#i wish i was conventionally attractive

[ainasthoughts]

I recently found out this guy that I like, likes me back and instead of feeling happy I feel conscious. I can't help but wonder what would make him like me when he could be going for someone so much better, thinner and prettier. Even while thinking this I know I shouldn't be thinking this- I know it's shallow but it feels unsettling to know someone likes me after looking at me frequently. Isn't my double chin, bulging stomach and countless of unappealing things enough for him to not like me?

My friends want me to say yes but what if I say yes and then he realises randomly that he could do so much better or worse he knows but he says he "likes" me because it's valentine's week and he's lonely.

#i wish i was conventionally attractive #i wish he would wait for six months more till I lose weight and he can date a better person

[plzandspanku]

With the continued and unnecessary discourse about the way that Sirius and Remus are portrayed in fan works I need you to remember something.

How conventionally attractive somebody is does not equate to how hot they are.

It never has. 

If you want to bring canon into it, Remus Lupin is canonically ridiculously smart and super fucking tall (if we're also bringing the movies into this).

And that is also not to mention the fact that somebody can be: disabled, covered in scars, extremely thin, too tall, and STILL BE CONVENTIONALLY ATTRACTIVE.

Take a look at the scope of celebrity as it exists today. The sheer amount of celebrities that are not conventionally attractive in anyway, yet are still known as hot as fuck is astronomical. Half of your faves would be labeled weird looking but because of their charm and their talents, everyone thinks they're hot. This concept exists in every facet of life. Just ask any feminine  presenting person who has ever worked as a waitress what she thinks of that Nosferatu looking motherfucker who works in the cook line.

So if you wanna head canon Remus Lupin as ugly as shit or super fucking hot go ahead do what you want, that's your choice. But just remember that no matter what your choice is and no matter what your head canon is the POSSIBILITY of him being the Casanova of Gryffindor Tower the boy that everybody wants STILL EXISTS.

He can be ugly as hell but he's still hot as shit.

#I personally head canon him as not conventionally attractive and still the Casanova of Gryffindor tower #the marauders #marauders #wolfstar #remus lupin #dead gay wizards #plzandspanku wishes this was twitter #perry's pontification

[avedoodles]

mfs on twt will have you believe this guy is ugly cuz he looks freakish. do not be fooled: the truth is he is not freakish ENOUGH.

#i fucking love the concept of this brawler. its literally so fucking banger #but i wish they leaned more heavily into the mosquito aspect of his design #like you cannot look at this guy and tell me you do not just see a conventionally attractive twink/twunk body type #with mosquito parts halfheartedly slapped on top #this was just a quick doodle and i think ill probably try to modify this design more #i saw another redesign on twt which incorporated the mosquito back which i want to try to do #so ill probably end up posting another redesign in the next few days #i just needed to get this out of my system rn #anyway angelo haters dni #brawl stars #brawl stars art #brawl stars fanart #brawl stars angelo

[front-facing-pokemon]

#gothita #i definitely don't think the lips are Entirely necessary?? wish they didn't have to be like That at the very least #they take over the entire face‚ i feel like. this isn't goth #this is like. conventionally attractive rich lady with a purse lips #maybe i have no idea what goth is and the pokémon knows better than me. and the epitome of goth is red lipstick and a purple face #and done-up lashes with bright blue eyes. y'know

[snapdrag0n]

Well I did Serizawa. It's his moment now

#I find it difficult to draw him #probably because I've forgotten how to draw conventionally attractive young men. i wish I was kidding #i need to learn tho i need to draw every orange coded character ever #art #my art #reigen arataka #mp100 reigen #mp100 #mob psycho 100

[the-knife-consumer]

Im am so pleased with the zonai designs.. creature enough for me........... that being said i want them to have cloven hooves. One thing i would add.

#finally zelda team understands my need for is that a guy or an animal #but one gripe. this could very well just be her face shape but they smushed mineru's snout and made it smaller than rauru's :/// #what is it with people and making the females of a fictional creature-humanoid race look more 'conventionally attractive' by making them #LESS creature than the guys. hatred hatred hatred. #while im on abt it. i wish the water sage was a river zora and that she was huge and monsterous. the creepy

[wrapnrappp]

yuo are the most based hypmic fan on this website

i know right kr really should hire me... would make canon what theyr too scared tomake canon

#wrap n response #unironically though i WISH hypmic wasnt marketed towards fujos cause THATS the only reason the main cast rlly only consists of #conventionally attractive twinks itsso lame #like dude theres no way doppo is skinny it makes no sense #every time i look at the background characters i get sad thinminh about what couldve been... </3

[airbenderedacted]

What was the beta s2 villain design? I haven’t heard or seen abt that one n im curious

,,,,Bombshell my bbygirl,.

