#how to overcome anger

[lethal-flowers]

i dont wanna be one of those people. but how are you not angry? like literally how

#im so mad #at everything #its not teenage angst #im starting college tomorrow and i dont even wanna go because i lit have no energy #how to overcome anger #im tired #fuck summer wheres winter

[natjennie]

something about "your anger isn't scary to me" is making me so emotional. something about as above so below, cassandra as a mirror of kristen. something about "I've been dropping the ball a lot lately" and kristen's struggles with adhd. something about teenage girls and rage and fury and justice. something about adaine's vision of ruining fallinel and the sylvaire looking for revenge. something about sadness and doubt and anger and love. something about "I choose to understand" being the absolute core theme of d20 in general. something something.

#something about kristen's adhd making her fuck things up and being mad at herself and that manifesting #as her deity being overcome with rage #something about fear and anger and shame and the inability to do better even when you're trying so hard #and something about people loving you anyway #something about 'your anger isnt scary to me' #as someone who had undiagnosed pcos in early high school and got so fucking MAD #something about adhd and how you're always failing and you have no one to blame but yourself #and how heart breaking it is to watch your life fall apart around you KNOWING you could do something #but being unable to do it right. always forgetting always slipping up #and how mad that makes you. at yourself. #this fight is so much #fhjy #d20 #dimension 20 #fantasy high

[sinfuego]

Tbh, nothing has made me sympathize more with Kipperlilly Copperkettle than her anger issues.

Cause anger is an emotion we feel when we're missing something. When we need something and can't get it. It's a balm to make us feel better when things don't go our way.

When things aren't fair.

#d20 #dimension 20 #d20 fantasy high #fantasy high junior year #d20 spoilers #fhjy #fantasy high spoilers #of course just cause you feel like things are unfair doesnt mean they actually are #and the reason why its an anger issue is cause the anger has befome detrimental #its warped from being somethjng to comfort you when you feel powerless to a tool you use against others when you fedl slighted #part of why anger issues are so hard to overcome is cause of how good it feels in the moment #even if you feel terrible guilt afterwards #the catharsis of releasing anger can be such a relief #that you dont even realise youve started looking for reasons to be angry #youre listing things that are terrible with the world just so you can feel better by getting angry at them #things like capitalism and people who bullied you and how your boss is a terrible racist #things that everyone can get angry over #until they get more personal and warps your judgment #“my boss called a group of immigrant a bunch of racial slurs” “his secretary was there too she can back me up” #“when i brought it up with her she says she wasnt payjng attention or something” “shes peobably racist too and thats why he hired her” #it becomes easier to make jumps like that instead of giving people the benefit of the doubt #easier to justify your anger with the smallest slights #until youre yelling at a pedestrian whe. you almost ran them over #“sure it was a red light but they shouldve paid attention and seen me coming too” #anyways this is all to say kipperlilly probably has some issues to deal with #idk if shes actually behind this plot or if shes being manipulated #doesmt stop her from being a total dick tho #but it does make me a little more sympathetic to her

[cavennmalore]

question. if empaths take on the emotions of the person they’re reading and the sencens have incredibly strong abilities where they can feel strong emotions without touch, does that mean keefe and cassius are feeding off each others emotions when they fight? like cassius gets mad so keefe gets mad so cassius gets madder etc.?

#on my how does empathy work grind #this presents such an interesting dynamic #like how do you diffuse a situation where that kind of anger and hurt grows and grows and grows? #(by not being an asshole cough cough cassius) #expect more of these little posts as i’m on vacation and am overcoming my tumblr social anxiety #and ofc rerereading kotlc on the plane #kotlc #keefe sencen

[spocks-kaathyra]

"ur repressed" okay well have u even considered that emotions r purposeless and only serve to cause harm to those around u and I have achieved a unique transcendent state beyond them. have u considered that

