#good luck love !!!!

[copiousloverofcopia]

Mama Ren,

My boyfriend, whom I love very dearly, is making it hard to be romantic. Now- I know the general belief is that men aren't supposed to be super romantic- but now it's getting frustrating. Today I made extra effort to get up early to go get a new computer chair with him, he's got a bad back and he needs one... He's having some car issues, so I was fine with driving him! Even IN week-before-yule traffic. ... But we get to the shop he wanted to go to and they don't have the kinds of chairs he wants. Moreover, he doesn't even have an inkling of what particulars he wants for his chair. Sucks, right? Well- we get into my car and while I turn on the music to brave traffic again he liSTENS TO CHAIR REVIEW VIDEOS ON HIS SPEAKER PHONES AREYOUKIDDINGME. It's not like he couldn't have done that EARLIER that day, either. We work night shifts, and while I had yesterday off- he did work- but he didn't go to sleep because he didn't want to.

We spend so much time in the car that by the time we get back over to his neck of the woods- I ask him if he wants to go to a novelty store. I try to ask him about the sort of stuff he wants to maybe... Try... And he just gives me a big old shrug. I buy something for myself and we leave... And the week before, when I asked him if he had a preference of clothing he'd want me to wear/what colors I'd look good in for a date (via text), he responded with "no not really". ((I was trying so hard to make it exciting))

I love this man, I swear. I really do. He's done some of the most romantic things for me anyone has ever done... BUT OH MY GOD today has been mounting frustration out of frustration. How can I ask him to put in a little more effort or meet me half-way without it coming off as an attack?

Maybe I just needed to vent?... Or someone to laugh with me? Idk. Today was a cavalcade of disasters.

Ok,

So I wanted to stir this a bit before answering and make sure I said what I meant to say. To me what it sounds like is an issue with communication.

For whatever reason he is being vague and then you are getting upset (understandably) and since neither one has told the other the issue the problem is being created...if left alone will only continue to get worse.

My advice is this. Be honest, but with compassion... here's what I mean. Talk to him about how you feel, something like:

"Hey love I noticed lately you seem disinterested or distracted when I ask you a question. Is something going on? I only ask because I value your opinion and really care about you, and it seems like you may be holding back."

Basically asking gently without using any inflammatory language so no, "Everytime I ask you something you ignore me by giving me a vague answer, what's up?" that will immediately make him defensive for sure.

Now, I am not a relationship expert by any means. Papa and I have certainly had our ups and downs, but we also have been together almost 15 years... I believe we are in it for the long haul and honestly the thing I know that has made us last is communication with a compassionate approach.

I hope this helps and sending you so much love sibling.

Go in sin

Prime Mover Ren 𖤐

#you asked I answered #vent anon #good luck love

[hydracrystals]

I just want someone to love me and be their special person but everyone makes me feel like I’m hard to love and It gets hard constantly fighting off the loneliness

hmm the best thing i can say is once you stop fighting being lonely and being ok with it and even enjoying it people will come to you easier

#good luck love

[teaboot]

How did we end up shitting on redheads so hard can you BELIEVE how cool it is that some humans just HAVE red hair?? Like a group really saw the irl equivalent of a shiny pokemon and collectively went "I'm gonna bully that" and everyone went along with it for a hundred years. Like WHAT

#Red hair is so cool I can't believe it's real #Should be good luck Like ladybugs and four leaf clovers #People are so cool #I love humans

[turnallthemirrors]

shoutout to lesbian drag queens who are also pigs. gotta be one of my favorite genders 🙏

#sydposting #i know im not the first one to make this joke but im having fun #chappell roan #good luck babe #btw if anyone says miss piggy isnt a lesbian because shes in love with kermit. kermit is literally a he/they butch so jot that down

[whereimfeminine]

Not to just be like “Chappell did it again. The Pop Song.” every single time she releases something but like…. Chappell did it again. The Pop Song.