#she is So fucking cute & as a standalone design i love her but #for WOYS2's main villain.. for WOY's MAIN CAST........ bro absolutely not this is literally just 'hrjfdf woman hot' villan and nothing else #swapping this out for manic hot topic gremlin bastard lesbian was where they struck gold like. ty god hrjbhsdjgfbng #not that the way they used dominator was /perfect/ by any means #bc believe you me there's a few things in the show that were ehghhghhh at best & stuff from the crew that pisst me AWFF at worst but #overall dom was really solid. the purpose her character served and the writing & character building choices for her were all *chef's kiss* #there was a lot about her whole vibe that was communicated REALLY WELL through her design alone imo #(and a lot about her personality and motivations that you could gleam from JUST her first out-of-suit appearance on its own #i just really wish they'd given WAY fewer fucks about her being pewtty or conventionally attractive or Whatever bRO IT'S HOLDING YOU BACK!! #i dont think Any of that stuff was prioritized when brainstorming for bombshell here 😭 maybe they hadn't fleshed out those ideas yet #bc with Bombshell? the only things her design communicate are that she's hot & apparently that's Important + she has a bug theme going on #& i GUESS that she's ostentatious & goes for v loud clothing. those pauldrons command a room #so you can get ''commandeering'' and MAYBE even ''powerful'' from that #but for a MAIN VILLAIN meant to majorly challenge the main cast & shake up the show‚ THat is extremely milquetoast!!!!!! #again there's rlly nothing here to take away from her design overall other than that she's sexy. why define her that way for being a her #it's such a big ''nah man'' #it's tired it's been done to death #the read you get on her from Overall Vibes alone are very bland!!! #i have to wonder at what point they really started to get the ball rolling in the right direction w/ their S2 big bad to end up w dominator #wondering if maybe it was when they figured they should make her a punk to contrast wander being a hippie? #do you think maybe they just got input from women #grateful every day for the absolute bastard supreme we ended up with #finalhaunts

[fizzytoo]

suddenly feeling very insecure

#*fizzyspeaks #gif #an old friend from middle school followed me on ig and i feel so. insecure #and also like embarrassed #i wish i was prettier and just conventionally attractive

[steaksex]

Google is it immoral to sexually fantasize about friends that have expressed that they do not have interest in you yes/no

#raunchy rabble #listen i need to make sure i meed to make sure i shpuldbt stamp out these thoughts fully #i wont act kn them besides getting off in the privacy of my home #but like. is it fucked up? is it fucked up? am i doing something inherently predatory? #is yhere an inherent aspect of cruelty and exploitation to fantasizing about this shit abt ppl you know? #people who you know only like you as a friend??? #aughhg #i wish i was conventionally attractive and got out more and like. straight and/or cis #if only so i could use dating apps or talk to people irl bc i think just getting fucked real good would fix me #sorry im making this post bc if i dont ill be unable to think of anything else except like #the cycle of 'oooohhh sexy time B]' and 'oh god what if im directly harmong people i love selfishly'

[biarritzzz]

PeRFormINg FEmiNinITy screech the weirdo feminists masquerading as lesbians.

Sorry for having good taste, appreciating fashion and clothes that fit your body and for expecting a woman to actually put some effort into her looks on a first date. Like, wash her hair, her face, put on something nice and smell good. How terrible of me.

I am indeed attracted to conventionally attractive women and I’m so tired to see female homosexuality constantly linked with feminism.

#these same feminists thirst over conventionally attractive men because they’re not blind #of course they don’t want the fat dude who is balding #they want the guy with a chiseled face and 6 pack abs #but get pissy when gay women lust after hot women #I wish lesbians stopped lying about this too #no I'm not into fat unkempt women with tattoos and piercings #sorry not sorry

[gunpowdercarousel]

Soo curious, who did you Tav romance? Struggling rn, can't choose between Lae'zel and Gale for my second run. And ofc Shadowheart is hard to resist

Lae'zel 100% all the way for me.

I'll be honest, a big part of the reason I got interested in the game initially was because of her. I saw a picture of a hot, mean-looking reptile lady and was just like "OHOHOHO YIS". Romanced the HELL out of her. Some playthroughs I don't even plan on doing it but then I just end up romancing her anyway because she's just so RGH.

I love her.

That being said, Gale is absolutely my first romance choice of the guys. I love my soft, little dork husband. Still haven't ACTUALLY romanced him yet, but I plan to.

Lae'zel all the way.

Lae'zel.

It's Lae'zel for me, man.

