#don't take this seriously im just saying things

[frankenfran]

i know this is an extremely old lady thing to complain about but

1.) i really hate the weird manipulative tone here. no i am not "taking a break", i made one order because i accidentally shrunk a really good cardigan in the wash and in the 4 or so days since I've ordered it ive received up to 3 trash ad emails from target. absolutely unrelenting

2.) you cannot seriously look me in the eyes and tell me it genuinely takes 10 days to fucking unsubscribe. don't piss in my face and say it's the rain you cock suckers. you are fucking with me. i do not need 30 more emails that im going to delete anyway. I'm just going to block your shitty company entirely. neck yourselves

[bbq-potato-chip]

doodles yeah theyre mostly ulquiorra what do you want from me

#this is just me saying stuff dont take any of these seriously #look at my crappy art. #yeah i know hes the emo one but i thought it was funny don't think to hard abt im just saying things #ulquiorraposting #doodle #not art tagging because these do NOT deserve it but. yeah #edit: Im feeling brave im putting them in the tag #bleach #ulquiorra cifer

[uncanny-tranny]

Being trans is knowing that Sigmund Freud would have been... interested in studying you

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #trans meme #bro was NOT normal #honestly i think freud is just a good case study of how important falsifiability is to theory #from my observation (i could be wrong; im no freud expert) it seems like any pushback to his theory comes from *your* superego/ego... #...blocking you from truly understanding the truth in what his theory says... #...that's an unfalsifiable theory and in my opinion that immediately makes it something i toss out #and again i could be wrong but from the things i've learned and what i've seen of his devotees that's the vibe i get #ANYWAY. i think freud is interesting only so long as you don't take him seriously #but knowing him - he'd have a field day especially considering he came up with the Oedipus complex

[raytorosaurus]

ray: kisses gerard

y'all: awwwww besties 🥺🥺🥺 brothers 🥺🥺🥺

frank: watches gerard sing a song with a neutral attentive expression, alongside the rest of the band who is also watching attentively

y'all: im gonna be fucking sick this goes beyond rpf we're not crazy i've literally never seen someone yearn so hard

#SORRY LOL DON'T TAKE THIS TOO SERIOUSLY like im genuinely glad we're all having fun #just the direct comparison is funny #this is what happens when the only lore ppl know is the stuff that's been popularised bc of frerard ksdjjfjsjd #what if i told u abt gerard and ray writing cancer together in one sitting and feeling moved by something larger than themselves #*with rob cavallo too #this isn't even meant to be an anti-rpf thing go have fun im just saying ppl see what they're looking for

[asgardian--angels]

you know it's bad when tumblr's being the more mature social media site when it comes to rancid takes on izzy's death

#ofmd #holy shit twitter's devolved into a battleground #what is WRONG with yall involving david jenkins in your beef #you dont have to like what happened but #how many fucking years in fandom does it take for people to learn to be civil #and not base their entire identities around characters so if anything happens to them it's a personal attack #that they then take straight to the creator #if a character dying causes you that much distress then that's a You problem and david fucking jenkins is not responsible #and he's not your therapist #and besides. just because something happened you didnt like doesnt mean it was a bad writing choice #but even if it were. you never have the right to make it anyone else's problem #i cant imagine having the gall #don't do this guys. the cast and crew are so lovely to us. don't make them stop interacting with us #people saying this show was a comfort show. or a safe space show or whatever. thats great for you #but it's not djenk's responsibility to cater to you and not his problem if the show doesn't meet your infinitely high expectations #he's telling a story. things will happen in those stories. #and it's actually p rare on tv that creators are getting to tell the story the way they want so personally im grateful #if you don't like his vision then don't watch it. you don't have the right to bully him. seriously whats wrong with you #cause yeah im sure con o'neill would love what youre doing huh #the fate of a fictional character is sliiiiiightly less important than being kind to people in the real world yknow #only tagging this so people can block for spoilers

