#gothteddy asks

[bigothteddies]

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teddy / 24 / he + they / bisexual / dominant + sadist / previously @gothteddies / taken / poly + not looking / mutuals can dm to add on snapchat

about + rules / faq / dni + “why was I blocked?” / tag masterlist + tag system updates / @gothteddies deletion

my textposts / my pictures / my audios / my memes / my shitposts / my asks / my hall of fame / my old posts / works I've comissioned

cute people / cute mutuals / cute partners

friendly reminder that I don’t sext in my inbox, I don’t like being sent graphic sexual fantasies for no reason, and I don’t respond to anons that use signatures to indicate an identity

#pinned post

[stockholmgf]

I personally love the thighs themselves. I don’t know why, I just find them very attractive! Something about how grabbable they are or maybe how they frame/hide the genital region ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

as someone with a surplus of thigh and no ass this is a comfort, thank u good sir

#ask sgf #gothteddies #i think my issue for myself is that like #i have big inner thigh not outer #so i dont get the curve i just get the jeans that don’t fit :/

[worship-my-body]

78%!

78% Do you own any buttplugs?

Yes! Two, black and transparent blue. But I rarely ever use them 😅

#questions to ask based on your phone battery % #answered #gothteddies

[greyve1ns]

7, 22, 34! ❤️

7. Where’s the most unusual place you’ve masturbated?

ehh i don't think i've really done it anywhere strange?? all i can think of is bed, couch, bathroom 😅

22. What’s the raddest part of your bod, and why?

tidy big

34. Do you ever find yourself fantasising absent-mindedly, or is it something you do on purpose?

literally all the time, especially at work 🥴 i think It's my brain being like 'i wish i was doing something more fun...' and wandering off to lewd town

#my posts #asks #answered #gothteddies

[clingylilhoneybee]

2, 4, 6, 8 for the ask thing???

2. What are you obsessed with right now? Stardew valley! I started playing it right before I moved n it’s soooo much fun (although I haven’t really had time to play since I got here)

4. What piercings do you want? Omg too many lol~ I wanna get my nipples repierced, my second nostril and/or high nostril and a few more ear piercings

6. Describe your dream home. There are not enough hours in the day to get into everything lmao but I’d LOVE either an old spooky Victorian with a huge wraparound porch and a giant kitchen or a cozy little cottage but both absolutely need to be on a huge property so I can have a pretty garden n @gothteddies can build bike trails!

8. What’s your favorite show to binge?

Letterkenny! I’m bad about zoning out during binging but I have to be engaged with Letterkenny to know what anyone is saying lmao

#thank you friend! #those were super fun to answer #but teddy can attest to this #I am wayyyy too invested in houses #and have so many dream ideas for them #I’ll probably be at a total loss on what I actually want when we get a house #but I’m a sucker for a good Victorian #ask

[bigothteddies]

hey guys, it’s teddy. As you might or might not have noticed by now, @gothteddies got deleted in September by @ st*ff. I tried really hard to get it restored, and I do genuinely believe I hadn’t violated any of the guidelines for adult content on my account (evidenced by the fact that I successfully reappealed my blog being flagged twice before), but st*ff refused to communicate. I’m sure you all know the run-around they give everyone, the same copy paste answer about how your blog was found to be violating community guidelines no matter how many times you ask for more information or to point out where you were violating community guidelines.

Anyways, sparing the details, it doesn’t seem like I’ll be getting @gothteddies back. I’ve this back up blog for a little while, and I have a ton of my old posts backed up here. Unfortunately, I hadn’t backed up posts for a few months when I got deleted, so my archive only goes back til about April. So if you see any posts timestamped from after then, please tag me in them (but check in the notes if someone else has or if I’ve reblogged it here already first). This blog will mostly be running reruns of my old posts for the next week or two to try and pump all that content back out into the world.

