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psychicuniiverse · 1 year

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In my head, I still have new conversations with you. In my head , I change some conversations we've had. In my head, that's the only place I can find what we've lost. In my head, that's the only place I can fix what's broken. In my head, that's where I'll find my closure. In my head, that's where I'll have to leave you like you left me. So I can go on living life like you went on living without me.

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cant-face-the-dark · 2 years

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You were the one that

I wasn’t supposed to lose

I thought I’d have you

For a lifetime.

- Lifetime

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ehditaan · 2 years

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It’s one of those things that’s so annoying for being true. But the thing that probably helps me the most with heartbreak, after I’ve spent some time sobbing my guts out and talking it through with empathetic friends, is getting the fuck to work on some thing I care about.

Every time I have a stray thought about the relationship that’s ending, there is a horrible clenching, yawning, grasping pit of panic and despair right behind the hollow where my rib cage meets. But tonight when that has happened, I feel instantly better when the following thought is that I am doing the work I want to be doing, and I am taking steps to move forward with the life I want to have. Not all the way better by any means. There is no instant cure. But when someone else devalues you, what better thing to do than to value yourself? To show yourself that you are worth the effort of your dreams. That while this person may have left you, you will never abandon yourself again. You will answer that callous disrespect and dismissal by showing up for yourself and believing in yourself all the more.

And if you have a petty little fantasy about succeeding in that work so that they have to watch from the sidelines while all your dreams come true, well... I say spite is as good a motivator as any. It’s not the fuel I’d want to run on forever but it’s a damned good spark to get that engine going.

I love you. You’ve got this. You deserve it.

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covid19offical · 7 months

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I was reading a sakura x ino yesterday where Sakura said she never got eaten out and I CANT FUCKING FIND IT

#sakuino #sapphic #sakura #ino #naruto #divorce #fanfic #inosaku #depressing #getting over a breakup

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lxcysthxxght · 1 year

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#getting over a breakup #getting over you #book quotes #quotes

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tousl3dme · 1 year

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The way we went from full paragraphs and long conversations to short answers and cold texts <<

#breakup #phrases #getting over it #getting over a breakup #getting over him #sads crap

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stop-thinking-of-him · 1 year

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# 001- Welcome

Here at Stop-Thinking-Of-Him, I post daily to motivate my readers to channel their energy into better projects, whilst hopefully straying away from the drab nature of some Blogs and Podcasts.

This is a safe space and everyone is welcome, this podcast will not be focusing on trying to chase after a man or trying to wish him back into your life but rather stopping the the waste of time that occurs when you spend hours of the day thinking about a fellow human being who lacks the mutual care for you.

We will be incorporating new activities into your daily life,whilst allowing time to reflect and meditate on the root cause of our feelings and obsessions.

You are not,and never will be alone.

Daily advice, fun, recommendations and more

Stick around

With love,

STOH

#sadnnes #my crush #obsessive love #obsession #getting over a breakup #getting over an ex #getting over him #getting over you #advice #self help #self care #Stop thinking of him #podcast #manifesation

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xganjafuckinprincessx · 2 years

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It’s kinda funny actually.

It took 4 dates to kiss the guy after you on the cheek.

Even though you were long gone it still felt like I was cheating.

Meanwhile you hooked up 3 girls the first night you went partying as a single.

It’s like you’ve been craving other lips, new hands around your neck.

Seems like you couldn’t wait to get away from me.

Seems like you wanted to escape urgently.

While I was crying and shaking in our bed you decided to move on.

The first weekend you went out without me must’ve felt like relief for you, like a burden you carried around for too long was finally taken off your shoulders.

- it’s been nearly 9 months now, but when another man only texts me it still feels like cheating on you.

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innervisionsofartandlife · 2 years

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Anger and Forgiveness

Several years ago, I began answering questions on Quora. I have since stopped, but now I have taken it up again, but focusing more on areas related to my business of teaching English as well as test preparation for English proficiency tests like IELTS. Below is a response that I feel is relevant to this board as it is a lesson I have and may perhaps be relevant to others.

Why am I still so angry at my ex? How do I forget about him completely?

Anger is an emotion that is always strong and at times difficult to deal with. When we are angry, we feel rage, frustration, helplessness, betrayal, and hurt. The anger I believe is a response to any situation real or perceived that threatens us in some way. It’s natural to feel anger. It’s okay to feel angry. The question is whether or not we let our anger consume us. Sometimes it can be a motivating force for change, but more often it becomes a force of destruction that not only destroys relationships but our souls. So, what is the answer?

I think the key is to not let ourselves be consumed by it.

Let’s look at an example from my own life experience which I believe is relevant to your situation. myself because anger has been a major theme in my own life.

Why am I so angry with that person?