[galedekkarios]

is gale actually the worst guy alive or do people just have personal issues that give them a complex whenever someone else is a master of their craft and confident about it 🤔 hmmmmmmm

#im sorry but i literally never found him to be abrasive bc yes an archmage and chosen of mystra and wizard and the designated Lore Dumper #is going to be more knowledgeable than you and that's fine LMAO #and him knowing abt the tadpoles isn't him being an arrogant know it all it's just him letting the character know what's at stake #and also the others given that some of them don't know that or feel pressured to act (see: astarion and wyll) #and re the sorc vs wizard stuff.. again... someone that has to go to school and study the art Is going to #be more learned and well read than someone that doesn't #someone that was an archmage and lover to magic itself and a child prodigy etc etc IS going to #know more like . cope #i just never found him to be horrible or as annoying as people say bc i don't take offense to confidence or prowess or info dumpers? #early access is a different beast. but official release gale? the guy who shares crazy life stories every time? and is trying #to bond with your character every chance he gets? and who doesn't admonish your character if you fail to channel #the weave and instead is a good enthusiastic teacher to your character? who has a reasonable reaction to your character #not taking him seriously and is super appreciative when they do? like. L + skill issue + get over yourself + it's really not tht serious #+ i'm telling tara + i'm also telling morena + smiting you smiting you smiting you smiting you smiting you smi #this dude was mentored by magic itself. he was taught by magic itself. he made love and was ''loved'' by magic itself. he was its chosen. #he was in contact with legendary wizards by the age of eight. he cast a spell using blackstaff. he was conjuring things #as early as a toddler. if his early access prowess is still canon then this dude was able to lift entire buildings #and battle beholders super easily and after the game he rebuilds half the city using his magic. #and so on and so forth like i'm sorry to say but gale really is that bitch and he's not an awful person for Knowing that and trying to #make that known so that he can have a purpose in the group like. hello. for the love of god hello whats not clicking 😭 #and i'm not saying he's a humble precious bean i'm just saying that final release gale can be pompous and puffs himself up #but it's not like there's no merit to what he's saying LMAO #🤦‍♀️ anyway.

[quicktimeeventfull]

btw idk if people are aware of this but there's nothing preventing you from going on to tumblr.com and posting as if you have any idea what you are talking about. like no one will stop you. you can just do that. it's 100% free.

#please don't take anything i say too seriously fghnlfjhnlfgnhjlfnhgjl #im going to keep doing it though #i am just posting recreationally don't take anything a random person on the internet says to heart #IN PARTICULAR my ~writing advice~ is so extremely not universal #if it makes u feel negative in any way then its probably not relevant to you so just ignore it #i have literally never in my life given or posted writing advice meant to like. shame people. idk. #i talk overconfidently bc Autism so sometimes people think im more serious about the things im saying than i actually am

[theiceemperor]

Every relationship is better if you make it queerplatonic.

#i dont take criticism #but #don't take this too seriously pls it's a joke #kinda #i mean im not hating on relationships pls #its just a silly little thing i like to say #cuz i am #aromantic #and #asexual #aromantic asexual #queerplatonic #lgbtqia+

[fourteenthz]

Every time I open my shakarian playlist I get more ill but also I need.... need more old sad songs... i need to collect them all.... where are they

