#gay people are real bc i said so

[iloveyouitisruiningmylife]

i just came out to a real life person and i think im having a heart attack

#IT WAS SO UNPLANNED I HADN'T THOUGHT ABOUT IT AT ALL I DIDN'T EVWN THINK WE WERW FRIENDS?? #she lives in the building next to mine and we go to tui together to divide the auto fare and we've been walking home 2-3 dino se #and she likes kpop and kdramas #but like there isn't that Spark yk like oh ny god i love u best friends forever its a little awkward and formal still #but we were talking about something and oh my god #when we reached home we were standing uski building ke neeche and she was like i want to introduce you to my childhood bestie i think you #two will like each other #and i was like kinda weirded out like um are we that close yet i thought we were just classmates 😭😭 #so i asked ki oh why all of a sudden #and she's like 'i like you' and i look at her and laugh and she said STOP LAUGHING i don't meant it like that im straight ok #and idk something in me snapped i was like oh are u homophobic too? #but pls she didn't know what it meant 😭 so i explained ki do u hate gay people then #she said no no ofc not SO I JUST BLURTED OUT KI good cause im bisexual #THE SHOCK ON HER FACE OMG im saying this now in freaking out now but at that time i said it really coolly and proudly without fumbling #my voice didn't drop down to a low volume or waver or anything (which im so proud bc she's like the first irl person ive come out to face #to face??????? i mean obv childhood friends don't count they're all gay #but anyway she was like OH and then SHE FUMBLED she was like oh nice i respect u very much and it was so awkward i was like haan haan shut #up just don't tell anyone very few ppl know 😭and she wasn't done she was like so as i was saying #we're growing old and real good friendships are getting harder to find and i like you (stop laughing!!) and i hope we don't jinx it #and she literally touched a wooden table lying there and said touchwood???? 😭😭😭😭😭 #now i am thinking why did i tell her she's so extroverted she talks to everyone we go to the same tui this town is tiny #she could tell everyone my parents could find out #but also a part of me is relieved cause im so sick of hiding something that is such a small yet imp part of me #and if she tells everyone then cool maybe there'll be more queer people i can't ve the only queer person in this town and we could be #friends and my parents eh they'd never believe something like that they'll ask me if it's true and ill say nah just rumors dumb kids #and they'll believe me because they'll want to believe me so bad #so no harm #i still don't feel very bestfriendy with her but maybe my standards are too high 😭 idk ig i can't see myself being friends with her #for a long time if we weren't forced by circumstances and i don't like her that much but im happy i got to say it #literally said it omg 'kyunki main hu. bisexual' FUCK THAT FELT GOOD

[faggotry-enjoyer]

there's obviously a lot more to it but i think a decent litmus test to gauge how you're doing with regard to being socially safe for people in a given marginalized group to be around is how you react to their humor. do you take lighthearted ribbing of the majority outgroup as a personal offense? do you immediately close off if they joke about their oppression or lighthearted self-deprecation based on relevant stereotypes or tropes? or are you, yknow, chill about it? are you okay with not always being in on the joke?

#idk like in my experience my favorite cishet people are the ones who laugh at my gay jokes or even join in depending on the vibe #i appreciate it when thin people don't treat my fat jokes as self deprecating #i love it when friends treat my disability as something neutral that can be joked about rather than a Big Deal #like obviously dynamics are going to vary widely and not all laughter is the same #e.g. if one of my jewish friends makes a joke about her mom working in finance (real example) #and i laugh bc she had excellent comedic delivery #that's very different than it would be if i was laughing bc i agreed with the antisemitic trope she was poking fun at #the latter vibe i think i've heard described as 'laughter with a mouth full of blood' #and that should be avoided #but there's something to be said for not being so scared of that that you end up needlessly walking on eggshells #and therefore treating whatever the relevant marginalized identity is as like a big serious elephant in the room that cannot be acknowledge #if that makes sense #does this make sense? #faggotry enjoyer original

