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harry and the missus in bed and they hear the door creek open and it’s D coming in for a morning snuggle 🥹 she gets into bed with them and Harry shuffles around to make sure she’s cozy and they nap before they get up and he cooks a nice saturday breakfast

STOP THIS IS SO CUTE 🥺 She pads around the bed with her little stuffy in tow, her hair all pillow-fluffed and cheeks pink. Insisting that she wants to be a "sandwich" which right away they know means she wants to snuggle up right in between the two of them.

"You want to be a sandwich, do you?" Harry says, sitting up so he can reach and scoop her up onto the bed. "I think we can do that!"

"Hi, baby, did you have a good sleep?" the missus says, stroking her messy hair back.

She nods, snuggling her very well-loved stuffed rabbit closer before launching into a retelling of a dream she had.

"What do you want for breakfast, darling?" Harry asks, kissing her forehead.

She purses her lips together, her little brows creasing together just like his do.

"Do you want Daddy to make pancakes?" he asks.

"Yeah!" she chips. "And strawberries, please Daddy,"

"And strawberries please," he repeats with a grin. "That sounds like a good plan."

"D, are you still sleepy, baby?" the missus asks, brushing her hair back.

"Nooooo," she insists, but snuggles closer to her momma and is OUT in a few minutes anyway.

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The missus having some contractions and starting labour at a small family gathering but is just brushing it off because she wants Harry to catch up with family before the baby arrives but his mum noticing something isn’t right and keeping a close eye

PLEASE 🥺 Anne just quietly noticing it first and observing. She instantly recognizes what's going on. She can see in the slight pinch in the missus' face every few minutes. The way her lip slightly quivers and her hand doesn't leave the middle of her belly for a while. Siding up next to her when she wanders into the kitchen. "Did you want to go and lay down in my room for a bit?" Not missing the little wash of relief across her face and that Anne just seems to know.

Harry finding his momma a little later, as he's carrying some empty coffee mugs to the sink, asking if she's seen the missus. She was next to him for almost the whole night until he went on a walk into town with Gemma's partner to pick up a few things for dessert.

"She's resting in my bedroom," she says, leaning up to kiss his cheek, and they share a little look and after a moment something in Harry clicks and he rushes off, up the stairs and to his momma's bedroom.

He finds her curled up on her side tucked under one of his momma's heavy wool blankets.

"Hey," he says, sitting down on the edge of the bed and immediately pressing a kiss to her forehead. "What's going on? Are you okay?" Her eyes are slightly pink and wet, but she nods, hauling in a breath that trembles just a little.

"I think we're having a baby."

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H and the missus having a cuddle on the couch and one of them toddles in and just looks at them like 😧 “I want to cuddle mummy” and H is just teasing them with arguing and the missus is just chuckling to herself

PLEASE 🥺 Harry making a big show of wrapping his arms around the missus and pulling her on top of him. "No!" he teases. "It's my turn with Mummy!" Peppering the missus' face with kisses. "Five more minutes."

To which the kiddo in question does their best little pouty face all, "No, Daddy! No minutes!"

"No minutes?" Harry says, teasingly disbelieving. "That's not a very good deal!" At this point the kiddo takes it upon themself to climb up onto the sofa and pile themself on top of their parents. "Oh nooo!" Harry laughs. "We've been found out! Sound the alarms!"

The missus, sits up, pulling their baby onto her lap. "C'mere, lovey. There's room for you too. We'll make Daddy scooch over." Kissing Harry's now pouty face. "Where did I just see that face?"

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I can picture Harry being the kind that gets grouchy when he doesn’t get a kiss 🥺 like maybe it’s right before the wedding and everyone is in town and doing the last minute errands and appointments before the wedding day and they keep getting pulled away, someone needs him here and the missus there. Maybe everyone gets together for dinner and it’s the first time they’ve seen eachother all day and the missus can’t help but laugh when she sees Harry with a semi grouchy look on his face and when he sees her his face goes from 🙎 to 🥺😗 😂😂

STOP THIS IS SO CUTE 🥺 He's already at the table with a few other friends/family when she walks into the restaurant and she can see his slightly grumpy face, giggling to herself. Maybe she manages to sneak up behind him and put her arms over his shoulders, leaning down to kiss his cheek first.

He immediately looks over to her when he feels that she's there. His face softening up right away with a big smile. "Hi, baby," he says, turning his head to finally kiss her. "Mmm," he hums. "I missed you all day."

