#horroble

[uncanny-tranny]

One conversation I remember people having about people who have endured abuse or trauma is the use of survivor versus victim language, and I think a lot of people have misconceptions about the "right" language to use.

I think a lot of people have this idea that using victim language (e.g., "I was/am a victim of abuse") can send the message that you're perpetually a victim, and that because of that, it is "bad language." However, I think it's more accurate to conceptualize it more so as putting responsibility onto the people who harmed them. Framing yourself as a survivor can feel final and permanent, and some of us aren't ready for that level of definitiveness.

I think we need more acceptance of peoples conception of their experiences. It's okay to say that you were/are a victim, just as it's okay to say you are a survivor. The idea of being a "good" victim/survivor is damaging, and it's harmful to us. It puts the onus on us to think about everybody else's comfort but our own about our own damn trauma

#mental health #mental health advocacy #trauma #abuse #abuse tw #i think we ought to accept where people are currently at in terms of healing pr growth or recovery... #...and that means not idealizing where you think they should be... #...and that includes the language people use to describe themselves and their traumas #victim language is perfectly acceptable because sometimes... you /are/ a victim #and that doesn't feel good to think about but that doesnt make it less worthy of recognition #maybe i look too into this as like... 'not one of the good' trauma endurers #i just hate that some people have taken those discussions to police the language victims and survivors alike use #like i've seen it to where people are like 'dont call yourself a victim of [horroble abuse]! you're a SURVIVOR' #and they do it to i guess encourage us? but it feels condescending and cruel and profoundly crass #ask to tag (genuine)

[starsillys]

"Your pfp is beautiful," I say as I look at 'Everlasting Fun' by longestsoloever, clearly disturbed.

(Please don't take this the wrong way, this is supposed to be positive, and I am so sorry if this was offensive to you)

LOLL no I'm not offended or anything dw 🫀 yeass that song goes so hard actually that scene in particular makes me jump no matter how many times I watch the video lmao

Here's the video in case anyone wants it. !!! Pls check it out if you haven't seen or heard it already begging

#SILLY #I love thisnsong its horroble #i thoigjt it was funny and silly thr first few times (and it still is) #butnnow i just. litesn to it unironically it goes so hard AND its silly like WHAT #wuah #best friend’s analysis answers

[ouchlord-vivaldi]

Dubious Grandma: Shit-Ass Dead Dude... Know'st thou of Hell Fuck Castle, high in the mountains...? (laughter) It was once the domain of King Big Sad Guy, who did the Flame Thing.. Legend tells of the castle's steward, the great and terrible HorseDog, but who is to say if it still roams the halls... (solid minute of laughter) Oh, how silly of me; but of course, a new arrival in Drangranthric wouldst know not such tales... One such as thee... wouldst be better suited to sharpen the blades of the dreaded wraith of Why'd They Put Anorher FUCKIN SWAMP LEVEL Marsh..... Armor Type of Dude. That is... ifst thoust canst livest thatst longst... (five minutes of laughter; unskippable)

#dark souls #from software #reposting so i dont have yo search for it on the horroble search feature every time #dubious grandma #solid minute of laughter #Youtube

[myrfing]

(person who hasn’t eaten voice) literally true what I want is to beg at someone’s feet. i don’t know for what. I want to grovel and plead and heave before them while they stand there with the weight of me like sack of stones around their bound ankles #REAL but I’m too proud to bow my head genuinely and it’s too scary to even ask for things so how can I ever beg…..much to think about

#i keep having dreams like this. they are horroble but still. #horriblé. #i have been begged to WHEN WILL MY CHANCE TO BEG COME

[stinkykittypet]

I bet Zbaltazar's gamertag would be Xx_PhilosophyGamer_xX

Momo would be _Momo_

Doc would be ZurkZapper01 (Seamus is ZurkZapper02, naturally, yes, I got this from a fanfic)