[troublcmakcrs]

you'll learn right now , i don't play nice / and if you hurt me once , 𝙄'𝙇𝙇 𝙆𝙄𝙇𝙇 𝙔𝙊𝙐 𝙏𝙒𝙄𝘾𝙀 ! / and i won't go first ( 𝓭𝓻𝓮𝔀 𝓫𝓪𝓻𝓻𝔂𝓶𝓸𝓻𝓮 ) / 'cause i'm the last bitch up , ＴＨＥ ＦＩＮＡＬ ＧＩＲＬ ！

finalgirl!tweek to go with @feldspar-thethief's ghostface!craig au lol

#vis :: ( tweek ) #ver :: final girl ( tweek ) #mun art #blood tw #//pastel goth tweek..... the end-all-be-all of tweeks....... #//i said what i said #//things i have GOT to do: get weirder with tweek's gender on this blog #//i know i have him listed as TECHNICALLY nb but they still default to he/him pronouns much of the time #//it's just more convenient for people to believe they're cis #//it doesn't have the fucking ENERGY to give huge shits about pronouns #//in the main verse he really only busts out the they/thems around people he knows and trusts well #//bc you know how people in south park be about that stuff sometimes #//but i really should lean into the other pronouns more heavily in aus #//like with fallout where they're being dehumanized regularly by slavers and kind of shaping themself around... Being A Slaver #//or metro where it's deliberately distancing itself from its humanity and adopting the dark ones as its ~real family~ #//so here is an au where i can really lean into the final GIRL trope and get weird with it #//more explicitly nonbinary they/them tweek W! or whatever #//diversity WIN! the nb gnc meth addict is being stalked by their forced gay lover! or some such #//edit: i forgot to put a blood tw on this LFKDJSKJDF #//i am literally so bad at remembering tws 😔

[prehistoric-rat]

in finland our biggest pride event canceled their partnership with our biggest political party because the party hadn't voted in agreement about our new trans law (to allow self-ID and remove requirement of being sterile (yeah really)) (the party had ruled it a “matter of conscience” and abt 1/3 voted against), and now our news are full of the members of that party being pissed abt it and our likely next prime minister commenting how this is “sad and offends many people”, and ppl are flocking to lament and mock how pride is so intolerable and how u have to have 100% correct opinions in order to participate and i'm

#rat.pov #i KNOW cis ppl who don't care really don't care and can't even pretend to care but somehow it still shocks me how unbelievable this shit is #they're literally like #''OH SO WE AS A PARTY HAD TO BE unanimously against forced sterilisation to be welcomed to your lil gay festival?? you ungrateful shits'' #NBSFBEJFBEHJBHRNJETNJRMGNRGRGNERM #THEY DON'T EVEN GET THE ABSURDITY OF WHAT THEY'RE SAYING #some MPs of the party have literally said they won't now attend pride because of this #ok that's cool really don't care except that #yes we know you really Really REALLY don't care abt human rights but could you at least think of a less ridiculous way to announce it #can you imagine your members voting against our human rights might also have offended some people CAN YOU IMAGINE H BHBHRH #(they can't bc ppls brain are full of ''this is not an issue that touches normal real life people'' and ''your everyday person doesn't #even understand trans issues''. if only trans people were real everyday people :/) #also the future prime minister just said ''this is very sad and it does feel like a political move instead of an appropriate one'' #??????????????????? i'm at a loss #what the fuck do you even mean. #how. HOW do you expect politics to not be political what the. fUCK is wrong with you grow a GODDAMN BRAIN? #and ppl in general like ''oh so pride is full on political now'' #I'M BEGGING YOU.WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN WHAT HAS IT EVER BEEN EXCEPT POLITICAL #i know people think it's a funny gay carnival just to piss off straights and conservative christians but I WISH I COULD LAUGH. #it would be funny if it was #. #sorry to rant on side but i had to scream into a void somewhere

[jupitersclaim]

i love the quarry i really do but something thats been bugging me so much is when laura asks ryan who he likes more between dylan and kaitlyn and he says neither. like for a game that has so many paths its just baffling that no matter how much u flirt with him as dylan and kiss at the fire pit he'll always say he doesnt like him at the end

#like im not even dylan and my heart broke when he said that lmao #i was like like did i do something wrong was it something i said #idk putting the relationship in there with no actual resolution is kinda homophobic vibes #like if chris and ashley got a love confession with a real kiss so could dylan and ryan #plus them trying to say ryan and laura have a thing now like HUH? #when laura has been trying to save her boyfriend all night too what goes on #why cant gay people have anything ! #the quarry #the quarry spoilers #anyways i needed to say that bc i havent really seen anyone else mention it #drylan

