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raphael-angele · 3 months
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How I Imagine Hades and Nico Interacting
feat Baby Nico
Playing Hide and Seek:
Hades, covering his face: Ready or not, here I come! *uncovers his face then looks down to see Nico just covering his face*
Hades: Hmm, where's Nico? I wonder where he is.
Baby Nico: *giggles*
Hades: Hmm, I can't find him
Baby Nico: *uncovers his face* I'm over here!
Hades: *looks around, and pretends not to see him* Hmm? What was that?
Baby Nico: Papa! Papa, down here!
Hades, looks down and pretends to be shocked: AH! THERE YOU ARE!! *scoops him up and snuggles him into his arms*
Baby Nico: *giggles*
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starppleb · 2 months
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A new One Shot that I wrote today!
Rating: General Audiences
Archive Warning: Major Character Death
Category: Gen
Fandom: Danny Phantom
Relationships: Jack Fenton/Maddie Fenton, Danny Fenton & Maddie Fenton, Danny Fenton & Tucker Foley & Sam Manson, Danny Fenton & Jazz Fenton
Characters: Danny Fenton, Maddie Fenton, Jazz Fenton
Additional Tags: Mentioned Sam Manson, Mentioned Tucker Foley, Identity Reveal, the major character death is danny, One Shot, Fluff, and maybe angst, Good Parent Maddie Fenton, Grammarly is my beta
Words: 1,234
Chapters: 1/1
Summary:
Maddie noticed changes with Danny. Other than his drop in grades and broken curfews. She noticed how changed the way he talked and put himself. She wouldn't want to admit how long it took her.
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ring-h · 2 years
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A+ parenting
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gothamnighthawk · 2 months
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Tell me this is not Talia and Bruce with their Batkids 😭😭😭😂
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bethanythebogwitch · 4 months
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Wet Beast Wednesday: emperor penguin
This is the last Wet Beast Wednesday before Christmas and Christmas is associated with the north pole thanks to Santa. So to celebrate the season, I'm going about as far away from the north pole as it is possible to go and talking about the emperor penguin. This also happens to be the first dinosaur I've showcased on this series.
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(image id: an emperor penguin lying belly-down on ice, seen from the side. Its back, wings, and head are black while its belly and neck are white. It has a patch of orange feathers near the ears. Another penguin is standing up in the background. end id)
Aptenodytes forsteri is the largest of all penguins and the sixth largest (by weight) bird in the world, only surpassed by the emu and two species each of the cassowary and ostrich. Those are all paleognaths, one of two living groups of birds, making the emperor penguin the largest of the other group: the neognaths. There are some discrepancies on their size due to the standards of bird measurement, but recent measurements list their standing height as reaching 120 cm (3.9 ft) with a weight of 22.7 to 45.4 kg (50 to 100 lbs). Their weight varies a lot during their lives, with both males and females losing a lot of weight during breeding season. Males generally weigh more than females. Genomic and anatomical analysis indicates that the emperor penguin, along with the closely-related king penguin and an extinct species, are part of a group of penguins that branched off of the family tree before the other living penguin species. As with other penguin species, they are heavily adapted for life in the water. All penguins are flightless, with their wings having adapted into flippers used for swimming. Penguins stand differently than other birds. Most birds have long legs and hold their bodies horizontally to the ground or at an angle, but penguins have short legs and hold their bodies vertically, like humans do. This, plus other adaptations, helps streamline the birds, letting them swim more efficiently. Like other seabirds, their feathers are very dense and coated with oil that repels water. This keeps the feathers from becoming waterlogged, reducing drag and helping keep the bird warm. During molting season, the feathers emerge from the skin mostly formed and push out the old feathers, preventing the penguin from developing bald or thin patched that would compromise insulation. While the feathers are responsible for most of the insulation, a layer of fat also helps. Like other birds, penguins are endothermic, commonly known as warm-blooded. Penguin tongues have backward-pointing barbs that help prevent food from escaping their mouths.
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(image id: an emperor penguin jumping out of the water and onto ice. It is pictured in midair with its body roughly parallel to the ground and wings extended. Multiple other penguins are in the background. end id)
Emperor penguin's divide their year between the breeding season and the rest of their lives. During most of the year, they spend their time searching for food. Most of this food consists of fish, krill, and squid. Emperor penguins are social animals that often coordinate with each other to hunt in groups. While hunting, they will dive up to 535 meters (1,755 ft) and spend up to 21 minutes underwater before surfacing to breathe. During dives, the pressure can increase up to 40 times and the emperor penguin has some special adaptations to cope. Unlike most birds, emperor penguin bones are solid, reducing the chance of one breaking under pressure. During dives, the heartbeat slows dramatically and non-essential organs cease functioning to conserve oxygen in the blood. In addition, the hemoglobin in the red blood cells is modified to carry more oxygen in high pressure and low temperature. While on land, emperor penguins gather in colonies along the shoreline. Members of the colonies spend a lot of them time huddled against each other to keep warm. The penguins live all around Antarctica between 66 and 77 degrees southern latitude.
