#good reminder

[savebylou]

credit: zabelrry

#harry styles #good reminder #harry's memes #hs4 #hs4 is coming #one direction

[isabellehemlock]

Something that I don't think is talked about enough when it comes to processing trauma: sometimes, healing is grieving.

Grieving for a person lost. Or, for a childhood you never got to have. For the familiarity - regardless how unhealthy - because it's the only thing you know. Or, for the people who outgrew you, for one's you outgrew along the way.

Healing is a process that isn't necessarily peaceful.

Sometimes it's grieving for what could have been, what should have been, and releasing the pain in whatever healthy coping skills you're able to build for yourself.

#healing is a process #and sometimes: #healing is grieving #the path is not linear #mental health #trauma #grief #good reminder #for myself some days

[nerdygaymormon]

#good reminder #the loudest are inflating perception of their numbers #glaad #queer news daily

[intelligentchristianlady]

Graphics are helpful.

#slavery #segregation #integration #know your history #good reminder

[watchingwisteria]

you’re not evil or worthless or whatever else you’re thinking. you’re just mentally ill and you might need a nice snack or some tea or fresh air to remind you what being human feels like

#ocd tag #actually ocd #mental health #good reminder #this post is for me but i’m sure someone else needs it 🤒 #so feel free to rb whether u have ocd or not! #i just tagged it that for me #also #this is not to say that these things would fix the problem #they r more like. a salve on a wound to get me to my next therapy appointment #when your brains full time job is dehumanizing you u have to force yourself to Exist and Take Up Space and Time and Be Human anyway

[amianne]

Slow. Down.

#good reminder #life quotes #quotes #look for the good #be positive #be grateful #beautiful

[renee-writer]

#from facebook #good reminder

[penningthoughts]

Wise counsel!!!

#wisewoman #good work #good reminder #work life #lifestyle #daily life #lifelessons #life #life improvement #improve your life #self improvement #personal improvement #personal development #performance #perserverance #self love #live better #healthy living #living #christian journaling #better life #Instagram

[theundergroundwoman]

Florence and the machine dance fever is the mood these days and I wanted to share it with you c:

Florence my beloved, but tbh I’ve not gotten through the new album yet, might put it on now actually

#good reminder #ask

[their-we-go]

#a reminder #my art #id in alt text #feel good #art #comic #positivity

[isabellehemlock]

How much I care for you, has no bearing on the amount of access I allow you in my life.  I can care deeply, and follow through with boundaries at the same time.  They are not mutually exclusive.

#things i keep on my phone now #good reminder #if it helps anyone else feel free to pass it on #the *if you care about me then you should -* is not the sales pitch some of you think it is #i wrote this a while ago #interpersonal relationships #boundaries #work best when there's communication *and* enforcement #if someome wants to present some information for consideration - like if theyre worried they're enabling okay - #but nine times out of ten - the people who ignore what you say - bypass accountability for their actions - and then devolve to - #*well if you cared about me you would* is an unhealthy dynamic i am no longer entertaining

[macroglossus]

so i love peppermint candy and when i was in middle school theyd hold a candy cane sale in december, one quarter per candy cane! extremely excellent deal, except i was twelve and completely broke. so one year i scrounged for floor change for a couple of days before deciding i was desperate and stealing $20 from my mother’s nightstand 😔 it weighed on me for a full decade until a few months ago i decided to finally confess to my mom and she was like. yeah dude you came home with eighty candy canes. do you think i’m stupid

#SORRY MOMMY #reminded bc i’ve eaten almost a full bag of peppermints in like two days #they’re just. so so good

[theoldaeroplane]

worried that thing you put in your art or writing or game or music is too self-indulgent, too self-referential, too niche for anyone but yourself? fear not! you can do whatever you want forever. and you should.

#writing #art #music #games #things i have to remind myself of daily #anyway ive found those things you're worried about sharing are often the most powerful things you CAN share #i hope you write #<- i would like to replace that tag with something that is less conversational #it makes reblogs awkward #anyway good morning. i have so many things to do today but instead i am crafting a memorial to my partner's best friend in my fanfiction.

[iamanartichoke]

I don't know who needs to hear this, but as a creator -

I am fine with "the audience" -

downloading my fics

printing my fics

copy/pasting or screenshotting my fics

sharing your saved copy of my fics with anyone else who might want them in the unlikely but never impossible case that my fics are no longer available on ao3

making a book of my fic(s) and running your fingers across the pages while lovingly whispering my precioussss

doing these things with anything I create for fandom, such as meta, headcanons, au nonsense like 'texts from the brodinsons,' etc

I am not fine with "the audience"

doing any of the above with the purpose/intent of plagiarizing my work or passing it off as their own in any capacity

feeding my work into ai for any reason whatsoever

Save the fandom things. Preserve the fandom things. Respect the fandom things.

Enjoy the fandom things.

#fanfic #ao3 #archive of our own #fandom things #tumblr things #i may have said this at some point #i'm sure i have #but whatever - just in case #i don't say this with the presumption that i'm so amazing and people are clamoring to save my fics #but just if anyone is so inclined that's all #ftr i don't intend on ever removing my fics from ao3 or deleting fandom things from this blog #i've always shared my fandom things with the intent of keeping them shared bc that's the whole point of posting #but the fandom atmosphere and ao3 constantly being under attack who knows what can happen #not that this applies to anyone but should all else fail you can also reach out to me and i will personally give you a copy #at least of fics bc i save everything #not so much the tumblr things but this is a good reminder to myself that i should do that for the things i care about #that i've made or done and only posted here #anyway sorry i have now used up my quota of the putting words into sentences doing for today #i have plans to stare into the void now

[chloesimaginationthings]

Gregory asks Michael an important FNAF lore question..

#myart #chloesimagination #comic #fnaf vanessa #fnaf vanny #fnaf gregory #michael afton #fnaf #security breach #sister location #fnaf fanart #five nights at freddy's #Vanessa really wants to get on Michael’s good side #all their interactions one on one has been negative #so she hopes today will be better! … she was wrong #Gregory heard her request and respectfully denied it BAHA #Gregory asks THEE most important fnaf lore question.. let the boy cook #Michael doesn’t like to be reminded of that time..

[flarebean]

no windows in here. it's alright, brighten up the space by putting up pictures of the homies

#flarebean.txt #legit though i like to keep a lil slideshow of candid friend images on my phone's home screen; one of the widgets #good reminder #not alone; not alone; not alone