#i kissed someone (it wasn’t you)

[animit-y]

Hot take:

If a character doesn’t have a canon Sexuality and/or Gender Identity there isn’t any harm in having your own headcannons.

Specially Changing a characters Canonical Sexuality/Gender Identity so it fits better with your ships is disgusting behavior.

I’m looking all you Radio/Whatever shippers in the eyes when I say this.

Alastor is Aroace.

If he were in a relationship with someone, it would be a QueerPlatonic one. He wouldn’t be having kids with anyone. He wouldn’t be kissing anyone. He is Asexual and Aromantic.

And it’s getting increasingly frustrating as an Aroace person with even Less representation in Media than other lgbtq+ sexualities/identities, to see what little representation we do have get changed and disregarded.

It isn’t even about Alastor at this point, there’s so many Ace and Aro coded characters, or canon Ace characters, who get ignored, overlooked, or have their sexualities changed to something else and I’m so tired of it.

Asexual and Aromantic people aren’t any less valid than any other Sexuality. We deserve to have representation in the media, and we deserve to have that representation respected by other members of the lgbtq+ community.

#hazbin hotel #asexual #aromantic #Aroace #aroace alastor #hazbin alastor #can you tell how frustrated I am #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #this is also about Issac from Heartstopper btw #if anyone says it’s not that serious I’m gonna riot #I think it’s also important to state #Alastor is a SEX REPULSED Aroace #I would still care even if he wasn’t #but it’s especially weird #if Alastor saw your drawings of him kissing someone else?? #he’s throw up #srs

[whatsaudreythinkingabout]

oh no…i’m imagining it

#nanamiki #person b is chiaki & person a is mikan just to be clear #in case it wasn’t already #and whatever you do #do NOT imagine person a singing a lullaby to person b #as they gently run their fingers through person b’s hair #before giving person b a little kiss on the forehead #i just think chiaki deserves to have someone cuddle her when she’s eepy #& i also think mikan secretly has a beautiful voice but is far too self-conscious to reveal it to anyone #well #almost anyone #GOD i wish i could draw this #i’m normal i swear #chiaki nanami #mikan tsumiki #danganronpa #danganronpa 2 #danganronpa 2 goodbye despair #super danganronpa 2 #sdr2 #danganronpa 3 the end of hope’s peak high school #headcanon #audrey thoughts

[hawnks]

I’ve spent many years learning the vocabulary to describe literature. I love words— they’re one of my most passionate passions. But there is something special about someone having a reaction to art without the terminology to untangle it.

Once I was hanging out with this polisci major, and he’d read a story of mine that had come out a few days ago. He really liked it but it took him a couple of tries to explain why. Then he told me, “I feel different after reading it. I feel older.”

I still think about that sometimes.

#older as in wiser not like my words had AGED HIM jsjdjdjdd #it was an absurdist piece about survival partners during the apocalypse it wasn’t a light read jejdjdnd #he was a nice dude; maybe one of the nicest I’ve ever met #should have kissed him 😔 #squawk tag #someone on here told me something about their reaction to my stories and I think abt it almost every day #idk who you are but you changed me #and I love you

[mood-board-machine]

All Worked up for Something Dead

#mood board #wallpaper #dodie #build a problem #i kissed someone (it wasn’t you)

[elmoshipsbyler]

mike would be the type of guy to watch a show with implied-but-not-stated romance between two guys. and people would tell him it’s romantic, but he’d reply with “it’s obviously platonic??? cause i’m like that with Will??? and me and Will are just friends, so….” and he STILL wouldn’t connect the dots

side note: does this exist as a fic? if not can someone write this

#you know those people that say mike and will can’t date because they’re healthy male friendship representation? #this applies to them #also mike would say that about himself #he would be daydreaming about kissing will and think it’s completely normal healthy male friendship #byler #stranger things #byler tumblr #mike wheeler #will byers #side note this exact scenario was exactly how someone broke the news to me that i wasn’t straight so please know that this is #coming from personal experience

[badolmen]

watching the twilight zone and seeing a character that is so autistic it’s hardly coded and the narrative treats him with such compassion in his introduction I can only hope his story ends as gently

