrifying for nix (his internal everything would be like 'neat- this is cool and he seems pretty adjusted... so how about you feel like you're in extreme danger despite that' and nix is just forced to be cagey as shit more than normal by forces out of his control)

#<<insomniac vampire speaking>> mun post #(this is very d.ominion specific and so what im being emotional given almost done with another rewatch lol) #(have more thoughts but im just mostly full of these two cases specifically) #(-nix full on dying internally and slamming the gas encountered by michael especially if is kind-) #(meanwhile with gabe it's like yeah he seems cosmically terrorized and beyond exhausted i can vibe with that) #(*cough* not it also going with how safety is scarier than chaos for him *cough*) #(plus like can be of help vs would only be stuck maybe being helped) #(nix 'why focus on my issues when-' *gestures at gabriel* i could try get this one 5 minutes of rest) #(he is stupid but that's why he is lovable) #(nix could be vibrating from his inner horrors and just like 'hold up i need to negotiate for everybody to just get an solid nap damn') #(-does an first murder and is far more concerned about others sanity than with the sick feeling inside him-) #(k- now to continue rewatching the ouch that is lots of the last episodes of s2 lmao)

[fastfists]

Finale - ultimatelife 2 knux (:

✧  gentleness action prompts | @ultimatelife  ✧ 

✧ finale - muse a wraps themselves around muse b to keep them from harm ✧

How? How had they ended up in this situation? It was all one big blurr in the moment, everything had happened so fast  — too fast. Far too fast for his liking in fact. Odd considering the company in the moment.

Fighting wasn’t anything new to him — being a guardian, a protector, a warrior. Some might even say a hero, though he never really saw himself in that light. There were others who more or less fit that bill better than himself. Least in his own opinion. He fought to protect those who couldn’t. He fought to make sure justice was served to those who dared harm others. He fought to defend those he loved. 

Pushing, always pushing. Harder and harder. Nothing would stop him from fighting and protecting those he cared for or the planet they called home. Even at the risk of his own well-being, his own life. The echidna was not one to back down or out.

How — ?

It was unexpected, finding the transgenic hedgehog wrapped around him in the moment — protectively pulling him close in the moment. Using his entire body to shield him. Everything around them both seemed to slow down. Time almost seeming to stop in that moment. Knuckles unsure what to think of the turn of events that was happening.

Shadow — the Ultimate Lifeform. Was protecting him right now.

He knew the other was tough — he wasn’t called the Ultimate Lifeform for nothing after all. He could take a lot of abuse. Nothing could ever keep him down for long. It was...impressive at times what the other could survive.

“I-Idiot — !!”

“ — what t’hell were you thinkin’?!”

That didn’t mean he couldn’t be absolutely livid about the other putting himself in harm’s way. Especially for him. It wasn’t like Knuckles hadn’t taken worse hits before — his own body littered in plenty of scars that showed just that. Ultimate Lifeform or not. No way was he letting the red and black hedgehog put himself on the line like that.

The idea of Shadow hurt didn’t sit well with him at all. No matter how tough the other was.

Pulling just enough away from the other, hands reaching to cup either side of his face in the moment. Glaring at him in angry concern painted across his features. How many damn times did he have to tell him NOT to do that? Ugh, this guy sometimes.

“You ‘r such a dumbass sometimes, I swear — !!”

Scolding the hedgehog now, anger and concern clear from the echidna. He knew it would take more than that to harm or kill the other, he was no fool in that regard — that didn’t mean he could chastise Shadow for being dumb and self-sacrificing in the moment. 

A long huff of annoyance. Forehead pressing against the other’s now in the moment.

“ — what am I goin’ t’do wit’ you?”

“...thanks. You really didn’t ‘ave t’do t’at though, you know.”

