#family dynamics

[spacebubblehomebase]

Out of context reimagined parts from my new #HHStargazersAU!

⚠️ TW: Nerdy word vomit about my coloring choices ahead:

My take on human Chaggie & Radioapple's color scheme! Yes. I headcanon the Magnes as beautiful blondes with just as beautiful brown eyes. Because there's no WAY warm red & yellows translate to cool baby blues! If anything, Vaggie's eyes would be the lighter shade. (At least in my AU.) Because her canon eyes are white and I think the dark skin contrast nicely with blue. As for Alastor's green... Look. Give me a chance! I swear I can later explain it through lore!

As for their clothes, I just chose hell's red for Charline, heavenly hues for Vaggie, earthy colors for Alastor to balance the green (with some white rather than black to show his employment under the Magnes), and pastels for Lucius (though out of everyone in my story, he may undergo the most palette switches. Just saying).

Spoiler for my recent comic update: As you can see, Vaggie & Alastor's human disguises aren't perfect. Thus some parts of their hair remain unchanged. Vaggie's ineffable white bangs and Alastor's brown-passing too-vibrant red hair (which mind you, was a difficult balance to achieve. Specially to match the greens-) still ever so distinct. People think they dyed it, but I assure you, it's all natural~! Along with their near supernatural ability to charm. Lol. -Bubbly💙

#spacebubblearts #hazbin hotel #chaggie #radioapple #hazbin ships #appleradio #vaggie x charlie #HHStargazersAU #color theory #ramblings #headcanons #lucifer x alastor #alastor x lucifer #charlie x vaggie #duckydeer #duckiedeer #family dynamics #fluff #mystery #romance #queerplatonic #human au #angel #demons #charlie morningstar #hazbin vaggie #hazbin alastor #lucifer morningstar #lucius magne #charline magne

[reasonandfaithinharmony]

That point in your life where the dynamic shifts, and you're the one worrying when your parent doesn't check in with you when they were supposed to. 🙃

#everything's fine #but oof #family #family dynamics #parents #anxiety #adulting

[goldenheart-supremacy]

@mvjerbs thought you should see this

#Nimona #Prince Ballister AU #or is it king now? #Royal AU #Goldenheart #Family dynamics #Ballister Boldheart #Ambrosius Goldenloin

[sagesreverie]

#dc comics #comics #dick grayson #batman #nightwing #bruce wayne #dc universe #family dynamics #gotham #father son

[tiredwriter888]

So glad their dynamic was “emotionally repressed disaster lesbian, her chaotic golden retriever bi, and their divinium filled himbo” instead of the love triangle I thought it was gonna be.

#warrior nun season 2 #warrior nun #ava x beatrice #avatrice #michael salvius #family dynamics #fav himbo #best trio #sister beatrice #ava silva

[magnetothemagnificent]

A reminder for anyone (including myself) who might need it:

In order to break the cycle of dysfunctional immediate families, you need cooperation with your family. It's not on you alone.

If there's a toxic cycle of broken parent-child relationships, it's not your job to maintain a harmful relationship with your parent/s to "break the cycle".

If there's a toxic cycle of broken sibling relationships, it's not your job to maintain a harmful relationship with your sibling/s to "break the cycle".

You need more than one person to heal interfamilial estrangement and dysfunction. It's not on you alone. If your parent/s or sibling/s don't also put in an effort to break the cycle, it won't be broken.

Taking on the burden all on your own won't fix anything and will just lead to more hurt.

#dysfunctional household #family dynamics #cycle of abuse

[angelsdean]

the winchester sons + sports: It's about how sports --often baseball in particular-- represent normal. John tries to entice Dean to talk and be "normal" again post-Mary with a baseball. Bobby forgoes hunting practice to just play catch with Dean and let him be a normal kid. Twelve year old dean considers joining the baseball team when they finally stick around somewhere for a longer stretch of time. But there are no trophies in John's storage locker from Dean's baseball games. We wonder if he ever joined the team at all. What Dean does find from when he was twelve is his first sawed-off. What represents dean's childhood? a gun. Dean kills someone for the first time when he is twelve. When Adam is twelve John starts visiting him and taking him to baseball games. When Sam is twelve he is on the soccer team. That same year, 1995, Dean is abandoned by John and experiences being a normal kid. He wins the state wrestling championship. Sonny proudly displays the award on his wall nearly two decades later.

[ 1x01, John's Journal, 3x03, 7x10, spn wiki, 4x19, 3x03 outline, 9x07 ]

#spn 1x01 #spn 3x03 #spn 4x19 #spn 7x10 #spn 9x07 #john's journal #family dynamics #young dean #myedits #parallels #compilation

[d4isywhims]

we keep this love in a photograph,

we made these memories for ourselves.

