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[reintroduceyourself]

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[dutchbarracuda]

Having a nice chilled afternoon, reading The Ethical Slut with a nice cuppa while sat next to the window and lofi playing on the speaker. #ethicalslut #lofi #chill #lazyafternoon #selfie #somanyhashtags https://www.instagram.com/p/B1CALOKnWDd/?igshid=11jzp0l2ax3fd

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[paulichu]

@cunninglinguistco makes THE BEST shit. #ethicalslut #abortionsaveslives #thankssomuchrandomman #youropinionisnoted #proudslut #itsoktocry (at Edmonton, Alberta) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bx3UFEdnTAA/?igshid=1l09e2n26mkn0

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[jacolena-and-friends-blog]

#jacolena #freelove #ethicalslut #nonmonogamy

[ariamoon-blog1]

New books! Courtesy of a good friend! Thanks, Coutes! #birthdaypresents #amreading #amwriting #ethicalslut #womenwhorunwithwolves #booksarethebestinventionsever https://www.instagram.com/p/BuR9pU1hJE7/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=mcas05uzy1nd

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[strandbooks]

"Be a slut, do whatever you want." 😘 Today's writer crush goes out to two individuals: Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy, which is fitting because this book is about polyamory! 👭👫👬 This guide is perfect for those curious about love, sex, and intimacy beyond the limits of conventional monogamy. ❤️Find it on our bestsellers table in the basement! •• #openrelationship #polyamory #ethicalslut (at Strand Book Store)

#openrelationship #ethicalslut #polyamory

[housewitchy]

This book has helped so much with my curiosity in overcoming/understanding jealousy, and understanding ones own accountability for boundaries as well as letting go of self judgment. Am I healed? No, but it's a start. Not just for poly curious. Highly recommend.

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[dodapper]

#allintheeyes #artiste #graphicart #Prideflags #pride #greysexual #greyromantic #demisexual #bi #straightally #demiromantic #ethicalnonmonogamy #ethicalslut #polyamory #identity #browneyes #fire #sapiosexual https://www.instagram.com/p/CHQQs_in9YL/?igshid=il6k80oilox7

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[lamaisondurouge]

Join us tonight for an interview with Ashleigh Nicole Tribble aka @ashleighchubbybunny Ashleigh is a NYC based sex positivity blogger, event planner, speaker, activist and brand ambassador who focuses on the liberation, respect and consideration of black people with an emphasis on fat liberation as well. Her diary-like page is a representation of black, fat femme sexuality through a fully formed and self aware lens. It serves to dismantle internal biases and socially acceptable narratives against black, fat femme bodies, while empowering others to unpack their own. “ . Monday at 7pm EST on Periscope . . #sexactivist #fatliberationist #ethicalslut #intersectionalfeminist #interview #lamaisondurouge https://www.instagram.com/p/CCBkqbMgiJd/?igshid=1an244h67ew9l

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[movedto-enbylebeau]

Picked up some reading material from a taken-aback old man at the #bookstore today lmao 👭👫 #poly #polyam #polyamory #ethicalslut #nonmonogamy (at Barnes & Noble)

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[intellectualerection]

Steve Sanford Makes a Polyamory Agreement (part 1/3): New episode out now! On this episode I speak with the HangedMan Steve Sanford…again! This time we discuss a polyam agreement he put together and how you can create your own. . . Find Steve Sanford on: IG: h4ngedm4n IG: faetefetish . . Support Intellectual Erection at: patreon.com/intellectualerection . . Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectual_erection Twitter: @intellectual_EP FB: @intellectualerecti0n . . Photo courtesy of @h4ngedm4n @house.of.the.hanged . . #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #ethicalslut #consensualnonmonogamy #intellectualerection #sexpositivity (at Toronto, Canada) https://www.instagram.com/p/B8ZJ-7mAnw5/?igshid=4mffpq0efw8d

#polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #ethicalslut #consensualnonmonogamy #intellectualerection #sexpositivity

[swissnavy]

In November we shared a show about Performance Issues, Performance Fu*king & Everything in Between. 🍆🍆🍆 We got a HUGE response from people - particularly men - looking for help, advice and ways to assist them with performance issues that they experienced. Our friends at Swiss Navy heard about this and got in touch with us about some of their products that help with these issues! . They sent us a box full of goodies to test out and we wanted to share what they sent us - so we recorded an unboxing video! You can watch it on our YouTube channel at youtube.com/sexuninterrupted and get a look at some products that help with erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and more! There are even some for the ladies! . And if you want to get some products for yourself, visit swissnavy.com and use the code SDC at checkout for 10% off and free shipping on orders! • #ErectileDysfunction #ED #Erection #MensHealth #SexualHealth #ManHealth #SwisNavy #BestLube #PrematureEjaculation #QuickEjaculation #Unboxing #NonMonogamyFTE #SwingerCouple #SwingerLifestyle #OpenRelationships #EthicalSlut #SexySwingers #FlyYourFreakFlag #SexUninterrupted #ModernSwingers #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipGoals #ConsensualNonMonogamy #FoodForThought #SpiritualSlut #NonMonogamy #LiveAnUncommonLife #LiveWithPurpose Reposted from @sex.uninterrupted https://www.instagram.com/p/B8IedukJCS5/?igshid=8yeq2un6gev7

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[bspoquemagazine]

AM I AN 'EHTICAL SLUT'?