#yeah my playlist is filled with Out of touch + Two of us + Mayonata no door + and stuff that sounds like that (night we met for exemp) #and i have to both have this feeling and make it made sense with shakarian which is hard bc they are not toxic just difficult. hard times. #which is kinda good bc old songs normally have that feel but like 90% of mitsik songs feel off for me in that sense #BUT I NEED THEM FOR THE VIBE... GOD.... can u tell I take playlists seriously? and they aren't even public??? #i saw that when I have like 3 mitski songs there but I try. also I REALLY don't line Lana but man if summertime sadness isn't about them. #“i think ill love you forever” part is GENUINELY SO THEM and no one else. i swear. #like 10% of the songs on that playlist are from artists i like and usually listen to but that mostly bc im not a moody sad old songs kinda #of girl and i just caN NOT choose anything else for shakarian. like i swear I can picture shepard showing that kind of songs for garrus #and garrus listening to most of these on thr 2 years gap even before they get together..... bc he heard her listening once #in the normandy and it stuck with him bc... u know... reminds him of her... im gonna throw up #“smoking gun's hot to thr touch” from out of touch reminds him of their meeting like the night we met entire song #but it doesnt gets him more than “none of you” from the chorus. and by the time me3 comes they are sooo Local Natives coded #When am I gonna loose you + I saw you close your eyes ESPECIALLY #its also insane how I can go into akiangel playlists and get songs from there tbh... i never watches csm and NEVER WILL bc really not my #thing. but man akiangel stans know how to do playlist and they are the exactly same feeling i get with shakarian #sorry for the akiangel playlist makers who I have liked the playlist and listened to it on repeat. i was thinking abt shakarian while doing #sorry for the SUDDEN txt post about my spotify playlist.... i spent the morning doing university work and I accidentally #changed from my xiv playlist to the shakarian one and it went downhill from there........ anyway miss my babies..... enough rambling now #ALSO theres this thing were skip The night we met bc its my go to ardbert song LOL but THAT'S LIKE... ANOTHER SUBJECT ANYWAY #kelly says #dl #i forgot to mention For the first time by mac de marco which i like... ultimate shakrian song with Out of touch..... ANYWAY ANYWYAYA

[rotisseries]

what’re your thoughts on live action zelda movie? i assume they’re not positive !

so glad you asked! my plans for the premiere will be a suicide bombing at nintendo hq! hope this answered your question!

#I think it's a bad idea lol #I think zelda is not a good franchise to try and adapt to a movie format in general #because it's very much a story that uses the fact it's a video game to TELL the story. so putting it in a different medium changes that #and that isn't to say that an adaptation can never change things about what it's adapting in fact the mark of a good adaptation #is often knowing when and where and what to change and how #but soooo much of zelda and it's appeal and storytelling comes from the fact it's a video game. so I can't imagine liking it as a movie #and then nothing about it is inspiring confidence #I think if they absolutely HADDD to adapt loz. it should've been animated. loz is a franchise where the art direction is really important #so. taking that away is. a choice #and then the movie is being directed by the guy who directed the fucking MAZE RUNNER MOVIESSSSS😭😭😭 #and those are. well the quality is. tbf the fact that the maze runner is just not amazingly well written was working against that too #but still #the only possible saving graces are A. the guy said his aims are something to the effect of a live action ghibli movie #I don't have much faith in that being successful but at least he's trying? #and B. I will say the fact it's live action means they're probably going to TRY to take the story seriously?? #if it was animated they probably would've treated it like the mario movie which would've been SOOO bad #ultimately though I think best case scenario is a mediocre movie we forget about #and worst case scenario it makes history with other well known godawful adaptations #yes im gonna hate it yes I will be watching it. unfortunately. I need to see how this turns out #ask #supercoolswampert #hi hanaan! #loz #loz movie

[six-of-ravens]

this might sound dumb, but listening to WizBru and in particular hearing Holden talk about the times he, as the children say, put his whole pussy into some pop culture phenomenon and had a great time with it, has kinda changed how I take on things like that and has increased my enjoyment 1000%.

like idk, it might particularly be bc he's a 40 year old dude who's embracing fun and often "girly" things instead of being derisive and superior, admittedly. bc there are a lot of those kinds of dudes in my day-to-day life and seeing a dude be not only Chill but Enthusiastic is a nice change. also might be because I come from tumblr where everyone's shitting on anything popular and a little silly the instant it comes into existence.

but listening to him talk about how he wholeheartedly loves Blackpink and thinks they're super cool, or how he started a singalong at the tswift concert movie, or wearing pink and going to Barbie, or just...anything. is like. oh right sometimes pop culture is just for fun and you can just have fun and be in the Fun Space for a while and you can still critically examine it but also just. have fun. and let having a good time be a profound experience for you.