#TEARING UP RN #hunter colebrook #sophia colebrook #aria colebrook #oliver colebrook #daphne colebrook #colebrook gen 1 #colebrook gen 2 #family dynamics #family dynamics challenge #ts4 family dynamics #ts4 #ts4 gameplay #ts4 screenshots #ts4 legacy #the sims 4 #the sims 4 gameplay #the sims 4 screenshots #the sims 4 legacy #the sims gameplay #maxis match #simblr #ts4 simblr

[gibsonsgirl]

it’s something that can be so personal

#succession #succession hbo #suck session #hbo series #waystar royco #logan roy #kendall roy #roman roy #shiv roy #roy siblings #roy family #family dynamics #character analysis #parallels #film parallels #tv shows #costume design #color theory #symbolism

[promptsforyourwhumpfic]

Whump Prompt #1323

Anon asked:

Do you have any prompts for a usually funny and hides insecurity behind humour/a strong character being poisoned/drugged and being forced to be vulnerable around others? Usually they’d always have a joke or a bright idea on their tongue, but now they can’t really form coherent sentences right now as they’re delirious.

I have a few - great concept!

I can imagine that it's deeply unsettling for the caretakers to experience this at the very least. Because it's so out of character for them.

^ As a result of this, maybe the whumpee tries to escape medical/hide away to avoid subjecting the caretakers to this. Despite how upsetting the situation is, the caretakers are more overrun by worry than being put off by the whumpee.

I like the idea of the whumpee becoming frustrated, because their brain is working at a snails pace, they're struggling to be understood, they're uncomfortable and unwell, but it feels like everyone is crowding them. It gets a bit much for them.

"[whumpee]'s quiet." It's two words that have the other caretakers stop in their tracks. Quiet and [whumpee] do not go together.

Maybe in a fit of delirium, they reveal things about themselves/their past that they've kept to themselves all these years.

^ bonus points if it's their insecurities. The caretaker could say something along the lines of "...you're kind and funny...", to which the whumpee responds: "I have to be... if not you'll realise just how useless I am and you'll want me off the team."

#sorry my schedule is all over the place #whump #writing #prompts #angst #comfort #family dynamics #stoic whumpee #delirium #revealing secrets #worry #vulnerable character

[ramjam-jamming]

This is my favorite type of trio, just

Peak chosen family. Peak dynamic. Just great overall 10/10.

#the owl house #toh season three #team chaotix #mao mao #“quirky” basically means neurodivergent in this context #ducktales #darkwing duck #family dynamics #chosen family #sonic the hedgehog #espio the chameleon #mao mao heroes of pure heart #adorabat #ducktales launchpad #gosalyn mallard #ducktales gosalyn

[dykeydean]

real men don't flinch or bleed in public, oh, i think i'm a real man.

#mitskinatural #dean #dean winchester #spn amv #fan vid #spn #supernatural #winchesters #family dynamics #character study sort of #real men by mitski #another look at deans masculinity and family #g-d this one took something out of me #i was just about to post this when i went WAIT I COULD MAKE THIS BETTER #and switched around the very end #so hopefully it turned out well! #sent to my best friend whose only words were #ezra wtf #so :) doing good #my stuff #my edits #amv #ezra posts #also. need to say it. w* dni

[family-trauma]

Oddly enough I can associate with multiple of those roles mentioned above. As a child and an adult now, I can associate between the lost child and the scapegoat roles. I have always wondered what my identity really was. Closely following everything my parents wanted, assuming that following the formula they gave I felt that I would be accepted and loved. But ofcourse that really never happened. All that did was make me lose myself. I feel like I don't know who I am anymore or what I want. Living for a long time to please my family members, in search of validation and belonging, has actually left me more lost than anything else. Life is confusing.

#absurd #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealth #mentally exhausted #mental health #mental abuse #mental wellbeing #toxic #toxic family #toxicity #toxic people #dysfunctional family #emotionally drained #emotional abuse #emotional trauma #emotional wounds #family dynamics #family roles #scapegoat #family-trauma

[maybe-in-another-universe]

damian wayne is an emotionally stunted child, that much is true. irrevocably so, even. and yeah, most of it is due to the leagues influence and training especially in his formative years, but also bruce wayne (or even dick grayson) is not an emotionally-responsible poster child.

in a way, his negative behaviors are reinforced through bruce and dick’s (and possibly alfred’s?) way of parenting him. (lack of deeper conversation, not setting healthy boundaries or expectations, not setting consequences or explaining why his actions were wrong, etc) and yeah he’s an assassin child, he’s not going to be the paradigm of mentally and socially stable, but they way they handle it is a disservice not only to him, but also to those who face the brunt of his actions.

that leads to one tim drake. he was robin when damian was brought into the family so naturally that’s where a large bit of his own insecurity of his place in the family (because he focuses on securing his spot in the family, rather than looking around and realizing he had one as soon as he was introduced to bruce wayne; again tho not his fault) is focused on. it’s a disservice to tim because he keeps getting the shitty end of the deal, while damian faces no real or meaningful consequences. on top of this, he receives no real apologies from either damian or the adults in their lives who are supposed to protect them.

