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flameontheotherside · 2 years

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When someone says they are or have _____, fucking believe them. It's not YOUR job to determine anything. By acting like a giant cunt with an imaginary degree in _____ you hurt the people who were brave to speak thier truth. Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse no one deserves making you the abusive party and honestly the world would be better without you in it. Full stop!

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channelingerik · 2 months

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IS KARMA A B**CH?

Host: Elisa Medhus: https://atlantisscalar.com Elisa’s TikTok: @atlantisscalar Spirit Interpreter / Medium: – Raylene: https://www.angelicastrologicalguidan… The Erik’s Hour of Enlightenment radio show is on LIVE every TUESDAY at 4:00pm PT / 6:00pm CT / 7:00pm ET on https://apple.co/2ZWgNtj . IF YOU WANT TO TALK TO ERIK, CALL INTO 646-716-9735

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#atlantisscalar #elisamedhus #After Death Communication #Channeling #Channeling Erik #Communication with spirits #Erik Medhus #Youtube

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the-stoned-priestess · 6 years

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Co-host Kane and I discuss looking at TFs from a logical standpoint. Key points:

The importance of using your head as much as your heart

Why so many people end up with not so ideal TF relationships

Divine time and when you will meet your TF

Twin Flame signs

Why holding on to a relationship just from having a magical experience is unfair and selfish

The art of letting go

Trial and error is a bitch. Erik and I answer some TF questions from TwinFlameMedium.Com and provide additional messages aside from name and location. If you didn't recieve a reply to your ask, it's answered in the podcast! Social: Twitter Tumblr Instagram

NOTE: In listening to the playback I noticed something and I dont beleive in editing or being unauthentic. Before anyone get's all uppity and accuse me of being sneaky, I want to humbly clarify that what I said was I've haven't done JUST TF readings alone for very long. Then said I've been doing it a while. So no I haven't been doing Twin Flame readings for very long. Sorry about that as it was an honest mistake. I donno why I said that. It was completely dumb. Then the audio watermark...Obviously it won't be on future recordings as I will find another way to convert audio unless someone wants to help a budding dinosaur out.

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angies-grotto · 7 years

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Just started reading My Son in the Afterlife, and I'm already learning so much that I didn't know about the afterlife and spirit world. I highly recommend this book, as it could probably answer any spirituality related questions. 🌌✌

#my thoughts #books #channeling erik #elisa medhus #erik medhus #spirituality #afterlife

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musingsofmeanderingspirits · 7 years

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How Souls Are "Born"

How Souls Are “Born”

Another interesting interview with Erik Medhus. In this he talks about the origination of Souls.

http://channelingerik.com/the-birth-of-souls/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+ChannelingErik+%28Channeling+Erik%29

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#Erik Medhus #Souls #Souls being born #where do Souls originate from?

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flameontheotherside · 2 years

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FEAR is the basis of MISERY!

Fear leads to pain and anger. That's fear of being wrong, fear because you don't understand something, fear because what you find goes against your beliefs, fear creates anger and hostility and it has no room in this journey. You gotta just let that shit go as if you needed to shit a minute ago!

I encounter fear from:

Believing I'm going insane

Believing I AM insane

Believing people will or are reacting to me negatively

All of that is valid but it's not helpful if you want to grow. Embrace the unknown and uncertainty because it's all we have. We don't know much about twin flames but people sure do have so many wild explanations of it and believe it or not, all it does is create stupidity. YES! I said stupidity....but also nonsense.

You have to become comfortable with the uncomfortable!

If your TF isnt on this plane you have to swallow the doubt --and you should have doubt. If you don't that's a problem! You have to swallow the doubt, the fear and use that as a reason to move forward. We can't know all there is to know and there so much conflict in information. It's easy to get confused and when you do, take a step back and look at the whole picture.

Where there is pure unadulterated love, there isn't fear and vice versa or whatever the fuck. How can you love deeply if you are constantly nagged by what could be? So the fuck what? What people think, say or do (which is usually negative) about your personal life or spiritual journey doesn't change the fact that what you're going through is happening.

It's likely what you think of yourself is what some rando idiot thinks of you.

For example I feel insane. I have a perfectly good reason why I just may be. It's also the same bullshit people who don't know me think. So if I already think of that myself and know deep down I'm not a total luney tune, why give a fuck. There is nothing I can say or do about that. That fear I occasionally have about losing my mind is valid. It's my biggest fear. What's the point in worrying about that?

The answer to that is love. Just love anyway and the rest will follow. When it comes to a journey like this, there's no science behind it, there's no 100% fool proof explanation for any of it. You got to be comfortable with the fact.