When you are angry with someone you broke up with generally indicates that you were deeply hurt. At least that has been my experience. How to overcome this is difficult, especially when you may no longer have access to the ex in order to express your feelings. Needless to say, there are ways to help you release this anger. One of the key things, I think is to forgive your ex.

The reason why I think forgiveness is the key is that we tend to hold on to our anger for long periods of time and because anger is such a strong emotion we feel it viscerally, and it is difficult to release. Even when we yell, or throw tantrums, it doesn’t really effectively release the anger. The reason why I think this way is because we don’t work out the cause of the anger. This could be why people hold such deep-seated rage for years. I know I have.

For example, I like you was extremely angry at my ex, who I was engaged to. We broke up sort of amicably as friends, but eventually she became angry with me and I at her. I don’t know why or how this happened; it just did. In the end, I was up deeply hurt. I felt dead inside emotionally and spiritually. And even though I did try to move on with my life, I kept finding myself rehashing the rage and anger I had regarding her. This went on for 10 years.

However, this stopped one evening. She had found my profile on Facebook and sent me a message, apologizing to me for what had happened. I was surprised by her message initially, but after several minutes I messaged back and apologized to her for my part and forgave her for hers. After I did this I found that I was no longer angry at her and that I could look back at the relationship and think about all the good times we had and all the lessons I learned (both positive and negative) as a consequence of being with her. I have learned to appreciate my time with her because she helped prepare me for my wife, whom I adore.

As to your case, I suspect you are no longer in contact with your ex. I do not recommend that you contact him. But you do need to release this anger in a positive way. One way to do this is to write your ex a letter. You need not mail it and I don’t suggest you do. But what you can do is talk about your feelings in a positive way. Describe how you feel, and explain why. Do not write it in an accusatory tone, but just simply write everything down. Then reminisce about the good times and discuss the lessons you learned. You may need to write this down several times.

If you are creative, you could take your feelings and write poems or create artwork. In this way, you will release the anger and rage you have. At some point you should be feeling more at peace with the situation and this is the stage to consider working on forgiveness. You can’t forgive while you are full of rage, but once that is calmer you can start working on it.

Forgiveness is not an easy thing to do. It takes time, patience and a lot work, but once you are able to forgive someone you will feel a great weight lifted off your heart and soul. Anger doesn’t help you. It holds you back. This is one of the biggest lessons, I’m learning myself as well.

I wish you all the best!

#relatonships #breakups are hard #breakup #dealing with anger #getting over a breakup #forgiveness #forgiving

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psychicuniiverse · 1 year

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Don't know if I'll be fine without you

I hope I'll be alright without you

Don't walk away without me

How about we together agree

To walk away separately in peace

Now I see all things end

Even forever ends eventually

Friends can become enemies

I know we need space

I know I'm too late

All I wanna say is I want you to stay

Let's fight for what we wanna be

"True love" that's what I want this to be

If this love is all a dream then I wanna stay asleep

And dream of you and me

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andreapaige865 · 3 months

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How to Move Past a Breakup: 5 Powerful Ways to Heal Your Heart

<h1>How to Move On After a Breakup</h1> <p>Going through a breakup can be really tough. Whether you were together for a short time or many years, ending a relationship means saying goodbye to someone who was a big part of your life. It's normal to feel sad, lonely, or lost as you adjust to being single again.</p> <h2>Coping with Memories</h2> <p>After a breakup, it's common to find yourself thinking back to all the good memories you shared. But reminiscing too much can make moving on harder. The happier the memories seem, the sadder it feels waking up from them. To help yourself heal, it's important to leave the past in the past.</p> <p>Women especially tend to internalize hurt from relationships. And us ladies sometimes struggle to let go after a split. So my advice to other girls is this - don't dwell on what was, and don't worry what will be. Focus on living fully in the present.</p> <h2>Fill Your Time with Self-Care</h2> <p>One of the best ways to stop thinking about an ex is to keep yourself busy. Enrich your mind through reading, your spirit with meditation, and your health with exercise. Yoga, hiking, dancing - find activities you enjoy that lift your mood. Improving yourself is the perfect way to spend this challenging time.</p> <p>Nourish your body with nutritious meals prepared with love. Indulge in long baths using your favorite essential oils. Schedule fun outings with close pals to look forward to. By caring for your well-being, you empower yourself to heal inside and out.</p> <h2>Take a Spontaneous Getaway</h2> <p>Nothing refreshes the soul like new scenery. Surprise a bestie with plane tickets for a weekend trip somewhere you've never been. Leave electronics and worries behind to fully immerse in natural beauty and local flavor. Breathtaking vistas have a way of putting life's ups and downs in perspective.</p> <p>If traveling far isn't realistic, commit to day trips nearby. Pack a picnic and camera to discover hidden gems just waiting to be explored. Fresh air and adventure are the best medicine for mending a broken heart.</p> <h2>Keep Smiling Towards Tomorrow</h2> <p>With time and self-care, you'll come to terms with your past relationship in a healthy way. Decide to wave goodbye and greet each new dawn with optimism. Your next chapter is waiting to be written - don't let hurt from the last one hold you back. Happiness lies ahead, my friend, so stay strong as you walk towards it.</p>

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cant-face-the-dark · 2 years

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I know, one day I have to let it all go.