Clementine would be PlantMage

And, as an extra, Blazer would be 420_Blaze_It

#stray #stray game #the cat game #stray 2022 #stray momo #momo stray #clementine stray #stray clementine #doc stray #stray doc #stray seamus #seamus stray #stray zbaltazar #zbaltazar stray #outsiders stray #stray outsiders #momo os horrobly unimaginative #and i think clementine would be into withcrqft tbh #blazer #blazer stray #stray blazer

[whoa-where-did-the-pancakes-go]

Tge sound of sirens is actually the worst thing ever ohhh my god aaaaaadfghjjgghh

#^ guy who routinely has dreams where bomb sirens go off and he cant get inside and fucking DIES and all my friends DIE and my family DIES #tornado sirens fucked me up bad when i was little #[insert cool original post tag] #LOCKDOWN SIRENS ARE HORROBLE I CANT HEAR THEM EVEN IN LIKE A MOVIE OR ANYTHING #this is unnecessary information

[possumteeths]

My iud was all fucked up way outta place hurting me so i had to remove and replace and motherfucker what i have never been in so much pain its so much worse than the first time like good fucking god how are u not idk HELLA MEdICATEd I took 1200 mg ibuprofen, a fucking vidocin and tylenol and tbe pain is genuinely indescribable and also im bleeding and also i got way too good of a look at the needle they shoved up my pussy

#im going to commit crimes of random agression #once im able to walk without trembling #legit the involuntary noise that came out of me was like an inhumane primal noise #of genuine terror #UGH #medical tw #rant post #i went to urgent care a few days ago im horrible horroble pain and got a ct scan only for them to say oh ur iud is fucked up #and they couldn’t remove or replace it #so i hwd to wait 3 days while in horrible pain doped up on 100 prescription pain meds #and now!!! i get no break feom #anything just fkn more goddamned pain #and cramps and owie for the next few days too!!

[tagedeszorns]

Hello.

Tis I, the Mysterious Hermit. I just want to say thank you for all of your art. You put in a lot of effort and it shows. Your style is very unique and wonderful. Thank you for creating it and contributing to this place. It is very much appreciated.

Stay hydrated and well rested. I shall scuttle back to my hermit hole for now.

Well, thank you so much for your kind words and your continued support of my shenanigans!

To celebrate this, have Lucius with a shirt that will be stolen shortly (as can be seen in the picture just below this), but which, as long as it keeps up, spreads its positive message of artistic activity!

#Warhammer #Ask Post #Lucius not yet Eternal #Emperor's Children #Horroble shirts #Horus Heresy #Lucius #Space Marines

[uncanny-tranny]

I've noticed an attitude that some parents have where their perceived right to own their children outweighs their duty as a parent. It seems like so much emphasis is placed on the parents ability to own raise a child that it completely clouds any other responsibility for that child. I see it all the time around my culture, where parenthood isn't a question of "if," but "when," because it is seen as ubiquitous to being an adult, and I wonder how many people start believing that because they were expected to be a parent even when they did not want parenthood, they should be rewarded for it.

These are just shots of thoughts, but I've found that this idea that parenthood is your right when you own a child can contribute to an environment of abuse, neglect, or mistreatment of the child/ren in one's care.

And, absolutely, the opportunity of even being a parent has been leveraged in cruel ways, and I think that's an important consideration because it is completely heinous. In my country alone, forced sterilization has been a political strategy for eugenics and to complete a political narrative about the worth of people's right to even live. When thinking about everything above, it reminded me of other ways that parenthood both reinforces violence, perpetuates violence, and threatens violence. This problem goes much deeper than I think many are ready for, and I wanted to acknowledge this due to how pervasive this "political strategy" was/is in many places. I don't think I myself am equipped to truly do this specific topic justice, but I felt it pertinent to this conversation, and something I don't always see even passively acknowledged.

