the way fat bodies are viewed and discussed in the context of sex and fetishism makes me forever angry as a fat person who has been fat his whole life. I hate the immediate suspicion towards art featuring fat bodies as fetish porn and, at the same time, i hate the disgust and demonization of fat fetish —
this connects to a lot of complicated thoughts about the nature of kink and fetish in general and how I hate the demonization of sexual “deviance” but in this context it makes me especially peeved because… The visceral disgusted reaction to fat fetish work, to me, feels like a visceral reaction of disgust to the idea that someone would be attracted to fat bodies. Not just to “chubby” bodies but to obese, overweight, unfit, fat bodies. Bodies like mine.
And like … sure there’s arguments to be made about fetishism of fat bodies being harmful but kink and fetish can be and often are ways of expressing one’s sexuality in a loving and earnest way; nobody has that knee jerk response of “eugh! a fetishist!!” when someone exclusively likes thin bodies; when someone’s sexual interests only ever feature thin people, it’s not considered fetishistic
This is disjointed and incoherent I’m just fat and mad. I wish our bodies, and the sexual expression of those who love our bodies, and the sexual expression of fat people were all respected. I wish it weren’t considered sexually deviant to love somebody’s fat body
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IF THIS MAN DOESNT FUCKING POST PHOTOS OF HIM IN THIS OUTFIT LOOKING LIKE THIS IM GONNA CRY👹
LIKE HE IS SO SEXY👹👹👹
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Bro how am I supposed to cope with tensimm when ineffable spouses exist and i’m surrounded by really fucked up “I forgive you”s every day
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Canine therian mood today:
I got so stressed out at a theater rehearsal today that I had to take a couple minutes in the hallway so I didn’t growl at my fellow techies. I stress-chewed a hole in my sleeve.
Another day, another chance to accidentally out myself.
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I think shapeshifting would fix me. Even a tiny bit. Just being able to purr and growl would be fantastic.
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last year when i was trying to write new seven years we were in the middle of the shitshow that was cost cap and suddenly i had 70k of absolute carnage on my hands and now that i’m trying to write new seven years once again every week there’s new bullshit to deal with, like ma’am how am i meant to incorporate all of the lewis to rb bs now i am already barely holding on to a cohesive narrative!!!!!!!!
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YALL. DONT GET MAD AT ME BUTTT🤭🤭🤭
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