#ra speaks #personal #I’ve known parkes for 6 minutes and I know we would be besties. vibing in the museum during lunch break. #always on time/obsessed w being precise w time. not like but not disliking coworkers bc you just don’t think abt it. #aside from falling in love with an animated museum miniature we have so much in common #sir do you would love the night at the museum movies #shaking sobbing crying the convo w his mom is killing me #was it my fault was I too strict or too lenient why do you make everyone around you feel uncomfortable #I feel more empathy w an autistic character from a 60s film than I have for any feel good true story film #also his sister is hot 😳 vague lesbian vibes. her husband is so clearly for appearances. #nooo stop being mean to him and trying to make him date someone he’s fine >:( #girl forces a kiss on him he pushes her back and she slaps him and gets mad girlie you’re the one #who wasn’t reading his clearly distressed body language >:(

[fizzlehead]

this is beronica if you took away everything that makes them interesting and who they are which actually makes their relationship more special because uhhhhhhhhhh ????

#not even going out of my way to complain at this point these are tags someone left on one of my 10 note posts that i wasn’t expecting anyone #to reblog so im allowed to be a bitch about it. literally what the fuck are you talking about #how does removing the characters from any and all context that made them and their relationship what it is make it MORE special. #like at this point just say you don’t actually care about the characters and just want to see random women kiss #not to say that random women kissing is a problem. obviously. but like these are not random women and acting like their experiences and #characterizations are unimportant to their relationship is just like stupid and ignorant of the way narratives work. or are supposed to work #anyways reminder to keep your stupid ass takes off my 10 note posts that i make for my mutuals exclusively #taylor xoxo

[boltgunkiller-archive]

everyone sees santana as the jealous one which is true. but i think brittany would be jealous too just more low key about it

#i mean after s4 i think santana really gets over it #like that’s her acceptance. she just can’t have brittany like that anymore and it sucks #because well also my bpdtana headcanon. she probably felt really possessive over brittany for a bit there #and also hated brittany a little i’m not even gonna lie because she was so frustrated at how seamlessly brittany moved on #but then she accepted it after she realized brittany wasn’t out to get her nor was sam #it was just. moving on. and santana would have to accept that. also need to mention the distance definitely fucked w santana’s head about it #being away from brittany for so long? yeah. she took it as a sign that brittany was abandoning her which caused her to kinda freak out #cause she spent so much time being so dependent or close in general to brittany. the sudden distance was Weird and Bad to her head #and heart #but then you know brittany talks to her about it so she realizes she needs to move on #then dani comes in right #she’s over it. they’re both just fine. but then 5x12. well brittany certainly didn’t like that there was another person in the picture now #-for santana. like she may not have shown it as much as santana does but she was kinda pissed about it i’m ngl #like the whole immediately kissing santana and then bringing up their history? she was about to KHS over the idea of santana just finding #-someone else and even preferring them more over her. llikeeee she wants santana so bad #jealousy im telling youu but she was trying to be normal about it #endgame though so we’re good. i just think about it sometimes #god nobody can rip jealousy tropes out of my hand i just love them #draft clearing spree! woohoo #and also i mostly just think that brittany was jealous in s5 going crazy. near end of s4 a bit. SHE NEEDED HER GIRL BACK asap. #gleeposting

[eternalsummer2006]

he’s so nice to me always… and goes with me wherever i want to go and buys me whatever yummy food i want at cafes….

#it’s insane how bad i want to hold his hand #like i understand romeo and juliet so much palm to palm is fr holy palmers kiss #it’s like. like I didn’t know you could be so desperate just to hold someone’s hand #i wasn’t this desperate to hold hands in middle school #cause it’s not touch starved we touch all the time #constantly shoulder to shoulder good bye hugs and head against shoulder and and and and #but this specific thing like. this point of tension #i want to initiate i want to hold his hand sober and not cold and not tired and without any excuses #but i don’t want to start something without words #like we need to talk about it silent acknowledgment is too easy and leaves too much room for interpretation #but i don’t want to be the one who brings it up either i think #i want him to be the one to say i like you and stun me and I’ve basically been confessing for months now #講�� #it’s his turn. I’ve done all the actions he has to do the words

[jaegerbroshoe]

Katniss: *dealing with the aftermath of a concussion/several other injuries, the pressure to be used for propaganda purposes once again, the power plays of a rising tyrant, the fear of what’s happening to someone she cares about, and overall mental trauma that’s been accumulating for years*

Gale: WhEN wiLL yOu KiSs mE aND cOnFeSs yoUr LoVE fOr mE???