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(image: an emperor penguin swimming underwater. Its head is pointed up, making its body very streamlines. Its wings are extended and are used for propulsion and steering. end id)
The thing emperor penguins are most famous for is their breeding behavior. Breeding season starts at the beginning of winter in Antarctica, between March and April, and is triggered by the decrease in day length. Penguin colonies travel inland en masse moving between 50 and 120 km (31 to 75 miles) to find a spot to raise their chicks. These spots are usually large, flat patches of sea or lake ice with a barrier such as a cliff or iceberg used to block the wind. Males perform sexual displays wherein they make loud courtship calls while wandering around the colony. When a female is interested, she will face they male and they will both hold their heads up for a few minutes. Once a pair os formed, they will walk around the colony together. When ready to mate, The pair will bow to each other. Emperor penguins are serially monogamous. They will only mate with one other penguin each season, but rarely pick the same mate more than once. The pair say together until the egg is laid in late May or early June. The female then transfers the egg (only one is laid every year) to the male, a tricky process. They have to use their feet to transfer the egg without dropping it. If the egg breaks or is exposed to the ice for more than a minute or so, it will die. It is not uncommon for an egg to be lost, especially in first-time parents. If this happens, both parents will leave the colony and return to the sea, not mating again until next year. The male balances the egg on his feet and covers it with a loose flap of skin. The bottom of this skin is a featherless patch called the brood patch that only forms during this season. By keeping the egg between his feet and the brood patch, the male incubates it. Once the egg is transferred, the female returns to the sea, leaving the male responsible for the next few months. In every other penguin species, the mother and father take turns incubating their egg. for the next 65-75 days, the male will incubate the egg in the middle of the Antarctic winter, where storms are frequent and temperatures can can reach into the -60s C (-70s F). He will not eat at all during this period, which, including travel and mating time, can last for 120 days. Males can lose up to half of their body mass during this fast. If the egg is dropped even once, it has a very high chance of dying. Walking without dropping the egg is tricky, but the males will form tight bunches to conserve body heat. These bunches are mobile, with members to the outside gradually moving inward and vice-versa. The egg usually hatches after around 60 days and it can take a few days to break out of its shell, which is thicker than in most bird species. The chicks are born featherless and will freeze to death if they leave the male's brood pouch. The male produces a substance called crop milk with a gland in his esophagus. Crop milk is unique to pigeons, flamingos, and male emperor penguins and is used to feed the chick. The crop milk does not provide full nourishment to the chick, but will keep it alive for about a week.
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(image id: a male emperor penguin standing on ice with its egg balanced on its feet. The skin flap thet normally covers the egg is pulled back and the male is bending over to examine the egg. This egg is broken, possibly the result of being dropped, and is non-viable. end id)
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(image id: a newly-hatched emperor penguin sitting on it's father's feet. It is very small and featherless, with grey skin and a black head. end id)
About this time, the female will return from her time at sea. She spent this time feeding and fattening herself up for the next leg of the parenting journey. She returns to the colony usually between 5 and 10 days after the hatching. If she arrives too late, the chick will starve. Once she arrives, she will locate her mate through the sound of his calls. The male then transfers the chick to the female's brood pouch and returns to the sea to feed and put weight on for another 3-4 weeks. The female will feed the chick by regurgitating half-digested food into its mouth. After this, the mother and father will take turns brooding the chick and feeding at sea. If either parent is delayed or dies, the chick will die as the remaining parent will eventually abandon it and return to sea. Orphaned chicks will try to seek food and shelter from other adults and mothers who have lost a chick may try to adopt an abandoned one, but as a single parent cannot raise a chick alone, it will eventually be abandoned as the adult goes to feed. Sometimes, a mother who lost her chick will attempt to steal a chick from another mother. This leads to fights over chicks that may leave chick trampled to death.