OR JUST A SLUT? AND IF, WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE? AREN'T WE ALL SLUTS THEN? Dear Reader, those are questions I keep asking myself for a while now. So, time to write about them and maybe find a compromise to that deep conflict, which lays in this new millennial terminology for an out seasoned label .

It’s a very, very old pattern—centuries and millennia have passed, since it has been used for the first time—which lays deep under a simple addition to the word 'slut' and to avoid being misunderstood, I don’t agree to that word at all. A while ago, I was confronted with that term ‚ethical slut‘ and couldn’t help but wonder, why we slut shame ourselves again? After years of fighting social stigmas and other common projections put onto us, in order to keep us as less influential as possible, we choose to call ourselves sluts? Instead of seeing 'it' as part of sexuality in general, rather than immediately label it, again, we have basically just added a new word: ethical. Someone even wrote a whole book about this addition.  a sexually promiscuous girl who sleeps with as many people as she likes, has no shame in her actions and will openly discuss who she has slept with and why URBAN DICTIONARY So much effort again, to create another label and disillusioning this very magical moments of meeting someone new for the first time or have that spark between two people, before it even had happen? Of course—since I’m a digital native—I occasionally swipe through the profiles of various strangers on at least three dating platforms. It’s annoying and to be honest, as someone who loves a good fuck, I rarely give one, when it comes to people with an over labelled mind. Honestly, I give less on that what people say about me, than I do on that what my dog whines. But I do give a fuck, for the person I’m facing on a date or the stranger in the back of the restaurant, who’s looking at me, flirting and than ghosting me on the smartphone. His profile was filled with 'slutty' alliterations, but I didn’t really care about the labels, I was hooked by the (tiny) spark. In the end I had sex with a porn and some additional help of my vibrator, instead of 'porn sex' with that guy. Really, I can’t stand this type of intercourse anymore, regardless if it was satisfying or not—both are pointless and in very little cases long lasting.  

The special feeling of a deeper connection without labels, but truly felt, while you become intimate with someone are based on the same hormones which is responsible for being in love. Tho’ hormones can get a bit dizzy sometimes, you simply can’t fake that feeling to get an exceptional orgasm. Admitting that I had plenty one-night-stands, I’m also hopelessly romantic, especially after a spark and a good black out. Surely, I haven’t loved them all. But for some of the guys I had sex with, I had deeper feelings afterwards, realizing later, that I had given them all I have in this intimate moments. But was I a slut for not being their boyfriend, or unethical for not telling that I only stood by my almost ex-boyfriend for our shared, complicated financial duties? For me sex is the foundation of a good relationship and I don’t want to be with someone I don’t find attractive. Being honest, no-one does. What we all want, is somebody to love, cuddle and in the end of the day, we all want to feel loved and get done, just like our laundry.

Is this how Julia Roberts' character feels like in Pretty Woman? Two parts princess, one part whore?  PARKER S. HUNTINGTON, ASHER BLACK My dirty one was washed around this town many times, and I only wondered, why I couldn’t dem the pile of dirty laundry in my own apartment, rather than having strangers doing it publicly. I had this #metoo moment more than just once in my life, first being harassed in school for being gay and than my own community slut shaming me after I had semi-consensual sex, for which a guy drugged me on a night out. The line is thin between consent and neglect. This maybe the reason, why there’s no difference between a 'slut' and an 'ethical slut' for me. Both words are discriminating and degrading woman and men equally. Or not, since it seems to be okay in the gay community all of the sudden? Therefore even we gays are as patriarchal as our parents have been. Or even more defined, it’s not an issue to be a top and fuck around, while all bottoms are a female cliched tribe, submissively obeying to their master? I refuse, because this is ancient behavior!

ETHICS /ˈɛθɪks/ noun moral principles that govern a person's behaviour or the conducting of an activity. the branch of knowledge that deals with moral principles. The 'ethical slut’ remains somehow sticky for me, like something archetypal, extinct; destructive for a modern social approach of common sense. It’s somehow putting us back into the closet. Personally, I prefer less labels, but I give my encounters a sort of handling manual. We don’t need labels to define ourselves, we need emotions and words, truly meant. Guess, I’ve edited myself over the years. △

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