In the meantime, I’d like you guys to know that as of right now, I’m not planning to be as active as I was before on here. Losing @gothteddies is more than something I can just start over. I lost all my content, all the back ups I had of my mutual’s content I had saved in my tagging system for them to use when they got deleted, I lost all the work I put into for my blog theme, for my FAQ, my about page, my tag explanations page with all its links, my mutuals, my community, my content filters, my history of interactions with people, all that work is gone. Some of it will be easier to rebuild than other parts. But I don’t have a particular desire to try and rebuild all of that, putting so much work in when tumblr can just pull the rug out from under me when I’m not even flagged and not bothering to even tell me why.

My plan right now is to start this blog, get all my back up content out there first (block the tag #archive spam if you don’t want to see all that clogging your dash), then to use this blog pretty sparingly. I’ll keep posting my original posts, but I’m not going to be a hub for nsfw content anymore. Ill still be reblogging cute stuff when I see it, especially my favorite mutuals, but I don’t plan to scroll my dash and find everything I love and pump my queue constantly and worry about anything on here at all. Posts will be more sparse, and hopefully I will too.

Thanks to everyone that’s been here for the past two years @gothteddies, and even more thanks to the people who’ve been there for even longer on @bdsmteddy before that.

If you’re a little sad that I won’t be as active, as always, please check out some of my amazing mutuals blogs to check out their stuff!

don’t reblog this post! reblog this version instead!

#teddy blog updates #link will be updated just give it a second #I'm still modifying and editing and planning things out

[bigothteddies]

About

Age: 24

Gender: Male(ish)

Name: Teddy

Location: Midwest USA

Relationship Status: Owner of @meatexe

Previous URL’s: @bdsmteddy -> @gothteddies -> @bigothteddies (current)

Kinks: sadism, pet play, bondage, kidnapping, cnc, exhibitionism, choking, impact play, daddy/dad kink, object insertion, breeding, cum play, degradation, objectification, blasphemy, monster fucking, etc. etc.

Additional: I've been around on here for almost 6 years now. I've gone through highs and lows with my blogs and their deletions. I post mostly original textposts, occasionally photos and audios of myself. I also reblog a lot of other creators content, and I have a half baked tag system as well that you can use to navigate my blog for the content you're looking for. Beneath this are some rules for my blog and interacting with me, please take the time to read them as it does not take very long and neither are they very complicated. If you'd like, you can like this post afterward to demonstrate that you've read this post and understand them. Thank you for sparing some time out of your day to check out my silly little blog.

Rules

• please do not leave reblog comments on my posts. Instead, if you have something to say, you can make your own post. If you like my post, you can say so in the tags. If you want to tag a friend, you can dm it to them or send them a link to it.

• please do not send me any anonymous asks with signatures attached to them. I have no interest in getting to know who the latest emoji signature belongs to in my inbox. If you are asking off of a sideblog and want to put your url in the ask so I know who it’s from, that’s completely fine. I have no problem with that, I take an issue with people who use anonymous signatures like emojis or random nicknames/titles in my inbox. I’ve had some bad experiences with them as well as finding them generally creepy.

• please do not send me graphically sexual asks. I find it to be really off-putting and uncomfortable. I don’t want to be told your fantasies, I don’t want to help you get off, I don’t want to sext in my inbox, I don’t want to dm you to talk more, I don’t want you sending me paragraphs about what my posts made you think of, I don’t want people expanding upon my posts and trying to continue scenarios with me that I didn’t ask for. I find the idea of strangers that don't know anything about me attempting to sexually engage with me without asking for consent really creepy and uncomfortable. I don’t have any desire to interact with you sexually, so please respect that.

• please do not try to be funny or write your own sexy posts in my inbox. I know that it was a weird trend on here the last few years to be funny in peoples inboxes to get the bloggers reactions and then for the resulting post to get a ton of notes. I also know that there are other textpost bloggers that enjoy when anons leave them horny ideas in their inbox so that they can talk about it and expand the concept. I don’t enjoy either of those. Please just make your own posts and leave me out of it.

#linked posts #finally getting around to some blog maintenance I guess!

