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buggachat · 5 months

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something so fucked up about Chat Noir’s whole deal is that he is in a lot of ways Adrien playing a character. Like Adrien picked up his miraculous and was told he’d be a superhero so he was like “ok, time to act like a superhero!” and he lets himself have fun w it and play up the role and let loose and kind of just allow himself to be silly and goofy and have fun and for once in his life not care about performing Perfection™.

But. But none of the other characters KNOW THAT. So everyone just sees Chat Noir and is like “look at this guy’s ego. He’s so full of himself. Surely it’d be fair to knock him down a few pegs” without being aware of how few pegs he actually HAS. He’s like the “insecure character who overcompensates in ego” trope except he’s really not doing it unironically, he’s just having a fun LARP pretending to have self worth in his off-hours but nobody else is on the same page about it being a game and he refuses to tell them. He just dramatically pouts about it and lets them laugh and pretends like he’s not internalizing it and it is almost 3 am and my brain forced me to write this instead of sleeping I’m gonna take a melatonin

#writing this my brain was like: what if he actually likes it?#what if he likes people openly criticizing him in ways nobody actually does to Adrien agreste?#because Adrien Agreste is perfect and can do no wrong. maybe he enjoys being insulted or something #and then I remembered chat noirs multiple breakdowns about feeling unworthy and yknow what yeah I don’t think he likes it LOL #do normal people actually fall asleep when they lie down #if you can’t tell I recently decided to make my random ml musings your guys’ business instead of keeping it to myself #hope you enjoy

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faithfromanewperspective · 5 months

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LOOOL, saw your post about heating floors, and I could not stop laughing, because they are very popular here in France😭

in France?? not even Denmark or Sweden or Finland?? like I will admit I have not actually been there but aren’t you like. warmer than England? I cannot grasp the thought process behind being like ‘ahh yes warm floor. I like my feet to be toasty and no I’m not gonna just wear socks’ but I’m working on being open minded and so

#still please can you tell me how they work?#AND ALSO DOES THAT MEAN THE BED IS COLDER THAN THE FLOOR THAT SEEMS LIKE A WASTE UNLESS YOU SLEEP ON THE FLOOR #instead of the bed?? maybe that’s how you’d cover the costs of it. not own a bed. you don’t need one anymore #I hope this feels like humour and not an insult to your country’s preferences

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persephonaae · 10 months

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I’m still dumbfounded that over the weekend someone was dead set convinced I copied the work of and stole techniques from another cosplayer on my Ranni cosplay and like when I tried to direct them to where they could see my progress they ignored me and still called me a liar despite there being clear proof that I came up with all of my designs on my own and used my own techniques for everything like. Girlie help. Why are you trying to gotcha me when I’m being polite and showing you exactly what my work was, literally what’s going on here is I’m simply cosplaying the same character as someone else, there’s no rules against that and I’m sorry I guess apparently you’ve never picked up a sewing machine enough to tell the difference between two different skilled craftspeople’s work attempts at cosplaying the same character

#it was an absolutely unhinged moment like this person was internet yelling at me to credit the other person and I’m like well I love their #work too but you see I can’t credit them bc I didn’t use any of their techniques I used my own work in this cosplay #like. have I seen the tutorial video you’re referencing? yes of course! but I didn’t come across it until I was almost done with my own #my own costume. you know. the point where it would be impossible to steal something anyway #it’s just. the gall to insult me so much saying that it’s impossible for me to have come up with all that work by myself #I blocked the person but I’m just hoping they don’t go straight to the other cosplayer they accuse me of stealing from bc not that I’m worri #worried about them thinking I stole her techniques bc it would be painfully obvious if she saw my work that I didn’t steal anything.#I just don’t want her to have to deal with time wasting bullshit lol

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always-a-slut-4-ghouls · 5 months

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I would say that the United States, as of right now, has three main food groups (aside from junk food) and those are, Italian, Mexican, and Chinese. All of which have been Americanized here to some extent but differently in different parts of the country. I find this very funny because I have heard people from Italy be indignant about what we’ve done with the stuff (and about good restaurants too!) like, sorry if you guys weren’t creative, mixing things up a bit is great. “What about (regionally popular food)?!” I know we all have those, I haven’t heard of bitches in the south eating lefse, but that’s not my point! What was my point actually? I think I was going to say that, even if we bastardize stuff a lot, I’m super glad we have, as a country, agreed that more seasoning is good. Because if this place had been like “fuck immigrant food forever, we are eating British style” I think I would die.