😘💕 Good night loves, I'm 😴 tired...

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flameontheotherside · 2 years

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"Us Against The World" 🙄 (ugh...)

As much as I fucking hate that saying...it's pretty much what sums up our relationship in our past lives. Thinking on it, it's corny (I don't do corny) but it was what it was. In the end we lost each time. I try not to think about it. The details don't even matter. It's in the past. The whole saying never appealed to me. I don't like fighting. I don't like constant challenges. It reminds me of the time I spent homeless with Matt (RIP). It was kind of like that but it was so annoying and frustrating! I hated all of it because it was also a confusing relationship. Toxic really. Idk about you but I like drama free relationships that don't involve other people. Like Rick and I have drama but it's contained to just involving both of us. We don't want people involved in our shit. I like it that way. It might come from my past lives. Who knows? Who cares?

Anyway I was just thinking on this as I was getting ready for bed. Would it be us against the world if Erik had not died? I hope not and I guess it doesn't matter because he's dead. I don't feel like it's like that right now. Again, because he's dead. I mean what is there against us? There really isn't anything. It's not like we have to hide.

I've been thinking about what to tell my therapist.

I've not said anything about Erik since telling our story from start to finish. Now I think it's time to really dig into the emotional toll this journey has on me and my grief. As great as great things can be I don't believe anything doesn't have it's cons. I mean I'd be a little worried if someone was positive all the fucking time. Life happens. Shit happens right? Talking about how this journey is positive is great but I need to talk about the grief.

It would be a lie to say this journey has been everything but challenging. Grief is a big part in it and I have a hard time coping with it. Because this journey is bizarre I can't talk about it openly to just anyone. I do have one friend IRL I have told all of this about. He's one of my best friends and very supportive and gives me a shoulder to cry on. He knows EVERYTHING. He doesn't judge me, try to be an expert, or make me feel crazy. I love that about him.

Anyway before my meds kick in (the little I'm on now anyway) I better end it...

😘💕 Good night!

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flameontheotherside · 2 years

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In A Dream We Were In A Maternity Psych Ward!

It's hilarious. Erik being my twin soul, what's mine is his and vise versa. So naturally I find myself in a psych ward but all the women are pregnant. So I look at a bed next to me and there he was. I was like:

What the fucking hell are you doing here?! 🤣😂

And he's all blase blase about it. So I look at him laughing and he starts laughing. Then some chick walks in and we get quiet. I start to ask why he was there with me and what I pretty much got was that we are in this together which is sweet.

I woke up with a smile. It was a short and nice dream. These days I'll take any dream over nothing!

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flameontheotherside · 2 years

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Confirmation Bias Having A TF On The Other Side

It is described as the tendency of people to favor information that confirms or strengthens their beliefs or values, and is difficult to dislodge once affirmed.

I have and continue to provide evidence that says I know who my TF is. But what isn't written about is how I avoid confirmation bias on this journey. Using the TF 'signs' you can easily find on your own, you can see it is literally a list of confirmation biases. Not just a list of conditions for "love" or what qualifies for love!

What most people do when they are desperate, they look for signs, see they coincide with their beliefs and forget it. It's not only damaging but you enforce your personal bubble refusing anything to burst it. Doing so, when something does INEVITABLY burst your personal bubble, it puts you in a serious funk you may not feel you can crawl yourself out of.

This is why you need to stay objective!

Staying objective, open to possibilities you could be wrong is just as important as looking at what can make you right. You can ask all the intuitives in the world for a "confirmation" but it's not enough. No one is 100% accurate all the time! So get over that need to pay so much money online to intuitives. It's best you do your own investigation..look at all of the evidence either "good" or "bad"!

Having doubt means you are strong because it takes strength on this journey to pull through no matter where you end up. Having doubt means you are capable of being honest with yourself knowing you have some things to learn. Going about life as though you don't need to learn something new isn't living! You have to break out of that if you want to be free-er!

I have a list of reasons I can be wrong about my journey. It's taken me 3 or 4 (something like that) years from the beginning of this to learn to be okay with being wrong about everything and yes in some ways I was wrong in some of my communications but it's not slowed me down. There are also a lot of things I've learned and I'm not 100% on board with especially when it comes to my role(s) in The Realms. Those details aren't important to me so Ive let them sit in the background.

This is your life, your journey. Don't make it someone else's job to validate it. They don't know you, they aren't you! If you can't be bothered to see the entire picture, how can the universe help you? You just have to let go and try to be open to all details including the pieces that hurt. It's the ONLY WAY you will grow as a person.

Make it important to you to look at the big picture!

