#domestic voilence

[desultory-suggestions]

Your partner should never punish you for your mistakes. You deserve a loving conversation where you can work on your worries, not a test or abuse. 

#suggestion #suggestions #suggestion blog #tw abuse mention #abuse recovery #abuse #relationships #domestic abuse recovery #domestic voilence #reminder #communication #unhealthy relationships #healthy relationships #healing #boundaries #q matter

[seven-oomen]

My mother's soon to be ex husband and my abuser is about to lose 48K in legal and seizing fees and I am hysterical with laughter and joy. All this man cares about is money, and he's about to lose 48K because he's an abusive jackass, sometimes there is poetic justice in this world.

#ben says stuff #domestic voilence

[samijami]

My father just threatened to beat the shit out of my brother, throw a remote through my mother's head, and then kill himself

He just threatened to do all of that shit

And said he wanted to die, couldn't wait to die and said he'd stop taking his medication to just fucking kill himself

OVER A FUCKING ICE CREAM

#tw child abuse #child abuse #tw mention of suicide #verbal abuse #physical abuse #domestic voilence #personal vent #tw vent #vent post #vent

[citylightsandpenthousedreams]

If you have survived an abusive/narc relationship, this should be your Bible❤️💋

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[engulfedbymaleficsaturn]

I'm a asshole because I spoke back...

On the clear and obvious.

It’s all my fault

I should of Stayed silent

INSTEAD I confronted you.

With each dish you served

I would serve you back a greater one.

And you hated that.

Thinking you could belittle me

Without a reaction or come back.

Grabbing up whatever it was you pleased…

Demanding me of all that and some.

The world is full of assholes

Last I checked there was no entitlement

Saying it's okay

To choke one to death..

#domestic voilence #strangled #controlling #abuse #never back down #all my fault #obvious #not worth it #fuck love

[hazedxhealing]

I implore you to read!!

#tw: mental health #milestone moment #mental health #ptsd recovery #domestic voilence #tw abuse #abuse survivor #abuse victim #ptsd #ptsdawareness #recovery #in recovery #smiling #healingjourney #tw dv

[leonardoandreamongillo]

The Problems that You Can a Family Law Firm Like Mongillo Law to Help You With

We all have to face adverse situations in life at some point in time. While our difficulties may be unique, there are times that you have to take the help of a professional in getting your problems resolved. This is something that is especially true when you have other people of your family on the opposite side in the dispute that you are fighting. In cases of legal disputes that are considered under family law, you need to make sure that you have the right help on hand so that you are able to get justice in the case. There are ways in which professionals like Mongillo Law Professional Corporation  can help in the most optimal manner so that you are able to resolve your family law disputes with ease.

A lot of people may find themselves confused about what kind of issues you can expect to get help with from family law experts when you are struggling with a legal issue. There are a couple of problems that you can expect help for when you opt for the aid of the best family law experts around you. Here are the best ways in which you can find the help that you need and the problems that you can approach your family law expert with:

Anything to Do with Domestic Violence:

An important and common problem that a lot of people have to deal with it domestic violence. Anyone can be a victim of domestic violence, including children, seniors, partners joint in marriage or those that are living-in together. No matter who you are or how serious your domestic violence issue is, you need to make it a point to get legal help from an expert that is likely to be of help.

Any Help You Need with Documentation:

Whether you need a will made or executed, or anything else that requires legal documentation and has to do with family law can be resolved by a family law expert. All you have to do is to provide your lawyer with all the information you have, provide all the supporting documents and ensure that you have valid proofs so that the paperwork gets completed seamlessly.

Any Kind of a Dispute Involving Children:

One of the most important issues that are handled by family law experts like Leo Mongillo Law in Toronto, ON includes those issues that involve children. Right from divorce of parents with children to the custody of children, fostering or adoption and more, all of it is handled by the best experts. All you have to do is to make sure that you have the right expert working for your case so that the wellbeing and the interest of the children are safeguarded.

These are only some of the issues that your family law expert helps with, there are a lot more ways in which you may be able to make the most of the services of a family lawyer.

#Leo Mongillo Law #Mongillo Law #Leo Mongillo #Lawyer in Canada #Family Law #family lawyer #family law expert #family-lawyer-canada #law in Canada #domestic voilence

[adibhav]

TW. Domestic voilence

excerpts from a draft I am writing Her palm struggled to cover her ears, but hands this fragile and tiny couldn’t quieten the screams of pain that escaped her mother’s lips. The poor owner of this house has come to home, drunk in his poor liquor, beating his poor wife over the empty kitchen reeking of no meal but poverty.   So, to deny this life, she ran out the door and ran till no noise could be heard. She inspected her surroundings with eyes grey as the life she was trying to flee from, yet a contrast from herself.