#IC {Knuckles} #ask #answered #anon #anonymous #ultimatelife #Gentleness Action Prompts Ask Meme #I AM NOT SORRY ABOUT GOING APESHIT HERE 8D #THIS WAS TOO MUCH FUN TO WRITE; I WENT A LITTLE HARD FOR THEM OK?? #CAUSE I LOVE THESE TWO #Hope ya like 83 #Not sure what scenario would prompt this BUT here ya go #Have a concerned Knuckles over Shadow; cause I love that #Ultimate Lifeform or not; he is concerned and worried about him and his safety #Can read this as platonic or romantic; either way CB

[rainbow-demon503]

talking about polyamory with my boyfriend is hard. Probably not because of any obvious reasons.

No, it's hard because my entire life I had to fight for relationships. I had to fight against people ticking me off as weird due to my autism. I had to fight against my anxiety making paralyzing me in new situations and missing the first few times my new classmates would socialize during breaks. I had to fight my disphoria, making me acutely aware that other people's perception of me is very different from how I see myself. I had to fighty depression, because my day has less hours, and everything takes more hours and I've stopped being a high energy kid at age 3, knowing nothing but lagging behind my whole life.

And these issues all compound! My Autism makes it hard for me to figure out when it's appropriate to ask other people to meet them! My Anxiety makes me a lot less likely to risk embarrassment, so I wait until first contacted or seeing clear signs! My depression makes it even less likely for me to meet people, since I can't manage having to fold the clothes or shop groceries if I'm meeting someone later that afternoon!

And my entire life, this has isolated me. People aren't best friends with someone that needs half an hour just to send a message. people aren't best friends with someone that needs a whole day or two as a break between days where only one activity is happening. they are less likely to invite you if they forget you're there and they're more likely to forget you're there if you have trouble speaking in group settings. The only reason me and my boyfriend could date so much was because I literally just went to his place. Even once I left home and lived on my own, we could see eachother only on the weekends, and that's because I basically just came over to have dinner, sleepover, and watch stuff most of the time.

The everyday tasks of life wear me thin. And even now that we life together, it certainly doesn't help that he just doesn't do some everyday tasks. He isn't used to a tidy living space, he has ADHD and all the executive dysfunction problems himself. But then when he still wants to do something exciting in the afternoon, but I'm still recharging from task 1, so that I can go to task 2, all while trying to figure out if task 3 can be done today.

And you know? I do think I could polyamory and have a great time. but I'm also so aware of all the hurdles I face in every relationship. People want to do stuff. And the more time you have for stuff, the more you become a part of their life. And my boyfriend and I are already nesting partners, but just living doesn't build the relationship. But I just don't want him to spend less quality time with me just because I can't do as much. I don't want to become the boring partner, the one he just lives with, the partner that he has to babysit when doing something new, the partner doesn't associate with fun

It's just, I can't even fall back on my family, the person closest to a best friend is too busy and social and anxious herself to have much time leftover for me. He is literally the only person in my corner, but if I can't keep up with his other people that's it. Even if I get other partners myself, unless I have incredible luck, I won't find a deep connection like this one so soon again. I have spent the first 20 years of my life living alone in a house full people, I don't think I could go through that again and come out alive

Because then the thing to look forward to was what comes after. Making my own life with someone I love. But now? there's a working Life in a bunch of months. but other than that? this is as far up as it'll go for whoever knows long

#don't worry. there are people for you #the thing is I love him and living with him #but when talking about some of this stuff it's just #Like I'll voice my concerns about finding people and he's just #and it's sweet but like... the odds are not in my favour #And so when we discuss that he would like me to innitate more dates #and we talk about the difficulties that face us because If I go out with someone new a lot I'll automatically have less time for him #which is huge bc of how little time I have #but then If I want the same thing on his side it's unfair to him #this is so frustrating #once again the problem #his social safety net so to speak is bigger than mine #so he doesn't really understand my anxieties #god I need some fucking antidepressants #why are the closes spots for the psychiatrist in fucking October #Sometimes it just really keeps getting worse huh