Having a TF not on this earth is hard. Don't make your life harder by refusing to look at all the details. They are all important!

😘💕 Good night!

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flameontheotherside · 2 years

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Finding out your TF may not be?

I've seen it with a handful of people who suddenly fall off the TF journey when they feel who thier TF isn't who they thought it was. I think it's very difficult when your TF is dead and they happen to be known for something. There would be a handful of other who claim your TF is thiers and it must be a rollercoaster ride of sorts when dealing with this.

While there are MANY signs someone is your TF, signs ARE just a list of conditions someone "needs" to have in order to be a TF. If love is unconditional, you dont need a list of conditions to make someone qualify to be your TF. You love them for who they are! Eventually the list of those "signs" won't matter. The only thing that does is how you feel in your heart and that should fuel you to work with your TF on whatever complicates you.

Communication IS key!

In my experience, the best and only way communicate effectively is by using a pendulum and an alphabet board. It's best to grab a sketchbook and make your own! Put your heart and soul in it, take your time and hold the intention to only speak to benevolent beings and your TF. You will need to make a new one ever so often. Protection is particularly important because you need to limit any possibility of communication with unsavory beings. Do whatever protection ritual that makes you feel comfortable. I have the lord's prayer written on my alphabet board and when I feel uncomfortable I say the Lord's prayer. You can open and end your communication with prayer and I totally recommend you do!

Communication with your TF to avoid all that confusion in any area if your journey is so very very important. Having done it for two years, I have developed telepathy with mine and I'm on my 6th year of this journey. Hopefully you will develop this ability as you progress. Pick a time of day or night to have communication. I choose before bed because I find I retain information easier and I may influence my ability to dream travel which has happened quite a bit so I find communication before bed helpful!

The TF journey isn't everything...

Love your life! Take a break or focus on your life in the here and now. You got to redirect your energy if you feel like you hit a block or that you have misinterpreted yourself in matter of who your TF is. Remember who you were before all that. Go back to that the best you can. There was a time I gave Erik up. Not because of the TF stuff because I didn't believe in TFs. It was because I knew he was dead and didn't feel like it was possible to have a relationship with him and at the time didn't know how to communicate safely. I let about 5 years go by, a dozen dreams with him, and an intuitive to convince me to to consider my options. During that time "off" I went on life as usual. It helped that I had a new bf and a demanding job.

If you find yourself in a difficult position like this and you have had reliable communication with them, then the best advice I can give is to go back to life as you had before. Consider therapy even! After all you probably spent quite a lot of time on this journey so you need to gain back what you had previously.

I hope that whatever you are dealing with passes and that you find yourself again. It's not easy and maybe one day you will be wiser and kinder to yourself along the way!

😘💕 Sending love and light your way!

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flameontheotherside · 2 years

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Plane!

This dream happened a couple nights ago. Often planes in my dreams are dreams relating to higher planes of existence, when I'm about to dream travel or go out of body. Going out of body feels like taking off on a plane or going up in an elevator. Also when on a rollercoaster!

In this dream I was on a plane where instead of 3 seats per row, it's just one seat on either side of the aisle. I don't remember much but seeing a few people on it. Then right before I woke up I turned my head to the left and there he (Erik) was 😆 lol. Smiling at me and shit.

What I notice this time I didn't get in a funk over it. Maybe it's progress? Last night in trance I was able to get glimpses of stuff after I said that it would be great to remember any bit of our past lives other than what he tells me. But since I only saw just a split second (I freaked out) I'm not going to write about it.

😘💕 Have a wonderful day!

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flameontheotherside · 2 years

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I feel so light

This is all I want to feel tonight

I feel so light

Tonight and the rest of my life

-Nina Gordon, Tonight and the Rest of My Life

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flameontheotherside · 2 years

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NDE Or Dream Travel

I have the ability to travel. No, I don't always set out to travel before I go to sleep but I do go to places that look like or remind me of Near Death Experience stories I've been listening to recently on the YT Channel, Heaven Awaits. You should listen to them.

It's either I have an undetected heart condition where periodically it stops beating or I am a le to slow my heart rate down so low that I'm able to trigger these events;

1. I'm starting to think that dream I had about what happened BEFORE I incarnated wasn't what I thought it was. I think rather than it being before I was born, it could have been that I was being shown what I was supposed to accomplish in this life and being so high on the spirit juice I really didn't want to return back to my body or wake up. Because I made it very very clear I didn't want to go back to earth. Erik was there to drag me to that meeting and tell me what I needed to do in this life. I didn't want to do that either. In 2015 I had already given up Erik and anything spiritual related because I didn't see a point in any of it anymore.