This country has historically treated immigrants like shit, but we do tend to cave eventually and go like “actually,

your food is really good” a kind of shallow prize I guess, but I’m glad we actually start doing it eventually because I WILL mock British food and I WILL be sad that the only good family recipes my family has from before immigrating are all desserts. Don’t get me wrong, I love sweets, but I’m pretty sure there is a reason we stopped making other stuff

Wait, I re-read this today and realized I sound like my family is British. We are not. What even are British desserts? I bet they don’t have enough cardamom. Although lefse doesn’t have cardamom and i like a lot of things without it, my point is that their holiday and special event foods probably don’t have enough! Which wouldn’t surprise me tbh because apparently the only place that went crazy for the stuff outside of where it originated seems to have been Scandinavia for some reason. At least some maps I looked at seemed to suggest it. Which rocked me to my core

#emma posts #and I know that there are Native American foods that were really here first #but the three most popular quisenes (idk how to spell that) on a country wide scale #are those three #and also. I’ve seen a few Italian recipes from Italy and you guys don’t always use enough seasoning #I don’t care if that’s insulting #foods should have depth if they are going to be good #and I think people (at least around here) rely too heavily on cheese #even aside from the vegan thing. since i have diversified my diet more I am like #cheese is not a substitute for other flavors #this is my hot food take #my take on hot foods though is that I thought I couldn’t handle hot spiciness but then #I heard about British people reacting and also ate with older people here and was like ‘oh my god. that’s so sad’#my mom thinks udon is too spicy :(#i hope this doesn’t come across wrong but this IS the bad reading comprehension website #going to a local Scandinavia festival and admiring the arts and the sweets and then they start talking about other cultural foods and I’m #just like ‘why would you do that to fish?’ and judging my ancestors #in THEORY I understand why. food preservation and all that. but in practice…#like I said. there is a reason dessert and bread recipes are what my family still has from before America and I’m not really mad about that #being the only food #we’ve all heard the old people talk about lutefisk and we are like ‘nope’

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ammoknightsofficial · 2 years

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why do you make every other sentence in your posts bold or italic or orange or whatever

Giving you the benefit of the doubt and assuming this wasn’t intended to be rude. It’s a little hard to tell.

To answer your question:

It is an accessibility aid for people who have problems focusing on text, especially large chunks of it. It works. I know it works, because I have a significantly larger blog that I’ve been running for a much longer time than this one that has received countless testimonials and words of praise regarding its effectiveness in both guiding the eye and delivering a specific tone. If it doesn’t work for you, that’s cool- not every accessibility aid is going to work for everyone.

I like it. It’s how I like to type and format my posts. I think it looks nice. :) You don’t have to agree with me- that’s all a matter of personal preference, and I both do not want and do not care to change your mind.

#hope this helps!! i have been asked this before on my homestuck blog a couple times so I don’t mind answering the question #it’s just that… idk. be a little more mannerly? I’m just chilling here on my own blog in my own space #you come into my house just to insult my interior design :( cmon #nekro.sms

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clockworkblogs · 1 year

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TW this post will talk about fakeclaiming within DID - especially TikTok. There is a sui mention as well as talk about traumas systems may go through and just a whole heap of TikTok/Did faking drama, as well as ableism. This is an angry and loud post. It is a vent. It is very sarcastic and snarky. If I missed anything lmk. Proceed with caution.

I already made a post rambling about something’s that irritate or upset me (this account is a vent blog, so I mean it makes sense) but I now want to just. Get some shit out there talking about how much fakeclaiming shit systems go through.

I am not a discourse account, also. I may talk about some conversional issues on this post, but do not mark me or this post as discourse or drama. My account is barely even intended to be shouted out to every corner, it’s a vent blog. Anyways-

Since no one else has said it so boldly (that I’ve seen), here we go

Systems. People with DID. Specifically traumagenic. People who have introjects?? Are now suddenly called fakers? There’s a whole stereotype about that now? I cannot tell you how much it boils my blood to hear this.