[wabblebees]

thought id update to say; i survived opening night!!! and not only that, it went REALLY fucking well, and people seemed to REALLY REALLY like it omfg... god this is so crazy

#i was literally holding the script in a bigass binder for almost the entire show (sparing only the parts where i had to BULLFIGHT) #(bc i needed two hands -- one for the cape & one for the banderilla.)(yall i had to learn how to BULLFIGHT TANGO & SWORDFIGHT. in TWO DAYS) #but the audience said afterwards it was like i wasnt even on-book; they hardly noticed it was there??!! #yall this is my real life rn. im failing my classes but yknow what?? #i can pull it together enough to emergency understudy in a highly physical show 2 days before opening even with a script ive never SEEN #and apparently we made people fucking CRY. HOLY SHIT!!! HOLY SHIT #this playwright is just. incredible. the script is INSANE. BEAUTIFUL & CLEVER & HILARIOUS & TERRIFYING & VILE & TENDER & TECHNICALLY PERFECT #and apparently our production is like. only the eighth time this show has EVER been produced. for real #but god EVERYONE should know about this playwright's work. fuck i actually think tumblr would really love her. holy shit. #maría irene fornés is her name -- she was a queer cuban-american playwright+director who made radical heartwrenching magical theatre #im so grateful to be doing this & SO fucking sad for the original performer im covering for... god. bc this is just such lifechanging work #this play is queer in EVERY sense. its off-putting loving repulsive peculiar passionate holy and GAY AS HELL. its real its farce its SO CAMP #((IRENE & SUSAN SONTAG DATED. SONTAG AS IN 'NOTES ON ''CAMP''' SONTAG. ITS FUCKING GORGEOUS.)) #its gorgeous its gorey its glamourous its also literally the first part ive played that i think might truly fit my casting type exactly lmao #which is INSANE. bc the character is literally just described in the script as ''ISIDORE: an androgynous clown'' LMFAO #but honestly what could be more homoerotic than 2 ''men'' locked in a room together dancing tango+talking abt beetles+stabbing each other #hmm. maybe its the fact that after i stab the other guy i call him ''saint sebastian'' and then we LITERAL ACTUAL GAY KISS #which is crazy bc we only practiced that ONE TIME before opening #and youd think this shit cant get Any Gayer BUT. IT DOES. bc my scene partner+the director are gay+together irl... and uhh. #ive literally been their third. like. more than once. #ISNT THAT FUCKING INSANE. THIS IS MY REAL LIFE?? THIS IS MY REAL LIFE #ANYWAY #so now im headed back out to rehearse more before we perform it again tonight lmao #i hope it goes as well as it did last night #that audience was fucking incredible i really hope the next two like it as much as they did🤞🤞 knocking on wood #so. if u read this far. u should go find+read ''tango palace'' by maría irene fornés. mwah okay bye #bee speaks

[deanncastiel]

in other news ROY AND JAMIE ON THEIR LITTLE DATE IN AMSTERDAM EXCUSE ME

#the way i am screaming silently at 2:30 in the morning ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh #literally the black cat with the golden retriever boyfriend #and i am obsessed with trent and colin #eloquently put love #bri watches ted lasso #oh my god wait #almost posted and then trent goes #''colin i've known [you're gay] for months and haven't said anything i MUST have a good reason right?'' #like what other reason than he's gay too???? #like i know i know it could be bc he like respects colin as a person and wouldn't out him right?? #but that was so clearly mean to be ''i'm gay too'' #idk but for some reason i was under the impression that the ''trent is gay'' aspect of this season was far more subtext than that #that was basically flat out saying it #are there for real people who didn't get that? #AND ANOTHER THING #the dutch guy with the house boat is hot and rebecca should go for it

[burymeinblack2022]

Don't ask:

- a man, his salary

- A woman, her age

- And a tumblrina (gn) who they voted for in the nge/moomin poll....