#Good luck babe #Chappell roan #immmmmmm!!!!! #I love living in the future

[wind-up-thancred]

my second favorite type of ffxiv screenshot is "capturing someone's chat bubble the second they fucking eat shit and die" so have an assortment of such images. please enjoy

#ffxiv #ffxiv memes #ffxiv shitpost #ffxiv shitposting #i fucking love the resignation of “oh okay im just gonna watch then good luck”

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

His palms are sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy.

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#poorly drawn mdzs #mdzs #wei wuxian #lan wangji #tulu xuanwu #blood #Vomit on his sweater already; mom's spaghetti #I love drawing teenji because he gets to be a lot more expressive than Older Lan Wangji. #wwx is trying so hard to be supportive and it keeps backfiring for lwj. #“There's no way I would ever want you carnally ^_^” meanwhile the guy who wants him carnally is losing his mind in agony. #Hot tip if you keep finding yourself in Lan Zhan's shoes: consider being more obvious. Give up on trying to be subtle with an ADHDer. #His game is SO BAD. Abysmally bad rizz. I do not think it was possible for these to to have a chance to get together in this life. #He has no plan. He has no healthy outlet for his feelings. He is looking at his half naked crush and losing his shot. #F in the chat for Lan Zhan. He's just been accidently rejected and he is about to be accused of being straight. #Meta commentary moment: I am going to try very hard to be more consistent with outfits and details across comics #I have had some...difficulties in the past with forgetting details (COUGH the vermillion mark COUGH) #New year new goals! Wish my ADHD eyes and brain good luck!

[jestroer]

Grian and Scar in their exciting new cosplay! ^^

#control freakTM and adventurous bubbly fool who is characterised as stupid and. loves bad movies. #im sorry everybody. or am i? #ITS FUNNY THO AND IM RIGHT #i am severely sleep deprived and its 3 am #)))))) #goodtimeswithscar #grian #hermitcraft #idk what im doing man #good luck me

[creekfiend]

Tom Bombadil should be an aspirational character for everyone with issues setting boundaries actually bc he's just like Wow that sounds hard. Absolutely not my circus though. Enjoy a song and some bread. Anyway bye

#love that for him love that for all of us in some way like may we all be the guy #at some point in our lives #who goes. wow that sounds hard. anyway good luck #everyones like im not sure you understand this is literally the plot of this book? #hes like yeah whew thats rough anyway im busy though you have a good time

[turtleblogatlast]

I think a lot about Leo’s tendency to push his way into the spotlight despite clearly being a natural in the shadows. Hell, you could argue that his worst moments are when he’s forcing himself onstage, and his best are when he does things no one notices until it’s already been done.

#rottmnt #rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles #rottmnt leo #rottmnt headcanons #rise leo #His aptitude with subterfuge sleight of hand stealth and speed really push how being a ninja really comes naturally to him. #it’s arguable that his desperation for the spotlight and validation is an act of subterfuge against himself #note that when he’s offered a job as a mascot he’s fine being unknown #when he and splinter win the battle nexus Leo immediately says ‘they love YOU pops’ #idk I think so much about how good a ninja Leo is #and how much his persona is more an actor #Leo as a tot is shown a natural skill at katana too so hear me out- #every Leo is a natural ninja but every Leo’s route in life is directly tied to their splinter so #since rise splinter is an actor Leo too aims for it #and he brings it into his whole life - masking always because a Leo makes what they do who they are #I think that Leo naturally falls more in line with that of a typical ninja #his eccentric performer self is his subterfuge skill just set to an 11 at all times #not that that’s NOT him - like I said it’s still undoubtedly a part of Leo #but? idk I think about little moments like Leo being the only one to choose stealth in bug busters #or Leo being the only one to almost get Gus’s dog tags in The Ninja Art of Hide and Seek (he was so close but luck was against him alas) #like- he’s clearly in his element there and he falls into those skills so easily #it’s like how everyone has skills in so many things but some exceed more in some than others do #like Raph? Raph’s the biggest Hero of the bunch of them let’s be perfectly real here. Raph is THE Hero #All the boys are smart in their own rights but Donnie is THE Genius. #and they all have mystic powers but Mikey is THE Mystic Warrior with immense untapped potential #likewise Leo I feel is THE Ninja #but yeah I love how much Leo goes for the spotlight anyway for better or for worse #he IS a performer again make no mistake! but again the way he does it still lines up with his natural ninja aptitude and I love it #Leo loving magic tricks and magicians so much works doubly well here because like #you’d think he���s focused solely on the performance flair - no it’s ALSO and ESPECIALLY the DECEPTION