Hey, do you remember when over five years ago most people just knew DID from the movie split? Or they just straight up thought you were schizophrenic? Or someone dangerous? Hey, do you remember that? When most people with DID were forced to be really silent about it because of that concept? Of course you don’t! Cus all you know about DID was after that when there was a trend on TikTok about it, and now everyone who claims to have DID is faking now, right?? Now you have to prove your medical diagnosis to avoid being harassed? Now if you have any sort of introject you’re fake! Now you’re just like all those little tiktokers that blew in what, 2020? Hey, you know, there’s a reason systems were silent for so long. Now you’re targeting minors, systems with large numbers, systems with smaller numbers, systems who are adults, systems who are on almost any platform, systems who dress alternative, systems who “don’t look like they have DID”—please get a grip. Please.

You know something?? I remember when years ago if I said I had DID, people’s first question was “oh like split?” or they literally were afraid of me because the only thing people knew about DID was from split, or it was thought you had psychosis or a mood disorder. Otherwise no one had a clue what you were talking about and just thought you were fucking insane. Most people did. I remember when DID started being well known, and TikTok was the platform for it. I was so excited and hopeful for my future, maybe I could begin to have more support and understanding around me. But slowly, and surely, it came tumbling down. I had fictives then. I still do. I have introjects.

I had introjects way back when people just thought I was crazy and had no idea what the word “dissociate” meant! But of courrrsee, the fakers! Of course, because of some stupid internet trend and a bunch of people gatekeeping and assuming at such a high rate, I’m clearly some attention seeker who just wants to have a severe disorder.

Do you know how many times I’ve been called cringe?

How many times I’ve been told I’m faking before I could even say more than “I have DID”? Or, my favorite, “to stop appropriating a real disorder that people actually suffer with?”

Helloooo! I do suffer with it! But you don’t wanna know how many times I’ve tried to kill myself because of how terrified I feel in my life or how many times I’ve been discriminated against and abused for having this disorder because I have a fucking Junko Enoshima introject, do you?? You don’t want know how many opportunities I’ve lost in my life both big and small since I was a child because I “look like a tiktoker”, do you? You don’t wanna know my childhood history that SYSTEMS ARE NOT ENTITLED TO GIVE YOU because then” I’m making up a sob story to sound convincing”, do you??

There’s a reason traumatized people are angry. There’s a reason why people lock themselves away, are cold, and snappy, and don’t like people.

I have never enjoyed the mainstream. I do not mean that as like an edgelord, I mean I never have. Because time and time again, they have failed me with the very information I have held close and dear to my life, and claim they know more than me.

Systems are SCARED for their safety online. I’m not a part of the system community, but I have seen it. Every person who has DID, is likely afraid in one way or another is being perceived as fakers because of this constant battle between mainstream media who doesn’t give a shit and doesn’t know enough, and people who are going through the struggle.

Having a DSMP introject DOES NOT EQUAL FAKING.

Being any sort of minority as a system DOES NOT EQUAL FAKING.

Dressing alternative or having dyed hair as a system DOES NOT EQUAL FAKING.

Being a minor and a system DOES NOT EQUAL FAKING.

Having MHA introjects DOES NOT EQUAL FAKING.

Having a small or high alter count DOES NOT EQUAL FAKING.

Seeming happy as a system DOES NOT EQUAL FAKING.

Seeming sad as a system DOES NOT EQUAL FAKING.

Systems can choose whatever they want to do with their experiences. If they wanna draw art about themselves, it doesn’t mean they’re faking. If systems wanna use neo or noun pronouns to describe themselves or if some of their parts want to, it doesn’t mean they’re faking. If they want to make little proxy’s of their alters and use character creator apps to express themselves, it does not mean they’re faking.