#idk what im saying here but literally #holden's (and jake's but mainly holden's) enthusiasm for things they talk about on wizbru has gotten me into sooooo many things #he's why i gave b/lqckpink and tsw/ft a chance! and more clamp manga! and movies! and video games sometimes! #like we all know my Gore Threshold is fairly low but they made me want to watch saw real bad too! #anyway listening to their wrapup episode and just feeling a lot of love for this lil nerd history podcast #and either they havent done an s/pn ep yet or i haven't heard it bc it's old but this change in mentality is why i started rewatching it #don't have to take it so seriously you can just watch a pretty guy get beat up and slowly fall in love with an angel!! #is it the greatest thing ever written? no! but you can come out of the space where people only want to make fun of it or criticize it #and just be in the space where you're having a fun evening for a while!! #not to say you shouldn't criticize media but you can't CONSTANTLY be on that sometimes you have to embrace 'its not good but i like it'

[m00nj3w3l]

I think finally understanding how differently I act when masking VS when not was a delight. I mean, I don't act on it consciously most likely, but I have been wondering abt it for a while so coming to a conclusion at least brings me some kind of satisfaction.

I noticed that when I unmask my voice gets significantly deeper and slower, I don't mind sitting in weird positions around the person (or people) I'm with and I allow myself to be more excited or emotional about stuff that I like. And with that, I also struggle less with eye contact.

When I do mask however I speak in a significantly higher tone (that I myself hate), try to make myself as small as possible during the conversation, and just stare into the void a lot. AND I stare more at my phone a lot more.

Idk if I'll ever be able to change this or if I even want to, since I'm pretty closed off and wouldn't unmask around others I don't feel a 100% safe with. The thing is that with my masking also comes a lot of infantilization cus it's like I make myself as less threatening as possible and my clothing style + overall features don't make me look 20 (because we all know that a frilly skirt suddenly makes you a child, heh), so I'm conflicted on how to feel about it...

#moon likes to rambletm #I came to this conclusion two days ago while out at dinner with people from this course I followed for the month. #i *am* the youngest of the group; but something started to feel off when I realised I wasn't speaking during their conversation about- #-sexual relationships (I had nothing to add) and one of them went 'oh don't talk about these things in front of her; she's young and you'd- #''scare her'' #and he was surprised when i told him im 20? like... the whole thing threw me off #also. I don't mind being called cute or doll-like cus that's literally my whole thing but I *do* notice when people say it in a way- #-that they almost don't take me seriously. it's like they are completely unable to accept that a 20 y.o may enjoy pretty clothes- #-without them actually just being an overgrown child. #i don't dislike them and i even met a cosplayer girl at this course who was very nice to me #just. needless to say; i don't feel comfortable unmasking around them while also disliking how i get treated when i *do* mask. #idk if i'll ever keep this for long here i just needed to get this out. #actually autistic

[stop-entropy-lie-down]

just played this UQuiz which gives you a fun stereotypical straight person to be. and forces you to be homophobic.

I don't love the way people on site talk about straight or cis ppl as being fundamentally unimprovably homo/transphobic. it just isn't true of the people I've met.

It's essentialism and it's therefore wrong.

