#i hate confrontation

[resaresa]

some old fuck yelled homophobic shit at us at the hardware store so I yelled gay things at him until he shut up

#shit has me shaking tbh #i hate confrontation

[mamamittens]

New rule!

Whenever I get asked about when I'll be updating a story, the publication of that chapter will be put back a day!

Not a day after the asking. A day after I finished writing. So if I get one today but I finish the next chapter a week from now, the chapter will post a day after I finished writing it.

If the ask is rude, that timeline is now +1 week.

This effect will stack.

SO! If someone asks "Hey, when will X get a new chapter?" and someone else also asks "Bitch, stop being a lazy twat and write more X thanks" before the next chapter has been dropped, the added time is now one (1) week and one (1) day!

The difference from before is now I'm deliberately shelving a chapter instead of just not having it written yet for one reason or another. Usually exhaustion, indecision, or tackling other tasks. Sometimes burnout.

Asking if I dropped a story is not like asking about when I'll be updating next, so no worries if a story has gone cold and you're wondering if you should keep an eye out for it but don't want to accidentally push it back further. Sometimes I lose interest and assume no one else cares either so I'm in no rush to return to the story in question.

Under normal circumstances I quite literally post as soon as I finish writing the chapter (which is why there are usually minor typos). My work is (typically, unless literally commissioned) free and done in my spare time. What few hours I have left in a day after work, in fact. I don't want to hear any whining about not posting daily or on a set schedule for something that is my damn hobby.

Particularly not from people who otherwise don't interact with the work they seem so desperate to read the next chapter for.

This is my alternative to straight up dropping fics (which I REALLY don't want to do once I've committed, I nearly cried the last time I finally acknowledged to myself I'll never update a fic and do it justice to my original idea) or blocking people.

This is something I've been reluctantly considering for months now privately as the topic has been stressing me out when I could be having fun crafting new ideas and chapters. And instead I just dread posting a new chapter and getting X amount of asks demanding a new chapter without even a spare comment about what they liked that's got them so damn hyped.

So...

Die.

Mad about it.

#mittens update #new rule! #i hate confrontation #if i was just a bit more petty I'd be Thanos snapping fics out of existence #i am not a dog or a content farm #an average chapter takes about two hours to write with several days of consideration about what I'll do next #I'll never be an author that writes at exact times or on a set schedule #I make time for the things I love #everything else just finds it's own time elsewhere

[torturedpoetdean]

sam and dean are always getting into these intense dramatic arguments right before getting in the car like my dudes y’all are about to drive sitting next to each other for the next 10+ hours maybe save the argument for after the car ride or idk maybe they like driving around in tense awkward silence men are so weird

#maybe it’s just me #i hate confrontation #but sitting next to the dude i just had an intense scream fight with sounds worse than hell #ana's spn rewatch

[rebeliz7]

I made a grandma cry. Not intentionally. She didn't want to pay, she started crying. She left crying, and now I'm just waiting for the inevitable fight that will follow cause I know she'll be back with her daughter, I know her daughter and her son, the son will yell at me. I just know it.

#i wanna cry #i hate confrontation #i love my job #i love my job i love my job

[fadiaahlem]

I suck at breaking up with people...

#i hate confrontation #it's also so uncomfortable #but it's the right thing to do

[meetingthestarcatcher]

sooo how’s the weather where y’all are?

#i’m sorry #i hate confrontation #but i cannot with this shit today #can we all just i dont know have a big group hug or something

[sleepy-moss09]

Whenever I want to escape the harsh truths of reality or the consequences of my own actions, I take a nap.

