Why is it fine for allo ppl to talk and joke about how much they hate romance and how romance just sucks sooooo much but when an aro person does the same suddenly it's "romance negativity" and "incredibly problematic"?????
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I’m grumbling bc I got rated as mature the other day, and now I get a stupid menu bar promoting just a lot of suggestive things and accounts named “blondenasty” or whatever.
Not gonna use tumblr live, none of the hashtags are ones I follow, and you literally can’t flag me for no reason, and then shove posts in my face that should be filed under the reason I got flagged.
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attempt was made ! all replies will be queued and i think anything holiday related won't expire for me unless you don't want the ask answered. like last month ! they'll just go under the 'seasonal / holiday' title on my asks because the brain fog is real / life amping up so ! also i think mi.zuki is the most smug santa .
also this was last year but still . love reindeer mi.zuki and san.ta a.iba. in my post-canon verse (which is divergent) they're still partners but shared also with d.ate obviously ! i think people should give them a chance since a.iba is a very very solid support system for mi.zuki and mi.zuki keeps aiba amused and can keep up with her in her own way, it's one of the few good things i liked about a.ini. oh well sometime i'll talk about how important a.iba is to her ! plus, the unlimited psyncs are hilarious and show their bond and they bounce off each other's wit and chaotic natures honestly. or rather they bring out the chaos in each other. different bonds but no less important imho ! but yeah i'll post this again later uh...closer to the holidays i guess ?
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I'm from Asia, and the overwhelming majority of us would straight-up not date white people. Some ethnicities are more likely to date out than others, but overall we're good, no thanks. Women who do date white foreigners tend to be levelling up economically (no judgement there from me) which is a well-known fact. While there is definitely white colonialist beauty standards at play in the majority of places, I have lots of experience with the corners that bs hasn't reached (Nepal, for a generally big example, where they love dark skin and certain features) - and even within the spaces where European-centric standards do apply, the majority of non-white people aren't interested in dating actual white people as a first choice. It has nothing to do with white people's racism or disinterest in non-white people lol. I don't know about the Middle East of course, but I think your experiences of Asia seem limited to the more English-speaking, cosmopolitan areas perhaps - or maybe you are talking about Japan, which I am not familiar with personally. However even in Korea I have a white friend (born there) who can't get a boyfriend because- in her words- men there sort foreigners as "fun times only" and local women as "marriage material". It's a bit ridiculous to think that billions of non-white people are genuinely thirsting over white people, it's simple not true - most people prefer to date within their race. Lots of people do feel attraction to white people, for the reasons you outlined or naturally as well, but your experience does not seem univeral (outside the Western sphere). It was kind of bizarre at first to come across this thinking in Western spaces but now it's just deeply agitating, because I notice non-white people in Western countries really do act like they're less attractive and it's insane to me. Like sorry, but here in my part of the world, certain Asian features on women are considered the height of beauty among these communities (to the point where that's problematic in and of itself). Definitely white beauty standards have wormed their way here too, but again, it didn't change most Asians' sexual preferences - it just made them look for those features in their own (not everyone, but most - yes some people would date white).
interesting… my experience has been the exact opposite. while i know some people would not marry a white person, they’re still the standard of beauty and marrying a white person can be almost a status symbol & people do act like dating them means you’ve won somehow. this applies for the middle east and i know similar standards exist in south & east & southeast asia. my gf explained the same type of phenomena exists in taiwan and neighbouring east asian countries & ive observed similar mindsets around white ppl being considered the most beautiful among south asians and west asians overall.
i’m not referring to english-speaking cosmopolitan areas either, i’m thinking of countries like the philippines and india and pakistan and basically the entirety of the middle east. admittedly i’m not familiar with nepal tho— it’s interesting to hear they prefer dark skin there, which is in contrast to the rest of asia in which colourism is very prominent.
i did notice white people are generalised as more of a “fun time” thing in many cases but people will still not look down on you for marrying a white person & shun you for it the way they would for marrying a black person, for example. the people generally think white people are the most appealing but often prioritise marrying people of similar backgrounds for the sake of cultural and familial standards.. not bc white people are deemed unattractive in asia. in fact, the whiter you are, the more beautiful you are deemed.
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We gotta get our fandom tag on AO3 in order, I've seen three different Touchstarved tags on there. P sure the official categorization would be Touchstarved (Video Game) based on how the fandom drop down menu lists things, and I think that's what the tag wranglers would make it when the lyrics get ahold of us.
But please let's not make new tags. If I see a forth AO3 Touchstarved tag I'm gonna lose it.
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i hope nous is okay after being literally called a terrorism supporter by bild who did not apologise to him and I doubt, once again, bayern will give a shit. or bayern supporters, who are always so progressive innit.
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I feel my blood pressure raise every time I see people write Camilla, Camelia, Camillia, Camilia instead of Camila
Or Louisa instead of Luisa
Or Columbia instead of Colombia
Or amore instead of amor
People are so hyper focused on respecting the names/spelling of certain cultures but then they do this, and b o y it is not that hard to do a quick google search
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So...just out of curiousity...are all the online dude bros who obliterated Mitch for weeks about getting upset on the bench after a bad play going to come after Sid now? Or, is it only a “tantrum” when Mitch does it?
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Minghao can't wear his twinky little top on live stages but ripped men can wear nothing as long as they cover 1 tiddie ....
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there is such a difference between meaningful criticism and shitting on another character/show/whatever bc the one you like was treated poorly. the latter is unproductive for so many reasons but primarily... it won’t do anything? you’re not changing anything by doing that. and idk i just really hate this trend of ‘i’m upset about x so i’m going to make it fans of y’s problem’.
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