#im not cis or staight #but i used to be sorta #and i didn't magically stop being homophobic when I questioned my identity #parallel to the idea that queer people can't be queerphobic. but not necessarily. just like #these ideas are labeled as 'straight' ideas so you as a queer person don't have to worry about challenging your own queerphobia #also the jokes ppl make abt cis ppl being like 'what do you want me to do - transition?' and them saying 'actually yes you should' #funny once but when you make the same joke every time and talk about how transitioning is a morally correct thing for someone to do. #you are not joking you are just being unreasonable #also on this subject. that post abt someone jokingly calling their friend homophobic and then mocking her for being concerned that she was #like what did you want her to do. you can't ask people to take it seriously then mock them when they do. #^ the post that's like 'she went into the home of phobia'

[camptw1nk]

feeling very 🧍‍♂️ may not be around for a bit

#its nothing tumblr related really its more just irl #a mix of being tired and having deadlines and not being able to make myself work #and the. kinda harsh switch in vibe in the house from last nights everyone hanging out having fun #to todays me alone cleaning up after everyone and knowing that the others are content doing their own thing and don't wanna hang w me #which like!! is fine im not expecting to be the center of their world its just. #idk we used to hang out every night watching a movie or some tv and laughing #and ever since i got back from my trip we just. we spend time together maybe once every 3 or 4 weeks and it takes me asking if they wanna #hang out like 3000 times before it ever happens and when it does there's just. theres a disconnect #and I think they just realized during the two months i was away that theyre. maybe a bit happier without me #or at least they find it easier to not hang out #like theyve got jobs now so obviously they dont have time the way they used to but its not just that theres been a Shift #i think they also might. kinda resent me for the trip and having that opportunity #which sucks bc i cant. do anything ab that i had no say in the trip i didnt want to go #and even saying that makes me very. like that feels like such a selfish arrogant thing to say to want to turn down a trip across the world #but everyone who was here during that trip knows that i spent the entire time dissociating and getting yelled at and suicidal so uh #i dont think its selfish to not have wanted to go when i Knew it'd end like that but i think they might think it was #ANYWAY this got depressing and sad i dont mean to bring shit here its just i literally only have 3 friends and 2 of them r these ones #and the other is so emotionally unavailable and doesnt really take mental health seriously so #ooc. #negative cw

[snixx]

okayyy i see how it is you're allowed to make a kms joke at every minor inconvenience but when I call everyone and everything my beloved or the love of my life after knowing them for 0.2 seconds I'm "needlessly dramatic"? pfft

#anyway fun fact kms jokes or references are a huge pet peeve for me #they just. annoy me so much oh my god #i mean its ok when people use them as a coping mechanism hey whatever helps you survive #but don't expect me to not be concerned or tell me to not take everything so seriously when you do #because newsflash! youre an asshole in my eyes if you joke about that shit when it doesn't affect you #im going to take you seriously if you say that no matter what #also it annoys me so much as a writer when people constantly use phrases like i want to die in songs #@conan gray #its why i couldnt really get into him before im glad hes stopped saying he wants to die in every song about unrequited love #like no you dont. you dont want to die because someone saw you cry come tf on #and it's not even like i dont like being dramatic im the most dramatic mf out there! #it's just. that shit isnt funny to me #it's never funny its understandable when youre actually fighting depression but its definitely never funny #also reverting to the writer thing. when you say you want to die for every minor inconvenience #its hard to take you seriously for anything else like there's nothing more extreme than that #you could write the most heartbreaking masterpiece ever but its like. ehhhhhh i mean you say you want to die when you step on shit #why does it affect me if you say the same thing when you're devastated you dont mean it #there are so many better ways to express stuff its so lazy and ugh #anyway minirant over im just so tired #vagueposting the shit out of tumblr dot com #this is also! another reason i dont like atw10 like the second i hear *makes me want to die* it feels less genuine and raw #its so lazy ugh

[galacticlamps]

nothing to see here, just more gay shit from the faceless ones

#the faceless ones #second doctor #jamie mccrimmon #seriously i know it was 55 years ago but i have a hard time believing nobody looked at some of these lines and went #hmmm #you don't think some of this might sound a little - you know? #and then the production assistant or whoever pretended not to know bc who's really gonna say that on the set of a kid's show #and then everyone just went yeah nevermind im probably being ridiculous #anyways i havent slept in three days thanks to this rehearsal schedule im just seeing things carry on #alright let's take it from 'i much preferred the original' - whenever you're ready patrick