(and yeah they’re teenaged vigilantes, there’s only so much danger the adults can protect them from but a better effort could be made easily.)

not only does this hurt the future social and familial relationships of damian but ALSO tim. it gives tim a reason to feel mistrust in not only his brothers but also the adults in his life. i see a lot of people defending damian (in relation to tim) by saying “he’s a kid, he was trained by the league of assassins, it’s not his fault, he’s just trying to find his place.” and to some extent they’re not wrong, but they’re also neglecting the fact that TIM is also just a kid. not only was he just a kid, but a emotionally (and physically) neglected kid. these behaviors could set him back emotionally as well.

it is important to remember that this isn’t necessarily damian’s fault. his actions? yes. should he take responsibility for them and own up to his mistakes? also yes. but i can also acknowledge that he’s a teenager— a young one at that. mistakes are going to be made, but it’s also the adults’ responsibility in his life to make him understand the weight of his actions and their consequences for others.

granted, these are fictional characters so take everything i say with a grain of salt, this is just stuff i’ve been thinking on when interacting with the fandom (specifically focused on the realm of fannon) anyways sorry for the essay

tldr: damian and tim are somehow both failed by the adults around them, even after leaving one shitty environment for a better one. it’s not their faults entirely, outside factors, especially in the forms of guardians, also play a role.

#dick grayson #damian wayne al ghul #tim drake #batfam #dc comics #dc batman #nightwing #bruce wayne #red robin #family dynamics #please let damian wayne al ghul heal into a emotionally functional adult #dc robin #batman and robin #fannon #fannon interpretations of familial relations

[acourtofquestions]

There is something powerful to the fact that the “I love you” of A Court of Silver Flames is not Cassian & instead is the Archeron sisters.

… That the first person who replies, "I love you too” to Nesta; a person who has never been able to say I love you, be allowed to love or be safe in that. Let alone have it reciprocated, without being immediately followed by their death (or destruction of some sort). And that that person is her sister; who loved her before & will love her after, who would fight to keep her safe & actually take care of her.

And Feyre finally gets to hear that from her big sister; from the family she thought she never had. It gives a full circle from how she left; feeling out of place among the human world, to end up in Prythian in the first place, she thought she was alone & left out to dry (or more likely freeze to death). To then in her almost end for the family she did find, she is saved by the sister she always had; the one who followed her to the edge of the wall, fought for her & spent days trying to rip into Prythian; to save her no matter the cost, and when the time came she “gave it all back” to pay it.

Feyre loved her, even when Nesta thought she wasn't worthy of it. Nesta loved her even when Feyre thought her sister hated her. And they both finally get to hear it, say it, see it, feel it, know it. They are worthy & they are loved regardless, they have an unconditional family of relatives & found loves. Their story enters a new world, one that is no longer alone. And there's something powerful in THAT as the choice, “I love you”.

+ We all know Cassian LOVES Nesta, even Nesta knows CASSIAN LOVES NESTA!!! It's been shown, thought, practically said (just got cut off)… it would’ve been nice, but it's already known. It didn't need assurance like they did.

#ACOSF #A Court of Silver Flames #the archeron sisters #Nesta Archeron #Feyre Archeron #Cassian #Nessian #Archeron sisters #acotar sisterhood #acotar #sarah j. maas #the Archerons #High Ladies #Valkyrie #ACOTAR Archerons #Archeron 3 #Prythian #Maasverse #women of acotar #sarah j maas #sisterhood #heroine #power of a girl #female friendship #family dynamics #full circle #Night Court #faeries #night & death #ACOSF spoilers

[pratchettquotes]

"What mob?" said Magrat.

"We'll organize one," said Nanny.

"You don't organize a mob, Nanny," said Agnes. "A mob is something that happens spontaneously."

Nanny Ogg's eyes gleamed.

"There's seventy-nine Oggs in these parts," she said. "Spontaneous it is, then."

Terry Pratchett, Carpe Jugulum

#magrat garlick #nanny ogg #agnes nitt #the ogg family #carpe jugulum #discworld #terry pratchett #witches #mob #mob boss #mob mentality #community activist #protest #family dynamics #the og #organized #spontaneous #by definition #spontaneous it is #the seventy-nine Oggs