#i refuse to call myself a non-man whos attracted to non-man even on my libfem accounts i wont do it

[lesbi-aang]

like i saw this tiktok video about the definition for lesbian as “non-men attracted to non-men” and this girl was like “it’s not centering men, that’s just the way that the english language is structured” and one of her examples was that “in order to spell impossible you have to write i’m possible” like??? she was trying to say like that’s just how english prefixes work, so the definition doesnt center men at all, despite the fact that man is the only noun in it. she also said like “it’s like nonbinary, the prefix non negates the binary so it doesnt validate the binary” which... lol

it made no sense and people in the comments were agreeing and i just... how do they not realize how stupid this all is. 

#this is exactly why i hardly talk about being a lesbian online anymore bc everyone is so stupid #except for here love you gyns <3 #i refuse to call myself a non-man whos attracted to non-man even on my libfem accounts i wont do it #ill fake the other shit. ill say twaw when asked if thats what it takes to get them off my back. but i have enough self-respect to not #call myself that lmao #text #my post #btw i paraphrased all these quotes bc i couldnt bring myself to watch it more than once