#joking but like. am I wrong though #yeah no one is able to overcome the inherent human flaw of emotion and anyone who thinks they can is in fact mentally unwell #except for me I'm built different I have actually managed to transcend emotion. this is a good thing and not a problem #I saw my father's anger and my mother's discontent and my brother's self loathing and my friend's yearning. #and I saw how it only made everyone more unhappy. and I decided I would be above them all and never let my emotions rule me. #I was scared of the dark until I realized that fear wasn't useful to feel. so I stopped feeling it #this is a good thing and I am a paragon of mental health I think #mmm alternatively I was made to play mediator in a family of traumatized ppl and learned to repress my emotions to the point of dysfunction #but I prefer to think I'm enlightened and have no problems. this is fine and will not blow up in my face #anyways. just now realizing that this might stem from my childhood. oops #also realizing that I'm probably not aro and I just learned to turn off romantic attraction bc I saw how miserable it made my friend?? #well. I still don't experience romantic attraction. but probably I should and I will if I ever sort out this repression thing. whoopsie #really she was ready to kill herself over some white guy and I looked at that and was like. nope. I'm never stooping to that level #mm might not help that my parents never loved each other and I never had a healthy romantic relationship modeled for me as a child #but still like really like what is the point. of having emotions. they're just not useful #oh hurr durr I'm angry at my friends for talking over a tv show. there is no way to act on this without damaging ppl and relationships #ohh I'm in love with this guy who will never love me back. THERE IS NO PRODUCTIVE WAY TO ACT ON THIS #literally emotions can only be destructive and I'm a better person for opting out of them #there are no downsides to being repressed! I can still feel positive emotions. I'm happy sometimes. sometimes I'm excited. it's fine #guy who is Unpacking Things live on ur dash. sorry #narcissus's echoes #vent

[are-we-really-doing-this]

Honestly Shawn, same.

#corey is very pretty #shawn is in love #I don’t blame him #corey looks like a beautiful girl who stays with her average looking husband because he’s actually good to her and makes her feel worth it #people are always telling her she can do better but she loves her man and how he makes her feel like more than a pretty face #you know? #I want this fic yesterday #transfem corey? yes please #working man shawn trying to overcome his anger issues for his woman? gimme gimme #slipknot #6/8 #shawn crahan #corey taylor #these tags are a trip

[penwrythe]

*sees fave Paintbrush's exit III interview*

That characterization was interesting to say the least. Even though I was a bit in *ahhhhhhhhhFAV* mode, I feel odd about PB's out-of-character dramatic personality.

Also, Lightbrush confirmed??????

#special interest fun time ahhhhhh #but yeah I admit it feels meh; why chañge their personality just for the interview? #accidental ñ oops! #along with that no questions about the other characters in season 3? But questions for season 2? idk #reading osc and ii neg tags was interesting tho; some stuff I didn't know about in the previous seasons made PB's #writing in the interview more odd #I like PB's original characterization; they're loyal doing their best for the teams they were in; learning how to overcome their hesitation #on allowing others to lead along side them. Them wanting to be understood and their firery anger representing how they feel being mistreate #I find that line between being good leader and their fear of instability is what made me interested in them #the star??? thing didn't really feel like PB that was not their focus tho #.....yeah not a great feeling ahh #feels like they are heavily flanderized; like Silverspoon type of behavior in the interview #anyway gonna put PB's brain in a firelance and let them rage for twelve hours straight #// unreality; Pyrrhus said they would not act like that // lol; only time I'm noting my paras like this here #osc #ii paintbrush #inanimate insanity

[quietwingsinthesky]

thinks about child-but-growing-fast amara and lucifer in the same room and gets ill.

#im gonna get called a homestuck again im SORRY its a good trope #she’s not his mom but she is. older than him and older than god and a being he helped imprison. #and the effects of that. here and now. are that she is so weak she has to relearn how to exist. #that she has to eat souls. tear them out one by one. you have to imagine that lucifer once saw her devour whole galaxies on a whim. #back when everything was moving in constant flux between destruction and creation. you have to imagine. #what is it to see her like this. is it pitiable. awful. comforting because she can’t hurt him right now and if he struck first maybe she #never could? #would he think about this moment this experience later when he’s made human. when he experiences a similar powerlessness. #anyway. lucifer gets out of the cage and trashes crowley’s place to kidnap his aunt-who-is-baby-right-now #u know me i love when characters go on the run together. what a weird little bond they’d form. #how do you overcome the anger at someone who helped cage you for eternity? does it help to know he didn’t escape your fate just because he #helped seal it when it was you? do you think they trade cage stories. #do you think lucifer tells her about how michael is still trapped in there and when he goes quiet. it’s not him who says he’s glad michael #knows what it’s like. it’s amara who says it. with an anger older than time. bitter enough to sting. #arms curled around herself because she’s hungry now. always hungry. tries not to think about what lucifer would taste like. (powerful) #sitting on a bench together watching people (souls. meals.) walk by. talking about prisons. talking about justice. maybe. or revenge. same #thing. and amara is leaning against him coiled tight through every muscle in her body and so so hungry. and when she says she’s glad michael #is suffering she isn’t really talking about him. but when she says it. lucifer lets out a breath. and says. me too. #and then he goes to find her something(one) to eat. #u see my vision. u do.