2. The dream that I had visiting Erik. He was made of light and I'll never forget his smile. Everything was bright and beautiful. I was aware that I was somewhere else and heard children laughing and playing. Erik laughed at my confusion and said, "They are our children!" It was a dream Ive written about before but I can't find it here. Go figure.

Since being pregnant I've wondered if one of those children is this one I'm having. I'm so happy to be pregnant and the idea that one of ours could be this one reborn with me again makes me a little emotional. It's because Erik died before I could find him. Finding him had been my life goal since I was a little girl. A psychic warned me of his death months before he had committed suicide and when I intuitively knew he had died that winter I gave up the idea of ever being happy again.

Don't get me wrong, Rick is amazing! I'm pregnant with HIS kid and I rather it be him than anyone else. I tried loving other people. It just never worked out. Long story short Rick and I reconnected. We met months after Erik died in 2010 and at the time wasn't interested in a serious relationship because I was dealing with grief I didn't at the time understand.

Both dreams seem to be like NDEs in the way I experienced them. Hard to describe 8n words but fresh in my mind. I didn't want to go back to reality as I knew it. Especially when Erik told me about our children. I just didn't want to live in a world without him and my children in it. I understand this blog wether you believe it or not is part of my purpose. I've known since 2015 I'd have a blog like this and tried to make one but lacked experiences which would come a year or two later. I feel good about what I've done or accomplished since 2015.

So do I have an underlying heart issue, breathing problem, sleep apnea or do I have the ability to trigger something like an NDE while asleep? Honestly I don't care enough to find out. These dreams are close to my heart and they mean the world to me no matter what the cause. It's because of these dreams I'm still here today and continue to share my experiences on this journey.

To note; during the time both of these dreams happened, I was with someone who thought I stopped breathing in my sleep...🤷‍♀️

😘💕 Good night y'all!

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flameontheotherside · 2 years

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Guy At Party

Erik often presents himself as some guest who keeps staring at me or flirting with me. Some shit like that...🤷‍♀️ This time I got a good look at myself. Well sort of; I had long blonde-ish curly hair. I remember pulling it down to see it was well past my boobs. As usual there was a pool and people I didn't recognize.

My mom's ex bf came to me to say he had died (I actually don't want to find out if this is true) and that he was sorry about the BS he caused between my mom and I and our family in general. I rolled my eyes at him and asked him to fuck off. I didn't want to approach Erik because I was nervous and instead kind of stared at him but not as obviously.

I remember thinking why isn't he coming to me while walking into a house to get something. He appeared out of nowhere and just got real close. He was about to say something. We were alone 🤦‍♀️...Bruh...I woke the fuck up and couldn't go back to sleep.

😘💕 Have a wonderful day!

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flameontheotherside · 2 years

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A Dead Body In My House

This dream was freaky. Pregnancy dreams are usually freaky. But I woke up wanting to like gag and cry because it was freaky.

Ugh...

So I was moving from one house to another and for some reason I had Erik's dead body in it along with some trans lady I guess. She came back tonight but the people I lived with kept telling me it's some leftover reflexes or some shit. I'm thinking that once it talks I'm leaving and never going back. Well someone was building coffins and I was overseeing it. I remember the wood and the classic old style coffin shape.

Anyway so I was having a moving away party and Erik's family was there basically all sort of "southern racist pride" vibes so I put on a disguise. I then got this idea that if that lady was actually alive maybe I can fix Erik by kissing him. So I ran back inside the house and did it. Nothing happened so I began to like freak the fuck out.

I want to go back to sleep though...

Hopefully I'll have a better dream. I just feel so gross right now. Last night I felt the baby move or something. Whatever it was, it scared the fuck out of me so I screamed. It felt like there must be an alien inside me. I've seen too many horror movies. Lol 😆 but seriously I screamed and Rick was like asking me what was wrong.

😘💕 Anyway I need more sleeps.

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flameontheotherside · 2 years

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Tearful Promises

It got a little emotional. Funny I'm not entirely emotional even during this pregnancy I'm not crying at the drop of a hat for anything. But this; talking to Erik about my baby, had me in tears. Erik wants to be it's spiritual guardian and who am I to say no?

I was like well duh of course and I want him and it to be aquatinted with each other before it's born. I want it to know Erik and I hope in some way it will remember or ask me one day about him. Like I remember what happened before I incarnated, I want it to one day remember how loved and cared for it was. It made me choke up.

Right now I've got a bad migraine which is a symptom I've been dealing with since being pregnant. So I've got to go now...

😘💕 Good night!

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