[shaniacsboogara]

WHEN YOU WAKE UP NEXT TO HIM IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT WITH YOUR HEAD IN YOUR HANDS YOU'RE NOTHING MORE THAN HIS WIFE AND WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT ME ALL OF THOSE YEARS AGO YOU'RE STANDING FACE TO FACE WITH "I TOLD YOU SO" you know i hate to say it. i told you so. you know i hate to say it but, I TOLD YOU SOOOOO

#good luck babe #chappell roan #live love chappell

[spottedgardeneelstan]

(1) new message from svsss cast

#svsss #bingqiu #moshang #luo binghe #shen qingqiu #shang qinghua #mobei jun #have a happy new yuri!!!!! #i strive to create more sillies in the coming year #so please continue viewing! i am very thankful #it’s been fun figuring out how i want to draw them #i’ve landed on my preferred designs #anyway happy new year #good luck everybody #i love you mutuals chu #(that’s me respectfully kissing ur heads)

[bitchy-craft]

Good Luck: Affirmation Series

Hello and welcome to this post! In here I will be giving a few luck affirmations. I hope you all enjoy and find this useful.

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Luck is a natural part of my life, and I welcome it with open arms.

I trust in the flow of the universe, knowing that luck will always find its way to me.

With every challenge, I see an opportunity for luck to shine through and guide me.

I am aligned with the rhythm of luck, and it leads me towards my goals effortlessly.

Luck is not random; it is attracted to my positive energy and optimism.

I release any resistance to luck and allow it to manifest freely in my life.

Each day is filled with new possibilities, and luck accompanies me on my journey.

I am attuned to the signals of luck, recognizing the signs that guide me towards success.

Luck is my constant companion, bringing joy, abundance, and fulfillment into my life.

I am a co-creator of my own luck, shaping my destiny with intention and positivity.

Tip: The more you repeat the more effective your affirmations can be.

#affirmations #affirmation #affirming #affirm #loa #law of manifestation #law of success #law of assumption #manifestation #manifest #manifesting #spirituality #spiritual #tarot #tarotblr #luck #luck affirmations #good luck #good luck affirmations #witchblr #witchcraft #witch #lucky #you are lucky #clover #clovers #love #self love #loveyourself #pick a card

[lvsckgrlss]

koi no mae ni, amaku hajimete

#shoujo #romance #good boy #luck #care #love #manga #anime #manga shoujo #shoujo anime #black and white #aesthetic #cute #kawaii #couple kiss #love couple #casal #school life

[itsmespicaa]

"Whoops, so sorry. Where are the shears for the least expensive clothes? Looks like it's not this one."

#chiori #genshin impact #chiori genshin #fanart #spica draws #translating directly from the CN teaser #THIS IS MY OFFERING TO HER PLS COME HOME EARLY PLSLSPLSPFDH AAAAAAAA I HAVE HER GUARANTEED BUT STILL QWQ EARLY WOULD BE AMAZING #good luck to everyone who's also pulling!!! #i love her so much its not even funny omg HFJKSDHF IT WAS LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT !!!! i have everything ready for her qwq #i love elegant women who can kick my ass and call me names #her indifferent sassy and idgaf attitude is so....*chefs kiss*

[wistfulwatcher]

1.10 Sic Transit Gloria Mundi | 2.09 Storytelling

#yellowjackets #yellowjacketsedit #mistynatedit #jackieshaunaedit #mine #edit #otp: you should be thanking me #otp: it's a good luck charm #* #otp #parallel* #i love parallels #1k #despite this episode being a SHITSHOW. yes i AM thrilled at these two pairings being paralleled #(though as other people have said the mistynat death could have hit harder tbh)