................................... Her eyes went wide, and head too innocent to understand what lied on the floor in the middle of the pool of blood was her mother who won’t wake up. She can’t tell her this time that she is fine, and the fresh bleeding wound inflicted by her father doesn’t hurt. But it was true, nothing could hurt her anymore

#my writing #writers #women writers #writers and poets #writers on tumblr #poetsandwriters #domestic #domestic voilence #sad aesthetic #author #dream writing #original writing #writing #sadnees #negative #story prompt #shortstory #stories

[rosenlawfirm]

Domestic Violence

If you believe you are a victim of domestic violence, or to learn more information about domestic violence, visit the following links:

#domestic voilence #child custody #divorce law

[143-ilalalaloveyou]

People choosing sides on this heard and depp trial is so ignorant. There’s domestic violence and domestic abuse going on EVERYWHERE around you. Just because they’re a celebrity couple who have it publicized, doesn’t make it any more important. I wish people would care more about what goes on in their own community, rather than a celebrity’s business that is none of their own.

#domestic voilence #awareness

[zensations35]

#sorry yall #not snz #this is for anyone in domestic voilence #or any situation similar #hiding a phone #turn it off today until youre safe and alone #i have loved ones like this #spreading for those like them #love you all #safety #USA people only

[lizsurvived]

What do you do when you dated a man for nearly 2 years who started to hurt you at around 6 months into moving in together, who you for some stupid fucked up reason were hopelessly in love with, almost strangles you to death but you have no real proof? 

Okay wait I'm sorry, I need to explain a little more. When I met him, he was a 2 years sober musician and welding artist  and we spent the bulk of our time together working out and working in the garage on painting and welding everyday for hours. Sometimes 4 to 6 hrs a day late into the night after work. He was not an affectionate person with me. Women loved him, he was good looking and he let everyone know it. He had a very huge ego. He stopped using meth intravenously 2 yrs before we met. He fell off the wagon when his mother had a brain aneurysm 6 months into the relationship.

Everything spiraled out of control. There were about month-long periods he would go sober, the next month he'd be shooting up every 2 mins for two weeks, then repeat. His behavior became more violent and paranoid as the months went on. There came a point when I came to the conclusion that it was in my best interest to not upset him, at all costs. And I was addicted to him. I was addicted to the person that I met, not who he was becoming more and more every day.

The only way I can describe why I felt like I couldn't leave for so long is... I can only compare it to a Manson-like brainwashing. He got me legal prescription uppers which I abused all day for a week each month. The ups were so high and the amount of canvases I painted and the amount of art the both he and I were coming out with was unbelievable. But when the high was over and the pills ran out, the lows... The lows were extremely and unbearably low. Being poisonously, blindly in love with an evil man is something that I never thought that I would ever in a million years understand. I'm sad to say that now, I do understand. 

Fast forward to the end of the two year relationship. Things were getting better and he was sober and healthy. Other than being an asshole pig, he seemed almost sane. I realized that if I was going to leave, I needed to leave and asap. Him being stable-ish left more potential for the breakup going semi "smoothly". One morning he left for the gym and it was as if someone was whispering to me to get what I could grab quickly and throw my belongings into trash bags and throw it all in my car. I called my sister who lived 6 hours away, and we planned for my getaway. I waited until he got back, we had a reasonable breakup and I left. I actually got out of there unscathed. 

I'm ashamed to say we were texting and talking on and off when I first moved away because I clearly was having issues letting go. I was so used to a constant fight-or-flight state of mind, state of being, that I couldnt separate myself him completely. Not to mention he decided that he had an epiphany that he "didn't know he was in love with me till I left" kind of thing. I could tell he believed he meant that. Regardless of whether or not it was true... I digress. I told him I hooked up with someone and he started sending me pictures of his wrists slit deeply and started taunting me on the phone while he was cutting himself over and over. 

Things were done at that point. 

Now, flash forward about 3 months. We meet at a hotel and have sex and spend that weekend together. I have bipolar disorder and my impulsivity was very high. Not to mention I had no one to talk to, no friends and my sister and I had a falling out, not that any of that is any excuse.

He was high. I didn't get hurt. He professed love and seemed to really believe himself about it. It was hard not to be drawn into his declarations of love because I had spent two years in love with the man when he never returned any romantic affection and hardly kissed me. It was so illuring that I felt that I couldn't resist. We part ways and plan to see each other again. 

We text on and off. Then I visit him again at his home for a week. It was time for me to leave. I was getting ready to go. Apparently he was looking through my phone and found an old picture of someone I was talking to on a dating site. 

This is when it happens. 

The first thing he does is punch me square in the mouth and my lip is instantly split in three places. There is blood everywhere and he is punching me in the top, sides and back of the head while holding me down on the bed. 

This part is hard for me. Well, all of this is hard but I worry this will impact me for a long time and in the future. He grabbed my head with his hands and placed his thumbs over my eyes and pushed hard with all of his weight. He was trying to push my eyes in. I screamed bloody murder and managed to bite his right pointer finger and bit hard, sinking my canine tooth into his finger and refusing to let it go. 