[1eos]

how i sleep at night holding grudges, never forgiving, cutting off anyone who don't respect me with 0 intentions to rebuild the bridge, and justified anger in my heart

#anger is how you live long lol #bitches with grudges against ppl who wronged them will overcome anything with that anger 😭😭😭 #my hateful ass grandma came back from death bc she was mad at someone

[colors-purple-and-green]

Wendel & wild spoilers:

OKAY BUT THE FACT THAT KAT TRAUMA WAS THIS SMALL CHILD LOOKING THING AFTER EVERYTHING!!! AND KAT HUGGING AND ACCEPTING THIS PART OF HERSELF!!! 😭😭😭 I CRY!!!

#the layers in that scene though!!! #just the fact that it could hurt kat by controlling kat to hurt herself #which just manifested because kat herself was so convinced that she didn't deserve to be have a happy life #and that she had killed her parents!! #and and the fact that the first reaction was anger but after overcoming and beating the nightmare #she's faced just how sad and lonely she's been!!! #and her kind smile in that ans just moment and hugginh her inner child!!!! #just ugh!!!! good scene!!!! #favorite scene in that movie!!! #wandall and wild #wendell & wild #wendell and wild #wendell and wild spoilers

[ilikeyoshi]

if i ever go back to wow it'll be to play dragonflight and the announced quel'thalas expansion and then leave again

#i think i could even safely play again if not Right Now then eventually. just based on the way my related Issues™️ have healed. #the biggest problem is i'm still really fucking mad about how blizzard treats their developers. and like lots of companies #in the industry are god awful so this isn't me trying to tell you you're evil for playing their games. it's just #a very extra personal wound for me bc of how important wowcraft was to me. so the anger is an extra raw kind that's hard to overcome. #and due to the circumstances i don't necessarily WANT to overcome it. y'know. so it's kinda just a matter of... #recovering from The Other Stuff + whether or not when i can stand to google it if blizzard is treating their devs better. yknow. #anyway sorry that was a tangent. need a free version of wow so i can play it w/o the guilt thanks #yoshi talks #wowcraft (derogatory) #<– thats my Being A Bitch About WoW tag btw if anyone needs to blacklist it

[meathounding]

irene should kill herself

#SHERLOCK IS MIIIINNNEEEE #i’m too overcome by anger to find her attractive and then #just blend her into how i feel abt sher 😭😭 #maybe it’ll change idk but i was soooooo upset #when i was first watching the show #i hope i get over it #it’s not like she’s ugly #we’ll see

[officialyourdailyinspiration]

Dr. Jim Newheiser  | One of the founders of the Biblical Counseling movement said that anger is involved in over 90 percent of all counseling cases. In my experience, I’m not sure what the 10 percent might be in which anger is not an issue. All of...

#Reformed Theological Seminary #Dr. Jim Newheiser #How Can I Overcome my Anger? #rts.edu

[plushiehamuko]

most of the discussion around whether v3-3 was a good chapter is about korekiyo, and while that’s good discussion and all, i think we should ACTUALLY also acknowledge how the potential for tenmiko to be a meaningful dynamic was completely thrown away. v3-3 is generally seen as the main highlight in both tenko and himiko’s development, and while i agree with that much, i think it would have been much better if that bonding moment between tenko and himiko happened much earlier and they spent the time leading up to that chapter forming some sort of actual relationship. this would have made tenko’s sacrifice much more impactful, and it would have allowed for himiko to have more complex feelings about the situation so her development doesn’t feel like a once-and-done thing

#squishy talks too much #personally i’d like to see their relationship devolve into an absolute mess and disaster where neither of them are happy #leading up to tenko’s death #leaving himiko to feel anger and confusion and sadness and not knowing how to grieve when tenko dies #but you can also be normal and take this in a route where they have positive relationship development #make it about them overcoming the differences that make them seem so incompatible #i will never not hate how tenmiko was handled it was so ‘go girl give us nothing!!!’ #about tenkos <3