#omg that scene when he comes to district 2 and the only thing he has to say about peeta’s condition is once again how it affects HIM 😡 #no ounce of sympathy for what peeta is going through or how it’s hurting katniss #but no how it hurts his chances for her to choose him when this isn’t really the time for this BS #he literally kept pressuring her for an answer in the middle of all the shit going down #and then when he literally admits that she isn’t in the headspace to consent 🤮 #like bro why are you acting surprised when she’s been banged up several times and is not in a healthy mental state #just that line is so creepy #‘it’s like kissing someone drunk it doesn’t count’ #someone who’s drunk can’t consent so yes gale you are admitting she can’t consent and yet you’re still hounding her #he is disgusting #I just don’t see how he supposedly loved katniss when he couldn’t see she wasn’t in the right place to worry about this BS #a real friend would not do that #but no he goes crying to guilt her and bringing it up every two seconds instead of just backing off #like peeta knew her for less time and he was happy to just stay friends with her because he actually cared about her as a person #not just the idea of her being romantically involved with him #rant #the hunger games #misc #my opinion

[fvckmyaesthetic]

#i wish so much of my life wasn’t defined by shit that happened when I was 16 fucking years old #but here I am. just turned 21 and all I can think about is shit from five years ago #i just want to be my own person and to feel comfortable around other people #but everyone is in such a hurry to fall in love and declare their lifelong feelings for each other #i don’t even feel attraction to people. i just want someone to hold me #i want someone to support me through my shit so I don’t feel like I have to face it alone all of the time #i just want a nice comfortable hug to come home to at the end of a long day #and someone to sit with while we watch a show together to relax. even if we don’t actually say anything to each other #i don’t want to think about my whole life or the future ahead. i just want some sense of comfort that I am not alone every day #that sense of comfort you get when you look stupid and ridiculous but your rave camping neighbor asks you to kiss them #and you say yes because it’s their yearly tradition and you’re happy to help. but that’s the most nervous and most loved you’ve felt in a + #+ Minute. and now it’s just a core memory that you think about when things are shitty #man I just want a hug. why is that so hard. and why do I always have to be the strong stable one in the hug? #i want to feel like it’s okay to fall apart and finally get the support and comfort that I need #it’s too hard holding everyone else up all the time. i just want someone to hold me #i don’t know if I will ever love anyone but I just want to feel Close to someone. like I’m not in it alone. why is it So Hard to ask for a+ #+simple little hug in life. it shouldn’t be so hard and yet here I am. sad and alone and I will probably always be this way

[rosicheeks]

The thing about people with bigger than average dicks is that they seem to think being bigger is always better. And they might not even have skill with it, it just stretches you more 🙄

^^^ true

#this is exactly why I try to always say #I don’t give a fuck about size #if you know how to use it and actually please me #that’s all I care about #I don’t mean to be stereotypical #but I also feel like most people with big dicks think that’s all they have to do #oh well I have a big dick so I don’t need to do anything special #but in reality foreplay is the most IMPORTANT part #I think the reason why all of the times I’ve had sex was ya know alright was because the foreplay wasn’t the best #anyone can fuck #anyone can jab their cock inside a hole #but it all depends on how you make them FEEL #praise them #kiss them #pls dear goddess eat them out if they want #also ‘stretching you more’ isn’t always a good thing #sometimes it just hurts more if you aren’t properly prepared and warmed up #so that’s why I’m kinda scared of someone which a big cock #like buddy you better be prepared to give me foreplay and warm me up before you try and slide that thing inside me #I’m telling you right now without enough foreplay that is not going to be pleasant #definitely for me but also for you #ask #anon

[leejihoonownsmyheart]

do u like any other groups? just curious

-star

I do like other groups! I listen to just about everything that comes out in the kpop world, but I only realllyyyy stan Seventeen rn. I kinda just evolved into casual fans of oneus, mcnd, wjsn, and bts even though I used to actively follow them really closely and the other groups I used to be like super into disbanded (gfriend and enoi)

I actually fell out of kpop for like a year… ish? And you could not tell because I only really stayed into seventeen because of this blog and it was hard to get back into it because I felt like I was behind…? But I’m back to listening to like everything again (I’m really fucking with Blitzers new song???)