It seemed that he thought I had "gone too far" because the level of rage that I was experiencing from him seemed to double, and he started to strangle me, holding me down on the bed. I wish this wasn't true but it was minutes long where I could not breath and I was fighting for my life writhing around and straining my back, arms and legs to somehow free myself. His right arm was holding my left arm down while I was on my back on the bed while he kept my legs from moving by blocking them with his legs, all the while he is strangling me with his left hand... I started to feel myself slipping away, and I knew I was about to pass out and possibly die. 

Something nudged me to start mouthing, "I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry." Over and over just as I could feel my lights going out, because I thought there must be a chance that he'll stop if I say something he might want to hear. Thank fuck I was right. I can't remember him letting go of me but I remember I scrambled off of the bed and into the corner of the room, half screaming, half crying as I coughed and gasped for air. That's when he said, "I'm sorry liz but you're aren't leaving."  Then he picked up a knife from inside the bedside drawer (a dull steak knife) and and he was cutting himself with it and pacing around the room. I was sure that I was about to be stabbed to death. 

I left everything I had, even my phone, but I ran out the front door crying and screaming and I realized he was in his underwear and shirt. We we're both on the front lawn in the middle of the night. He claimed that he was turning it into something sexual or something... He tried to put my hand on his dick and I recoiled and stepped back. I actually laughed and said "you tried to kill me... You tried to kill me!!!" And I ran to my car and drove off. Luckily my keys were still in my back pocket. God that was so lucky... 

Everyone I spoke to that night to call for help told me NOT to go to the ER or report him. Honestly... Everyone was scared of what he might do if I reported him. No one wanted me to "start anything". I'm honestly still too afraid of him to report him. The only proof I even have is an unwashed, bloody t shirt in a box. Not really sure why I'm posting this. I just am so sick of this feeling like such a secret. I want to warn the entire world to stay away from this man at all costs and yet my family and I are too fearful for our lives and well-beings to do so.... But I'm truly, truly worried for his next victim(s). He's extremely strong. He's an amateur MMA fighter and when he's on drugs he's even stronger than normal. He's completely unhinged. He is a monster. 

Please. Run the fuck away as soon as that little voice tells you too, don't wait before it's too late. It was almost too late for me. And please, if your loved one is in a physically abusive relationship or if you suspect they are, find a legal loophole to find a way to remove them from that household, against their will if necessary. I wish someone had done that for me a long time ago. The way we are taught to handle adult physical abuse is WRONG. We shame those who are in abusive relationships to the point where they begin to ostracize themselves from their loved ones, only driving them further into the relationship and the abuse. It's all they know. Human beings can get used to anything. Get them out. Now. Find a way. 

Also, if you have any advice on how to get this guy thrown away in prison ig lemme know, cuz I'm at a loss. (this all happened less than 5 months ago)

-Liz 

#domestic violent relationships #voilence #relationships #boyfriend #abusiveboyfriend #substance abuse #narcissistic abuse #physical abuse

[seven-oomen]

My sperm donor, who's married to my mother, has now done the unspeakable act of taking all her money from their joint account and put it on his own account. Just because she's not running back to him. I am so fucking furious and sick to my stomach. I hate him. I fucking hate him. I wish I could.....

#ben says stuff #domestic voilence

[snelbz]

Starting Over {Masterlist}

Elide x Lorcan. Modern AU. A Throne of Glass Fanfiction.

Angst & Comfort.

Collab with @theladyofdeath.

Note: This fic will deal with mature themes throughout, including sex, domestic voilence, abuse, and healing. For that reason, the entire story will be considered 18+. Read at your own discretion.

Summary: Elide Lochan thought she had met the love of her life only to find out that he was not the man she thought he was. After her world starts falling down around her, she makes a move back to her childhood home in hopes of starting over. Although it’s the last thing she expected, she meets a man the exact opposite of her ex. With his help and that of her best friend, Aelin, she learns how to stand on her own two feet and take control of her life.

Chapter One

Chapter Two

Chapter Three

Chapter Four

Chapter Five

Chapter Six

Chapter Seven

Chapter Eight

Chapter Nine

Chapter Ten

#elorcan #elide lochan #lorcan salvaterre #throne of glass #sarah j maas #fanfiction #snacmc collabs

[cowkisserswritingblog]

The Lost Child 0:Before we begin

June 9 2014

Dear readers,

 If you are reading this please beware of the following trigging subjects that might occur in this story

- Domestic Voilence 

- Weapons

- Kidnapping

- Physical Voilence 

- Verbal Abuse

- Mental Abuse

and possible murder.

Please if you are triggered by any of this please close this book but for those who stayed don't say I didn't warn you

~UNKNOWN

Authors Note: Thank you all for starting this book this will be a great journey for the both of us. I'm so excited

~Cowkisser

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[headchamberlain]

....

I suddenly feel like slapping fyodor in the face.

Be right back, im gonna go engage in domestic voilence.

"Eh?? What has master done-? O.O?"