#i sent my mama a text called and venmoed

[enchantechante]

So...mother's day was going pretty well for my mom and I.I woke up early,made her breakfast then started preparing her mother's day lunch and dinner.I gave her her gifts,card and chocolates while doing all of that.In the middle of the day,we got into it.We always get into it over my brother.He lives with us and doesn't do much.Didn't wish her a happy mother's day or buy her anything.He's 32 and has only given her a gift twice in life.He says he doesn't celebrate holidays or birthdays but it's a lie.He doesn't celebrate ours and never gives us anything. He was gone all day to celebrate mother's day with his girlfriend smh.Me and my mom got into it because he's a piece of shit.He uses her.She treats him like he's a kid and does everything for him like his hands and feet don't work.Shit is embarrassing and she's always talking to me disrespectful,hurting my feelings.She had the nerve to tell me she treats me like that because she be joking.Wtf?So you talk to me like I'm nothing,call me out my name,tell me I'll never be anything, choose your son over me and laugh about it in my face as a joke?I pay bills and all,feed her too and he does nothing but she say I ain't shit.Man I was hoping today was going to be good but I get disrespected and a lot of shit got said because I don't disrespect people so if you come for me then I go in.I can't wait to get my own.I'm saving up as much as I can since I pay bills.I save about 700 a month and looking for a second job.It's not right to treat me like that when I'm busting my ass doing for her and him.I was so pissed off because I really was hoping today would be smoove.We got put out of our last place and he had money but wouldn't help with bills. Shit just killed my vibe man.I try to get my mom to open her eyes but she never will.Shit even told me that I need to stop speaking up for myself and cooking and cleaning after men is what I'm suppose to do.She can gtfoh with that shit.

Proud of you for saving up to move out!

Accepting who you're around and their patterns of behavior is going to play a major role in your happiness.

Why did you go out of your way to plan the entire day around her if you know she disrespects you constantly? Making one meal is very special, let alone 3.

If she has a track record of not caring about your brothers disrespect, try not to let it worry you either. You know she's going to have to be face-to-face with everything she's choosing to ignore when u move.

Keep your heart, love.

#i sent my mama a text called and venmoed #dassit #she not here here #but u gotta pace yourself w these festivities #they appreciate the money too #mothers day #anon #anonymous questions #taenonymous