#Releasing this from the drafts bc the poll ends at 9pm today #It's been real y'all we go down gracefully it's been an honor fighting with y'all in the Eva trenches 🫡🫡 #Also why are pitting 2 bad bitches against each other #Like do ppl realize when they say 'moomin is for queer people' the lead of Eva is also literally a depressed bi like! #He should be doing numbers here on the depressed gay site come on. Yeah it was doomed by the narrative #But what is Romance without tragedy. Like man. What a trope (only talking abt the story not the authors obv) #Imagine hearing 'maybe I was born to meet you' from a divine being who sees all your faults #And how much you hate yourself and loves you unconditionally and intensely from the moment he lays eyes on you... I'M GONNA BE UNWELL #Regardless. Times are tough but we stay silly :3 let me be silly for a moment with u it ain't serious #Wow anna said something #Anna's shitposts #Nge #Eva #I just think they're wildly different in how they approach themes and it's weird and complicated to even compare them #One is lighthearted and comforting the other feels like being crushed by a thousand elephants both are important #We got far we deserved better than to lose bc of a bit everyone was committed to but. It's respectable. It all returns to nothing or smth #Edit: the sidenote is to differentiate between the fact one is not known for being queer media but it does have that #Despite it being so small in the story (the show at least but it's significant) and the other #Is obv queer media bc of the author and it's not in the story as far as ik but it's an accepting/inclusive story #Why do u think it got so big and a character that appeared once became one of the biggest*. It obv meant smth to ppl #*to the point he appeared more in the rebuilds and is all over in merch. ANYWAY SORRY FOR RANTING IN THE TAGS I GOT PASSIONATE OK

[just-rogi]

I’m moving out in five weeks and last night I snapped at my roommate who had been a dick to me all year (for something reasonable and justifiable) and ik I shouldn’t feel bad but I totally do lol

All year has been the oppression Olympics any time any of us is upset about anything and like.. I reminded him last night that he isn’t the only minority in the apartment and he was pissed

#for context he is a white gay trans man #so I’m not in any way denying that his life is objectively difficult and that there are obstacles that none of us can relate to #but oh my GOD it’s frustrating when any of us are upset about something and he brings up transphobia #like actually- no- you don’t understand what it’s like to be yelled at on the bus by a racist and then feel fear when he follows you off #when the school shooting happened this year I was crying (BECAUSE IM A PUBLIC SCHOOL EDUCATOR) and he started telling me how I was playing #the victim when the real victim was trans people and how I don’t have anything to be afraid of unlike the trans people who are going #to have this spun as a story about how they are all violent bc of T #like.. my brother… kids in my district have died to gun violence THIS YEAR #I had a kid go missing for a week due to gang violence and cried about it #yeah teachers are allowed to be scared and cry over a school shooting even if it was a trans guy who did it #every time I talk about Taylor swift he tells me to shut the fuck up because I’m annoying but he will talk about punk music for literal hour #he makes fun of anything traditionally feminine and I understand a lot of that is his own struggle with gender dysphoria but… c’mon man #anyway last night we were joking about all moving to Idaho bc we were looking at Idaho rent and it’s like $3.50 for a five bedroom house lol #and he butts in- unprompted- that he couldn’t move there because he would have no rights… #like .. ok?? we were joking obviously #but I was being a bitch and said “yeah none of us would except for (cis white male roomate who thought it was funny) #in reference to roe v wade getting overturned #he gets so many any time anyone brings up roe v wade as an example of rights and bodily autonomy being stripped away #and gets mad when any of the cis female roomates talk about it as if it’s not a legitimate concern #oh he’s fine talking all the time about all the states he can’t live in because he’s trans but the second a cis girl reminds him that #we are also losing bodily autonomy he gets angry and insists it’s not the same #you’re right - it’s not the same- but dude you aren’t the only one who has to fear for your rights being removed!!! #like bruh how are you going to look at a mixed race lesbian woman and say I don’t understand oppression #he also gets really pissy when we talk about alcoholism because his father was an alcoholic…. THREE of us had alcoholic fathers who either #died or left or became so physically inept due to alcoholism that they can’t form a complete sentence or thought #but HE gets to be the arbitrator on dad trauma for reasons I guess??? #ugh idk it’s just so frustrating #idk idk I’m just frustrated

[mx-paint]

If your argument is "there are no people of color in [x] because I personally don't see this person as a person of color" than it's like. a faulty argument.