For romance options among Origin characters it goes

Lae'zel

Karlach

Shadowheart

Gale

Wyll

Astarion

#ask #yes I answered this extremely quickly #i literally refreshed and it was there #so i figured why not #also i will take any excuse to hype my girl bae'zel #seriously if a game has a scary mean hot lady to romance i am THERE #the less conventionally attractive the better #god i wish there was a female half-orc to romance #or a female dragonborn #or a female goblin #or a female HOBgoblin #UCK #UGH #i have a problem

[gardenia777]

society if i wasn’t obsessed with the idea of being in a relationship

#omg me when i vent in the tags hold on #discord oomfies : here we go again #IDKKKKKKK i’m on my period but something about being completely romantically invisible for my entire life is so. IT FEELS SO SHITTY #like i’ve never had a talkikg stage i’ve never been hit on nothing ever like that #like it is hard not to feel like a hideous beast i just don’t know what i’m doing wrong #I WISH SOMEONE WOULD TELL ME WHAT IM DOING WRONG!!!!!!!!! #bc as pathetic as this sounds i really do spend like the majority of my day wondering what the hell is so unattractive about me #bc i put all this effort in to try and be as conventionally attractive as possible. am i saying its working? no! but it’s not as bad as it #could be #and i mask SO HARD trying to be nice and normal #AND IM JUST!!! INVISIBLE !!!! #romantically that is the christian girlies who follow me around wanting to be friends don’t count. #omfg i know i’m whinging so much i’m annoying mysekf but if i don’t get this out i’ll explode #just keeping waiting for SOMETHING to happen and watching it happen to everyone i grew up with except me #IT HURTS!!!!!! #ok . going to go . idk do something . listen to rautavaara maybe

[coelacat]

just know if you take a faceless character (covered by a helmet, hood, anything like that, just generally a masked face) and give them a face this is ruining autistic representation. just so you know

#so fuckin annoying but this is my like. most niche hill to die on #i just wanna look at nebarra fanart no your face hcs arent interesting #come back to me when you dont make him conventionally attractive then i might listen #this applies to pyro tf2 as well stop giving him a face beyond that like #generic ass one one sfm modeller made #variations on that only #if my characters ever in any universe get popular #ESPECIALLY my faceless ocs #the only one id ever allow is iron tongue just because itd be funny but i am laughing AT YOU for that one #i wish people could just like #love characters who dont show their face for what they are #maybe its the autism in me but maybe we should just let people be what they show to the world and not do further digging #i just find the desire to make characters have faces so. weird #the appeal is the mystery. isnt it? #unless youre doing some really weird fuckshit under there in your head like. what difference does it make #only exception ive ever had for this rule was zer0 because i saw someone who had a cool ass alien design for them #that got a bit freaky with it #like. if youre going to force them to have a face at least be unique #these nebarra ones are all just. so generic. no appeal. F minus #like. everyone makes him such a prettyboy #FUCK you hes bald that hair comin out of his helmet is a wig #most of this is lighthearted imma be real i dont really care its just like. annoying #something ive been wanting to get off my chest for a while

[ufonaut]

The aggressive content of comic books is so conspicuous that most observers fail to notice that this aggression is rigidly channelized, that the willingness of any reader to accept a fantasy escape from his frustrations presupposes a willingness to achieve less than total and actual escape. Like all other forms of dreaming, literature operates under a censorship. And this censorship -- in both its legal and internalized expression -- does not allow any direct, total attack on the frustration that elicits the dream. It offers a choice.

- Love and Death: A Study in Censorship (1949), Gershon Legman

Five years before Fredric Wertham’s infamous Seduction of the Innocent essay and the subsequent spark of anti-comic sentiment that nearly killed the industry along with the introduction of the Comics Code Authority and the Senate Subcommittee Hearing into Juvenile Delinquency, Gershon Legman had explored similarly sentiments in Love and Death: A Study in Censorship (1949).

The belief that the violence of pre-code comics was harmful to children and the approach of the ‘Superman model’ as inherently fascist explored in Legman’s work would form much of the basis for Wertham’s later criticism and the crusade against comics. Interestingly enough, Gershon Legman is widely believe to have been gay himself.

#love and death #love and death 1949 #love and death: a study in censorship #gershon legman #fredric wertham #seduction of the innocent #anti-comics sentiment #anti comics sentiment #comics censorship #comic book history #u can reblog #i thought this was immensely interesting and obvious nonsense aside i think it brings up much better points than wertham's nonsense #primarily because legman is legitimately concerned w the portrayal of villains are racialized caricatures in some way or another #vs the white conventionally attractive socially acceptable hero by default #and thats a very interesting sentiment for 1949 #equally interesting is the wording in regards to what exactly this portrayed mindless violence is supposed to do and i would agree w it #to the extent regarding. say. present day military propaganda in superhero movies #theres a lot to be said about it but id say its wildly interesting #and then extremely funny when it implies all aac and dc employes were gay. hell i wish #the end is obviously nonsense but i think it does read differently coming from a gay man #thoughts anybody?

[terriblygrimm]

really love how they made sure to show spock had green blood HOWEVER they should put some makeup on ethan to give him a more cool/green hue. he wouldn’t be flush pink if he had green blood. nimoy was always cool/neutral/ tan toned (w the occasional beautiful blush but i can’t fault the 60s for their stage makeup). anyway it’s a pretty easy fix with some foundation and i wish they went for it

#snw #star trek #grimmrambles #it was an important constant spock feature not just a hey look he’s got green blood moment #im not necessarily complaining bc this show does a lot of things really grear #great #its just that extra thing i wish they tweaked #but i know they prob want spock to look conventionally attractive so