#i love sleeping #it probably isn't healthy to sleep as much as I do #i wouldn't last a day in the real world #i hate confrontation #and consequences #:))))) help

[ryujnn]

Lost a follower, I just saw you write for Baji & jjk minors as well.

baji ain’t no damn minor …… && i age up all characters when talking about them (stated in my byi),,

#don’t start that stuff with me #i hate confrontation #but i will respond when it comes to this #read before you interact silly

[sxtaep]

someone on instagram took screenshots of ‘Bodyguard’ and posted it word for word on their account without giving me credits 😭

i’ve dmed them, hopefully they respond ☹️

#cries #i hate confrontation #I HATE DOING THIS I HAVE NO REASON TO FEEL BAD BUT I STILL DO

[panickedpansexualprincess]

Way to soundly reassure me that my doubts about this relationship working out were, indeed, well-founded: complain about how 'people don't want to work anymore after the pandemic, the government went and made people dependent on them, made them not want to actually work.'

#covid #no #we're not going there #now I get to figure out how to break this off #>.< #I hate confrontation #not that you'd guess it by my tumblr #but personal confrontation? #HATE #but #no we're not doing this #my father died to this pandemic #I'm not going to tolerate this kind of bs

[moviestarmartini]

someone got offended by a post i make abt every single player that even dares to look at lukita wrong?? 😖😖

#he ain’t special and i’m genuinely sorry he had to leave the pitch like that #ALSO GET OFF MY PORCH #I HATE CONFRONTATION #the main reason i didn’t like footie growing up was because of banter #i would literally cry if someone came to bother me on my beautiful blue safe space #also i would kms if lukita told me to like #im going to vomit the day he announces he’s leaving #and it’s really not that deep ☠️ really not that deep

[strwrter]

#( ooc. zo. ) that 90s zo. #vent post #tw vent #me @ someone #having to beg someone to do something with you #then seeing them doing it with others willingly is a different kind of heartbreak #like ahhhh #i want to scream #i’ve had enough #but idk #i hate confrontation #so it will never be brought up and things will continue how they are #that’s all

[dstrider-3]

confrontation AGH!

#ramblings #imso #i hate confrontation #pls #send help

[imogen-theimaginedcat]

Oh my god I hate Instagram so much

#y’all know how like you get ina zone and lose it and just like whatever #like sometimes you like shit you don’t even agree with and then go oh shit this person is actually entirely incorrect what #well did that #and did not remember to unlike #and now some mf is in my comments #calling me and my art ugly because someone else called their art ugly and I liked the comment without reading it #like an idiot #I hate confrontation #idiot moments #IDIOT moments istg #I SHOULD KNOW BETTER AT THIS POINT #PPL ARE WILD ON THERE

[quietmtntown]

being pro palestine does not mean you have to be antsemetic.. killing innocence's on either side is wrong and immoral.. if you dont agree then i dont know what to tell ya. cause its not wrong to say.. don't kill isreal/palestine babies.. and hama is trash while supporting paestine is based. cause.. honestly i hate biden at this point for bombing on babies just how iw was disgusted by hamas killing babies. retaliation is never the right response. I hated how america bombed japan and killed billions of innocent people back in ww2 . bloodshed should not equal more bloodshed.. . .

this whole situation is depressing.

#not tagging or allowing reblogs #cause i dunno im a coward i guess #i hate confrontation #but i thought i share some thoughts #im neither jewish or palestine im a american so i dont know what to say other than dont murder babies ... which its amazing how people onli #were fine with dead babies we got leftist saying good when isreal babies die and rightwingers saying good when palestine babies die #and i dont understand it cant we all agree babies should live gahhh

[littlest0nergirl]

I hope your day has improved or you have found an activity to occupy your mind. You deserve happiness, attentiveness and care. You are a treasure.

Thank you kind friend. I went and found a nice bench by a pond and sat and read for a couple hours. It was very relaxing while I was out but then I started getting chilly so I’m back home now. Sitting in my car in silence in the driveway lol.

I still don’t feel super great today but it’s almost over and I can just try again tomorrow.

#anon #though I don’t have high hopes for tomorrow either #going to talk to my soon to be ex manager to let her know that the job has broken my soul and I just want to crawl under a rock now #I hate confrontation