#max rambles #this is about percy jackson #like. idk what theyre trying argue about #first this person is saying there arent any naturally blue eyes blond haired people of african decent without white interference #(there are with 0 white genes) #then theyre like theres no colored characters in any of the work #then when i gave a list of actual people of color they said i meant Main characters and im just like. all of the people i listed Are mains. #theyre literally in the same story. #and this all started bc someone else starred a different argument with me how black people cant see themselves in annabeth #and didnt have reason for how they cant other than the characters insrance isnt based off of race? #like. wtf are tiktokers On #ive learned more negative stuff in the world from tiktok than i have on anything else #like the people insisting that people cant be religious and gay bc then theyll be living a life of sin #like. its even worse than it is the real world bc they think bc theyre online rhey can get away with everything #edit: hes using the fact that he says hes black to say nothing hes said is racist #hes saying i must be white lady....bc i gave him examples of why hes wrong #like. im not a lady and. idk what to say abour the white comment since im technically not white either #but when i tried talking to him he just kept saying that #then when i pointed out hid Own racist comment he said 'im black so i cant be racist'..... #...........what #idk anymore man #i was talking about something else in the first place. he talked about something else and got mad when i didnt want to talk to him anymore #idk what he wants me to say when i comment and he ignores it or when i comment and he says that what he asked for 'doesnt count'

[astrxealis]

i love little interactions in ffxiv so much!!

#⋯ ꒰ა starry thoughts ໒꒱ *·˚ #⋯ ꒰ა ffxiv ໒꒱ *·˚ #they are my fave stuff fr #this happens once in a while or quite a lot and every time means a lot to me ?? it is so nice #recently i went to the firmament bcs oh fetes starting really soon! but i was in a pf and it just filled up then so. whoops #but here's the thing: nowadays fetes aren't the most famous compared to the first few days (i was there for it!! wow!!) #so often the people who do it know each other! so it's really cool #anyways an fc mate was there. in my current fc i'm not super active yet have had a few cute interactions! #gna leave soon bcs making an fc w my trio of besties (we're all super cute girls. or not really bcs i'm complicated. but we are all GAY <3) #anyways uhm yeah fc mate there and they waved and i was about to leave and then realized they waved so i yeahd laliho-ed back #and we talked a little bit (a real lil bit) and the other guy next to them easternbowed to us as well!! really nice <3 #weirdest interaction so far in game is one of the best summoners in ffxiv (better than me at my own main) came to me once #and we're now in friends list and haven't talked for months ever since they said i have the same name as their ex :) #and i said HELP and they didn't understand why. also they're the same nationality but not actually here so. big coincidence!

[nullcoast]

Hmm it's almost like gender is a construct so getting into minutia arguments about microlabels is a complete fucking waste of time and an expression of extreme ignorance. almost like the million different ways queerness has been expressed all contradicting eachother for hundreds of years is for a reason and they all equally have important things to say about HUMAN EXPRESSION

#it's almost like gender isn't real guys #it's almost like a gender system of rigid labels and is ontologically and biologically fucking ridiculously #I'm so sorry but asexuality and bi lesbians and gold stars and guy dudes and bi women who have only been with women #they're all the same they're all human #and I don't give a FUUUUUUCK #all I know is respecting individuals and how they'd prefer to be interacted with #bc I love people and want friends who know I see them and hear them #crazy #guys I found the secret to ontological purity and it all has to do with the split attraction model #/j #shoutout to the Magnus archives mutual I had who blocked and black listed me bc I said I was a gender abolitionist #and they confused that with gender criticalism #how do I say this #yes straight ppl are different but I legit do not believe in 'straight ppl' #gender and sexuality are not something different from any other emotion or human action #and as such WHAY a queer community should be based on is not purity of who is oppressed #or like. who is Actually Gay And Different #but a rejection of the oppressive structure that seperates us #and anyone who rejects that structure in any way is welcome #in my book #dialectical material queer theory

[cpyclopse]

I started crocheting and I made some gay flowers for my gay books!

Im about to rant about flowers and gay people so when youre done looking at my awsome flower book marks scroll if you dont wanna read like 4 paragraphs

So fun facts about these flowers in case you didn't already know!! As we all know some flowers mean different things (you can go deeper with floriography which is so neat) and they are just generally used in symbolism. We know lillies, specifically white ones, are used for funerals (at least in the west) and red Roses are for love we assign flowers and plants for roles often times by their looks, locations, and histories.