#i was a like PRE PRE debut fan of purple kiss and then they debuted and I don’t listen to them at all 🙃 #but i used to literally know EVERY comeback in kpop #i listen to a lot of random songs by people like I know a lot of wanna one solo songs…? #but I didn’t even know at the time thats who they were? #I jUST realized woosung is from the rose #AND AS I WAS TYPING THESE I REALIZED WHO PENIEL IS #it used to really suck actually cause even kpop stans wouldn’t know half of the music I listened to so i kinda had to stan groups #so that i felt like i wasn’t alone…? #but I’ve kinda outgrown that #b: 익명 #b: star anon #i say all this but everytime someone asks me about bts i talk about them for ten minutes #like tiktok tells me EVERYTHING they do #sorry this is so long winded..? #everyones like well bts broke up right and im like okay well: #someone at work yesterday was SURPRISED when i said i dont actually listen to bts anymore cause i know sm about them #like I KNOW #I KNOW 😭😭 #do you guys know the group OKPOP? #i keep coming back to this and adding more 😭 #HAVE YALL HEARD UNFORGIVEN ITS SO GOOD

[castielmacleod]

S/amwena stans will act like CW SupernaturaI intentionally kept a heterosexual romance plot in subtext and it’s honestly really funny

#I genuinely don’t care if people ship them but they were canonically just friends 😭 #Anything else is just frankly heteronormative I’m sorry #You are the exact people who can’t let male and female characters just vibe #I mean just think about what Rowena was put through with GabrieI and Ketch. This is the calibre of m/f we’re dealing with lol #Think about all the random women Sam has kissed at the end of an episode #If they were meant to be canonically so in love with each other I can’t stress this enough.. they would have been #He was like her little protege and she was very fond of him and cared for him deeply but it’s so categorically not romantic to me #Every scene I see S*mwena shippers lose their minds about is just literally not evidence of anything more than friendship #Even the scene where Sam hallucinates her bleeding him to death which is supposed to be “sexual” apparently? Is just #I mean 1. that is not Rowena it’s a figment of Sam’s imagination and 2. said figment is literally killing him #Maybe people are just joking about that one though lmfao idk #Then again these are usually the same people who think Dean beating Cas within an inch of his life was “sexually charged” so 😐 #Anyway I’m aware how shipping works and evidence of friendship is very much fuel for that which is why as I said it’s not the #fact that people ship them itself that bothers me. Just people who act like it’s canon and furthermore that it was “hetbaited” #Or intentionally relegated to subtext. Because that is just silly #And I can’t help but be annoyed that the notion that Rowena was in love with Sam is just so automatically accepted #Let her live. Let ME live #My posts #And that I’ll get anons being like “oh but wasn’t Rowena in love with Sam” like it’s canon #and not a matter of someone’s personal shipping preferences #Imagine if I went to random blogs and said “oh but wasn’t Cas in love with Crowley” like people would laugh so hard at that #Because he wasn’t! It’s not canon it’s a headcanon it’s a shipping thing #And I know that. I wish more people knew that

[jrwiyuri]

Making out is so weird as a concept. Why did we start doing that?

#stupid snake talk #or even just kissing in general #someone was like ‘yeah let’s put our mouths together this means we are in love’ #and someone else was like ‘oh. epic idea. but like what if we also put our tounges in each others mouths?’ #like? #if the concept of kissing wasn’t so normalized and someone suggested that to me I would 100% say no #like that’s so weird. why would you think of doing that what is wrong with you? #hickeys too #like ‘I’m going to bruise you but like it’s sexy cause it’s with my mouth’ #like excuse me? #so ur being unsanitary AND your also hurting me? #what’s wrong with you.. #do u think the first hickey was an accident #that would be worrying tbf if you didn’t know hickeys exist and you gave someone one #I’d feel bad #anyway #this post has gone nowhere

[whisperairwatchmebloom]

✨

#new lingerie and no one to share it with!!!! #too much wine today but I’ll be better in a month or two #I still miss you btw #I know I pushed you away and I miss you and I know you’ll be better with someone else #I wish you love #and I’ll be happy again soon #only 9 hours til the sun is back #one good honest kiss would really put me all back together #I tell everyone I came here for work but if it wasn’t for you I never would’ve left home #I thought you would be a new home #but we know all about that here #anyway #it’s mitski o clock!!