#politics #youth liberation #forced sterilization tw #abuse #abuse tw #abuse mention tw #the first two paragraphs i wrote and then remembered exactly how deep this goes and i think multiple things are true at once #the pressure to be a parent has had drastically horroble results but also... parenthood has been forcibly revoked from people... #...in my country specifically the disabled/indigenous/Black communities and i am SURE i'm missing people. this is a small example... #...their right to autonomy and even the /chance/ to care for life was stolen away from them #parenthood becomes a tool and strategy not for parental sake but for violence

[madmachaca]

Kanon being forgiven by both Athena and Poseidon after all he did, counts as pretty privilege?

#kanon: I deserve nothing! I am not worthy to fight for justice. i was horroble but I am so sorry!! #Athena and Poseidon respectively: it's ok baby. I know😳 #saint seiya #sea dragon kanon #gemini kanon #I mean he really did change

[theriverbeyond]

channeling gideon nav canaan house (consuming animal fries extra sauce + milkshake on a lactaid-deficient digestive system)

#sometimes i deserve to babe horroble digestive experiences (positive) #trb.txt #have*

[hesitationss]

wish i lived in proximity to an ancient labyrinth of stone or hardened sand or marshy clay and it was 7-10 ft tall of varying levels but the closest thing is corn mazes every autumn

#i'll go this fall and play pretend #like i will discover something ancient and horroble there ... #i just woke up from a nightmare btw... do NOT pass out... your mouth will feel horrible..

[ghost-bard]

I am sooo normal about Sapphria Rocks guys. So normal :)

#acoc #sapphria rocks #d20 #d20 acoc #a crown of candy #i am constantly thinking about her and also lapin #because post death neither of them get talked about like ever #like im so sorry but Sapphria being a fuckin. like political spy??? god. #i wish we could have gone to the meatlands #genuinely i do hope that we get a smidge of sapphria lore in the rave war preqel #even w my own apphrension towards it i do not care #like PLEASE #also forever upset that lapins death seemingly meant nothing to the tastebuds :) #like preston dying? horroble and awful #the guy that all these ppl have known for years (or their entire lives for the twins) only to just. not be talked about ever again??? #like sorry i think im allowed to be fucking sad when my fave character died and none of the pcs seeming cared #EVEN THOUGH HE SACRIFICED HIMSELF TO SAVE THEM #THEY WATCHED HIM DIE AS THEY ESCAPED #and not once #even when they had a chance to #did they mourn the loss of lapin cadburry #sry im really passionate about him bc. yeah #like the sisters rocks deserved more #and lapin deserved to be mourned #anyway hahaha i am normal #at some point i will make a separate post for lapin #probably once ive rewatched acoc

[nanaruin90s]

And They say that i have mental problems just because i dont support WOKE....

What the fuck happend Pedro Pascal? ....

Did he have a panic attack or a case of heavy depression? 🤨

#pedro pascal #what the fuck #mental health #he looks horroble...

[this-should-do]

anyways hiiii hihiih guys and internet besties i love uuuu and i love talking to u and i think about u and hope u all are happy

#thinming about the expanse of the universe and all the perspectives and people and things ill never know or be is horrobly large #and its overhwelming to think about and sad almost in a way #and also the concept that i am a being that exists in the real world and not just in my head #it so strange to think about #that my actions have co sequences ot just in the oh be bad get punishment way but that #people can be so positively affected by me in ways ill never even know inless tbey directyl tell me #or that people will see me and i wont even really know theyre there and tbeyll wish they were able to talk to me #like... people exist and ao do i and ill never be able to know or grasp how everutbing thing in tbe world ties together #sorry guys had an existential moment for about .5 seconds before i snapped out of it #love a good visceral almost painful thought freefall before being snapped back into reality #iwillspeakincessantly

[deeisace]

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#i guess i could technically be loosing blood at a more alarming rate but let it be known i am not having fun today #ugh #i just am really hoping im back to horroble normal and this one won't last 13 times longer than it should #like the last fuckin murderous saga #ughhhh #sorry you might just have to put up with me anxiously complaining