First we will talk about the Violet. So back in yee olden days in ancient Greece around 600-500 bce there was a poet named Sapho. She is important for a couple reasons 1) she was a woman and misogyny has been around since before Jesus (literally) ancient greece had some cool stuff and had some cool policies like that they (from what ive read) were pretty considerate of different religions even having some temples for immagrants for them to pray in but they also had stuff like slavery and generally hated women. And 2) she was the first ever documented woman who explicitly liked other women and wrote about it.

Sapho, being the pretty popular poet she was, made poems about her love of women and in one of them she talked about a beautiful woman wearing violets. That line is where we get the connection of violets to lesbians (and wlw people in general). People have refrenced her violets a lot in history some have also used diffrent purple flowers as well to show their love to other women.

Next we got the Pansy. This connection has been around for at least a little over a 100 years. Pansy has been used as an insult for queer men bc theyre delicate flowers and such and grrr flowers are feminine men are are big and strong hrumph. The term "pasny craze" was made in like the 20s bc queer people were really coming full swing well not really but more and more people knew of our existence and they weren't happy about it (shocker i know). To sum it up its more of a reclaiming something that was used against us there was even a bar named after the flower. To add on there is another flower used to represent gay men and this one was a bit more like flagging. This being the Carnation(my personal favorite flower) specifically the green one. The one and only *Oscar Wilde* wore one in his breast pocket which in turn trickled down to the every day gay mans consciousness.

Maybe we should think about flowers more i know i do. I cant grow a garden bc i dont like to go outside and bc the sun here is evil but someone should grow a gay garden for me. That would make you a real horticulture lad *ba dum tisk*

Bla bla bla rant info dumping all in all i crocheted gay flowers and put them in their respective gay books

- xoxo gossip girl

#i thi k queer history is soooo interesting #its been one of my hyperfixations #this is mostly me ranting so if it reads weird uuuuuh idk #i love floriography <3333 #also applying our names and concepts of sexuality onto people not of our culture and from like 2000 years ago isnt the best idea bc #again she was from 2000 years ago and a real person. that is to say its said she had loved both men and women. ovi shes very important to #the lesbain community shes literally why we use the term lesbian and call the romance sapphic #idk i just wanted to pit that out there #also i forgot to mention “horticulture lads” was also an insult for gay men in the early 20th century thats the reference #im not good at having a coherent long conversation that doesn't go all over the place you can really tell in the end #its a perk to being on the spectrum #i havent read so this is ever after yet but the description is so interesting #im still on like ch5 of cant spell treason without tea and its soo sweet theyre so gay and in love<3333 #ive never watched gossip girl idk why i wrote that

[mossmx]

I feel odd, because I am so NOT horny-vibing with LET 3

I appreciate the message and all, and I get people who really go crazy for them

It's just not my thing

It's all week that I go "old men wearing uniforms and make up happily doing concerts naked and joking about orgies ... WHY AM I NOT INTO THIS" I feel like the layers of irony and trolling are too much a turn off for me 😔

The only over 50 participants in ESC and I don't even want to draw them... *plays the smallest violin for myself*

anyway, I do appreciate their political impact and they should totally keep fighting the good fight ✊✊✊

I just needed to vent XD

#moss text #vent #silly venting at that #XD #anyway I dont ONLY thirst about old men #to be real #but also no one in this ESC is catching me with vibes #I just like hearing mengoni bc good song #but people who call him daddy.... #MENGONI IS NOT EVEN A BEAR WHY WOULD SOMEONE SAY THAT? #like #idk #Mengoni to me is a twunk #ex twink #x-factor mengoni was so twink #ANYWAY #ALSO REMINDER THAT NEITHER LET 3 OR MENGONI HAVE EVER COME OUT #like Mengoni is not gay #people keep saying he is but he always just said “leave my private life alone pls” #so why people keep puching for it is just baffling #people keep assigning singers sexualities #BUT NOTHING IS CONFIRMED SO PLEASE STOP PUCHING SEXUALITIES TO MAKE THEM MORE “VALID” TO TUMBLR PEOPLE #anyway #mahmood is not out either #so like #:| #I I hear one more person saying ale or marco are gay I'mma just....vkanbvliaf #MAYBE they are in the closet #but it no ones' place to just keeping saying shit randomly #I digressed