[bigothteddies]

FAQ

why don’t you allow people to send anons with emojis and other anonymous signatures?

long story short, I find it really creepy and have had numerous bad experiences with signature anons. some people are genuinely harmless about it, but there is a significant amount of people who use them in a very parasocial way. I think it's very strange how people use them to build a rapport with their favorite bloggers and try to build a relationship with them, and that's not something I'm okay with people doing with me. at the end of the day, if you’re asking me something, it shouldn’t affect your question to have a cute little signature at the end, so just don’t do it on my blog. thank you.

how do I become your mutual?

I’m not really interested in making new mutuals. Beyond that, becoming mutuals with a random dom blog you’ve never spoken to shouldn’t be a goal of yours. Focus on your own tumblr experience and what you want your own blog to be.

haha I read your blog as big-goth-tiddies / bi-goth-tiddies!

yeah I know, it’s a fun little pun because I’m bi and my name is Teddy. Bi-gothteddies and bi-goth-tiddies/big-goth-tiddies are all accurate ways to read it.

where do you live?

I live somewhere in the midwest, that’s as specific as I get

do you accept submissions?

no I do not

will you write about X kink? or X scenario?

I do not take post suggestions, I post what makes myself horny and what I’d like to see. I appreciate that you think I’d write a good post about it though !

what happened to @gothteddies?

staff deleted it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

#linked posts #faq

[bigothteddies]

teddy’s tag update #1

the tag system from my old blog will be undergoing some small changes to better differentiate between content moving forward, as well as moving away from some of the old naming conventions. as I continue to go through old posts and update their tags, I will continue to update the main tag masterlist (found here) as well as continue to release these tag update posts. the important system changes are listed below

Trigger warning tags will no longer have “tw” after them. To block kidnapping content, simply filter the kidnapping tag, not the kidnapping tw tag

Warning tags will now include more emotion based kinks and overall sexual tones of posts such as humiliation, manipulation, sadism, ignorance, etc.

The structure/tone of my original posts will now be tagged, differentiating from bad sex jokes, longform horny stories, creative horny concepts, etc.

More tags will feature round-about ways to specify their idea without being the normal sexual term, which tumblr might track and flag. Ex. anal is now backdoor things

changes:

gothteddy asks -> asked and answered

gothteddy nonsense -> shitposts in realtime + unimportant thoughts (for my nonsexual bad joke posts + my personal thoughts respectively)

gothteddy posts -> bigothteddies posts

gothteddy content -> teddy content

gothteddy hall of fame -> hall of kinky fame

my old posts -> old timey teddy posts

spitroast -> filled at both ends

grinding -> the daily grind

anal -> backdoor things

creampie / cum lovers only -> homemade cream pie

new kink tags:

wardrobe stealing: posts about wearing a partner clothes

domestic kink decorating: posts about decorating a house or room with a kink theme or purpose

working dom kink: posts about a dom being away from home for work daily, usually focused around them coming home after work

group dynamics: posts about sexual group settings, including everything from gangbangs to a group of people being friends with benefits with each other

2 pizzas 1 sandwich: posts about 2 doms and 1 sub (two dominos one subway)

sub family: posts that imply a poly living/romantic situation in which there are multiple subs

kink influencer things: posts that reference kink concepts where someone is a youtuber, twitch streamer, influencer, etc.

home kink life: posts that reference living together in any form of kink scenario/dynamic

new post structure tags:

horny but make it funny: original posts that sexual based humor

plain ol horny: typical original horny posts

horny concepts: original posts about creative kink scenarios, positions, roles, ideas, settings, etc etc.

romance but make it fucked up: original romantic kink posts that feature things like obsession, stalking, cnc, possessiveness, etc.

plain ol romance: original kink posts that are romantic in a more healthy sense

horny stories: original more long-form kink posts detailing a specific scenario and sequence of events

* there are small changes to other tags, like suction cup dildo to simply suction cup, or restaurant to restaurant thing, but these are understandable from context and haven’t been identified in this update

#teddy’s tag updates #remember when i said i WOULDNT put that much effort into rhe new blog? #what a fool i am #what a fool ive always been