But I keep it just in case.

In case, you don't find what you're looking for.

In case, you're missing what you had before.

In case, you change your mind, I'll be waiting here.

- In Case

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kimberlydakota957 · 3 months

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How to Ease the Sting of Heartbreak: 5 Easy Strategies to Get Over a Breakup

<h1>How to Get Through a Breakup</h1> <p>Dealing with the end of a relationship can really stink. Breakups often lead to all sorts of painful feelings like sadness, anger, and loneliness. But don't worry - there are some things you can do to feel better.</p> <h2>Let Yourself Feel What You're Feeling</h2> <p>The first step is allowing yourself to grieve. It's totally normal and healthy to cry when you're upset. Don't bottle up your emotions - let it all out. Crying can actually make you feel better in the long run.</p> <p>Talking about how you feel with people you trust can help too. Share what happened with friends or family members who care about you. They'll likely lend a listening ear and offer words of encouragement during this tough time.</p> <h2>Keep a Positive Attitude</h2> <p>As hard as it may seem right now, try remembering the good times you had together before the split. Believe that even better things are coming your way down the road. Having hope for the future can lift your spirits.</p> <p>Keeping busy is also important. Pursue hobbies you enjoy or try something new, like joining a sports team or book club. Activities can take your mind off your ex and aid in moving on with your life.</p> <h2>Forgive and Let Go</h2> <p>Don't dwell on the past or beat yourself up about any mistakes. Accept that the relationship has ended and pardon yourself and your ex. Harboring resentment will only bring you down.</p> <p>Understand that another, possibly even better match for you could be out there waiting. Having faith in this will help you see beyond the heartbreak.</p> <h2>Focus on Personal Growth</h2> <p>Use some me-time to think about your long-term goals. What do you really want to achieve? Pursuing dreams provides motivation to look ahead with optimism. Strive to become your best self through new experiences.</p> <p>Breakups inevitably sting. But with time and self-care, the pain will fade. You've got this - just take things one day at a time. Happier times are sure to follow before you know it!</p>

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sweetrose222 · 5 months

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𝒫𝓇𝒾𝑜𝓇𝒾𝓉𝒾𝑒𝓈

✩ ♬ ₊˚.🎧⋆☾⋆⁺₊✧

I see how it is, I see where your priorities stand, and everyone can see too.

From the very start, my best friend noticed how gentle and careful you were with her. Cause while you were with me, you were quiet and ignorant.

Everyone noticed how you'd gift her with everything when you gave me nothing, and instead of inserting sense into you, they joked and laughed about how differently we were treated with the titles you gifted us.

"Girlfriend" was what you called me, "sister" was what you'd call her.

However, you treated me like a friend, a classmate, while you treated her like a baby princess.

You cried when we broke up but deep down you never cared, you never cared like always.

✩ ♬ ₊˚.🎧⋆☾⋆⁺₊✧

ᶠYͧoͨᵏu𓀐𓂸𓀐𓂸

#break up #female rage #feminine rage #sadgirl #angry poetry #angry post #angry poem #getting over you #getting over someone #getting over him #getting over a breakup

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bourdeuxbelle · 5 months

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day 2

today was mixed. i laughed a lot. i also cried. we exchanged our things, you didn’t give me back the gifts. thank you. you gave me a one last gift. the gray mug from your kitchen that i adored. i used to compete with you silently to get the gray mug and you had no idea about it until i told you recently when we were still together. i cried when i found the mug when i looked into my bag of stuff. it’s so bittersweet. i gave you your whole kitchenware: all the blue plates and bowls, your glasses, your knives… i guess we’ll both stay in our kitchens. you deleted every picture of mine from your instagram. you deleted my highlight. you deleted my comments, but not all. i did the same. i kept some. you did too. i cried when i saw that you deleted the things but i was soon comforted. today i was comforted with a different love. my friends from my major, my friends from the radio club, my friends from high school. some offered me a 2,5 shot of raki before i left, some made a circle around me and told me it will be fine, some kept me close. i’m still loved. it’s okay. i cry and laugh and cry and that’s just life. i forgot one of your shirts in the laundry. i will give it to you tomorrow. funny how our “last date” never seems to be last. but i have a feeling this one will be the last. either way, thank you for the love. once yours truly.

carino

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tousl3dme · 1 year

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You say you wanted to love me but then you give up just like that?

#sads crap #getting over him #lovers #missing #missing you #getting over a breakup #getting high #breakup #phrases

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