[xamaxenta]

I need to stop putting aside my fury or like gaslighting myself into thinking im not angry or that to be angry is bad

#another problematic thing i need to overcome in a personal way bc i dont have money for therapy wahooooooo #processing anger whats that theyre like repress it your feelings dont matter!!! so i dont know how to cope #horrible fuck #im very bad at coping #because its so harmful to myself i just repress it and stuff and then it gets bad like this #butni think its not a big deal so i keep repressing

[rise-my-angel]

hii mimi!! how are you?? how is everything? also!! what did you think of the most recent ep of tlou?? i love hearing your thoughts about shows!! ☺️☺️

I actually really love the small pockets of a somewhat normal life. First two episodes had what we know as a normal life but drenched in a looming dread of whats to be lossed. But then we get two main peeks of what is now. Under cut cus i talk so goddamn much:

Bill and Frank found harmony in their isolation and shows that the world is healing on its own already. Their lives and end had nothing to do with the world around them.

And I actually really liked Ellie at FEDRA. We barely know them, and have only seen one officer who even despite what he did l, wasn't just a bad guy. And I like Ellie's conversation with at the school. That these people are just like the fireflies. They believe they have the answer as to how to keep things together and their sacrifices are necessary. His talk with Ellie wasn't full of propaganda or manipulation. Just a man who thinks he's doing right by the world and wants to guide others. They do bad things, but so do the rebel groups and neither of them are totally in the right or wrong.

I do love how they didn't feel tempted to go for horror or shock snd show Riley's inevitable. Just like not showing Bill and Frank even just together. We know the ending for her because Ellie's in Marlenes hold not Riley. Its more tragic that we see her whole and never again.

I also, like episode 3 love how it shows that life still can be normal. That behind the walls or in them, people still find love and live a life that feels like before. The fact that so much of them was just pure goofiness in the mall was perfect. We saw normal can exist in Bill and Frank, that you can find it in Tommy and Maria, and now we see that Ellie already knows its possible. She grew up to be mostly normal and has experienced what love can feel like and now shes seen it out there, twice.

We never saw that with Joel after he left to go bail Tommy out of jail. Normal didn't exist for him but Ellie has seen and experienced it, she knows its possible and despite everything the person she wants to show that to the most is Joel. Its why she asks what theyre going to do with their lives after they reach the fireflies and not whats going to happen there. She knows what love feels like and now she wants Joel to remember how that feels.

Also, I love our two awkward as fuck little idiot lesbians. Two complete morons who perfectly capture "how romantic does this shit need to get before you dingbags are on the same level". On the carousel would have been picture perfect but they just don't know and they move on. I also love how Ellie also merciless bullies Riley, like she does Joel. Her love language is making fun of you and its the funniest thing.

Interesting I saw people say Ellies post bite reaction made them think Joels looked like that. But I don't think so. Ellie wasn't losing just Riley she was losing herself too. She KNEW (👀) she was at her end. Ellie reacted with upset and anger that finally spilt into tears when she accepted their fates. Joel's anger festered and grew. Spurred on by the people they surrounded eachother with who insisted they were indeed not good people.

I think Joel was numb for a while. So devastated his own soul had nothing left to give until other people ensured he could fill it with anger. Ellie's anger was instant and not really anger but helplessness. Its why her meeting Joel so soon after this is important.

She didn't have a chance to feel numb. She met Joel before that could kick in, and she recognizes someone who could be her. They're alike and I think Ellie picked up on it fast, and by reaching out to someone she felt could be her if she let herself forget the good she has seen and felt.

Its important they met so soon after, because while part died with Riley, her soul reached out to Joel before it could die too. They're the only people who could make that emptiness feel whole again for one another.

Also. Ellie is actually me excitedly asking if she was getting tacos.

#tlou spoilers #the last of us spoilers #i just love how the show refuses to paint the world as miserable #it's not its full of life and love and it's not bleak and horrific #bad things happen (me looking at the next episode) #but it doesnt define things and it shouldn't be the focus #its why tlou 2 doesnt work for me #its a story about finding hope and healing through love #and having such an unapologetically bleak and macabre sequel strips away why the original worked #it's not about revenge or anger or violence #its about overcoming those for the sake of love