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(image id: an adult emperor penguin feeding its chick. The chick is larger and covered in fluffy, grey, downy feathers. It no longer needs to stay on its parent's feet. The adult is looking down at the chick with its mouth open. The chick has its head inside the adult's mouth. end id)
Starting 45-50 days after hatching, the chicks now have a thick enough coat of down to survive outside of the brood pouch. Starting around this time, both parents will return to the sea and occasionally return to bring food, using the sound of their chick's vocalizations to track them down. When the parents are gone, the chick huddle together for warmth. Starting in early November, the chicks will start gaining their adult plumage and the adults will stop returning to feed them. Once they get hungry enough, the chicks will make the trip to the sea (which is shorter now as it is summer in the Antarctic and the sea ice has receded) and will be independent from now on. Only 15% of chicks survive their first year, but after that the survival rate is 95%, meaning most living emperor penguins are adults. Emperor penguins reach sexual maturity at 3 years, but most do not mate until they are 4-6 years old. The average lifespan of those who live long enough to reach adulthood is 20 years, but may live up to 50 years. The high survival rate of adults is in part due to a lack of predators. Adult emperor penguins are only hunted by leopard seals and orcas, though the former prefer juveniles. Juveniles are preyed upon by seals when they reach the water and by southern great petrels when on the ice. Adult emperor penguins lack any land predators, which has resulted in them having no prey response when on land. Scientists and antarctic explorers have reported that adults will approach them without fear.
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(image id: a newly-independent chick entering the water for the first time. It has not yet fully developed its adult plumage and has a mix of the chick's fluffy down and an adult's smoother coat. It is jumping off a ledge of ice into the water. Two other chicks watch from the side of the image. end id)
Emperor penguins are classified as near threatened by the IUCN, meaning they are losing population and may slip down into threatened status if conservation measures are not taken. The largest threat to emperor penguins is global warming reducing their habitat. Because they need sea ice to lay eggs and brood, the loss of sea ice every year has reduced the ability of the penguins to reproduce. in 2022, loss of sea ice led to a catastrophic failure to reproduce among nearly all known colonies. It is now estimated that 90% of colonies are at risk of dying out due to the loss of sea ice. If these trends are not reverted by reduction of global warming, the penguins could face extinction.
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(Image id: two emperor penguins with their chick. The adults are standing behind the chick, which has its downy juvenile plumage. The chick stands about half the height of the parents. end id)
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sweethotspot · 3 months
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Damian Wayne: Comes back from school. There's this asshole at school
Bruce Wayne: Language
Talia Al Ghul: How so Sweetie?
Damian Wayne: He called my drawings trash
Talia Al Ghul: That bitch
Bruce Wayne: Language, and Dami people are just mean
Talia Al Ghul: Kill 'em
Bruce Wayne: No.
Damian Wayne: Already have a plan to do so
Talia Al Ghul: Wonderful, me and Damian are gonna go for a drive walks away with Damian
Bruce Wayne: Like fucking hell you are chases after them
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actiondetectives · 2 months
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Batman and Robin #6 spoilers
Art by Nikola Čižmešija
THIS is how Bruce Wayne should be written.
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sistamajor · 4 months
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Kacchan and Deku will fight gender roles
💥🥦💖
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tinaah113 · 9 months
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Having "good kids" isn't proof you're "doing something right". It could be indicating the opposite
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meganfoxrocksmyworld · 8 months
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furiousgoldfish · 1 year
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Good parents love their children even when the children are crying. Good parents don’t put their children into the role of ‘be convenient or be despised’. Good parents have compassion for their children. Good parents let their children know they’re loved, even when they’re struggling, yelling, making noise, being annoying, needy and self-indulgent. Good parents take no issue with any of that, because good parents don’t need their children to be as convenient as possible, or look perfect to the outsiders.
Children are allowed freedom of expression, freedom of emotion, loudness, confusion. Children of good parents don’t need to be perfect at all times, in fact, it’s expected of children to be inconvenient and even annoying, and that’s okay, because it’s normal. Good parents never show contempt and hatred just because a child is ‘inconvenient’. Good parents don’t make their children’s lives about themselves. They allow it to be about the child. They don’t consider children props to brag about to others, or tools to up their own reputation, they understand it’s a whole other human being, whose experience is the whole point of parenting.
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Sirius didn't go to the Potter house after running away from his parents, not right away.
He went to diagon alley, James found him there, sleeping in the alley by his favorite quidditch store.
Euphemia and Fleamont were talking to the Weasley's, outside of Gringotts when James showed up with a poor and sick looking Sirius who looked like he hadn't been fed in days, which may have been entirely possible.
Sirius didn't believe it. the Potters would let him live with them, for however long he needed or wanted? Without payment? Everything costs money though??
He waited anxiously for the switch as soon as they were out of earshot to complain and criticize "three kids already AND another on the way" instead it was "Molly truly glows, she's made to be a mother!" Maybe he'd know what they really thought of the Weasley's once they were home?
He waited with anxiety to be told how unkempt and horrible he looked.
Effie didn't scold him. he got a hearty meal before a bath and a nap in Jame's room. Just for now "She'd make up a bed for him for tonight."