Everyone who has got on the hype train of “system fakers” “system cringe” since TikTok, I do not care if you’ve known someone with DID who faked it. I do not care if you’ve been in treatment and met “real people with DID”. I do not care if you are studying to become a therapist. I do not care if you know a lot about psychology. I do not care if you’re a smart person. I do not care if you’re only experience of DID is from split. I do not care if your only experience of DID is from TikTok. I do not care if you see any pattern or “suspicious” behavior within a group of people with DID. I do not care if you have met five fakers or seventy. I do not care if you have read weeks worth of books on DID and spent extensive amounts of time and effort trying to understand this disorder. I do not care if you just feel like someone is faking. I do not care if you do not understand someone else’s experience. I do not care if you know statistically someone with [x] trait with DID is unlikely.

I do not care if you didn’t first learn from TikTok. I do not care if you’ve been in the community yourself. I do not care if you are a doctor or a husband or a child or another abuse survivor or anything. I do not care if you have supported our community once. I do not care if you genuinely had interest and knowledge about DID years before hand. I do not care if you have been in treatment or in mental health facilities or have some sort of all knowing confirmation in your mind. I do not care if you are skeptical. I do not care if you support but don’t care or understand.

I do not care where you came from, what you carry, or what your beliefs are about the situation.

You do not get to police if someone is faking their disorder or not. You do not get to decide what someone can or cannot do with their time as a system. You do not get to psychoanalyze the validity of someone’s experience. You do not get to ask for someone’s medical records and proof of diagnoses. You do not get to harass and bully and stereotype a group of people based on your confirmation biases.

I do not give a fuck what you think.

You do not get to police around and suppress an already vulnerable group of people.

You do not get to decide what is going on or not going on in someone else’s head, and make noise about it that puts those people in danger.

People with DID have every right to be angry. People with DID have every right to upset. You just took a very serious condition these people have and already have enough issues with, ripped it out from the ground by the root, and hyper analyzed and humiliated every fucking part of it, from little proxies to why they may cosplay themselves to the extent of traumas they dealt with. You spit on and tear apart every aspect of the unique system experience that was once a tight knit and loving community of people and demand these people sit down and deal with it. You force them into little boxes like a science experiment and put blocks in their way that make everything they say and do a sign of faking.

You guys are rancid.

Do not use my post for discourse.

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ziracona · 2 years

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I truly don’t get how people will be like “Yes here is 8 paragraphs on how direct action was necessary and Meredith was committing atrocities in DA2, and the Mages deserve to be free, and there can be no compromise the way the Chantry circles control things and put on a good face only as long as people are looking and demanding, then go right back to their atrocities, and they always will until the system is completely overthrown. They designed it intentionally to be impossible to slowly correct with incremental change,” (correct), but then??? Will have no problem liking Vivienne?? Despite the fact that not only is she patronizing towards all other species and their ways of life, and harshly controlling and hardened toward Mages, but much more importantly, even if left with the lowest possible amount of power in DAI, will always at least restart the Circles if they’re dissolved, using fear and hate as a weapon, and try to overthrow the College of Enchanters and drag Mages right back down to where they were. Like. You can’t be pro mage and pro Vivienne. You cannot. These are inherently mutually-exclusive positions.

#dragon age inquisition #it’s just. astounding. the worst thing that ever happened to fandoms was the idea you have to like every single companion even if they suck #and I don’t mean liking as a character. I mean ‘she’s awesome’-ing the woman #I mean she’s not as bad as she could be. but like. there should at least be some criticism there — she’s not girlbossing it up she’s the #biggest threat in Southern Thedas potentially to mage freedom. it’s good she doesn’t /crush/ them if divine I’m not saying like. she’s a #the biggest of bads or anything. but I barely ever even see a nod to the fact she’s kind of made herself public enemy number 1 for mage #futures and like??? that’s a huge plot point? maybe people just have strong hope that since she softened a little she’d soften a lot post #DAI?? that’s really my only guess here. I was /so/ thrown she did that and angry and barely anyone else seems even upset. it’s bizzare to me #I helped her try to save her love and get through mourning and she threw the biggest wrench possible into my main cause anyway without #hesitation like damn ok. it’s extremely upsetting and it’s frustrating there is no way to avoid it #I mean it would be just as bad if I had no connection at all to her but it’s kind of insult to injury here

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