#dating culture

[heterorealism]

#decentering men #feminism #why women quit dating #dating meme #feminist dating #dating culture #gender #heterorealism

[fireheartwraith]

Someone on twitter reminded me that even though Fit thinks they’re dating, to Pac, a brazilian, no they’re not. They’re "ficando" (hooking up), "saindo" (going out) at best, but not "namorando" (dating). Basically, they’re in a formal and committed situationship, but not even that if they didn’t talk about being exclusive. To us, going on one or even multiple dates doesn't mean anything. For them to officially be boyfriends, one of them needs to propose a relationship (pedido de namoro) with a promise ring (anel de namoro). This is why Cellbit wears a ring even though him and Lorena are not married or engaged.

So feel free to use this miscommunication in all your angsty fics :)

Edit: omg pac is living a "didn’t know they were dating" trope. How are they literally a romcom

#qsmp #brasil #brazilian #brazilian culture #dating #dating culture #international dating #the word for boyfriend is namorado btw #namorada for girlfriend #qsmp pac #qsmp fitmc #hideduo #qsmp hideduo #qsmp fitpac

[thecouncilofidiots]

I-

Fellas, is it cheating to like someone's Instagram story?

No comments, no going through the profile and liking any posts.

Just liking a story.

Because according to roomie, that is a massive offense and you shouldn't be liking other girls' stories if you're in a relationship.

So she "called out" guys for liking her story.

I am so confused. -Ace

#shitpost #screaming into the void #tw cheating mention #social media culture #dating culture

[notthebeststufftbh]

Men be like

And the whole thing you're doing is not agreeing to block all of your male friends for him

#feminism #dating culture #men are trash

[dietothemusic]

Why would you talk to someone for a month and then just randomly ghost them? Literally we were talking the night before then woke up and they completely went ghost. Why not communicate and say “ hey I’m not interested anymore” or literally say something rather than going ghost!? Aren’t we adults? Why can’t we communicate like adults! I’m more upset about the action of them ghosting me rather than my feelings be hurt. I do not understand men. Is it me, is it them, or is it just how dating is now? Like I fucking hate the dating world now.

Thanks for reading my rant.

#rant post #mini rant #rant #men #dating culture #dating #black woman #real talk #talk #talking stage #feelings #communication #just communicate #adult only content #adult human female #black woman appreciation #interracial dating #date night #talk to men #men suck #read minds #mindset #ghost #ghosting

[gwydionmisha]

A Deep Dive Into The 1950s Dating Culture

This fits in pretty well with how my late mother described it.

#1950's #Dating Culture #Youtube

[goddess-help-us]

“lOoK aT mE i’M sO pRiNcIpLeD”

#personal #me #gay culture #boyfriend #dating culture #gay #gay Latino #gay otter

[quill-pen]

As a single woman, I have something to get off my chest.

Men,you all need to do so much better.

Women, I can't even begin to tell you how much better you need to do--you're as bad if not worse than the men!

Both of you need to grow the fuck up and humble yourselves because none of you are that great and all of you equally suck.

You have the potential to be great though, if you genuinely try.

But it can only be done together.

Life is not about men vs. women, it's about men and women.

Together.

We can make each other stronger just like we can weaken each other.

We both help make up the fabric of this world, so let's try to fix it.

Together.

#thank you for coming to my TED Talk #maybe now i can go back to sleep #dating culture #men and women

[heterorealism]

#dating #heterorealism #gender inequality #dating memes #dating culture #feminism #mentally exhausted #dump him

[evelhak]

"Why are women cold and rude to me on dating apps"

Bro I bet I could tell you by looking at your conversation starters.

#dating culture

[nwodwols]

The feminism left my body for a solid 2 minutes /joke this is actually sweet as fuck and he’s not completely wrong (not completely right either)

Also, later in the interview he made me acab for a second, he’s lucky he’s cute

#hashtag millennials #I know so many folks who met their forever person on a dating app #or playing w.o.w. #I watch people go inside and I never once thought I was being creepy #dating culture #things you should already know about dating you fucking idiot

[cherrycolafairy]

first blog on substack !

#poetry #writers on tumblr #poets on tumblr #art #writers and poets #what is grief if not love persevering #mental health #gender #queer #substack #sexuality #gen z #relationships #dating culture #blog #literature #fiction

[m00nfl0w3rk1tty]

Something in me fundamentally just does not jive with dating app and hookup culture, especially with the sort of pressure there is to respond fast and move into romantic and sexual matters relatively quickly (despite barely knowing the person) before someone loses interest. Like there’s just something so much more alluring to me about the concept of courting someone through sending one another long, embellished letters rather than sending short texts back and forth, having to wait days to hear an answer and the yearning that comes with that. Sitting down and really thinking about it and putting your whole heartussy into a letter, letting writing the letter consume the entirety of your thoughts, rather than replying to texts in short bursts while in the middle of doing some other activity. But then again maybe I’m just a sucker for slowburns

#thoughts #mine #textpost #my post #love letters #writing #yearning #queer yearning #arospec #aro thoughts #aro things #neurodivergent thoughts #aspec #aspec stuff #dating culture #dating apps

[wildest-wavez]

a saw a post on twitter that referred to church and state as a divorced couple and it got me thinking about ifchurch and state were zillennials dating..

citizens: hey, didn’t church and state break up?

scotus: yeah, they did. church was being super controlling and toxic, so state dumped him.

citizens: okay… when did they get back together?

constitution: they didn’t get back together

citizens: *gestures to the shit show that is the american govt, supreme court, and christian nationalism*

constitution: oh, yeah that. they started talking again, but state says it’s nothing serious

citizens: okay… how is freedom of religion taking it?

freedom of religion: *sobbing, screaming, and wailing in the next room*

constitution: he’s going great! aren’t you buddy?

freedom of religion: *still wailing*

#history humor #scotus #shit show #usa #us govt #freedom of church and state #us history #zillenial #dating culture

[cyberthot666]

I’m not gonna post Ms Teia’s original thread this is in response to since she’s on private but this thread was so important for me to read. And it actually reminds me of a recent conversation I had with a girlfriend of mine. I’ve been thinking about this too.

#thread #relationships #heterosexual relationships #men & women #twitter #hook up culture #dating culture