Sirius waited or them to get mad that when he was more comfortable sharing the room with James, after she'd gone through all that work to prepare a room for him, ready before he even woke from the sorely needed map.
Waited for the switch of personalities as soon as they're no longer in public
Waited for the anger that would surface as soon as they were home
For them to blame him
How could they be happy all the time?? Surely it was an act. Surely they'd stop acting like they're ok with him staying after a day. After two days? After a week? After he messed up? After he broke something? After he was too loud? After a month? How long were they gonna keep the act going?
Even when Fleamont was overworked and late for supper he wouldn't come in yelling and slamming doors, insisting everyone was far too loud. He'd tiredly smile as Euphemia warmed the food she set aside for him and she'd come over with the plate and a soft kiss.
Even when Sirius caused a mess carrying dishes to the sink and the bread was burnt and the dishes piled up and the laundry getting rained on out on the lines Euphemia smiled and they had dinosaur shaped burnt-scraped-off bread for dinner with jam from a jar that had a broken edge.
Even when James grumbled about being made to do chores and a splinter in his finger swelled, he smiled and joked around.
The Potters were happy?? They didn't fake everything for the public eye??
Euphemia didn't tell James to "remember who he represents" she reminded James to be careful and to take a coat, just in case
Euphemia reminded Sirius that he should take a coat too, James had an extra one Sirius could have.
Dishes and meal cleanup weren't a punishment. everyone chipped in. Fleamont started the dishes while James cleared the table and Euphemia put the extra food in containers "we should visit the Longbottoms with a casserole." "Indeed, I quite enjoyed the one with the cheese you made last week, I'm certain they'd enjoy that one" "but only if you put some of that special sauce on top too, Ma." Easy, casual conversation??
They all went to sit together in the living room after dinner and they didn't all just go separate ways on their own. Checkers? Newspaper? Sewing? They did it alone but together but in the same room.
Fleamont asked for his opinion.
Euphemia asked for his help, even after he made a mess, last time.
James wanted to spend every earthly moment with him, it didn't matter what they were doing, just as long as we're together.
All three told him they were happy they got to spend time with him, even if the reasons for him being there were sad.
They let James keep the kitten he found, at least till they found the owner.
Euphemia praised Sirius' singing, whether French classical or David Bowie.
He got to help decorate for Christmas this year. The hundreds of random and uncoordinated ornaments that each had a story. The year Fleamont and Euphemia started dating, and how this chip was because she threw it at him during one fight, but they laugh about that story now. James' first Christmas, he had the poofiest hair as a baby.
James got to fly his broom inside to hang the garlands and tinsel from room to room. James trying to hide the mistletoe, and smiling when he failed.
Sirius hadn't wanted to get married, before. He didn't want a marriage like his parents.
Sirius wanted to love like the Potter's, to laugh every morning with his best friend. To keep mistletoe in his pocket for nearly a whole month, just to see his partner's smile every time.
Sirius hopes he and someone special can love each other the way Euphemia and Fleamont love each other.
He wants to be like the Potters.
He'd make himself love like the Potters not like the Blacks.
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fr3nchtoastcrunch · 1 month
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I went to a restaurant
Being autistic, I always use headphones because people be loud.
Imagine my surprise when a woman shows up with her autistic son! He unfortunately did not have headphones, so he was freaking out a lot as his surprisingly understanding mom tried in vain to help out. She then noticed me with my headphones and asked if she could borrow them, since he forgot his at home.
Finally, bringing a spare pair of headphones paid off! He was so overjoyed when I pulled out a second pair and handed it to him. It was so satisfying seeing him instantly calm down. He was even polite enough to return them to me himself.
Just like that, my faith in humanity rose by a very tiny amount.
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Gentle ish parenting?
What exactly does it mean to be a gentle parent? There are so many different definitions. For me, I like to say my wife and I have a gentle "ish" parenting style. For us, this mostly means we talk to our five-year-old. We hear her side of the story rather than just assuming she is in the wrong. We take a second to breathe before we automatically start screaming at her for breaking something. We have alternative means of discipline vs spanking. There are thousands of different ways to raise a child, however, it is important to realize that no matter how young they may be, kids are people too. They have their own thoughts, feelings, emotions. With all that being said, my wife and I are humans also. This is where the "ish" comes into play. We are by no means perfect. We lose our temper sometimes, we yell, and maybe occasionally we're too quick to send her to timeout. I created this blog because I wanted to share our experiences with raising our daughter and hopefully get some ideas on areas we can improve on. The world is a big place, and we only have one shot to make this the best life possible for our little girl. So, finally, welcome to the party!
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