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I would definitely want to keep a pregnancy secret between my husband and myself for a while, as long as it’s reasonable, and because it makes it more special! 🥹 but imagine Harry making up excuses for why they’ve been “hiding” a bit more, avoiding some social situations, because she’s just exhausted or feeling tired, not drinking or feeling up to crowds or big meals. And the few they do make it to it’s so clear he’s checking in and making sure she’s not feeling sick the whole time. Cute husband and dad to be content is what I need in life Geena! 👩🏼‍❤️‍👨🏻

PLEASE I LOVE THAT TOO 🥺 I love the thought of it just being their secret and not sharing it right away. Whenever they're invited to things and she's not feeling up to going, Harry always takes care of it. If they do go out he's subtly checking on her the whole night. Giving her a little hand squeeze or resting his hand on her back to check in. And eating two dinners if he has to because maybe she's not feeling like eating what them and their friends are out for but they don't want to look suspicious.

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Omggg imagine harry after a surgery and he’s out of it and a little emotional from the anesthesia. And the missus is there with him ofc and he’s whining to her that he doesn’t feel good and he feels sick and she’s the sweetest and knows exactly what to say and how to help 

PLEASE 🥺 In the least weird way possible, I'm so curious about how he is after anesthesia. Because usually everyone reacts a little differently and I need to know what he's like after.

I don't see him being intensely emotional (that's more so the missus) but everything is maybe a little emotionally tinged, you know?

Right away he's' telling her: "Baby, I don't like this," touching near where his IV is.

"I know, I'm sorry," she says stroking his hair back and kissing his forehead. "You did so good." Or he tells her he's a little nauseous right away she's all: "Your nurse said she's bringing you some medicine in a minute. You're okay. You want your socks on so your feet aren't cold?" She moves to grab the pair of grippy socks they left for him.

"Baby?" She hears as she's pulling the socks onto his feet.

"Yeah?"

"Can you see my pee bag?"

She has to do EVERYTHING she can not to laugh. "No, baby I can't see it, I promise."

"Don't look at it," he insists, eyes still closed and head tipped back on the pillow.

"I won't, I can't even see it," she says again, rubbing his legs over the blankets as she moves back to sit by his side.

He turns his head to look at her. "Is my heart good?"

"Yeah, I can see it right now, on the monitor, it's perfect" She takes his hand and squeezes softly, lifting it to her lips to kiss gently over his knuckles.

He looks up to her again. "Do you love me?"

"Yes," she coos. "I love you so much. I love you the most." Peppering little kisses across his face.

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The missus getting into bed with pyjamas on, and Harry lowkey being pouty, and asking why she isn’t sleeping naked with him. The missus being cold puts her pyjamas on, and h suggesting he will keep her warm haha xx

PLEASE 😂

"Baby, what are you wearing?"

"...Pajamas?"

"Why?"

"Because it's freezing in the house." She looks over to see him smirking at her. "Harry..." she says. "Harry. No. Don't you do it."

And in a split second he's dead weight on top of her and she's giggling into his neck.

He pulls back to look at her. "Well, I'll keep you warm."

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The missus sitting in the bath and Harry just admiring her, her bump poking out of the bubbles

And then there’s a little bit of banter and laughter when she can’t get out before he helps her

PLEASE 🥺 Sitting on the edge of the tub just admiring her. "You look incredible," he hums, leaning down to kiss her.

"Stop," she whines, feeling her cheeks getting warm. "Thank you." She puckers her lips to ask for one more kiss, holding his face to bring him in closer. "Baby?" she says.

"Yeah?"

"You might have to help me out of here," she admits.

"Well alright," Harry says, pretending to roll up his sleeves and stretch and do his little jumps in place to 'get ready' which has both of them giggling.

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I can imagine Gemma coming to see the baby after she’s born and teasing Harry, being like “so that’s what you got up to on Christmas Eve” or “you weren’t really feeling unwell were you?” Just some friendly banter between the siblings 😭

PLEASE 😂 Harry's all 😳 "I have no idea what you're talking about."

"In our mother's house!" 😜

"Yeah, yeah, you have no proof!"

"I'm holding the proof!"

"Fake news." 😂

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The missus and Harry just started weening bubs into solids and she is wanting everything they have!!! Cake, sandwiches, pasta - anything she can make grabby hands at and have her mouth open ready

PLEASE 🥺 She coos and burbles and reaches for ANYTHING they have. They'll feed her tiny bites of different things if it's soft enough and she loves stealing bites of Harry's yogurt at breakfast. But sometimes Harry will be all, "Darling, you only have two teeth, you can't have Daddy's pizza yet."

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Okay but imagine missus and Harry slowly waking up together in the morning and as they’re getting in their sleepy snuggles and talking about what they have to do that day, missus is just rubbing Harry’s now fuzzy buzzed head and he’s almost purring bc he’s still so sleepy

PLEASE 🥺 He rolls over to go dead weight on top of her and so he can bury his face in her neck while she rubs his head and they chat. He can feel his eyes getting heavy again before he feels a gentle kiss to the top of his head.

"Baby, don't go back to sleep," she hums. "We have to get up."

To which he just whines into her neck and settles back down. "No," he mumbles into her skin.

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The missus still being a little shy smooching h in front of Anne. Like maybe she’s pregnant with the twins and they’ve taken themselves away in the kitchen for quiet time and just stealing kisses and Anne walks in for something. The missus is all like “oh my god, your mum!” “Babe we have a child and 2 more on the way, I think she knows we kiss”

STOP I DON'T KNOW WHY BUT I FIND THIS SO CUTE?! The idea that no matter how long they've been together, how many kids they have, she's still a little shy about it. Even though logically she knows Anne knows they kiss, have sex, etc. etc. acknowledging that she knows those things is just TOO MUCH and she gets so shy about it.

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Can we talk about how sweet h would be if the missus was having a panic attack when they’re at a fancy/important event. Maybe they got separated for a bit mingling with people and she wanders up to him and is super pale and shaky and grabs his hand or maybe says something and he can just tell. Immediately he pulls her in for a quick hug and kisses her temple and is all “okay. It’s okay baby. Let’s go to the bathroom for a minute.” And guides her to a bathroom where he helps her breathe through it. Can you elaborate? Xx

STOP 🥺 I love the thought that she wouldn't even have to say or do anything. He could just tell by the way she's looks at him and he recognizes it immediately. He's excusing himself quickly from his conversation and rushing to hold onto her. Looking her over with the softest eyes. Maybe he always carries around some hard candies because that always helps her feel better. He gets her a water bottle and they huddle in the bathroom for a little bit, away from all of the activity and noise. He holds her hand and talks so low and gentle with her while she rides out the shaky feeling. Brushing her hair out of her face and giving her gentle kisses.

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The missus being italian and Harry reading little kids books to D to practice his pronunciation and the missus tells him after when he joins her on the couch he’s getting really good and he blushes and she kisses his cheek

PLEASE 🥺

He wraps his arm around her and pulls her close as she tucks her legs up. He kisses the top of her head, fingers rubbing lightly at her shoulder. "Thank you," he says and there's a pause before he goes, 🤨 "Were you being sneaky?"

She chuckles. "Just for a minute or two," she promises.

"I don't know how many more times we can read Il Bruco Molto Affamato before she never wants to hear it again but..." both of them giggling. "For now she still likes it!"

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I don’t know why but I love the idea of H sitting behind the missus when giving birth - especially if it’s a home birth. Just love the idea of it being so intimate, even more if it’s their first 🥺

And with all children, wearing the same nightgown to give birth in as a tradition, just something special

PLEASE 🥺 ME TOO. Maybe not while she's actively giving birth because she tends to move around and not want to be laying on her back but there's definitely points where she lays against him for support when she's feeling tired during labor.

And when she's newly pregnant for the first time Harry gifts her a nightgown and dressing gown and she goes on to have all of her babies while wearing it (I mean it usually comes off at some point during her pushing phases but then she'll put it back on after so she can wrap bub up while they're having that first snuggle) and she absolutely loves it. And even when she's not pregnant she wears it around the house and her babies love snuggling up because it smells like her.

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A couple days after the missus gives birth to Darcy. She’s fast asleep. Harry and the missus have their first proper alone time together without feeling exhausted / overwhelmed. The first time Harry can properly tell the missus how incredible she was in labour, and what an fantastic momma she is 💕

PLEASE 🥺 Her crawling up onto their bed to join Harry after she's taken a hot shower. He's stretched out and waiting for her on her side of the bed so he can be next to D who's fast asleep in her little bedside cot.

"Ooh, you okay?" Harry checks as she lifts herself up onto the bed and winces from the soreness of her stitches. He wraps an arm around her shoulders to help her the rest of the way up and she curls up against him with a sigh.

"Yeah," she promises, and reaches up to scratch his cheek. "Hi."

"Hi," he hums, leaning in to kiss her gently.

"Was she okay?"

He nods. "Snoozed the whole time." He sees it. The little tinge of worry behind the adoration that's been on her face since they put D in her arms. "You're doing a really good job, baby. Okay?"

She lifts her head to look at him, and already her eyes are glossy. "Do you think so?" Her voice catches in her throat.

"Yes," he promises. "You're incredible. I hope you're ready because I'm going to spend the rest of our lives trying to thank you properly for giving us this little bub." He kisses her forehead. "Baby, a whole baby. came out of you. An entire little person came out of you. Out of your body," he says in disbelief, reflecting on it for a moment. "And you looked so beautiful."

The missus chuckles, letting her check fall to his chest and her eyes closed. "Did I?" she asks. "I felt like I'd been hit by a train."

"You did," he says. "And then you looked at me and asked when we could do it again, like nothing had happened." He snuggles he closer.

"I couldn't have done it without you," she says drowsily.

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